IS HE RESPONSIBLE? THIS IS HOW YOU CAN KNOW!
He has a good job or is studying hard and getting educated for a good paying useful job.
He makes promises and fulfills most of them and doesn’t make untrue excuses when he doesn’t fulfill a promise.
He doesn’t lie to you or play deceptive games with you but is honest and sincere but not in a brutal, rude, or unkind way.
If there is a difference of opinion then he is ready to discuss or talk about it without angry confrontation, changing the topic, or silent withdrawal.
He doesn’t believe that luck determines your destiny in life but that personal optimistic, effort, and achievement are much more important factors in leading a successful satisfying life.
He is not afraid to talk about marital life and share his opinions on offspring rearing, especially the realistic financial responsibility which this implies.
IS HE CARING? THIS IS HOW YOU CAN KNOW!
He nurtures and protects you and himself which is what caring means.
He nurtures or supports the important things which you are doing in your life.
He praises you for the good things which you are doing and believe in and tries to protect you from the bad influences in your life.
He knows that bad humans and bad actions can become bad habits which will be very difficult to exclude from your behavior.
He cares about your personality and intelligence more than your looks and does not just say things to make you happy if they are not true.
He cares about the important goals in your life and supports them with genuine praise.
He cares about his own important goals in life and is just not obsessed with you alone.
He is observant about your emotional state and can empathize with your unhappiness and sometimes tries to make you feel better with optimistic comments.
If you are dating a responsible caring man then he is an excellent candidate for a future potential mate.
Note that not every characteristic or behavior on the list is necessary for the ideal mate for you but you should try to keep your standards as high as possible unless you have a bad personality, no income, and are not very attractive.
Having all three bad characteristics may turn you into a recluse or a desperate woman wanting to attach yourself to the first male, no matter how bad, who shows some interest in you.
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