Monthly Archives: April 2013

PREGNANCY THREE WEEKS AT A TIME

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3 WEEKS PREGNANT

A pregnancy test won’t confirm it yet but the fertilized egg or blastocyst attaches to the uterus lining and is the size of a pin. You probably won’t feel anything, though some women experience cramps and heavier vaginal discharge.

6 WEEKS PREGNANT

The heart has formed and the brain, lungs, arms, legs and nervous system are all beginning to form. In addition to morning sickness, you may feel weight gain and sense a darkened areola and breast soreness. Make sure you begin to eat as wide a variety of certified organic foods as you can because the baby needs good nutrition from the mother. You should also stop smoking, drinking alcohol, and eating many sweets which will greatly impact your baby negatively.

9 WEEKS PREGNANT

Your baby is the size of a grape and the ears, bones, fingers, toes, eyes, ears, lips and nose are all in the process of forming. Mom has about 50% more blood circulating in the body and the uterus is about the size of a grapefruit. The heart now has four chambers and you may feel sleepy with morning sickness.

12 WEEKS PREGNANT

You can probably see your baby in the first trimester with ultrasound and you can check your baby for risk of Down syndrome. Baby face looks more human and the kidneys may have started to secrete urine as the nerve cells multiply at a speedy rate. The baby may begin sucking and stimulating areas of the uterus may cause baby movement which you will not feel for several more weeks.

15 WEEKS PREGNANT

Ultra sound may detect twins at this point and the baby has fingerprints and a soft layer of hair covering the skin and the baby may be sucking its thumb. You may have your energy back and have better sleep. Trisomy 18 a genetic disorder of the brain or spinal cord which most babies don’t survive can be tested for.

18 WEEKS PREGNANT

 

The baby is about six inches long and has developed a sense of hearing. If you have lowered blood pressure you may feel dizzy when you stand up speedily.

21 WEEKS PREGNANT

The baby is producing his first poop and swollen ankles, hands and feet can be symptoms of preeclampsia, or dangerously high blood pressure. Some women successfully exercise during the entire pregnancy period almost up to birth and this is a healthy thing to be doing rather than remaining sedentary during most of the pregnancy. If you exercise during pregnancy chances are you won’t need a C section because your muscles will be in good condition to deliver a baby.

24 WEEKS PREGNANT

Baby is more than a foot long and the mother may start to feel some movement as the baby moves limbs. Lips, eyelids, and eyebrows are more defined but the iris lacks pigment. Mom’s hair is more lustrous and the nails may be growing at a more rapid speed. Boy’s testes are making their descent and girls have developed a uterus and ovaries. Pressure on the bladder may mean more frequent urination. It may be time to test for gestational diabetes which can cause breathing and other problems at birth.

27 WEEKS PREGNANT

Baby weighs about two pounds and the eyelids are working. If there is a premature birth there is approximately an 80% chance of survival.

30 WEEKS PREGNANT

Fetus may begin to mimic breathing and weighs about three pounds. Mom may be fighting off leg cramps, constipation, hemorrhoids, sleeplessness, mood swings, and bouts of depression.

33 WEEKS PREGNANT

Baby is about 16 inches long and mom may be having a little heartburn so the meals should be frequenter and smaller. Slight contractions may be happening but this is nothing to worry about.

36 WEEKS PREGNANT

Moms may get some relief from breathing problems as the baby drops into the pelvis but adds more pressure on the bladder. About 31 percent of births are C sections so talk to your doctor about not having one unless it is a severe emergency. Over 95% of births can be natural without complications if you are not given artificial epidural drugs which reduce pain and make C sections almost necessary.

39 WEEKS PREGNANT

The baby may be anywhere between about 6 and 9 pounds with baby fat to make survival outside the womb possible. The cervix may be dilating in preparation for birth. The skeleton bone has hardened but the skull bone has not hardened so that birth can occur relatively easily without a hard skull blocking exit from the vagina. The baby should be in head down or breech position ready for birth and your mucous plug may have ruptured. If your water breaks at any point during pregnancy you should go to the hospital immediately.

If you have had a successful first pregnancy without an epidural or a frequently unnecessary C section then strongly consider a home birth with the help of a midwife the second time around. You will save a boatload of money and your family can share in the birthing experience to see how babies are born naturally!!!!!!

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KIM KOMANDO WEBSITE IS GREAT LEARNING AND ENTERTAINMENT

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Kim Komando has a great website where you can get the latest digital info and also a potpourri of articles on many subjects which you can learn from and be entertained. You may want to subscribe to her website but you can get much useful free information on a regular basis which you can use and be entertained by.

Under the tab Health & Medical the website pdrhealth.com has good information on prescription drugs and their side effects. Mayoclinic.com is a good site to check for illness symptoms and you can try to diagnose the illness yourself. Of course to be sure you will probably have to check with your physician but you will have a better understanding of what may be going on with your body.

Under Money Making & Saving indebted.com can help to budget your money after inputting all your income and expenses. You don’t have to do the math.

Under the Cool Sites tab I searched for animals and got a great website cutestpaw.com where your children and family can go to get hundreds of cute animal pictures. I like wildlife and found a few excellent pictures but most of the pictures are of domesticated animals which is probably something which you would prefer.

Under the Tips tab there is a library of useful digital information such as software and programs which you may need, video tips, internet tips, etc.

I found out that duckduckgo.com is a great simplified search engine which you can use and if you search under my name you will be able to access all the books which I have published at Barnes and Noble very speedily.

Here is a link to her website (komando.com) where she gives quite a few good websites to visit if you would like information on gardening tips. Enjoy!!!!!!

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9 TIPS ON HOW TO MANAGE CREATIVE WORKERS

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Not all these tips are useful for jobs which are efficiently programmed and don’t need much management because they are skills learned once and then only repeated efficiently over and over again in a robotized way. If you have to lead a creative team of workers and not human robots then these tips can be helpful.

PROVIDE YOUR TEAM WITH THE BASICS

That means judiciously setting aside enough time to do the work, making sure workers have access to resources such as information, expertise, and equipment which will be needed.  Make sure that they will have the skills or techniques which are necessary to do the job. If the job needs new skills then set aside enough time for your workers to learn those new skills.

MATCH UP PEOPLE AND SKILLS

Match up competent job skills for those working together. Eliminate combinations of workers which won’t work because they are not good at sharing responsibility or have personality flaws which impair good communication.

There are introverts who prefer to work alone and extroverts who frequently don’t mind sharing work. Try to divide up job tasks into ones which can largely be done independently and others which will require more cooperation and match up the people with the tasks. You should have the wisdom to hire skilled workers in the first place and quickly get rid of the ones that aren’t skilled or have severe personality flaws.

ENCOURAGE THE EXPRESSION OF NEW OR DIFFERENT IDEAS BEFORE AND DURING THE PROJECT.

Encourage creativity is another way of saying that you should provide an atmosphere that encourages independent thinking and a free exchange of new or different ideas, especially before the project begins. Your workers should feel that your way is not always the right way and that it is always subject to tweaking and modification before and during the project.

ENCOURAGE CAREER DEVELOPMENT

Make sure that personal growth and success translates into better pay or more time and money for new skill development. Try to teach workers how other members of the company are working or what the structure of the company looks like.  Show them what it means to climb up higher in the management hierarchy or get higher in pay scale with more perks or privileges.

RUN EFFECTIVE AND EFFICIENT MEETINGS

Keep in mind the important questions which should be asked and answered during a meeting. Who, what, where, when, how, and how much. Who is going to speak next, who is going to work on a task, what are we going to talk about, when does this knowledge apply, how will the tasks be done, and how much time and even money it will take, etc.

BUILD TRUSTING RELATIONSHIPS

This basically means being honest, truthful, and sincere and expecting your team to be the same when they interact with team mates. No back stabbing permitted and other forms of lying which may surface. Mistakes will be made and there will be failures but giving appropriate praise and acceptance of reasonable failures without condemnation or threats should create a relatively secure team environment without fear.

MOTIVATE YOUR TEAM WITH A HAPPY OPTIMISTIC MOOD

Nothing inspires workers more than a happy competent optimistic leader who knows how to reward and judiciously praise workers for a job well done and knows how to deal optimistically with failure when it arises. Judiciously adjust less rewards and praise for the easy jobs and more for the harder ones which are done successfully. More praise and reward should go to the harder tasks and individual success should be broadcast throughout the team appropriately so that a worker feels that the team members also know of his or her achievements or successes.

CLEARLY DEFINE THE RESPONSIBILITY OF EACH WORKER AND MAKE SURE THAT THEY FOLLOW THROUGH WITHOUT TRYING TO PASS THE BUCK OR TRYING TO GET OTHERS TO DO THE WORK FOR THEM.

Workers will run into problems which seem insolvable or have such a workload that they may try to unload some of it on others. Make appropriate adjustments if there seem to be bottlenecks and clearly communicate the goals of the company and the responsibilities of each member in it if the borders of responsibility begin to blur.

TRY TO SELFMOTIVATE YOUR WORKERS

Constantly having to encourage and motivate workers to devotedly do their work with pep talks and other forms of motivation which are cheer leader tactics is not good. Develop as much selfconfidence as possible with sincere, just praise, and rewards and not overhyped pep talks. A selfmotivated worker will work hard to push him or herself without an external unnecessary crutch and do the job better and more efficiently. “You did it again, your effort did it, your dedication did it, you did it very well, you performed excellently, your work was outstanding, your work deserves more praise than I can give, your hard work paid off, etc.” can be words which will encourage selfmotivation.

 

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8 THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE OPENING A LOCAL BUSINESS

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SATURATION OF MARKET WITH EXISTING BUSINESSES

Count the number of businesses similar to yours which already exist in your neighborhood, town, or city. The more similar businesses there are the harder it will be for you to compete for new customers because you will have more competitors. If the competitors are franchises and yours is not then the probability that you will succeed is close to zero.

POTENTIAL CUSTOMER BASE OR SIZE

It is important to know how many customers you can hope to get if you are successful. Find the nearest business similar to the one you want to open and spend a week counting the customers which enter and leave the business. This will give you a rough idea on how many potentially will patronize your business.  Since you will be competing assume that at best that what you will earn or get is about half of the customers of an existing business. If there is more than one similar business close to where you want to open yours then find out how many customers a week also patronize those businesses and use the average number to calculate approximately how many customers you can hope for if the business is a success.

LOCATION OR CUSTOMER DENSITY

Find the location which you hope to be at and find out how much traffic goes past the business every day. If the location of your future business is a mall then count how many cars park there in a day to get a rough idea on how many people will be passing your business establishment. For a restaurant or food business this is especially important because customers want convenience and they will usually not travel out of the way to a distant location just to eat and drink. The busier your location is the greater is the probability that some of the passersby will become your customers.

