Monthly Archives: April 2013

PORNOGRAPHY

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The truth is that pornography should be censored from children as much as possible.   It can prevent adults from leading truly loving sexual lives since so much of pornography is brutally impersonal artificially prolonged sexual behavior and deviant sexual behavior where reproduction is not the primary focus but artistic dysfunctional creative behaviors are introduced as acceptable normative standards.

Exposing children to pornography also means that pedophilia will run rampant throughout the society thus further decreasing the probability that adult couples will have successful long term loving marital relationships.

Males are obsessed with sex in puberty and later in life and are the primary users of pornography because sexual arousal in males is highly visual and a mere view of a naked female body in a picture can cause an erection.

I don’t have scientific evidence on how males can be desensitized to female bodies sexually except perhaps by seeing a lot of naked female bodies not involved in sex in childhood and puberty. Without scientific evidence I think that naked parents walking around in a private house exposing their nakedness to children may be a partial solution to desensitize boys visual erotic reaction to naked women pictures.

When children ask questions about sex or reproduction show them videos of animals reproducing or being involved in sex. With the exception of of some animals, sex is usually quite a short behavior without many minutes or hours of unnecessary foreplay. Sex is efficient in nature and very purposeful and that frequently means short and sweet and exciting.

A SONG WHICH ILLUSTRATES WHY PORNOGRAPHY AND PROSTITUTION ARE HARD TO COMBAT.

WHEN TO FORGIVE CONDITIONALLY OR UNCONDITIONALLY

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In real life humans behave immorally and badly and wrongly and we are tempted to react and do react to most of these human flaws.

Some recent studies have found and claim that the average American almost lies about something every day. If this is really true then the immorality of lying should be taught in secular elementary school and it is a primary reason for the instability in relationships in society. Unintentionally lie and you can be forgiven but if it is an intentional lie it should not be permitted to continue, especially if it is your own offspring.

Honesty or telling the truth is the human bond which keeps relationships strong and enduring and frequently not telling the truth will cause distrust in a relationship and doom it in the long duration. If you can no longer believe your offspring because they have become habitual liars your control over their behavior will be minimal and your life with them will be constantly one of anger and frustration and fear and helplessness and shame which will inevitably lead to separation and living independent lives from your offspring when they reach adulthood.

In early childhood you can remove privileges for lying and even use the threat of physical spanking for telling a future lie. Follow through with the threat if another intentional lie is discovered in an offspring. Stop the immorality in early childhood and you will be rewarded with largely probable good relationships with your offspring for a lifetime. Fail to stop the immorality in young offspring and your life with them will become an uncontrollable nightmare.

If the behavior is bad enough and has not become habitual yet, you can forgive your offspring with the condition that they don’t do the behavior again. You can follow this up with a serious threat of punishment or the revocation of privileges if the behavior continues. “I will forgive you if it doesn’t exist again” is a conditional forgiveness for a very bad and unacceptable behavior.

At home your offspring will make many mistakes learning new knowledge and skills and behaviors and you will frequently have to forgive unconditionally for the mistake or minimally bad behavior.

When married your spouse will also make many behavioral mistakes and mistakes in communicating facts and opinions and will be guilty of excessive emotional displays and you will have to forgive unconditionally because trying to remember all the bad incidents, especially personal criticisms, will not give you peace of mind and you will wallow in misery sensing anger, resentment, and revenge which have little place in a harmonious marriage.

In business if you find that one of your workers is lying about other workers or lying about his or her work or lying about his past and present then you should fire them as soon as possible and not forgive them if they are in a position of authority. A few lies about unimportant themes may not be enough reason to fire a low ranking human and the immoral flaw can be ignored to some extent but if you find a habitual tendency to lie about anything the probability is that he or she will eventually start to lie about important things in life or business too. There is even a large probability that they will steal from you in the future.

We all make mistakes unintentionally at work and interacting with humans. Some humans make more mistakes than others and you can only go so far in tolerating the behavior. On the job hiring someone who makes fewer mistakes may be more costly and you may out of necessity choose to stay with your mistake prone worker. For important costly mistakes the absence of present forgiveness is acceptable and you have every right to fire them. If the mistake is tolerable but still great enough to need immediate attention, getting a promise that it will not happen again is required. This is conditional forgiveness and a threat of firing can at that point be justifiably made so it doesn’t happen again.

In determining whether to forgive conditionally or unconditionally it is a skill which many humans don’t have. It all depends on the type of behavior and its severity and frequency but it also depends on who has to be forgiven, especially at what age and whether they are a close human or a stranger. You frequently have no control over a stranger and forgiveness or an absence of it will not affect him or her in any way. You have the option of saying nothing at all or saying that what the bad behaving stranger did was not very nice or unacceptable.

