Monthly Archives: December 2013

FEMALES!!! 3 IMPORTANT QUESTIONS WHICH NEED A YES ANSWER BEFORE MARRYING!!!

Is he or you going to be a good provider moneywise?

Will he be honest, sincere, dependable, and one who fulfills his promises?

Does he believe adultery is immoral or something definitely not to do?

If he or you are not going to be a good provider then don’t plan on having offspring and if you decide to do so anyway then at least keep your finances separate and secretly save up some money for an inevitable divorce at some point in the future.

If he lies to you during the relationship, is not dependable with his promises, and is not very punctual when he promises to be so then don’t marry under any circumstances because your marriage will be an untrustworthy emotional hell on earth.

If he has a series of failed marriages due to adultery or if he has been very promiscuous during his single years then don’t marry because bad sexual habits last a lifetime and are almost impossible to change in this hedonistic western culture.

CONCLUSION:

If you find a good provider who doesn’t lie to you, is dependable, is not the cheating kind, and is not afraid of commitment then go for it with all of your feminine charms and get married!!!!!!

These are rather high standards for marriage material and few modern males these days will qualify. Remember, it is BEST TO REMAIN SINGLE then to marry in haste or marry a financially poor, unreliable, untrustworthy mate. Marry a scum bag and you will regret it the rest of your life and so will your offspring if you make the mistake of having any by him!!!

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WHAT DO YOU DO IF YOU HAVE NO PURPOSE IN LIFE AT 20, 40, AND 70 YEARS?

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If you have no purpose in your life at 20 with no desire to get a job, no wealth, bad education, no family, a less than attractive physical appearance, no social status, limited abilities, and too many dysfunctional personality traits, what do you do?

Try to get on welfare, become a begging bum, join a cult or connect with a religious organization which will help you to get food on the table and some basic necessities, or commit a crime and get free room and board in jail. Live a marginal existence and be happy that you are alive with a full stomach and use alcohol and drugs when you want to escape your boring world.

Usually at 20 you have your whole life ahead of you and you will find some small and/or big goals to pursue which will give you purpose in life if you don’t give up and haven’t become a vegetable or burnout on drugs.

If you are 20 and feel stuck in a shitty job with no future read my evergreen truth blogs for free or shell out $3 and buy my evergreen truth books HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE: HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT; HOW TO SAVE TIME & MONEY, HOW TO SAVE MONEY, LOVEALL, and MODERN HUMAN BEHAVIORS. I promise that you will find purpose in your life and if you still don’t want to change for the better then at least you will be much smarter than the average human working at minimum wage and be able to give them good advice.

If you have no purpose in your life at 40, are single, have no offspring, have no family, have no friends, have no job, no money, have had many disasters and disappointments in life and want to give up on life then try to get on welfare disability with symptoms of acute depression which you may have to fake.

If you have held down a job in your past then try to get one at lower pay and you will be able to afford basic food, shared shelter, and scooter transportation and live a rather simple and reclusive life with the internet as your major source of entertainment. You can get new knowledge on the internet if you chose to pursue it and maybe discover some new small and/or big goals which you would like to pursue to give your life some or more purpose.

If you have no purpose in your life at 70, feel abandoned by your offspring and friends, and are in bad health then you will probably wind up in a senior care facility at government expense and you will be wishing that your life could end if you don’t develop friendships with fellow retires. If you don’t have access to the internet for entertainment and knowledge then your old age predicament will be even worse.

If your health is rather good then try to eat healthy certified organic food, share shelter with one or more humans, drive around in a scooter if you can’t afford a car and get on the internet to travel the world and gain new knowledge about anything which may pop into your mind at any point in time. Remember, even if you can’t move around much you can still develop or maintain a healthy mind using the internet and remain young at heart or more accurately young in the brain until you can no longer see or hear or until you die.

Finally, remember that whether you are 20, 40, or 70 you can find satisfaction and purpose in your life by knowing that you are trying to lead a good moral life. If you don’t have a religious moral belief then try to adopt and live by this very practical secular moral code. Except in emergency situations- don’t destroy biodiversity, don’t lie, don’t be inefficient, don’t steal, don’t commit adultery if married, and don’t murder. If you follow this moral code you will be respected and admired by almost everyone that you meet in your remaining years on the face of this precious planet. Be moral and prosper!!!!!!