CAPITALIZATION OR HOW MUCH MONEY YOU WILL NEED

Your inventory, the rent on the business, employee wages, utility costs, and operating at a loss for about 5 years should give you a rough idea on how much money you will need to get the business started. Don’t make the huge mistake of buying all the inventory, remodeling the store, and not having enough money to pay the utility bill and your employees for the first year when you will definitely be operating at a loss and will be depleting your savings account money if you have any. Many people wrongly assume that they will have an immediate profit the first year of business and wind up heavily mortgaging their home and desperately searching for more loan money to pay their employees, the rent, and the utility bills which they have to pay to stay open because the hoped for profit money is just not rolling in as expected.

FREQUENCY OF NEED FOR SERVICE

Determine how frequently your customers are going to need the service which you are providing. There is a big difference in a fast food business or a convenience store which is providing a service that people could potentially be needing every day and a hearing aid business which depends on one time customers which go to the store only several times in a lifetime. A tax service is something people usually need only once a year and hair salons are also services which are only needed by customers about once every three or four months so people will only be coming to your business about 6 times a year on average. The more frequently people need what you have to offer, the more frequently customers will go to your business establishment and give you their money.

Infrequently patronized businesses need to spend much more on advertising and have to charge customers more money per service to pay for the rent and employees which must be paid for on a weekly or monthly basis. Low frequency businesses with high fixed expenses such as rent have a harder time surviving in the long duration and are usually very bad business choices.

NUMBER OF CUSTOMERS NEEDED TO GENERATE PROFITS

You should have knowledge about how many customers you will have a month and about how much they will spend on average and what percentage profit you will be making on the transaction. Knowing these approximate amounts you will be able to relatively accurately calculate a ball park figure which you can use to tell whether you will be able to afford paying all the fixed expenses on a monthly basis. If you don’t have the math skills to do this find someone with knowledge about how to calculate percentages to help you.

LOW OR HIGH SKILLED WORKERS

If your business is going to pay minimum wage and you will have workers from the general public working for you then be prepared for a high turnover and personnel problems.  You will get many people with bad social skills and many with punctuality problems who will not be able to handle customers responsibly in a knowledgeable pleasant way. Many new employees will not be knowledgeable about your business most of the time and your customer relations will suffer greatly.

If your business uses highly skilled workers or depends on just a few highly skilled ones you will have minor crises when one or more leave for better paying jobs. You will very frequently have to spend much personal time and money educating the new recruits and giving them the complete knowledge and skills necessary to work for you.

AVERAGE PRICE PER SERVICE AND AVERAGE PROFIT ON A TRANSACTION

You can estimate the number of people who will be coming to your business as already shown and should have a good knowledge about what the average amount of money will be per customer. You should also know what the average profit on a customer will be so you can calculate the approximate monthly income starting out and then about 5 years down the line when you will hopefully be making an actual real profit. If you are not good with numbers get an accountant to do the math or someone who can calculate percentages.

If you think that you can run a successful new business by the seat of the pants not understanding the money math involved then you will fail without question.

Nothing is more valuable than experience and if you have worked in a similar business yourself and learned all the facts needed to know then you will have a great advantage over someone who knows nothing about running a business. Many new businessmen and women without experience in the business are just pursuing a business dream which will fail close to 100% of the time.

The small businesses are being squeezed financially by big businesses and large franchises. In the near future I predict that most small businesses will become extinct and unfortunately the average man and woman will be working for someone at a fixed wage or be on welfare assistance. If you still think that you want to start your own local business and do it on your own- good luck, because you need more than just good luck to survive in the business world these days and into the foreseeable future.

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10 DRAWBACKS TO STARTING A NEW LOCAL BUSINESS

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Someone is already providing the service locally and is doing a better job and has customers which will be hard to lure away,

the good locations for the business are already taken or too expensive to afford,

you can’t get good wholesale prices for the goods you will be selling and will have to charge more,

you will need low skilled workers with a large turnaround and personnel headaches,

you will need skilled workers and few exist locally or you will have to train them yourself and invest much time and money which can evaporate if they leave for a better paying job elsewhere once trained,

you are a neophyte or very new to the business world and aren’t sure what managerial and accounting skills are necessary to do the job right,

you feel that you can run the business by the seat of your pants on a daily basis without the need to plan into the future,

you are not confident that what you are offering is going to be popular with the buying or patronizing public,

you don’t have or don’t know how much money you will need to make the business last for more than a few months or even a few years.

you haven’t researched other similar businesses to see how they made it past the first five years or so working and not making a profit

If you still think you have a great desire and enough knowledge  and money to compete in this cutthroat business world then read my future blog which will be 8 THINGS TO CONSIDER BEFORE OPENING A BUSINESS.

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10 OVERHYPED HEALTH PRODUCTS

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Redness reducing eye drops used on a regular basis can hide problems such as dry eye and allergies or contact lens irritation and will cause persistent eye redness if your eyes get used to the drops.  Your doctor should diagnose the problem and treat it effectively with more than only saline eye drops for dry eyes.

Antibacterial hand soap is a waste of money because you have both bad and good bacteria on your skin and your body does a good job of taking care of the skin naturally with the help of only plain water and soap. You don’t have to wash your hands after every piss or shit or after every meal.  In fact rinsing with plain water is more beneficial because it leaves the natural healthy skin oils on your skin and excludes the need for moisturizers and skin lotions and unnecessary hand lotions.

Toothbrush sanitizers are unnecessary because a healthy body can protect itself from germs.  Just rinse your toothbrush with water and dry it.

Breath freshening mouthwash is unnecessary unless you are doing it for therapeutic reasons as prescribed by your dentist. Just slosh your mouth with water for about a minute 2 or 3 times a day for fresh breath.  Persistent bad breath can be a sign of eating too much garlic and/or gum disease and/or tooth decay and/or even something more serious such as diabetes.

Facial toner or astringent is used to remove makeup and reduce pore size but you can definitely do without it.  If you don’t wash your face every day with soap you will not be removing the natural skin oils and minerals that keep your skin healthy.  Irritation and dryness of the skin is caused by too much washing which removes the moisturizing effect of natural skin oils and minerals. Rinse your face with pure water without soap as much as possible to keep your skin naturally healthy and moist. Use makeup only rarely and if necessary only for special occasions. Keep your skin naturally oiled with the right body minerals from your body as much as possible.  Kiss unnecessary cosmetics goodbye in your life and get the best and healthiest skin that nature can provide free of charge.

Expensive moisturizers which contain exotic ingredients flushes money down a toilet. They have absolutely no benefit to your skin except perhaps for a nice smell.  Keep your natural skin oils which are the healthiest for your skin by only rinsing with water as frequently as is necessary and this will keep your skin clean and naturally moisturized with the proper proportion of good and bad bacteria on your skin. If you work in dirty or dusty jobs you will have to use soap and water to get clean and then a skin lotion is ok to replace the natural oils which are washed away.

Eat a variety of healthy foods and you will not have a vitamin deficiency and will not create the risk of consuming them in excessive amounts thus causing liver damage from too much vitamin A and kidney stones and diarrhea from too much vitamin C.  Don’t worry about having to become a vegetarian eating only vegetables and fruits because that is not healthy.  Humans are omnivores which can eat many plants and animals.  Eat a little of everything including fatty foods and bee pollen once in a while and you won’t need any supplements.

Douching the vagina with water and other fluids changes the natural balance in your vagina and makes it more likely to experience infection and irritation. The fact is that the vagina cleans itself unless it is infected and then the odor is very bad and worse than the natural odor.  If you enjoy licking pussy and need it to smell good you should stop the kinky practice and switch back to using your penis and fingers instead to stimulate the clitoris and labia. In fact pussy licking spreads the germs of bad breath to the vagina and make it smell even worse than before the licking.

Scented feminine products like douches and tampons and sprays and pads can lead to infection and vaginal irritation. Cleanse the outer part of your vagina with warm water alone thus leaving the internal natural mucous and bacteria largely alone. Of course if you are a prostitute and have an unusual amount of sperm in your vagina then you should rinse with warm water internally.

Cold prevention remedies are unproven ways to treat a cold and the use of Echinacea and vitamin C is inconclusive as well as zinc based nasal sprays which can in fact stifle your sense of smell perhaps permanently according to the Mayo Clinic. Don’t wash your hands during cold season because colds are mostly spread through the air with viruses traveling on dust particles.

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SHARE A RIDE OR HOW TO SAVE TIME, ENERGY, AND MONEY ON CAR AND MOTORCYCLE TRIPS

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A great idea whose time has come is to share a ride with your neighbors or close community people for local commutes or for long distance commutes between cities.  It is already being done in Europe and it is time that America woke up to an efficient way of transportation which means sharing rides with people and not just driving around in your own expensive personal vehicle. What a great way to save on wear and tear on your car and also save money on gas!!!

There will be a record kept of how reliable your car driver will be and if he or she is not punctual or a good riding companion he or she will not have a good reputation and you can forego the human lemons in favor of someone whom you can trust to be a good chauffeur companion.  He or she will be rated with something like a star system with perhaps five stars being the best ride!!!

The driver of the car will not only make money transporting the passengers but may be able to schedule more than one passenger per trip and make more money out of the use of the car.  In effect it will be chauffeur or taxi service at a fraction of the cost available today!!!

ONE OF THE HOTTEST RECENT TRENDS IS THE SHARING OF A CAR UTILIZING SOCIAL NETWORKS AND LOCALIZATION OF BUSINESS WHICH IN THE FUTURE WILL BE NATIONALIZED ALSO FOR LONG DISTANCE SHARING WITH MORE THAN ONE PASSENGER ON BOARD.

THE SAVINGS ON GAS OR MONEY OR ENERGY WILL BE GREAT AND PEOPLE WHO CAN’T AFFORD THE HIGH MAINTENANCE AND PARKING COSTS OF A CAR IN URBAN AREAS WILL NOW HAVE A PERSONAL CAR TO WHICH THEY WILL HAVE CONVENIENT ACCESS TO.

THE NET RESULT IS THAT MORE PEOPLE WILL BE ABLE TO AFFORD THE LUXURY OF A PERSONAL MOTORIZED VEHICLE WHICH MAY BE RENTING SHARED MOTORCYCLES IN THE NEAR FUTURE FOR EVEN GREATER SAVINGS IN TIME, ENERGY, AND MONEY!!!  WHAT A GREAT WAY TO REDUCE TRAFFIC CONGESTION AND HELP SAVE THE ENVIRONMENT!!!

THE MOTORCYCLE CAN HAVE TWO SEATS SO YOU CAN GET DOOR TO DOOR SERVICE IN YOUR LOCAL COMMUNITY WITH TWO RIDERS ON BOARD AT ONCE!!!  OF COURSE MANUFACTURERS WILL HAVE TO INNOVATE TO MAKE THIS ALL POSSIBLE AND LARGE CORPORATIONS WILL HAVE TO MAKE THE INNOVATIONS IN MOTORCYCLE DESIGN A REALITY!!! PEER-TO-PEER SHARING OF MOTORCYCLES TOO!!!!!