If it is an immoral behavior like stealing or public lying or adultery society frequently punishes this with fines and/or imprisonment and/or ostracism and frequently does not forgive immorality.

Commit adultery and you will be frequently punished with divorce and a loss of personal wealth and many in society will sense that you are less reputable or worthy as a human. Future women aware of your adultery will frequently try to avoid relationships with you because they intuitively feel that if you cheated once you will probably do it again at some point in the future.

Steal and you will be imprisoned and/or asked to compensate the victim(s) for the crime and your reputation will suffer. You may eventually be forgiven by some humans but your criminal record will follow you for a lifetime and reduce your ability to get a responsible good paying job.

Publicly lie and you can be sued for libel and be forced to pay a fine. Your personal life may not suffer but publicaly your bad reputation will follow you as long as people remember your immoral flaw. You will have a hard time getting or remaining in public office if you are a politician and hope to get future votes from the opposition party. Privately you can be forgiven by your friends but publicaly it will frequently take a very long time to get your good public reputation back. Many people are forgiven for lying in private but rarely in public if not followed up speedily with a sincere public apology

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ONLINE DATING TIPS FOR ADULTS

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Showing an honest true profile is what will help insure success in internet dating more than any tricks you might want to try to improve your image and theoretically but not practically make it more attractive.

Some people try to post images of what they looked like five or ten years ago, try to hide their eyes with sun glasses, lie about their height and weight, and introduce buddies or other themes in the background of the photo. Don’t do this. Your potential date is not interested in most of your buddies nor do they want to see pictures of how you looked in the past and definitely would like to look into your eyes without sunglasses obstructing the view.

Give your real age and body height and weight because the truth will surface on the first date and cause great disappointment and disillusionment and no follow up dating will exist and you both will have wasted your time and effort and money.

Before an actual first date find out as much relevant information as possible over the internet or even ask for a phone number so you can ask follow up questions, especially if both of you have revealed that you have a job which is believable and are not just humans looking for a good time at minimum expense and nothing more.

Some important questions to ask before a first date:

Are you currently employed?

What are your favorite relatives and what do they do?

Do you have any best friends and what do they do?

What do you see yourself doing five or ten years from now?

What do you love to do and what do you hate to do?

What do you do in your spare time?

Is there anything in the past which you will definitely not do in the future?

In a description of who you are also be truthful and reveal that you are not currently employed if that is the case because the biggest turnoff is dating someone who is only looking for a good time and not enough funds to finance the good time. Money is one of the most important things in a relationship and if you aren’t making any the actual date will almost never be successful.

Prior to the actual date make sure that you try to find out as much as possible about the person’s loves and hates by asking questions because what he or she intensely cares about is probably something which is a dominant theme in their lives and you will have to live with it if the date goes past the first introduction.

If you are not asked questions in return this is probably a sign that a potential date is not that interested in you in the first place. If they are reluctant to answer your questions they are probably a secretive personality and have something unpleasant to hide.

Don’t be afraid to ask if your date has any future plans or whether there is something they would like to achieve before they die because this will give you an indication of whether your potential date is stagnating and maybe even depressed with life or whether they are one who hopes to move on in life towards a better future.

During the actual first date ask many follow up questions about job and family relatives and what jobs the relatives have in real life and who their best friends are because you will get a better idea of what environment your date is coming from and with what kind of role models he or she has been exposed to.

Don’t just talk about yourself and turn the date into a monologue and don’t just talk about many untrue things that you are doing in your life.

Reveal some unimportant vulnerability which you may both share in common since it will help your date to empathize with you and realize that no one is perfect. If you have had some failed relationships in the past mention them briefly and show that you have moved on past those failures and are not living in the disappointing past.

If you are addicted to something or in therapy or with poor health you probably should not be dating and it is obviously something which you will have to try and hide.

Revealing briefly what problems you have had in the past and how you solved them or got over them will create the impression that despite life’s drawbacks you can solve them and move on and are ready for a new relationship.

Conclusion: Be truthful and don’t be afraid to ask questions about your date before the first actual date. It will save you much time and effort and money and avoid one disappointing date after another.

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HOW TO MINIMIZE STRESS

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In one sentence here is how to reduce stress:

TAKE SOME TIME OUT TO DO SOMETHING COMPLETELY DIFFERENT  or  STOP YOUR WORK FOR DURATION AND DO A DIFFERENT SUBSET(S)!!!!!!

Not all jobs permit you to take about 5 minute breaks every hour from the stressful activity which you are doing but taking breaks is how you can refresh your mind and then successfully continue on with the stressful activity.