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THE FRAUDULENT STUPIDITY OF PSYCHIATRIC BIPOLAR QUESTIONNAIRES CAUSING BIASED MISDIAGNOSING!!!

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Read this questionnaire and then find out why most psychiatrists are non-scientific quacks who don’t know what they are talking about and should be shut down as a valid profession in society except in the drug treatment of violent offenders in jail.

Not only is the included 12 question questionnaire unscientific because it doesn’t accurately determine the frequency of the behaviors mentioned or how many times a day, week, or month the behavior exists but it is subject to extreme bias if the answerer lies and answers “very much” on all the 12 questions.

This questionnaire is definitely not proof that someone has a bipolar personality disorder and is the reason why so many relatively normal humans are misdiagnosed as needing drug treatment for mere social deviance from normative behavior.

It is obvious that there is an emotional problem if you intensely cry and laugh five to ten times a day, or if you can’t concentrate on your work because of intense emotional feelings existing five to ten times a day which pop into your head spontaneously and then just as quickly subsides and this goes on for weeks at a time. The questionnaire does not determine if this is the case.

If your very intense emotions are interfering with the quality and quantity of your work and you are on the verge of being fired then you may not need a sedative drug but a new line of work instead. The questionnaire does not determine if this is the case.

Bipolar Screening Quiz

By Ivan Goldberg, M.D.

Use this brief, time-saving questionnaire to help you determine
if you may need to see a mental health professional for diagnosis
and treatment of bipolar disorder.

Instructions: The items below refer to how you have felt and behaved over much of your life. If you have usually been one way, and have recently changed, your responses should reflect how you have usually been. In order for the results of this quiz to be most accurate, you should be 18 or older and have had at least one episode of depression.

(What in the world does ONE episode of depression mean? That you had a very bad day on the job and got nothing done so you felt depressed!)

Top of Form

I am a year old Female / Male

1. At times I am much more talkative or speak much faster than usual.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

How frequently does this happen? Once a day, week, or month because we are all more talkative depending on the circumstances. What in the world does “at times” mean? At times I am very much talkative. Aren’t we all at times very much talkative?

2. There have been times when I was much more active or did many more things than usual.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

How many times have you done more things than usual? Once a day, week, or month because we all are more active some days than others. There “have been times” when I have been “very much” more active. Haven’t we all!

3. I get into moods where I feel very ‘speeded-up’ or irritable.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

How many times have you felt more irritable? Once a day, week, or month because we all have more irritable times some days than others. I get into moods when I am very much irritable when I am trying to do something important and someone is constantly interfering.

4. There have been times when I have felt both high (elated) and low (depressed) at the same time.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

This is impossible biologically to have two moods at the same time so this question should be totally eliminated from the questionnaire!

5. I have been much more interested in sex than usual.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

When we get hot over the opposite sex we are very much more interested in sex and it is a symptom of normal people not illness. This question is irrelevant!

6. My self-confidence ranges from great self-doubt to equally great overconfidence.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

How many times have we been more confident than at other times when we feel no doubt? We all frequently experience great self-doubt when we don’t know what to do and have great doubt about the outcome.

It depends on the circumstances and is not a symptom of illness. Once again, do you feel that way once a day, week, or month?

Bipolar Screening Test
Part 2

Instructions: Continue to answer the questions below describing how you have felt and behaved over much of your life. If you have usually been one way, and have recently changed, your responses should reflect how you have usually been.

Top of Form

7. There have been GREAT variations in the quantity or quality of my work.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

How many times has the quality or quantity of your work changed? Once a day, week, or month because we all have experienced bad work days and good ones the next. If you do have erratic work habits then it is a result of an inability to concentrate and the question should be asked about ability to concentrate on the work and not the indirect question which this is.

8. For no apparent reason I sometimes have been VERY angry or hostile.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

We all feel very angry or hostile “sometimes” when confronted with rude or bad people in our lives so this is definitely not a sign of illness.