I have included a fuller description and video in my blog to show you how the new sharing a ride system will work. Enjoy!!!

ROBIN CHASE      EXCUSE ME, MAY I RENT YOUR CAR?

This video explains ZIPCAR which was taken over by Avis and is now not the cheapest way to rent a car any more. Peer-to-Peer Car Sharing is now the cheapest way to share a car and after viewing the ZIPCAR video go to the next article on Peer-to-Peer Car Sharing.

Forget the ZipCar Avis deal: Rent Cheaper with Peer-to-Peer Car Sharing as described in this article.

http://www.dailyfinance.com/2013/01/05/cheap-car-rental-peer-to-peer-relayrides-zipcar-avis/

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PORNOGRAPHY

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The truth is that pornography should be censored from children as much as possible.   It can prevent adults from leading truly loving sexual lives since so much of pornography is brutally impersonal artificially prolonged sexual behavior and deviant sexual behavior where reproduction is not the primary focus but artistic dysfunctional creative behaviors are introduced as acceptable normative standards.

Exposing children to pornography also means that pedophilia will run rampant throughout the society thus further decreasing the probability that adult couples will have successful long term loving marital relationships.

Males are obsessed with sex in puberty and later in life and are the primary users of pornography because sexual arousal in males is highly visual and a mere view of a naked female body in a picture can cause an erection.

I don’t have scientific evidence on how males can be desensitized to female bodies sexually except perhaps by seeing a lot of naked female bodies not involved in sex in childhood and puberty. Without scientific evidence I think that naked parents walking around in a private house exposing their nakedness to children may be a partial solution to desensitize boys visual erotic reaction to naked women pictures.

When children ask questions about sex or reproduction show them videos of animals reproducing or being involved in sex. With the exception of of some animals, sex is usually quite a short behavior without many minutes or hours of unnecessary foreplay. Sex is efficient in nature and very purposeful and that frequently means short and sweet and exciting.

A SONG WHICH ILLUSTRATES WHY PORNOGRAPHY AND PROSTITUTION ARE HARD TO COMBAT.

WHEN TO FORGIVE CONDITIONALLY OR UNCONDITIONALLY

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In real life humans behave immorally and badly and wrongly and we are tempted to react and do react to most of these human flaws.

Some recent studies have found and claim that the average American almost lies about something every day. If this is really true then the immorality of lying should be taught in secular elementary school and it is a primary reason for the instability in relationships in society. Unintentionally lie and you can be forgiven but if it is an intentional lie it should not be permitted to continue, especially if it is your own offspring.

Honesty or telling the truth is the human bond which keeps relationships strong and enduring and frequently not telling the truth will cause distrust in a relationship and doom it in the long duration. If you can no longer believe your offspring because they have become habitual liars your control over their behavior will be minimal and your life with them will be constantly one of anger and frustration and fear and helplessness and shame which will inevitably lead to separation and living independent lives from your offspring when they reach adulthood.

In early childhood you can remove privileges for lying and even use the threat of physical spanking for telling a future lie. Follow through with the threat if another intentional lie is discovered in an offspring. Stop the immorality in early childhood and you will be rewarded with largely probable good relationships with your offspring for a lifetime. Fail to stop the immorality in young offspring and your life with them will become an uncontrollable nightmare.

If the behavior is bad enough and has not become habitual yet, you can forgive your offspring with the condition that they don’t do the behavior again. You can follow this up with a serious threat of punishment or the revocation of privileges if the behavior continues. “I will forgive you if it doesn’t exist again” is a conditional forgiveness for a very bad and unacceptable behavior.

At home your offspring will make many mistakes learning new knowledge and skills and behaviors and you will frequently have to forgive unconditionally for the mistake or minimally bad behavior.

When married your spouse will also make many behavioral mistakes and mistakes in communicating facts and opinions and will be guilty of excessive emotional displays and you will have to forgive unconditionally because trying to remember all the bad incidents, especially personal criticisms, will not give you peace of mind and you will wallow in misery sensing anger, resentment, and revenge which have little place in a harmonious marriage.

In business if you find that one of your workers is lying about other workers or lying about his or her work or lying about his past and present then you should fire them as soon as possible and not forgive them if they are in a position of authority. A few lies about unimportant themes may not be enough reason to fire a low ranking human and the immoral flaw can be ignored to some extent but if you find a habitual tendency to lie about anything the probability is that he or she will eventually start to lie about important things in life or business too. There is even a large probability that they will steal from you in the future.

We all make mistakes unintentionally at work and interacting with humans. Some humans make more mistakes than others and you can only go so far in tolerating the behavior. On the job hiring someone who makes fewer mistakes may be more costly and you may out of necessity choose to stay with your mistake prone worker. For important costly mistakes the absence of present forgiveness is acceptable and you have every right to fire them. If the mistake is tolerable but still great enough to need immediate attention, getting a promise that it will not happen again is required. This is conditional forgiveness and a threat of firing can at that point be justifiably made so it doesn’t happen again.

In determining whether to forgive conditionally or unconditionally it is a skill which many humans don’t have. It all depends on the type of behavior and its severity and frequency but it also depends on who has to be forgiven, especially at what age and whether they are a close human or a stranger. You frequently have no control over a stranger and forgiveness or an absence of it will not affect him or her in any way. You have the option of saying nothing at all or saying that what the bad behaving stranger did was not very nice or unacceptable.

If it is an immoral behavior like stealing or public lying or adultery society frequently punishes this with fines and/or imprisonment and/or ostracism and frequently does not forgive immorality.

Commit adultery and you will be frequently punished with divorce and a loss of personal wealth and many in society will sense that you are less reputable or worthy as a human. Future women aware of your adultery will frequently try to avoid relationships with you because they intuitively feel that if you cheated once you will probably do it again at some point in the future.

Steal and you will be imprisoned and/or asked to compensate the victim(s) for the crime and your reputation will suffer. You may eventually be forgiven by some humans but your criminal record will follow you for a lifetime and reduce your ability to get a responsible good paying job.

Publicly lie and you can be sued for libel and be forced to pay a fine. Your personal life may not suffer but publicaly your bad reputation will follow you as long as people remember your immoral flaw. You will have a hard time getting or remaining in public office if you are a politician and hope to get future votes from the opposition party. Privately you can be forgiven by your friends but publicaly it will frequently take a very long time to get your good public reputation back. Many people are forgiven for lying in private but rarely in public if not followed up speedily with a sincere public apology

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ONLINE DATING TIPS FOR ADULTS

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Showing an honest true profile is what will help insure success in internet dating more than any tricks you might want to try to improve your image and theoretically but not practically make it more attractive.

Some people try to post images of what they looked like five or ten years ago, try to hide their eyes with sun glasses, lie about their height and weight, and introduce buddies or other themes in the background of the photo. Don’t do this. Your potential date is not interested in most of your buddies nor do they want to see pictures of how you looked in the past and definitely would like to look into your eyes without sunglasses obstructing the view.

Give your real age and body height and weight because the truth will surface on the first date and cause great disappointment and disillusionment and no follow up dating will exist and you both will have wasted your time and effort and money.

Before an actual first date find out as much relevant information as possible over the internet or even ask for a phone number so you can ask follow up questions, especially if both of you have revealed that you have a job which is believable and are not just humans looking for a good time at minimum expense and nothing more.

Some important questions to ask before a first date:

Are you currently employed?

What are your favorite relatives and what do they do?

Do you have any best friends and what do they do?

What do you see yourself doing five or ten years from now?

What do you love to do and what do you hate to do?

What do you do in your spare time?

Is there anything in the past which you will definitely not do in the future?

In a description of who you are also be truthful and reveal that you are not currently employed if that is the case because the biggest turnoff is dating someone who is only looking for a good time and not enough funds to finance the good time. Money is one of the most important things in a relationship and if you aren’t making any the actual date will almost never be successful.

Prior to the actual date make sure that you try to find out as much as possible about the person’s loves and hates by asking questions because what he or she intensely cares about is probably something which is a dominant theme in their lives and you will have to live with it if the date goes past the first introduction.

If you are not asked questions in return this is probably a sign that a potential date is not that interested in you in the first place. If they are reluctant to answer your questions they are probably a secretive personality and have something unpleasant to hide.

Don’t be afraid to ask if your date has any future plans or whether there is something they would like to achieve before they die because this will give you an indication of whether your potential date is stagnating and maybe even depressed with life or whether they are one who hopes to move on in life towards a better future.

During the actual first date ask many follow up questions about job and family relatives and what jobs the relatives have in real life and who their best friends are because you will get a better idea of what environment your date is coming from and with what kind of role models he or she has been exposed to.

Don’t just talk about yourself and turn the date into a monologue and don’t just talk about many untrue things that you are doing in your life.

Reveal some unimportant vulnerability which you may both share in common since it will help your date to empathize with you and realize that no one is perfect. If you have had some failed relationships in the past mention them briefly and show that you have moved on past those failures and are not living in the disappointing past.

If you are addicted to something or in therapy or with poor health you probably should not be dating and it is obviously something which you will have to try and hide.

Revealing briefly what problems you have had in the past and how you solved them or got over them will create the impression that despite life’s drawbacks you can solve them and move on and are ready for a new relationship.

Conclusion: Be truthful and don’t be afraid to ask questions about your date before the first actual date. It will save you much time and effort and money and avoid one disappointing date after another.

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HOW TO MINIMIZE STRESS

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In one sentence here is how to reduce stress:

TAKE SOME TIME OUT TO DO SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT  or  STOP YOUR WORK FOR DURATION AND DO A DIFFERENT SUBSET(S)!!!!!!

Not all jobs permit you to take about 5 minute breaks every hour from the stressful activity which you are doing but taking breaks is how you can refresh your mind and then successfully continue on with the stressful activity.

During a strenuous exercise routine, resting or taking a break to recharge your body’s energy supply is the smart thing to do.

During strenuous or stressful mental exercise, taking a break to get the mind out of it’s over excited state is the smart thing to do.

In an office setting where you are sedentary most of the time take a break and

walk around,

do in place exercises suchas deep knee bends, jumping jacks, running in place, pushups, and stretching,

meditate,

daydream,

call home and chat briefly,

sip on a unsweet beverage,

eat an unsweet snack of fruits and nuts,

puff on a cigarette but don’t inhale,

talk to a coworker who isn’t busy doing something important,

or do more than one of the above suggested activities.

In some jobs it may be possible to take a break every two or three or four hours for more than 5 minutes so do it whenever possible and do one or more of the above suggested activities.