During a strenuous exercise routine, resting or taking a break to recharge your body’s energy supply is the smart thing to do.

During strenuous or stressful mental exercise, taking a break to get the mind out of it’s over excited state is the smart thing to do.

In an office setting where you are sedentary most of the time take a break and

walk around,

do in place exercises suchas deep knee bends, jumping jacks, running in place, pushups, and stretching,

meditate,

daydream,

call home and chat briefly,

sip on a unsweet beverage,

eat an unsweet snack of fruits and nuts,

puff on a cigarette but don’t inhale,

talk to a coworker who isn’t busy doing something important,

or do more than one of the above suggested activities.

In some jobs it may be possible to take a break every two or three or four hours for more than 5 minutes so do it whenever possible and do one or more of the above suggested activities.

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10 REASONS WHY MEN BECOME ADULTEROUS

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They have not been indoctrinated or taught by society into believing that adultery is an immoral action!!!!!!

They don’t get enough sex at home from their wives especially if the excuses are a headache or feeling tired frequently. Some women try to wrongly use no sex as a weapon to get what they want in a marriage which leads to male sexual frustration and sometimes adultery.

They are bored with sex with the wife and look for sexual thrills and excitement elsewhere.

Pornography creates unrealistic sexual deviancy desires in males which they try to fulfill at some point in their lives even when married.

They are afraid to share their intimate desires and fantasies with their wife which they try to secretly fulfill outside of marriage.

They miss their bachelor days especially if they had sex with many women before marriage.

Their monogamous marital beliefs are being constantly challenged by a promiscuous society.

They have become financially successful and very attractive women who never wanted them are now showing a desire to be with them and causing much temptation.

They realize that man is naturally polygamous and not monogamous, especially if they are financially very successful and powerful.

They are emotionally trapped into feeling that sexual prowess with many women is a mark of male power and importance.

Conclusion: Just like in the natural society of lions or rule by the pride, in a just society financially successful powerful males should be rewarded with great reproductive success and that should mean polygamy for the billionaires and multimillionaires in society.

Monogamy is still the best form of relationship for the average financially limited man and woman because divorce can cause great financial hardship on society if polygamy is permitted for the average man and women and ends in divorce which is greatly probable because of financial insecurity or hardship.

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11 HINTS YOU ARE PROBABLY NOT READY FOR A SERIOUS DATING RELATIONSHIP

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You flirt with everything that breathes is a sure indication that you are not ready for a faithful and exclusive relationship with the opposite sex.

You treat your dates like they are a second option in your life and not a first priority thus making your date feel like a second fiddle.

You can’t keep a conversation going but stop speaking with nothing to say for long periods of time. This will create the impression that you are not skilled in human relationships.

You don’t keep your attention on your date but check emails and text and let your attention wander in other ways without focusing on your date as priority number one.

You constantly bring up your ex girlfriend or ex boyfriend or ex spouse in the conversation with your date. This means you are stuck in the past relationship wise and no serious date wants to share your past relationship failures.

You are a male and reveal that you are not interested in a long duration relationship so your date will be repulsed.

You don’t spend enough time with your date but only date once or twice a month will create the impression that you are not interested in a serious relationship.

You are stuck in the past with past memories and no future plans. This will also create the impression that you don’t know what to do with your future and no one will want to join your life which is stagnating.

You are depressed and only talk about bad things in your life and have a pessimistic view of the world. No one will want to share your gloomy life.

You are unemployed and treat life as a joke with no household skills like cooking or cleaning. This will create the impression that you have a mooching personality which no one wants.

You have a history of cheating on dates so no date will trust you and without trust a serious relationship is not possible in the real world.

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IT IS TIME FOR OPEN SOURCE CLINICAL TRIALS RESULTS FOR DRUGS!!!!!!

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APPROXIMATELY HALF OF ALL CLINICAL TRIALS ON NEW DRUGS HAVE NOT BEEN PUBLISHED SO NEITHER DOCTORS NOR PATIENTS CAN MAKE WISE DECISIONS ABOUT WHETHER TO USE THEM OR NOT.

THE MOST SHOCKING THING ABOUT CLINICAL TRIALS IS THAT THEY DO NOT STUDY THE LONG TERM EFFECTS OF THE DRUGS BUT ONLY ARE MADE TO TEST REACTIONS FOR THE SHORT DURATION.

IN THE SHORT DURATION IT IS FREQUENTLY NOT VERY CLEAR WHETHER THE BODY HEALED ITSELF ON ITS OWN WITH OR WITHOUT THE DRUG USE AND THE STATISTICAL DIFFERENCES ARE FREQUENTLY NOT VERY SIGNIFICANTLY DIFFERENT IN THE FIRST PLACE TO FURTHER JUSTIFY DRUG USE IN THE REAL WORLD WITH A MUCH BROADER POPULATION SAMPLE.