9. I have periods of mental dullness and other periods of very creative thinking.

Not at all
Just a little
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Moderately
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Very much

Creative thinking is rare in people so being mentally dull is the fate of most people. Once again, how frequently does this swing from mental dullness occur? Once a day, week, or month?

10. At times I am greatly interested in being with people and at other times I just want to be left alone with my thoughts.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

We all are interested in being with people sometimes when we feel lonely and at other times we just want to be left alone. It is not a sign of mental illness.

11. I have had periods of great optimism and other periods of equally great pessimism.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

When confronted with hope of success we are all optimistic and greatly pessimistic when the odds seem to be against us. Once again does this happen once a day, week, or month? It is definitely not a sign of mental illness!!! And most people don’t swing from intense optimism to intense pessimism in one day because we usually don’t do enough things to feel optimistic or pessimistic about on a daily basis.

12. I have had periods of tearfulness and crying and other times when I laugh and joke excessively.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

We all are tearful when confronted with emotional disaster in our lives and laugh and joke excessively when we are happy and having a good time. How often do we vary from unhappiness to happiness all depends on what we are doing. Does it happen once a day, week, or year? Or does it happen 20 times a day?

Psychiatry is not a science and it shows its stupidity in the way that it analyzes non-violent mental illness and then pumps you full of drugs with terrible side effects and withdrawal symptoms. If you are non-violent and diagnosed with mental illness don’t take any drugs and ask for therapy instead or you will be hooked or addicted to terrible drugs for the rest of your life.

HISTORICALLY THE MYTHICAL PSYCHIATRIC PROFESSION WAS DESIGNED TO TAKE OUT DEVIANT BEHAVIOR FROM SOCIETY AND INCARCERATE NON VIOLENT SOCIAL DEVIANTS!!!

I have no respect and not the slightest admiration for the fraudulent drug pushing psychiatric “profession” which is screwing around with human lives and making them worse not better in most cases.

Patients should be undergoing radical behavior modification which teaches them to eat healthy, get moderate exercise, acquire new useful skills, and how to interact healthily with other humans. Most need radical reeducation and have to start doing things in life which don’t make them “crazy” or “mentally ill”. Mood altering drugs with devastating side effects are not the answer in about 95% of all cases!!!!!!

If you are an alcoholic or drug abuser who can’t find purpose in life then you will not find it in a shrink but need to connect with purpose driven moral individuals. Where do you find such humans? They are rare in this relativistic immoral society so you are probably out of luck unless you read more of my blogs, some of which have the answers to your problems.

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WILL STATUS SYMBOLS MAKE YOU HAPPY?

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Many want to be respected and admired and think that the way to do it is to get the right status symbols in society. There are three basic categories of status symbols and they are social, body, and material status symbols.

Socially having or controlling much wealth is the biggest status symbol and you can inherit wealth or get it with enough effort and ability by getting a good education and entering a prestigious profession and rising to the top of the professional ladder.

Inheriting great wealth without the right education and not having good human skills frequently means that you don’t know how hard it is to earn that much wealth and you may end up spending it all on material possessions and a hedonistic lifestyle of shallow relationships frequently peppered with a liberal use of alcohol and drugs. You will eventually deplete your wealth with profligate spending and wind up poor and very unhappy because you never learned how to make much money on your own.

Making much money with a prestigious profession probably means that you have much responsibility and will be working very hard and may not be wise enough to devote some of your valuable time on family and close friends. The result may be that you are professionally successful but have a failed marriage or worse yet some poorly educated and socially inept offspring who can’t make it on their own in life. One or more failed marriages and delinquent offspring will add much unhappiness to your life even though you have professional social status.

Especially many women feel that being as attractive as possible body wise is the key to social status and landing a good husband. Obsession with body weight, cosmetics, and fashion trying to stay as beautiful as possible fades with age and if you don’t have a career or good job to rely upon many body conscious women lead some very unhappy lives in old age when their external beauty fades. Attractive celebrities, attractive politicians, attractive sports stars, and attractive media professionals all make life very unhappy for the average citizen trying to achieve or maintain those unrealistic social standards of external beauty.