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10 REASONS WHY MEN BECOME ADULTEROUS

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They have not been indoctrinated or taught by society into believing that adultery is an immoral action!!!!!!

They don’t get enough sex at home from their wives especially if the excuses are a headache or feeling tired frequently. Some women try to wrongly use no sex as a weapon to get what they want in a marriage which leads to male sexual frustration and sometimes adultery.

They are bored with sex with the wife and look for sexual thrills and excitement elsewhere.

Pornography creates unrealistic sexual deviancy desires in males which they try to fulfill at some point in their lives even when married.

They are afraid to share their intimate desires and fantasies with their wife which they try to secretly fulfill outside of marriage.

They miss their bachelor days especially if they had sex with many women before marriage.

Their monogamous marital beliefs are being constantly challenged by a promiscuous society.

They have become financially successful and very attractive women who never wanted them are now showing a desire to be with them and causing much temptation.

They realize that man is naturally polygamous and not monogamous, especially if they are financially very successful and powerful.

They are emotionally trapped into feeling that sexual prowess with many women is a mark of male power and importance.

Conclusion: Just like in the natural society of lions or rule by the pride, in a just society financially successful powerful males should be rewarded with great reproductive success and that should mean polygamy for the billionaires and multimillionaires in society.

Monogamy is still the best form of relationship for the average financially limited man and woman because divorce can cause great financial hardship on society if polygamy is permitted for the average man and women and ends in divorce which is greatly probable because of financial insecurity or hardship.

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11 HINTS YOU ARE PROBABLY NOT READY FOR A SERIOUS DATING RELATIONSHIP

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You flirt with everything that breathes is a sure indication that you are not ready for a faithful and exclusive relationship with the opposite sex.

You treat your dates like they are a second option in your life and not a first priority thus making your date feel like a second fiddle.

You can’t keep a conversation going but stop speaking with nothing to say for long periods of time. This will create the impression that you are not skilled in human relationships.

You don’t keep your attention on your date but check emails and text and let your attention wander in other ways without focusing on your date as priority number one.

You constantly bring up your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend or ex spouse in the conversation with your date. This means you are stuck in the past relationship wise and no serious date wants to share your past relationship failures.

You are a male and reveal that you are not interested in a long duration relationship so your date will be repulsed.

You don’t spend enough time with your date but only date once or twice a month will create the impression that you are not interested in a serious relationship.

You are stuck in the past with past memories and no future plans. This will also create the impression that you don’t know what to do with your future and no one will want to join your life which is stagnating.

You are depressed and only talk about bad things in your life and have a pessimistic view of the world. No one will want to share your gloomy life.

You are unemployed and treat life as a joke with no household skills like cooking or cleaning. This will create the impression that you have a mooching personality which no one wants.

You have a history of cheating on dates so no date will trust you and without trust a serious relationship is not possible in the real world.

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IT IS TIME FOR OPEN SOURCE CLINICAL TRIALS RESULTS FOR DRUGS!!!!!!

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APPROXIMATELY HALF OF ALL CLINICAL TRIALS ON NEW DRUGS HAVE NOT BEEN PUBLISHED SO NEITHER DOCTORS NOR PATIENTS CAN MAKE WISE DECISIONS ABOUT WHETHER TO USE THEM OR NOT.

THE MOST SHOCKING THING ABOUT CLINICAL TRIALS IS THAT THEY DO NOT STUDY THE LONG TERM EFFECTS OF THE DRUGS BUT ONLY ARE MADE TO TEST REACTIONS FOR THE SHORT DURATION.

IN THE SHORT DURATION IT IS FREQUENTLY NOT VERY CLEAR WHETHER THE BODY HEALED ITSELF ON ITS OWN WITH OR WITHOUT THE DRUG USE AND THE STATISTICAL DIFFERENCES ARE FREQUENTLY NOT VERY SIGNIFICANTLY DIFFERENT IN THE FIRST PLACE TO FURTHER JUSTIFY DRUG USE IN THE REAL WORLD WITH A MUCH BROADER POPULATION SAMPLE.

NEGATIVE RESULTS FOR CLINICAL TRIALS ARE TWICE AS LIKELY NOT TO BE PUBLISHED AND THE FACT IS THAT MOST DRUGS DO NOT CURE THE ILLNESS BUT ONLY MASK THE SYMPTOMS AND CAUSE MANY UNDESIRABLE SIDE EFFECTS WHICH ARE THEN TREATED WITH MORE PRESCRIBED PILLS.

PARTICULARLY SHOCKING IS THE USE OF DRUGS TO TREAT VERY BIASED PSYCHIATRIC DIAGNOSES OF PSEUDO ILLNESSES SUCH AS ADJUSTMENT DISORDER AND ANXIETY DISORDER AND ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER AND BIPOLAR DISORDER AND DEPRESSIVE DISORDER AND INSOMNIA AND OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE PERSONALITY DISORDER AND SCHZOPHRENIA.

NOWHERE DO YOU FIND THE WORDS ACUTE AND CHRONIC ANXIETY OR DEPRESSION OR INSOMNIA AND IT IS FREQUENTLY ONLY AFTER THE USE OF THE DRUGS THAT THE PROBLEM ACUTUALLY BECOMES ACUTE AND CHRONIC BECAUSE OF THE TERRIBLE SIDE EFFECTS OF THE DRUGS WHICH CAUSE ACUTE AND CHRONIC CASES WHERE THERE WERE NO EXTREME CASES TO BEGIN WITH!!!!!!

PSYCHITRIC DRUGS CAUSE ACUTE AND CRONIC CHEMICAL IMBALANCES IN THE BRAIN WHERE THERE WERE NONE TO BEGIN WITH!!!

ALL OF THE ABOVE ILLNESSES ARE MOSTLY DEVIANT UNUSUAL BEHAVIORS BROUGHT ON BY INADEQUATE DIET AND A DYSFUNCTIONAL LIFESTYLE AND THERE ARE RARE CASES WHICH ACTUALLY QUALIFY AS TRUE MENTAL CHEMICAL IMBALANCES.

MOST PSYCHIATRIC ASSUMED ILLNESSES ARE IMBALANCES IN LIFESTYLE AND NOT IMBALANCES OF CHEMICALS IN THE BRAIN.

INCREASINGLY IT IS BEING SHOWN THAT ALMOST ALL PSYCHIATRIC DRUGS MAKE THE PATIENTS WORSE OFF IN THE LONG DURATION WITH ADDITIONAL SIDE EFFECTS WHICH MAKE THE ORIGINAL SYMPTOMS WORSE IN THE LONG DURATION AND CREATE MORE PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS FOR THE PATIENT AND DON’T CURE ANYTHING.

WHAT THE PATIENT REALLY NEEDS IS A RADICAL CHANGE TO A HEALTHY DIET AND HEALTHY LIFESTYLE WHICH ONLY BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION CAN ACHIEVE AND REALISTICALLY ACTUALLY CURE THE SOURCE OF THE PROBLEM WHICH PSYCHIATRIC DRUGS DON’T CURE.

DRUGS DO NOT CHANGE BAD LIVING HABITS WHICH ARE THE CAUSE OF OVER 90% OF ALL PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS WHICH PSYCHIATRY TRIES TO TREAT WITH DRUGS ONLY.

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DIAGNOSES BY DOCTORS IN MANY MEDICAL FIELDS ARE SEVERELY BIASED AND THERE IS AN EXPERIMENTAL APPROACH TO CURING ILLNESS. LET’S TRY THIS DRUG FIRST AND IF IT DOESN’T WORK THEN WE WILL TRY THE NEXT AND NEXT DRUG TREATMENT OPTION UNTIL WE HIT ON THE RIGHT ONE IF THERE EVEN IS A RIGHT ONE TO BEGIN WITH!!!!!!

IT IS TIME FOR OPEN SOURCE CLINICAL TRIAL PUBLISHING ON THE INTERNET SO THAT DRUG FRAUD CAN BE COMBATED WITH OBJECTIVE REVIEWS BY ALL DOCTORS AND PATIENTS WITH AN INTIMATE KNOWLEDGE OF THEIR CONDITIONS.

I HAVE INCLUDED AN ARTICLE BY BEN GOLDACRE TO START YOU ON THE PATH TO TRUE KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THE DRUG PUSHING MEDICAL AND PHARMACEUDICAL PROFESSIONS.

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THE TRAGIC CIRCUMSTANCE OF THE SUCCESSFUL PROFESSIONAL FEMALE DIVORCED WIFE WITH OFFSPRING

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Historically marriage was the sharing of responsibilities and using different skills for mutual benefit and the benefit of offspring. Getting married meant mutual moral and emotional and informational and monetary help and living through the good and bad times together and basically pooling resources and different abilities to live life to its fullest. There was a pride in having offspring and a good spouse which was socially recognized and rewarded with a secure sexual and social life.

Today an independent successful female making an adequate income to support offspring no longer realistically needs the financial help of a male and that means that they have less intimate and practical bonding behaviors in common and realistically don’t really need each other except perhaps for an exclusive sexual relationship.

What bonds humans together is mutual realistic needs and if each spouse can operate independently then neither really needs each other tangibly. Being financially independent means that you will have to find mutually interesting activities to participate in together and find common goals to strive for if serious bonding is to develop in the interactive relationship.

You can pretend to be a perfect spouse by showing more adoration, being more appreciative, not nagging or picking arguments, laughing at annoying habits, accepting shortcomings which don’t impact you significantly, fighting fair and fast, letting stuff go, making sex a priority no matter what, compromising more, listening more, and not dwelling on the bad things in the relationship and you will still not be forming a strong bonding relationship with your spouse which will justify the marriage and make it a success.

Being a good friendly personality does not make a long duration marriage work unless there is true mutual interdependency which means that you each have many things that the other has and you don’t.

If you are a modern divorced financially successful woman with offspring I empathize with your almost hopeless circumstance in trying to find and keep a good male spouse in a marriage for a long duration. Mentally make all the plans in your mind to change your behavior so that you theoretically will have a successful marriage which you may want to have in your mind but unless there is realistic mutual need your quest for a great second marriage will fail no matter how perfect your behavior becomes. If you find a male who wants the added responsibility of caring for offspring who are not his genetic offspring then you have truly found a one in a thousand male which you should marry as speedily as possible!!!!!!

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6 REASONS YOU ARE PROBABLY OVERWEIGHT!!!!!!

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You were born overweight most likely because one or both of your parents is also overweight. Be proud to be born that way even though you will be socially ridiculed and offended by nasty comments. Extra weight in nature means that you are better prepared than others to survive food shortages or famines. We no longer have severe famines or food shortages but your odds of surviving one if it exists in the distant future will be larger.

You are getting older and nature puts on more weight or calories since getting older historically meant that you would get less food from your social network and nature puts on more fat so you don’t starve and can survive.

