HOW TO GET GOOD FRIENDS IN THE MODERN COMPUTERIZED WORLD


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YOU PROBABLY WANT FRIENDS WHO HAVE SIMILAR INTERESTS AND LIKES AND LOVES SO TRY TO MEET NEW FRIENDS WHERE YOU LIKE TO BE.

TRADITIONALLY  WHICH IS NOW OLD FASHIONED AND OBSOLETE THIS MEANT GOING PERSONALLY TO EVENTS SUCH AS A MOTHER’S CLUB OR LIBRARY OR BOOK CLUB OR CHESS CLUB OR STORE GRAND OPENINGS OR THE SIERRA CLUB OR THE AUDUBON CLUB OR COMPUTER CLUB OR BAR HOPPING BUT TODAY YOU SHOULD TRY FINDING ALMOST ALL YOUR NEW FRIENDS ONLINE.

IF YOU WANT CASUAL FRIENDS AND DON’T HAVE A PASSION FOR ANY INTEREST IN LIFE JOIN FACEBOOK OR LINKEDIN OR JOIN AN ONLINE CLUB WHICH YOU CAN TRY BY GOING TO http://onlineclubs4u.blogspot.com/ WHERE YOU WILL FIND A GARDENING OR BUSINESS OR MUSIC OR HEALTH OR COOKING CLUB OR ETC. AND CASUALLY INTERACT WITH PEOPLE WHO HAVE MILD INTERESTS IN THESE AREAS.

IF YOU ARE EDUCATED OR HAVE A LOT OF EXPERIENCE IN AN AREA OR ARE VERY SKILLED AT SOMETHING AND LIKE TO WRITE TRY BLOGGING.

BLOGGING IS ANOTHER GOOD WAY TO MEET NEW GOOD FRIENDS WITH SIMILAR PASSIONATE INTERESTS AND YOU CAN GET STARTED ECONOMICALLY FOR ABOUT $27 A YEAR WITH WORDPRESS.

GET SOMEONE WITH BASIC COMPUTER SKILLS TO SHOW YOU HOW TO SET UP YOUR OWN PERSONAL WEBSITE USING WORDPRESS AND IT WILL OPEN UP AN INTERNATIONAL POTENTIAL GROUP OF NEW GOOD FRIENDS TO COMMUNICATE WITH IN AREAS WHICH INTEREST YOU THE MOST.

TIPS ON HOW TO AVOID WASTING YOUR TIME ON THE INTERNET:

STAY AWAY FROM HUMANS ONLINE WHO ARE TOO CHATTY OR HAVE LITTLE NEW INFORMATION TO TEACH YOU SOMETHING NEW WHICH YOU DIDN’T KNOW ABOUT.

TRY TO STAY AWAY FROM PEOPLE WHO HAVE TRIVIAL PURSUITS AND/OR INTERESTS WITH NO USEFUL KNOWLEDGE TO INFORM YOU ABOUT.

IF YOU ARE BLOGGING WITH WORDPRESS REALIZE THAT SOME BLOGGERS ARE MOSTLY INTERESTED IN PROMOTING THEMSELVES OR THEIR BLOG AND YOU WILL OFTEN GET A STANDARDIZED RESPONSE THAT YOUR BLOG WAS AWESOME AND WOULD YOU LIKE TO JOIN THEIR BLOG AND POTENTIALLY MAKE CONTACTS WITH THEIR FOLLOWERS.

READ A SAMPLE OF THEIR BLOGGING AND IF YOU THINK IT IS INFORMATION WHICH YOU WOULD LIKE TO READ ABOUT THEN JOIN THEIR BLOG BUT IF IT IS NOT THEN DON’T JOIN THEIR BLOG AND COURAGEOUSLY COMMUNICATE “ NO I DON’T WANT TO WASTE MY TIME FOLLOWING YOUR BLOG” AND CONTINUE TRYING TO FIND NEW BLOGGERS WHO RESPOND TO YOUR FUTURE BLOGS.

REALIZE THAT YOU WILL NOT FIND NEW GOOD FRIENDS SPEEDILY AND AS IN ANY FRIENSHIP YOU WILL HAVE TO GO THROUGH HUNDREDS OF HUMANS BEFORE YOU FIND SOMEONE WHO COULD POTENTIALLY BECOME A CLOSE FRIEND. BE PATIENT AND DON’T EXPECT INSTANT SUCCESS AT FINDING A GOOD FRIEND BUT SOONER OR LATER YOUR TIME WILL COME AND THE OPPORTUNITY WILL STRIKE YOU WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECTED IT TO.

IF YOU ARE A TOTAL NOVICE ON THE COMPUTER AND CAN’T FIND AN ACQUAINTANCE TO TEACH YOU THE BASIC SKILLS THEN SAVE UP SOME MONEY AND SPEND IT OF A PROFESSIONAL TUTOR OR TEACHER WHO WILL GUIDE YOU THROUGH YOUR FIRST STEPS INTO THE GREAT INTERNET WORLD.

IF YOU DON’T HAVE THE MONEY TO GET PROFESSIONAL HELP SEARCH GOOGLE OR BING OR INFO.COM OR YOUTUBE WITH YOUR QUESTIONS AND YOU WILL FIND ALL THE ANSWERS SOONER OR LATER AND NOT HAVE TO PAY ANY MONEY TO GET THE KNOWLEDGE WHICH YOU NEED OR ARE SEARCHING FOR.

THE ONLY THING WHICH YOU WILL BE SACRIFICING IS YOUR TIME AND ENERGY BUT FORTUNATELY MOST OF US HAVE MUCH TIME AND ENERGY WHICH WE CAN DEVOTE TO A NEW INTEREST IF WE JUST STOP WASTING OUR TIME AND ENERGY ON TRIVIAL PURSUITS OR BAD HABITS WHICH MOST OF US HAVE IN ABUNDANCE.

MY BOOK HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE: HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT; HOW TO SAVE TIME AND MONEY CAN BE A VERY USEFUL GUIDE IN PROVING TO YOU THAT NO MATTER HOW BUSY YOU THINK YOU MIGHT BE YOU CAN FIND THE TIME AND ENERGY TO USE ON YOUR NEW OR OLD PASSIONATE INTERESTS IN LIFE.

HERE IS A PASSIONATE SINCERE RUSSIAN SONG TO GET YOU IN A FRIENDLY MOOD:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UUngm5lvTEE

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