Wealthy or poor, material possessions are a status symbol in society and many mismanage their finances and go into great debt trying to have a big house, big car, expensive clothes, and the latest gadgets all on a shoestring budget. Impulsive shopping by both men and women is the cause of much unhappiness in humans reaching out for those material status symbols.

Finally, whether rich or poor the key to being truly admired and respected or having a good status in society is being honest, sincere, and reliable in your human interactions with family, close friends, and coworkers. Reliable means that you fulfill most of your promises and show up on time when you promise to do so. In other words you can be trusted with your promises. Trust and reliability is the bond which makes intimate successful human interactions possible and if you are the lying or deceptive kind then you will never be admired and respected by other humans, especially if you are in a leadership position and want to remain there.

Be a trustworthy and reliable human and you will have good status with others whether you are rich or poor and you probably also will have optimized your happiness!!!!!!

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WHAT TO TRY TO BE AND NOT TRY TO BE!!!

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“There is an incomplete philosophical struggle and it is between two rather distinct extreme mindsets. One is frequently but not always bad – it is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, lust, resentment, inferiority, foundationless pride, superiority, and inflated ego or extreme selfishness. “The other is frequently but not always good – it is faithfulness, joy, peace, caring, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, controlled generosity, compromise, and compassion. The same struggle is sometimes going on inside you – and inside every other caring human, too.”

Try not to be envious, resentful, or jealous but try to be empathetic and benevolent instead

Instead of being unhappy and resentful of another’s possessions and characteristics and luck and circumstances, try to share in the feeling of accomplishment which another human is experiencing and feel that their good achievements, abilities, and circumstances are to be praised and not put down or criticized.

Try not to be cruel and mean but try to be kind or caring and sympathetic instead

Instead of willfully causing suffering and mental displeasure in a human and getting pleasure doing so try to be caring and sympathetic and share in the bad feelings and emotions caused by mistakes or bad circumstances which exist in a human’s life. You can be a strict and demanding disciplinarian or boss but try not to do it in a cruel and mean way.

Try not to be too greedy, selfish, with unfounded pride and too much superiority and arrogance but try to be with some generosity, caring behavior, and an adequate humility.

Try not to wallow in regret, pessimism, self-pity, sorrow, depression, hopelessness, guilt, and inferiority but try to be optimistically hopeful, happy, and develop as much selfconfidence and selfmotivation as possible by gradually changing more and more of your bad habits into good ones.

Above all try to be honest, sincere, truthful, and reliable and the bonds of your relationships with others will grow stronger and not weaker and you will be admired and respected by most close humans in your life.

Finally teach your offspring if you decide to have any this moral code- except in emergency situations-don’t destroy biodiversity, don’t lie, don’t be inefficient, don’t steal, don’t commit adultery if married, and don’t murder!!!!!!

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HUMANITY IS DESTROYING ITSELF BECAUSE OF GREAT INEFFICIENCY!!!

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Nature is just and punishes the inefficient with starvation or death and efficiently distributes natural resources to the deserving healthy species justly and permits the healthiest and smartest members to reproduce in greater numbers for the benefit of future generations.

Humanity is not just and doesn’t punish the inefficient with poverty, inefficiently distributes natural resources to its members, and the healthiest, smartest, and those with the best memories do not reproduce in greater numbers for the benefit of future generations. The major reason for this is that humanity uses a highly inefficient language for communications which is emotionally biased, has words with inaccurate illogical definitions, uses too many words with the same meanings, and uses a highly complex grammatical structure which takes too many years to learn. This delays adulthood to the age of 18 instead of permitting precocious 13 year olds, who get a job which can financially support a family, from becoming adults. Almost everyone should be fluent in language usage by the age of 13 and this is possible with an efficient, logical language of about 6000 words which does not include the words for everyday objects and scientific facts.

Humanity not only communicates inefficiently but has inefficient shelter, commercial buildings, cars, motorcycles, clothes, and entertainment which uses too much time, energy, money, and natural resources and dangerously pollutes the environment. The political system unjustly distributes the resources and permits the production and consumption of unhealthy food for the majority of the population.

Humanity is also inefficient because it has an inefficient religious moral code and no efficient secular moral code which should be taught young impressionable minds so that peaceful voluntary interaction among its citizens is possible and optimized and there is a sense of trust between leaders and citizens and family members in society.