You are a woman after her second or third pregnancy and nature puts on more calories or fat in anticipation of the historical fact that there will be less food to go around and you will be sharing some with your offspring.

You are overeating and eating two or three times a day and truthfully you should be only eating when you are hungry and drinking only when thirsty and if that means not eating anything a whole day then that is normal and you won’t die of starvation. Don’t force your offspring to eat three times a day if they are not hungry, especially breakfast. If they don’t want to eat dinner or lunch don’t force them to do so since they can skip three to four or more meals without starving and you will cure them of a lifelong habit of overeating! Soft drinks and energy drinks don’t quench your thirst but keep you thirsty so you will drink more sweet drinks. Chose water or seltzer water or beer or coffee or unsweetened tea or naturally sweet fruit juices without added sugar instead. You can also make your own flavored water by cutting pieces of fruit or herbs and adding them to water or letting them flavor your water naturally.

You are eating too many sugary overly processed foods rich in carbohydrates which are notorious for putting on extra weight. The artificially added fructose in sugar is shutting off you satiation chemical and the brain is responding by asking for more food. The solution is to eat as much and as great a variety of certified organic food as possible with natural fat content which will satiate you sooner and naturally make you eat less food. Natural fats and proteins and carbohydrates are healthy for you if gotten from unprocessed food.

You are addicted to sugary foods and snacks and drinks and are eating too many of them. The solution is to avoid them completely and if you can’t stop completely then eat processed sweet foods once or twice a week and consider them to be treats. Naturally sweet fruits should be eaten and will not cause you to overeat and gain more weight than you should naturally and should satisfy your craving for sweetness.

Conclusion: If you find a food or drink with sugar added don’t buy it and if you buy it have it only once or twice a week!!!!!! Eat a great variety of certified organic food only when hungry and include a blood sausage about once a week. Drink raw milk if you can find it and pasturized milk if you can’t with your meals once in a while. Drink water only when thirsty or other unsweetened beverages. If you don’t lose much weight and your health doesn’t improve much live with it then be proud of your weight because that is the way that nature intended for you to be. Any metabolic illness which you still might have will not be cured by good nutrition and you will have to live with your bad health for a lifetime.

EXERCISE BONUS TIPS:

Don’t try to lose weight exercising because you only burn about 120 calories walking fast for 30 minutes. Most humans eat much over 500 calories every day so you will not lose any weight just by exercising. It is a myth that exercise alone will make you lose some weight!!!!!!

Exercise moderately to keep your body toned but you don’t need to do it more than about two or three times a week for 20 minutes and you don’t need exercise equipment to do it. If you are a lazy exerciser then just walk fast outdoors or on a treadmill for about  20 minutes.

One room in the house or a six by six foot free space in a room can be an exercise room where natural human exercise movements can be done without the aid of most artificial devices which build up the body in unnatural ways.  Such movements as pushups and/or squat thrusts and/or sit ups and/or deep knee bends and/or running in place and/or spinning in place and/or jumping jacks and/or jumping up and down instead of jumping rope which limits the degrees of freedom that your hands can exercise during the jumping and/or chin ups and/or an assortment of aerobic moves and/or weaponless martial arts moves should be popular forever.

When doing jumping jacks or jumping up and down don’t stay in one place but move around the room even spinning around while doing them and flex your knees a little and move in many patterns over the floor. Feel free to jump to different heights while doing jumping jacks and make it a nonboring real blast of a cardio workout. Also during the jumping jacks feel free to bend at the waist and twist the torso too and flail the hands around at the joints and bend the elbows. Be a wild and crazy gal or guy and enjoy yourself. That is true utilitarian personal creativity which is so rare in society!!!

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WEIGHT LOSS MYTHS AND REALITIES!!!!!!

130022495846103515_glenn_family Myth: Most humans can lose weight with exercise or consuming less calories or eating low carbohydrate foods or eating a vegan diet or eating mostly protein or taking appetite suppressing pills or taking hormones.

Truth: Severely obese humans will lose some weight by limiting their caloric intake only. For the majority of us, without a starvation diet, we will basically remain at the same weight which we were genetically programmed to be at.  As we grow older many of us are programmed genetically to put on more weight as a natural reaction which anticipates less food in old age. Many store more calories in the form of fat for food emergencies or famines which modern society no longer has so most of us get fatter as we age because our caloric intake remains relatively constant. Less than 50% of the population does not gain weight even if they overeat because they have been genetically programmed to stay thin for an entire lifetime thanks to an efficient regulating natural metabolism. If you were born natuarally overweight be proud of your weight because if we do have a famine in the distant future you will be prepared with a fat reserve which will increase your odds of surviving it.

Many women in their thirties have a second or third offspring and suddenly start to gain weight without changing their lifestyles. This is only a genetically programmed natural reaction because more offspring in nature means that the same quantity of food will have to be shared because it historically meant less food for the wife, especially older females. That is why many women start putting on more weight after pregnancies so that they will have more energy stored up in their bodies in anticipation of having to share food with the offspring and having to eat less because of a historical constant supply of food.

In modern society more offspring does not mean less food for mothers yet they still put on more weight and put on more weight than usual since their caloric intake or the amount of food they eat remains the same and they don’t have to share their food with offspring.

For men this truth translates into not making nasty comments about the plumpness of your spouse and constant reminders that she should lose weight which is impossible without a starvation diet and constant hunger pangs. Live with your overweight spouse and respect the fact that she has no power to control her weight because this is how nature intended it to be. It will only result in yo yo diets and scientifically unproven methods to lose weight. In the short run your wife may lose some weight but in the long run she will gain it all back and maybe even add a few more pounds.

My father constantly complained about my mother’s overweight after I was born, the second offspring, and I seldom saw her eat more than a buttered piece of bread in old age and I know she was suffering from bad nutrition without enough variety of nutritious foods in her life. She got kidney cancer at about age 65 and lived five more years after the operation but I basically blame my father who lived to be 99 for sending my mother to an early grave with his lose weight terror tactics encouraged by mythological social brainwashing which caused her to eat badly and caused terminal illness in the long duration.

There are 3500 calories in a pound of fat. You lose about 100 calories by walking a mile and about 120 by running at about 6 miles per hour for thirty minutes. You would theoretically have to run 29 times for thirty minutes to lose one pound of fat or run for 15 hours to burn off one pound of fat. If you didn’t eat a daily caloric intake of about 1000 to 1500 calories eating three times a day this means that you should be losing about half a pound of fat a day. The truth is that no one automatically loses or burns half a pound of fat a day by exercising or not eating at all for a day.

My wife after her second pregnancy started gaining weight. We both can survive and not lose weight on about 500 calories a day each eating only one nutritious varied meal. I weigh about 175 pounds and she weighs about 212 pounds but was born to be overweight based on inaccurate social and medical norms which wrongly assume that every human should be at a perfect normal average weight for their age.

Eating 3500 calories less does not mean that you will lose a pound of fat. There is no one to one correspondence and it is a large myth maintained by the propaganda of the weight loss industry. Less food eaten does not automatically mean less weight for most of us.

Old calorie tables which recommend daily calorie intake are outdated and humans leading sedentary lives can eat less than 500 calories a day and not lose weight!!!!!! That means that most humans in developed countries are eating about three to four times more food than they need to survive at a constant weight. This means that Americans could feed about a billion more people with the food they should not be eating and if you take into consideration the fact that about 50% of grown food is thrown away by growers which doesn’t meet appearance perfection standards, America could support a billion and a half more humans with the food which is grown on a yearly basis. Believe it or Not!!!!!!

The biggest danger is taking an appetite suppression drug or taking one hormone pill to reduce weight. Taking an excess of one hormone to equalize the level of your hormone at an older age to be at a level it was during youth is unnatural and the hormone will not only not cause you to lose weight but it will start to ruin your natural metabolism and affect tens of other body chemicals. This puts your metabolism out of balance and causes long duration bad health problems and even susceptibility to cancer.

Appetite suppression pills frequently give you a sense of an unnatural emotional high and cause you to eat very little. Not only is the quantity of the food eaten reduced but so is the quality of the food eaten reduced with less nutritious variety included in what you do proceed to eat. The chemically induced delusion that you are losing weight causes long duration side effects and a damaged body metabolism if taken for a long time. As soon as you stop taking the appetite suppressant you gain whatever weight you lost back again and sometimes even gain more weight since your body tries to compensate for the period of time that you were living on fewer calories or less food eaten.

Read the side effects of most appetite suppression pills which are used for a very long time and at relatively large doses and it will frighten you. Using any drug pill to reduce weight permanently with daily doses will unbalance your metabolism given enough time and your good health will suffer.

Eating low fat processed foods with much carbohydrates and unnatural sugar quantities added will suppress your body satiation chemical and cause you to eat more of the low fat processed foods and you will wind up eating more calories which readily will be converted to fat, especially the sugar. Eat artificially sweetened poisonous food without calories and your long duration health will suffer from an unbalanced metabolism.

A vegan diet is frequently not successful because you eat too many calories with too much pasta, bread, french fries, dairy-free chocolate, and nuts and you end up gaining weight, not losing it. If you ate just fruits and vegetables in their natural state you may lose some weight but be deficient in vitamin B12 and other vital nutrients which you get from protein and fat foods. We are omnivores and that means that we should be eating a balanced diet of plant and animal carbohydrates and fats and proteins.

A lopsided artificial protein diet is not advisable because it can result in keytosis and liver damage and many other health problems because your body is not getting enough fats and carbohydrates to stay healthy.

Partial conclusions: Exercising for half an hour a day will not reduce your weight but may in fact cause you to be hungrier and overeat because you have lost body calories and your body will ask you to eat more and refill your body calorie storage space. It is a guarantee that you will eat more calories after exercising than you lost exercising.

Some humans are born with a tendency to gain weight and others are not. If you are gaining weight you are also probably eating too many processed foods with lopsided sugar amounts in them which will make your natural weight more if you were born to be naturally fatter.

Less than 50% of the population is gifted with good genes which can let you eat anything and any amount and not get overweight. Envying those humans and going on fad diets and not succeeding in weight reduction will only lead to greater depression and a sense of less selfworth.

Each generation of Americans is getting more overweight and the primary cause of it is eating too much processed highly refined sugary food which plagues grocery shelves. Once you gain weight it is not easy to decrease it but you can help the next generation of offspring to be thinner by making them eat a varied nutritious certified organic diet only when they are hungry and not force them to eat three times a day. If they are not hungry don’t force them to eat breakfast or lunch or even dinner. Keep them away from sugary foods and high carbohydrate unnatural foods such as sodas, sweets, desert, and processed snack foods. All of these unhealthy nutritionally bad foods can be treats once in a while or once a week but not every day of the week.