NEGATIVE RESULTS FOR CLINICAL TRIALS ARE TWICE AS LIKELY NOT TO BE PUBLISHED AND THE FACT IS THAT MOST DRUGS DO NOT CURE THE ILLNESS BUT ONLY MASK THE SYMPTOMS AND CAUSE MANY UNDESIRABLE SIDE EFFECTS WHICH ARE THEN TREATED WITH MORE PRESCRIBED PILLS.

PARTICULARLY SHOCKING IS THE USE OF DRUGS TO TREAT VERY BIASED PSYCHIATRIC DIAGNOSES OF PSEUDO ILLNESSES SUCH AS ADJUSTMENT DISORDER AND ANXIETY DISORDER AND ATTENTION DEFICIT DISORDER AND BIPOLAR DISORDER AND DEPRESSIVE DISORDER AND INSOMNIA AND OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE PERSONALITY DISORDER AND SCHZOPHRENIA.

NOWHERE DO YOU FIND THE WORDS ACUTE AND CHRONIC ANXIETY OR DEPRESSION OR INSOMNIA AND IT IS FREQUENTLY ONLY AFTER THE USE OF THE DRUGS THAT THE PROBLEM ACUTUALLY BECOMES ACUTE AND CHRONIC BECAUSE OF THE TERRIBLE SIDE EFFECTS OF THE DRUGS WHICH CAUSE ACUTE AND CHRONIC CASES WHERE THERE WERE NO EXTREME CASES TO BEGIN WITH!!!!!!

PSYCHITRIC DRUGS CAUSE ACUTE AND CRONIC CHEMICAL IMBALANCES IN THE BRAIN WHERE THERE WERE NONE TO BEGIN WITH!!!

ALL OF THE ABOVE ILLNESSES ARE MOSTLY DEVIANT UNUSUAL BEHAVIORS BROUGHT ON BY INADEQUATE DIET AND A DYSFUNCTIONAL LIFESTYLE AND THERE ARE RARE CASES WHICH ACTUALLY QUALIFY AS TRUE MENTAL CHEMICAL IMBALANCES.

MOST PSYCHIATRIC ASSUMED ILLNESSES ARE IMBALANCES IN LIFESTYLE AND NOT IMBALANCES OF CHEMICALS IN THE BRAIN.

INCREASINGLY IT IS BEING SHOWN THAT ALMOST ALL PSYCHIATRIC DRUGS MAKE THE PATIENTS WORSE OFF IN THE LONG DURATION WITH ADDITIONAL SIDE EFFECTS WHICH MAKE THE ORIGINAL SYMPTOMS WORSE IN THE LONG DURATION AND CREATE MORE PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS FOR THE PATIENT AND DON’T CURE ANYTHING.

WHAT THE PATIENT REALLY NEEDS IS A RADICAL CHANGE TO A HEALTHY DIET AND HEALTHY LIFESTYLE WHICH ONLY BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION CAN ACHIEVE AND REALISTICALLY ACTUALLY CURE THE SOURCE OF THE PROBLEM WHICH PSYCHIATRIC DRUGS DON’T CURE.

DRUGS DO NOT CHANGE BAD LIVING HABITS WHICH ARE THE CAUSE OF OVER 90% OF ALL PSYCHOLOGICAL PROBLEMS WHICH PSYCHIATRY TRIES TO TREAT WITH DRUGS ONLY.

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DIAGNOSES BY DOCTORS IN MANY MEDICAL FIELDS ARE SEVERELY BIASED AND THERE IS AN EXPERIMENTAL APPROACH TO CURING ILLNESS. LET’S TRY THIS DRUG FIRST AND IF IT DOESN’T WORK THEN WE WILL TRY THE NEXT AND NEXT DRUG TREATMENT OPTION UNTIL WE HIT ON THE RIGHT ONE IF THERE EVEN IS A RIGHT ONE TO BEGIN WITH!!!!!!

IT IS TIME FOR OPEN SOURCE CLINICAL TRIAL PUBLISHING ON THE INTERNET SO THAT DRUG FRAUD CAN BE COMBATED WITH OBJECTIVE REVIEWS BY ALL DOCTORS AND PATIENTS WITH AN INTIMATE KNOWLEDGE OF THEIR CONDITIONS.

I HAVE INCLUDED AN ARTICLE BY BEN GOLDACRE TO START YOU ON THE PATH TO TRUE KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THE DRUG PUSHING MEDICAL AND PHARMACEUDICAL PROFESSIONS.

ENJOY!!!!!!

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