The educational system is very inefficient. It mixes up the slow, medium, and fast learners beyond the elementary level and punishes the slow and fast learners trying to teach the average student. Elementary school is the only place where slow, medium, and fast learners should be mixed so that they learn appropriate social morality and etiquette which applies to all offspring.

Beyond elementary school students should be primarily taught with individualized interactive computer education where you proceed at your own pace of learning.

Liberal arts should be taught in private institutions of learning only and financed by local taxpayers who wish to have their offspring learn liberal arts. Science and technology should be taught in federally financed local public schools for those with very good memories. This way even those in poor neighborhoods with very good memories will be able to learn science and technology subjects and eventually escape the poverty trap. Yes, federal local public schools will be fewer and farther apart and will require more expensive transportation to get there but the world resource of very good memories is worth the added expense for the benefit of all.

IQ is a measure of how good your memory is and not how smart you are. There are too many humans with large IQ’s who are not very smart and are doing some disasterously stupid things to this world. To be smart you need to use a smart language like SCIENTIFIC THESAURUS and all those with large IQ’s or very good memories should be using it in the near future.

Even the poor will be smart because they will be using a smart language learned in elementary school. Yes, in life the poor will still do stupid things but they will not be called stupid because they will be using a smart language. The rich will also do stupid things in life but they will be doing much less with a smart language.

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BE ANGRY OR BE MENTALLY CONTROLLED AND PEACEFUL

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You can be angry at yourself, angry at mistakes, angry at another human or humans, angry at the injustice of institutions in this world, and angry at bad events.

We get angry because someone criticizes us or blames us for something which we may or may not have done. Recognize that no one is perfect, including yourself, and that if you get criticized or blamed then you may be totally or partially responsible for the bad situation.

Accept the fact that you may have to be angry at yourself and not others for something bad happening. Our overinflated ego can easily be hurt and anger is frequently the first way that we try and deal with the hurt and frequently unsuccessfully with dead end results and much unnecessary emotional turmoil.

We also get angry if someone does not listen to us or obey us when we think it is important to do so. Our spouse and offspring will frequently not listen to us and not obey us when we make demands and it is ok to get angry at young offspring who don’t know better or can’t reason well or at all.

Trying to be a dictator or tyrant or boss all the time will not work in a family setting and you should try to learn more democratic discussion and consensus building skills to be a successful leader in the family.

We also get angry if someone disagrees with an opinion which we might have on politics, sports, economics, etc. If an opposing opinion will not significantly affect work or family life then it is frequently not worth getting angry over. Live and let live in a sea of different opinions on subjects which you have little or no power over or can’t change in any significant way.

You have little or no control over politics, religion, sports, society, and economics so don’t get into heated arguments about what is not possible for one relatively powerless person to change for the better.

We also get angry if we think the world is conspiring against us and we are being victimized by it. The world has never been fair or just and will not be fair or just into the foreseeable future so stop blaming the system and try to find ways of working around it to get to your desired goals in life.

Finally we get angry at mistakes which we make which may or may not be our fault. Almost everyone makes a thousand and one mistakes in their lives and instead of getting angry one should try to learn from the mistakes and make sure that they don’t happen again or don’t happen as frequently in the future by making necessary changes in your life or changing your approach to things.

Fundamentally we get angry because our ego has been hurt or because our attempt at reaching a goal(s) has been stopped or hindered permanently or temporarily.

Getting angry is easy but suppressing the emotion and debating or discussing the situation calmly takes skill and selfcontrol which is not easy to obtain overnight.

Accepting the fact that no one is perfect including ourselves and accepting the fact that two or more humans will frequently disagree or have different opinions on a topic is vital to keep angry emotional outbursts to a minimum.

Here are 3 ways to reduce angry reactions which should work for anyone interested in managing their tendency to respond with anger first and not last:

Take a timeout:

Count to 10 before you respond is good advice because in the heat of the moment an angry remark is something which may hurt you permanently and it is not something which you can change once you have said it. Not responding for ten seconds or longer will frequently give us time to control our angry impulses and find a better answer or solution to the problem at hand.