With age your metabolism naturally adjusts and makes many gain weight. Eating about one very varied meal once a day, especially unprocessed, varied, certified organic food will keep you healthily at your natural weight which may still be greater than you want it to be in your hopes and dreams. Learn to live with the new added weight because that is the fate of old age. You will be overweight but as healthy as you were naturally programmed to be!!!!!!

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WHERE IS PROMOTION BASED ON MERIT POSSIBLE?

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MYTH: Promotion based on merit is an unrealistic dream politically and socially and economically and sometimes scientifically because human nature is so subjective and so is the language which is filled with emotional biases which adds to this subjectivity.

TRUTH: In more objective fields such as science and technology promotion based on merit is not only desirable but potentially possible. In subjective professions such as the liberal arts promotion based on merit is not possible so they should be promoted by private institutions of learning not funded by the government. The emotionally biased language with its tendency to be very subjective which continues social myths from generation to generation can be cured by a selective use of nonemotional words and logical definitions as detailed in my book Logical English Dictionary.

        A just society is one based on the moral distribution of information and goods and services and rewards and punishments.

My book JUSTICE covers this in great detail.

A just promotion is a moral promotion based on merit which should also be the goal of a just society.

Promotion based on merit should definitely be done in government and monopoly business jobs but these are today the most difficult areas to reform because they require objective standards which minimally exist today.

In the liberal arts who you know is frequently more important than what you know and factors such as friendship, nepotism, seniority, marital status, gender, political or ideological affiliation play dominant roles in deciding who gets the job and who gets to be promoted.

A first step to improvement is to make job resumes and job performance statistics public knowledge on the internet for government and monopoly jobs. This will help make monopoly and government jobs as just as is humanly possible within the existing ideologies.

It is more difficult to promote people based on merit in the liberal arts because there is so much subjective bias going on and much promotion is done based on friendship and/or seniority and/or political affiliation rather than on more objective criteria such as objective resume information and job performance.

The scientific and technological professions are areas where promotion based on merit is easier to do since job performance is very objective if it were not for present day stupid rules about seniority and tenure which frequently exist and handicap the attempt to base job promotion based on merit.

My book EDUCATION REFORM is an example of how merit based job achievement level promotion could be possible for students in school which in a nutshell means promotion or graduation based on achievement level and not age.

CHANGES IN WELFARE LAWS is a book on how merit based promotion or help can be done in the dysfunctional and bankrupting and unjust present day welfare system.

Job resumes and job performance will have to become public knowledge on the internet for government jobs and monopolies so that job promotion will become more based on merit than on the handicaps mentioned which make promotion based on merit greatly improbable in the liberal arts.

My book Logical English Dictionary shows how selective use of language words with logical definitions can decrease biasing subjectivity and make communication minimally emotional with little subjective bias. This new language structure will cure most of the the prejudice and emotional biases so unchangeably programmed into all societies and cultures today.

I can foresee the time when there will be legal suits to get a job promotion because the employee is so incompetent or plagued with bad job performance and/or nepotism and/or merely being good friends with the boss and/or only being too loyal without justification.

Conclusion: Promotion based on just truthful merit is not possible in the present world but it can be made just and truthful merit promotion if the knowledge in the four books mentioned is applied in a revolutionary way to change society for the better.

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MOSTLY WRONG ADVICE GIVEN BY AN AMATEUR MARRIAGE COUNSELOR

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MOST marriage counseling is unprofessional and given by people with book learning only and it is even worse when given by young inexperienced women suchas Shelley Emling who blogged 9 Things You Should Never Say To Your Longtime Spouse.

Her basic assumption is wrong that there are things which you should not say to a longtime spouse especially if they are the truth and not just biased personal opinions.

If the spouse is truly a longtime one you should be as honest as you can and even give opinions which may hurt your spouse’s feelings and cause potential arguments as long as you believe they are the truth.

If you are making a truthful factual comment and not just a biased opinion which hurts feelings it is better to let your spouse know the truth or the biased opinion which she or he will have to live with the rest of their lives anyway.

Holding on to a secret feeling of fact between the two of you will be uncovered sooner or later in a long duration marriage so it is better to get hurtful facts and opinions out into the open as soon as possible so it doesn’t fester in your mind for a lifetime.

I will list the 9 taboo sayings and comment on each of them based on personal experience and the truthful knowledge which I have learned over the years of a very happy marriage relationship which has resulted in three smart grandchildren so far.

      “You always…” or “You never…”

My wife is a type A perfectionist emotional controlling artistic personality with little scientific reasoning ability and I have heard those words frequently during the beginning of the relationship but get those words infrequently now that we have grown offspring and they are no longer priority number one in her life.

If I made a mistake once and even apologized I would frequently get back you always make that mistake.

If I would forget her birthday I would get back you never remember my birthday.

To this day I infrequently struggle with her yes or no and black or white and always or never view of the world.

Early on I would comment that she burnt her food for a meal and she would jump to the conclusion that I was accusing her of always burning the food.

One critical comment and she would assume that I had accused her of doing the bad thing always.

I came to realize that any form of criticism of her was read as an absolute accusation or stereotyping of her personality.

To this day I have to instruct her that one factual revelation does not make for a general rule or generality which is true all the time.

Apparently gathering enough evidence before jumping to instant conclusions was not the way she viewed the world.

If she reads somewhere that a banana is good for cramps because it has potassium she almost insists that bananas are a cure for cramps and does not realize that bananas are not the only food which is rich in potassium and that probably there are many more foods which can also be eaten with just as great a success in curing cramps as long as you also include moderate exercise to solve the problem.

With good nutrition and exercise you can eventually cure almost any ailment which surfaces.

   

 “Don’t you think so-and-so is attractive?”

 If I thought another woman was attractive and was asked that question I would unhesitatingly give her my honest opinion and say yes but I would also add a criticism if I didn’t like her style of clothing or thought she wore too much makeup.

 I have no fear of honestly commenting about my thoughts on the beauty or its absense in other women if asked.

       “My ex-boyfriend/ex-husband/ex-girlfriend/ex-wife would never have done what you just did…” or “…would have done a better job than you…”

My wife had an exhusband who had a better memory than me but was a bad family man so if I were compared to him I would not be offended in the least.

If the exhusband was better than me I would probably answer back that she should have stayed married to him and leave it at that.

      “I’m just trying to hang in there until our last leaves for college…”

 In a long duration marriage the spouse would already know that you are hanging in there for the kids and it would not shock and awe him if the statement was made late into the marriage.

 

    “I was on the fence about marrying you in the first place, and my worst fears were realized…”

 In a long duration marriage the spouse in a bad relationship would not be concerned about your worst fears because he would have seen you expressing them one at a time during the relationship.

 This is just another example of a dreamt up or created comment which would not start an argument in real life.

 

     “I guess our (academically or behaviorally challenged/drug- or alcohol-ensnared) kid got YOUR genes…”

 Saying this to a long duration spouse would not cause arguments or emotional turmoil but merely remind the spouse what a bad father or mother they are or what a bad role model they are.

 There may be a little guilt in realizing that you are not a perfect role model but in a long duration marriage one saying would not destroy or improve the relationship by any stretch of the imagination.

 

     “You’re just like your father or mother…”

 I have gotten this communication tens of times for being a penny pincher and wanting my way just like my father.

 Every time I would give her many examples of my generosity and my willingness to discuss any issue and compromise or give in as a solution to the problem even if it was only temporary.

 I always reminded her that though there were many similarities with my father I was an independent thinker and lived life in a more moderate fashion than he did because he like her was an always or never flawed personality too.

 

     “You know it’s always been your problem that…”

This is a repetition of the first saying which includes the word always and that can cause some emotional discomfort especially if it is not true all the time.

   

 “Surely you could tell I’ve been faking it all along…”

 This is another dreamt up creative saying which would cause no emotional or anger joust in a long duration marriage because faking it surfaces early on in the relationship and admitting that you are faking it five or ten years into the relationship will come as no surprise to your perceptive spouse.

Conclusion: Early in a marriage relationship some of the sayings can be a cause of intense marital arguments especially the always and never sayings which is symptomatic of a severely emotionally biased society and archaic language usage and indoctrination.

When society learns to use my logical language as shown in SCIENTIFIC THESAURUS and eliminates most of the unnecessary emphasis on the importance of emotion in society and begins to talk more logically then most human problems will be solved. Arguments and emotional outbursts and bad relationship advice will be mostly a thing of the past.

We have wallowed too long in a yes or no and black or white and for or against and love or hate and never or always and antonym or synonym and yin or yang and good or bad society approach to life when the real answer to questions should be almost all the time and not all the time and some of the time and infrequently!

I think that I have cured my wife of her somewhat obsessive devotion to caring too much and giving too much to her offspring but her intense emotions and biased unscientific opinions about the real world are still her major handicap. She asks for my advice on many more things which means that she doubts that her opinions are always right and that she has all the answers to life’s problems which wasn’t the case during most of our long duration relationship.

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VIOLENT VIDEO GAMES

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Righta: adj. true and/or just

MYTH: Combative killing games satisfy our primordial urge to hunt and kill and satisfy that motivation without being violent towards real humans.

TRUTH: Mutant video games prolong the motivation to kill and create a bad habit of addictive killing.

In nature prey only gets killed once in a while and not 4 or more constant hours at a time.

Destroy violent video games and you will help exclude the predator within us and replace them with prey pursuit and killing scenes from the wilderness as ones you should watch and be entertained by.

Your urge to kill will be satisfied and it won’t artificially and unnaturally be prolonged for hours!!!!!!

Artificially and unnaturally prolonged sex is unhealthy and prolonged killing is bad for your mind!!!!!!

Learn from nature who knows how to do subsets righta and not from human mythical yet modern behaviors which are bad habits to exclude from your life and as soon as possible so start tomorrow!!!!!!

It is true that most violent games can become boring because you are only killing monsters and humans and destroying objects.

What do you want to do with your life?

Achieve a world record in the number of subsets that you have destroyed in your lifetime on a video screen?

Your objective should be to see how many subsets you have built or created in your lifetime.

Building and creation video games with perhaps a minimum of predatory activities should be the useful pursuits for the future.

Human’s inherit the predatory urge to kill or hunt and it will probably make many violent games popular into the predictive future but the killing should be short and sweet and purposeful behavior as in wild nature!!!!!!

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THE TRUTH ABOUT GAMBLING

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The truth is that most people inherently would like to get something of value for nothing or with very little effort or money.

There will always be people who will want to secretly gamble and play poker even in a cashless society where immoral activity can be reduced to a minimum.

If you gamble and mostly lose you are wasting energy which means that you are being very inefficient with your time and energy and money and that is nature’s sin.

Gambling has become big business so it is highly unlikely that it will be banned from the face of the earth into the predictable future.

When the government starts controlling the internet like in China gambling could die sooner rather than later and not pollute the society needlessly.

Yes China has a moral advantage over us in the short run but maybe not in the long run.

China can censor what it deems to be morally corrupt and this is a major advantage from a social standpoint.

It is easier for China to discipline its society along the proper acceptable social paths and its national police force is already in place so they are ahead of the United States and Europe in some important ways.

China now just has to produce quality products and people the way that I envision it and they could potentially compete with western countries very efficiently.

Of course this only assumes that they also impose my moral code upon the people and if they do this their political social structure is doomed in the long run so it is highly unlikely that they will want to relinquish their political power in the short run and institute my moral code which is don’t destroy biodiversity and don’t lie and don’t be inefficient and don’t steal and don’t commit adultery if married and don’t murder.

From a moral point of view gambling is really immoral because it is a very inefficient social activity which wastes time and energy and money for most of the participants.

In the wilderness animals gamble or take risks with their lives trying to avoid predators and addicted gamblers take risks with their financial security and are constantly being eaten up financially by the gambling institutions which prey on their money very efficiently.

Gambling is a waste because it doesn’t make you any smarter and healthier and wealthier and sexier and really happier and etc.

Yes there will still be gambling establishments suchas national and international lotteries where suckers will try to become overnight billionaires but most of the smart people of the world will just laugh at gambling and say- The odds are not in my favor so screw it!

Smart people will not even waste their precious time gambling and drinking with their buddies at home or elsewhere because there should soon be a cashless society which will make low level gambling more difficult.

Gambling over the internet will only be stopped with an international attempt at stopping it which will involve stopping gambling credit card money transfers by credit card companies and this is highly improbable into the predictive future.

As long as personal checks and money orders and bank checks can be used internationally gambling will not cease over the internet worldwide.

Just like prostitution it seems that gambling can not be stopped or excluded from a relatively free society very easily and it will continue to plague society into the predictive future because it exploits human greed and greed is a fundamental human flaw for many of us which each generation inherits and must cope with.

HUMOROUS JUSTICE FOR A DIVORCED WIFE OF A WEALTHY MAN!!!!!

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Did you know that one day laughing  improves your health and prolongs your life?

If you have no reason to laugh you can laugh for no reason!

What can laughter do?

  • Lower blood pressure
  • Increase vascular blood flow and oxygenation of the blood
  • Give a workout to the diaphragm and abdominal and respiratory and facial and leg and back muscles
  • Reduce certain stress hormones such as cortisol and adrenaline
  • Increase the response of tumor and disease killing cells such as Gamma interferon and T cells
  • Defend against respiratory infections–even reducing the frequency of colds–by immunoglobulon in saliva.
  • Increase memory and learning; in a study at Johns Hopkins University Medical School humor during instruction led to increased test scores
  • Improve alertness and creativity and memory

HUMOROUS TRUE STORY ABOUT THE DIVORCEE OF A WEALTHY MAN.

ENJOY!!!!!

After 37 years of marriage Jake dumped his wife for his Young secretary.

His new girlfriend demanded that they live in Jake and Edith’s multimillion dollar home and since the man’s lawyers were a little better he prevailed.

He gave Edith his now ex-wife just 3 days to move out.

She spent the 1st day packing her belongings into boxes crates and suitcases.

On the 2nd day she had to movers come and collect her things.

On the 3rd day she sat down for the last time at their beautiful dining room table by candlelight put on some soft background music and feasted on a pound of shrimp a jar of caviar and a bottle of Chardonnay.

When she had finished she went into each and every room and stuffed half-eaten shrimp shells dipped in caviar into the hollow of all of the curtain rods.

She then cleaned up the kitchen and left.

When the husband returned with his new girlfriend all was bliss for the first few days.

Then slowly the house began to smell.

They tried everything cleaning mopping and airing the place out.

Vents were checked for dead rodents and carpets were cleaned.

Air fresheners were hung everywhere.

Exterminators were brought in to set off gas canisters during which they had to move out for a few days and in the end they even replaced the expensive wool carpeting.

NOTHING WORKED.

People stopped coming over to visit.

Repairman refused to work in the house.

The Maid quit.

Finally they could not take the stench any longer and decided to move.

A month later even through they had cut their price in half they could not find a buyer for their stinky house.

Word got out and eventually even the local realtors refused to return their calls.

Finally they had to borrow a huge sum of money from the bank to purchase a new place.

The ex-wife called the man and asked how things were going.

He told her the saga of the rotting house.

She listened politely and said that she missed her old home terribly and would be willing to reduce her divorce settlement in exchange for getting the house back.

Knowing his ex-wife had no idea how bad the smell was he agreed on a price that was about 1/10th of what the house ha been worth but only if she were to sign the papers that very day.

She agreed and within the hour his lawyers delivered the paperwork.

A week later the man and his girlfriend stood smiling as they watched the moving company pack everything to take to their new home.

INCLUDING THE CURTAIN RODS.

YOU CAN’T GET RID OF PROSTITUTION SO INSTITUTIONALIZE IT!!!

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The truth is that prostitution is the oldest profession and it will unfortunately be around to the end of time.

A just government should try to ensure that prostitution is a voluntary choice and not an issue of human slavery.

There are far too many women who are victimized by criminal prostitution enterprises and are enslaved under lock and key and their lives are threatened if they plan to escape their involuntary servitude.

Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world and it should be legalized and taxed and monitored.

The prostitution of minors should be against the law but adult women should have the legal right to voluntarily sell their bodies if they choose to do so.

To avoid sexual violence and sexual coercion and abuse all houses of prostitution and high class single prostitute businesses should be wire taped with audio visual setups monitored by a police surveillance force and ultimately computer surveillance so that there is proof that no woman is being forced to have sex by a pimp.

Customer’s or John’s identities will no longer be secret to law enforcement but that is the secrecy which you will have to give up if you want to have paid sex.

The brutal pimp will be put out of business because sexual violence should definitely be against the law.

Locally houses of prostitution and high class prostitutes can be limited to restricted or zoned areas away from most family activities and life and preferably somewhere in the worst parts of a town or a city.

Advertising should be word of mouth only with no street solicitation and not over the internet or on billboard signs.

Prostitution is a social necessity but it should be treated with censorship as a potential blight on family life.

Why is prostitution a social necessity?

Because there will always be very ugly people and severely physically and/or mentally handicapped people who will want to have sex with a real woman.

There will also be plenty of males fantasizing what it would be like having sex with an attractive and sexy woman who physically surpasses the beauty of their young or old wives.

Male lust and a desire for varied sexual partners will lead many men to prostitutes who will fulfill their lust and fantasies for a price.

There will be a disincentive to cheat on a wife because that is adultery and should be against the law.

A wife suspecting that maybe a husband is committing adultery with a prostitute would be able to visit the police and get a check of her husband’s name on the customer list including high class prostitute lists.

If the husband’s name (identities will be checked before they are recorded such as with a license number) is on the client’s list she will have grounds for divorce if she so chooses.

Many wives after overcoming their initial rage and betrayal and feelings of jealousy may choose to forgive their husbands and give them a second or maybe third chance to not do it again and therefore will often not immediately be prosecuting for divorce.

They will have the power and the evidence in the form of audio video to file for divorce at any time without the need for a lawyer.

Standardized rules for custody of the children and financial rewards and/or property to be taken from the husband will be available so no court adjudication will be necessary and tax payers money will be saved since there will be no court costs other than those for the divorce filling fee.

A suggestion would be 50% of the husband’s current wealth unless there is a prenuptial agreement which offers less.

The total wealth of the husband should not be taken away because it is often the fault of both parties that the husband has gone to a prostitute and terminally jeopardized the marriage.

In the future and I predict it will probably be a rarity there may be some women who may choose a male prostitute and the same rules would apply to the wives as to the husbands and the husbands would get custody of the children.

This may not keep straying husbands from having sex with non-prostitutes while married, but at least the wife will have some assurance that she is not going to get STD diseases from prostitutes who could infect her husband.

A final note: There should also be periodic mandatory prostitute doctor checkups for STD contagious diseases and an official record kept of all those people who may have contracted them so that customers can be identified and contacted and quickly treated so that they will not spread STD diseases to their wives or other sexual partners.

With these recommended laws in place prostitution will be a legal business but never a big local business unless a corporation buys up all the prostitution businesses in the nation or world and makes big bucks on a yearly basis from the combined total.

There may be some who feel that monitoring will not work but this is just an admission of the fact that prostitution is a great way to make money illegally and launder the money for big profits.

Prostitution is just a big business enterprise which is continuing to thrive because of a cash economy which makes profits easy to hide.

In a cashless society the government will be able to monitor prostitution activity much more readily and make illegal activity a form of tax evasion punishable by financial penalties and even jail time so it is just a matter of time before prostitution becomes institutionalized similar to some European countries.

Make your profit while you can but in an open source society of the future clandestine business operations will be almost nonexistent and all for the benefit of the general welfare especially family units.

 

ANIMAL SOUNDS COMMUNICATE MEANINGFULLY, ESPECIALLY WITH THE SAME SPECIES!!!!!

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Animal sounds are not just noise but meaningful communications which we all intuitively know if we have sociable cats and/or dogs which seem to be communicating with us some of the time.

We can learn from animals which communicate purposefully and do not pursue trivial and random communications which can really be considered noise without valuable content.

If you want to be more efficient in your communications with humans try to be short and brief and to the point and don’t just randomly talk about what just impulsively pops into your head.

Ask whether what you are about to say will inform the other human with something which they can use in their life such as good advice backed up with personal experiences or teaching them new important facts which they can use in their lives.

Try to avoid gossip and going on and on about what existed in your life in the past and minute details about your daily life.

Don’t bore people and frighten away potential new friends by trying to hang out with them conversationally.

Above all be selective in the humans you talk to the most in a smart way and usually don’t say anything at all or cut the conversation short if what you are about to say won’t help that other person in living their daily lives.

Silence is frequently golden in the wild and you should learn to be more silent in your life.

Especially think about what you are about to say in silence for a few seconds before you actually say something which should be usually important.

If you love to talk record your conversations on a mini audio recorder and then play them back when you have some time and start analyzing the conversations by asking.

Was what I said trivial and uninformative?

If the answer is yes then don’t say the same thing in the future.

Did it help the other human in some way?

If you don’t think you helped then don’t say it in future conversations.

Could I have said what I said in fewer words and still get the message across?

Analyze and eliminate those words and phrases or topics which don’t get any valuable message across in future conversations and become a more efficient more interesting talker.

Many of us just have a bad blabbing habit which all of us should be working to decrease in our lives because it is effectively just trivial noise no one wants to hear or should hear.

THERE IS PROOF OF BANDED MONGOOSE COMMUNICATION IN A RECENT ARTICLE FROM POPSCI.COM POSTED BY REBECCA BOYLE 1/11/2013.

ENJOY!!!!!

ALMOST EVERYONE IS INTELLIGENT AND HAS THE POTENTIAL TO BE SMART!!!!!!