Express your feelings and opinions in a noncombative way:

Once you have calmed down a bit don’t be confrontational or in attack mode but try to discuss the topic which made you angry in a calm collected way. Communicate the situation which caused the anger without immediately trying to control or hurt others with nasty comments and orders. Try to mutually come to an agreement on what should be done to diffuse the highly emotional situation. Let’s try to work this out in a mutually beneficial way if possible.

Instead of being combative and saying “You make me angry” say “I feel angry” and instead of “I disagree with your opinion” say “I think that my opinion has validity because-“

Learn new communication skills:

Most humans get angry and lose control of their emotions because they frequently feel helpless in a bad situation. “What do I do next?” is frequently a question which goes unanswered and an angry response is the fast easy wrong response. Learning to ask the right questions and getting answers to them are the communication skills which are necessary to navigate past a dysfunctional angry response.

Ask yourself and others who, what, where, when, why, how, and how much about angry situations. You will find out in a controlled way who or what caused the anger, where, when, and why the anger started, and how the anger can be eliminated in the future.

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HOW TO HANDLE FEELINGS AND EMOTIONS

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Challenge a firmly held opinion or belief or aggressively criticize another human and angry emotions will almost always appear. Trying to convince one that you are right and that they are wrong takes much skillful conversation when it is only a mistake and it is mission impossible if it is a strong belief.

Probe gently for someone’s mindset before you arrogantly proceed to voice your strong opinion or belief. Some subjects such as politics, religion, and sports infrequently lead to logical discussions but can quickly escalate into emotional confrontations instead. Avoid sensitive subjects unless they become serious important problems in your life.

If you are not sure about how a human feels about a sensitive subject but want to know then gently ask “How do you feel about ______? If you greatly disagree with the feeling then just say OK and don’t pursue the subject any further.

No matter how cool we try to be we can get upset sometimes. Yelling, ranting, and throwing a tantrum will just cause bad emotions in other humans and won’t make you feel any better after showing your emotions. The best action is to slow down and breathe deeply and try to do more thinking when you feel that you have emotionally upset someone. Remember no one is stress free and everybody has to deal with their own stress as effectively as possible. Try to be the calmer one in any emotional flareup and your words will usually be more respected and not as offensive.

There are many ways to make someone feel uncomfortable and this is frequently done in emotionally misleading and accidental behaviors. One can cause discomfort by asking one to do something that they don’t want to do. Discomfort is also caused by doing something which one finds upsetting. If you insist on discussing a topic that humans don’t want to discuss this effectively makes someone very uncomfortable.

It is almost impossible to decrease irrational anger. When humans get angry for irrational reasons calmly and respectfully listen to their grievance but remember that it will not be easy because intense irrational anger will make you want to respond as angrily. Don’t try to reason with them because they are in no mood to be rational. Don’t offer an insincere apology but try to find some action of yours which made them angry in the first place which you do regret and apologize for that.

Be careful when you joke about something because even the best jokes may be taken seriously which becomes painful and awkward. If you insist on humor in your conversation then build on the joke and make it more extreme until it is obvious that you must be joking. If your attempt at humor fails then admit that you are joking before the circumstance gets worse. Many people don’t get jokes so rarely joke or better yet don’t joke if you want a conversation to proceed smoothly and logically.

Jokes frequently destroy the boundary between logic and nonsense and some push a joke too much. A courtesy laugh will only motivate the joker to push more so avoid an untrue laugh. Express confusion and communicate in your own words what the joke meant to you and that you honestly tried to understand it. They may analyze the joke and you will feel that it was somewhat funny or it may reveal how their brain works humorously. Jokes frequently make fun out of human frailty and errors so it is best to ignore a joke that you don’t understand or disagree with.

Don’t joke at the opposite sex. There are differences between men and women but making fun of one gender is a communication that somehow your gender is superior to the other gender and this is nonsense which is overly prejudicial and biased. Most women are more emotional and social and talkative and caring than most men but that should be no reason to make fun of them since nature programmed them to be different for the benefit of the offspring. It takes a good man and a good woman(s) to raise offspring in a balanced and healthy way as nature programmed.

Never hide an insult and pretend a compliment because no one likes to be deceived.