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Intelligent: adj. possessing the ability to memorize and process much information but it is not a measure of how smart you are in life

Smart: n. a human having complete logical reasoning skills and successfully applying them to solve political and social and economic and scientific problems

Have you ever envied the humans with large IQ’s and thought

If only I was as smart as them I would be better off in this world and my life would be more enjoyable.

Wrong!

Almost everyone is intelligent and most of us have similar brain sizes and the only reason you have been stereotyped as less smart is because you have a memory which is not as good as the memory of those with large IQ’s.

You too can learn the thousand and one trivial facts and synonyms and antonyms and thousands of words and verbose book information which those with large IQ’s have memorized.

But why should you?

They are not much smarter than you and many are less smart with so much education which has brainwashed them into thinking that they know everything there is to know and are in positions where they think they have the right to communicate to you what is right and wrong and how you should live your life.

Your memory is not so good but that does not mean that you can’t be smarter than them.

All you need is a quality education based on facts and the truth and you will be smarter than the humans with large IQ’s in this world.

Where do you get such valuable education?

Read my evergreen truth blogs and then if you begin to feel smarter then read some or every evergreen book which I have published especially COMMON SENSE and you will begin to feel confident in knowing that you are indeed smarter than almost every human in leadership positions in politics and society and economics and education.

If you take some or all of my advice then you can go on the internet, use search engines, and read what really interests you and you will be much better able to separate fact from fiction and view the articles with an analytical knowing insight. You too will not fall prey to the myths and deceptions which are being propagandized on the internet in politics, society, economics and education. You will know the truth much better and be able to laugh a little at human stupidity and truly find solutions to any problems which you may have in life.

Enjoy!!!!!!

MANY REASONS TO STOP EATING PROCESSED FOODS!!!

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Processed foods stimulate too much production of dopamine which makes them highly addictive and leads to overeating and frequently weight gain.

Processed foods frequently contain much added sugar and artificial sweeteners which turn off the satiation sensor in your brain and make you overeat many empty calories without much natural nutritional value.

Processed food frequently contains many artificial additives such as phosphates which change the taste and texture and shelf life but are unhealthy for your metabolism in the long duration.

Processed foods with many refined sugars and processed flour and vegetable oil and other bad ingredients can cause chronic inflammation in many which can lead to heart disease and dementia and neurological problems and respiratory illness and even cancer.

Processed foods usually have no natural fiber and enzymes and vitamins and other balanced natural nutrients which can ruin the healthy balance of gut bacteria and cause digestive disorders.

There is some evidence that too much processed food can make you angrier and more irritable and can even reduce concentration ability in the brain which makes it more difficult to deal with stress successfully.

Processed food is loaded with processed genetically modified organisms GMO’s and pesticides and herbicides which are made artificially in the laboratory and are not natural substances or chemicals and will damage your immune system and metabolism and body organs in the long duration and your health gets progressively worse as more time passes.

Much processed food is not actually real food which mold and bacteria and fungi will readily grow on but very synthetic in nature which tastes like food but really isn’t a complete food with the proper balance of nutrients needed to sustain a natural organism.

Finally processed food is a very lopsided nutritionally unbalanced food which will inevitably cause imbalances in your body chemistry which means bad health into the predictive future if you eat too much of it.

Conclusion: Eat much more food as close to its natural state as possible and eat as much certified organic food as you can afford. Eating quality natural food will actually be less costly because you will need less of it to feel full and satiated and you will not be eating so much costly processed junk food!!!!!!

MANY REASONS TO DRINK BEER IN MODERATION!!!!!!

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Myth: Beer is bad for you because there are so many alcoholics who drink too much beer and are social problems.

Truth: Drinking beer in moderation is not only healthy but it can be a constant source for refreshing new pleasurable taste sensations which can take some of the boredom out of your life.

Briefly summarized the silicone content in beer can maintain or even boost your bone density and

beer can reduce the blood sugar level by replacing sweet and artificially sweetened drinks and

beer can decrease the probability that you will suffer from diabetes and

beers with much protein in them will make your skin and hair healthier and

beer has some nutrients suchas zinc and potassium and iron and riboflavin and many other nutrients and

beer won’t cause weight gain with only about 5 grams of carbohydrates and

last but not least beer comes in hundreds of flavors with slightly different nutrient value which you can taste and see which ones you enjoy drinking the most!!!

10 reasons you should drink beer

Sunday, March 24, 2013 by: Sandeep Godiyal

http://www.naturalnews.com/039616_beer_health_benefits_drinking.html

SHOULD THERE BE A DEATH PENALTY?

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 MYTH: The death penalty prevents serious unacceptable crimes.

TRUTH: An unacceptable crime commiter can’t be frightened away from doing the crime because that form of crime gives one basic pleasure and he or she loves to do it. No death penalty should be the rule because people can be so easily framed in this technological society with planted evidence for an unacceptable serious crime which they didn’t commit.

A moral reputation usually guards somewhat against such frameups but in this growingly immoral society most reputations are bad to some extent.

Usually the immoral citizens go to court and are prosecuted so reputation does not exist in the equation.

It is very easy to frame an immoral person which is why injustice is out of control in the immoral society which we have.

The truth is that every criminal that commits a nonlethal crime should be given a second chance to reform him or herself.

Assault and battery and criminal shooting without death and rape and child molestation and burglary and etc. can have large first and second time sentences with a severe warning that if the crime is repeated a third time it is a lifetime sentence.

The fear of permanent incarceration is missing from our outmoded criminal system.

The fear of death is not a sufficient fear to prevent crime and you can be framed and sent to a lethal injection from which there is no just return.

Modern forensics is not an exact science yet and never will be since many mistakes are made in determining what evidence is valid and which is not so there are many cases where a person is victimized with the wrong evidence which may be greatly circumstantial and lead to a false conviction in court.

Technology has advanced so greatly that fabrication of planted evidence is so easy to do that you can get framed by clever people very easily and get convicted with planted evidence.

The only protection against being framed is a sterling reputation with friends and family but how many of us have it today?

The best way to frighten people away from a violent life is to show a video of a maximum security prison to young impressionable minds in elementary school especially to ghetto children who live in violent surroundings.

If immorality continues to grow in society unchecked then audio visual evidence will soon become the only true facts to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that a crime was committed.

There should be no death penalty but only life imprisonment as the most severe punishment!!! 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT WHAT HAPPINESS IS

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Happiness is sensing pleasure. If you sense pleasure you are happy though the intensity of the pleasure of course varies depending on what you are doing.

It may seem that happiness and money are joined and the more money you have the happier you are.

It has been shown that above the poverty line humans with more money have about the same amount of happiness.

What is certain is that not having money decreases our happiness and decreases our ability to function independently in society and this causes an increase in unpleasant stress.

It is true that there is a large difference in what we think will give us happiness and actually feeling happy when we get it.

Whatever you think will make you happy gives temporary short duration pleasure which usually remains not more than a few seconds a few days or a time between the two.

Then we get back to our average daily habits of being happy.

The reason that it is difficult to judge how happy humans are in life is because thinking about whether one is happy or not and communicating it is frequently much different than the factual real amount of happiness in a human’s life.

Extreme or very intense happiness or ecstasy is usually transient in average humans and is frequently present with orgasm and drug highs.

No one should plan to live their lives in ecstasy 100% of the time because it is very unhealthy and can frequently lead to terrible health and even death.

There is also the happiness of creative work which is experienced by skilled creative professionals who are in a circumstance of mostly impulsive creativity that is almost like an outer body experience.

Skilled composers of music and artists and impromptu speakers and inventors are examples of humans who find largely impulsive happiness in their creative effort.

It also seems to be a fact that the more choices which you have in life the more stressful it becomes and your happiness in choosing some action decreases.

It also seems that people purchasing or getting an object produces more happiness than being in a position of being able to exchange that object for a different one if not satisfied with the original choice.

It is also a fact that remembering an intense moment of happiness will remain with you longer in memory than a series of low intensity happy moments.

Based on all this objective knowledge about happiness it is wrong to think that humans should have an absolute right to the pursuit of happiness and that this wrong concept should be codified in a written constitution.

Pursuing the greatest pleasure or happiness would be the hedonistic pursuit of sexual orgasm and an unrestricted use of legal and illegal mind changing drugs.

The unalienable right to the pursuit of happiness should be changed to more realistic goals as those outlined in my book NEW CONSTITUTION OF THE UNITED STATES.

Over 50 percent of those leading happy lives are genetically born to be happier than others.

You inherited the happy genes from your parents and you also learned many happy tricks from their happy lifestyles and the happy lifestyles of role models.

You can help to exclude sources of unhappiness but you can’t easily create happiness in humans by only communicating with them and making suggestions.

If you are born unhealthy and with a poor memory and unhappy parents and an unattractive body such as being overly fat then your battle to be happy and maintain happiness will be more difficult.

It is much easier to create happiness in humans by asking them to imitate happy role models and it must be highly volitional.

It should be obvious that teaching young offspring to be happier is much easier than teaching grown adults living in their difficult to change bad unhappy habits which don’t cause much happiness.

Matt Killingsworth has done a study on happiness and has found that if you want to be happy you should function in the present activity.

This basically means that if you are pursuing a purposeful activity you are happier than if you are doing nothing or nothing of importance.

He has uncovered that no matter what you are doing your mind wanders and that it wanders about 30% of the time no matter what you are doing.

Mind wandering is a cause of unhappiness but unhappiness is not the cause of mind wandering. When you are unhappy your mind may be wondering but wondering does not cause unhappiness.

There is no paradox in thinking about happiness if you are not brainwashed by the mythological concepts of happiness in literature.

The old concepts about happiness are illogical constructs which should die a fast death.

Biological reality has no paradoxes!

Dreaming or thinking about making much money or having a great job or being very successful is not a source of happiness.

It is working purposefully at your job that causes moments of happiness and correspondingly moments of unhappiness.

The truth shall set you free of all historical paradoxes!!!

Throw that literary historical crap into the garbage and recycle it into truly useful logical knowledge about the world on the internet.

Throw out  that crappy emotional mythological literature in the book stores and that literary crap coming out in future publications!!!

It is all making almost everyone terribly unhappy.

Start trashing that emotional irrational literary crap in our public schools too.

The new generation does not want to be made very unhappy by reading it!!!

The verbosity with which it is done and the few useful facts which are presented should be called criminal behavior and many should be thrown in jail so they no longer have the right to brainwash the gullible public.

Dreaming or thinking about how great your future will be if only you get lucky and worshiping celebrities and their products which are consumed by the gullible star struck public will not make you happier or more successful in life!!!!!!

What should you start to read if anything?

Try reading some of my evergreen blogs and any of my evergreen books on my website and especially the book COMMON SENSE.

ENJOY!!!!!!

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