Though most of us probably feel that we are above feelings of jealousy, occasionally we may experience them. If this exists then try to convince yourself that the object of your jealousy is not as desirable as it seems. Instead focus on how lucky you are and on the things which are right with your life. Jealousy is primarily experienced by the economically poor in this society which puts so much importance on the possession of many material possessions.

Jealousy of attractive humans is rampant in a society which puts more value upon beauty than on health and smarts and is the reason why so many are obsessed irrationally with their looks.

Frequently you must reveal a personally shocking truth to someone who is not ready for the truth so their minds must be carefully prepared to hear it. Don’t hit them with the complete truth at once but try to present it in smaller and slightly less shocking chunks. Evidence in small chunks and then the complete evidence will make a mind naturally rebel from that much truth but it is necessary that you maintain your honest reputation despite shock to the listener. A person will reflect upon the confrontation later and continue to respect you for being honest and your good reputation in their subjective biased minds will be maintained.

Being honest, sincere, and reliable will ensure that a strong bond continues in a relationship even after many arguments which should decrease in quantity as time passes if you continue to maintain a trustworthy relationship despite the arguments.

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4 MAJOR REASONS YOU ARE PROBABLY STILL SINGLE!!!!

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1. You don’t make enough money or have no job, 2. you are too devoted to your career and single lifestyle, 3. you lie and cheat, or 4. you are to blame because you have a severe personality flaw(s), are ugly, or very unhealthy.

Plastic surgery is an option if you are ugly. If eating certified organic food does not improve your health then you will have to find someone who takes pity on you and thinks that your other good assets are enough to continue a serious relationship.

If you have a severe personality flaw(s) then it will be very hard to change it but being aware that you have one or two bad personality flaws may eventually cause you to try and change the situation if it is interfering seriously with good relationships with a significant other.

In a nutshell you are probably single because you have severe personality flaws which you are not aware of OR you are aware of your severe flaws and are trying to hide them OR you don’t have the courage and don’t make the effort to correct your flaws.

Here are 7 possible reasons why you still may be single and with considerable effort you can maybe change for the better.

You have been hurt badly in previous relationships and are gun shy or very defensive

Having relatively emotionless and negligent parents or caretakers may leave you not knowing how to deal with affectionate humans and may severely handicap your ability to successfully reciprocate loving and affectionate gestures.

You may also have been involved in a seemingly close relationship only to discover that you were suddenly abandoned for someone else who was more appealing thus hurting your sense of selfworth and willingness to trust your next potential good relationship.

Maybe you have a series of failed relationships and you are becoming frustrated at the prospect of another failure so you choose not to pursue as many new ones as you should.

If you have not analyzed why your relationships fail and attempt to correct those mistakes or flaws then your string of failures will just continue.

If you have a good job and are not fanatically devoted to it, are not ugly or ill, are a moral human who doesn’t lie or cheat, do not have serious personality flaws, and can communicate effectively in an honest, sincere, and reliable way then you should have no reason to be defensive about your relationships.

Dysfunctional attractions

Some of us may come from dysfunctional families with abusive and alcoholic parents and we may seek relationships with similar abusive and alcoholic individuals which instantly cause relationship problems. Dysfunctional upbringing may also mean that you unconsciously enter into relationships with humans that have parental flaws and are less than ideal examples of what a future mate should be for you.

Not realizing that you should want and look for a mate better than one you easily enter into a relationship with is a selffulfilling prophesy of failure. You may be addicted to relationships with dysfunctional personality types and not realize that that is the primary reason for your failed relationships.

Fear of intimacy or not knowing what intimacy is and how it works

Intimacy means revealing your inner true feelings and thoughts or being honest about what you think and feel. Many are terrified that if they are too intimate they will be vulnerable to manipulation and possible rejection so they remain rather aloof and distant.

Others have never learned to be intimate or truthful with their feelings and true thoughts with anyone and may have never learned the advantages of intimate behavior which has the potential to create a trustworthy intensely bonding relationship with a significant other.

Being too picky or an inability to fully trust another

Many start out relationships by stereotyping the behavior and personalities of others and if we find a major flaw which we don’t like then we may shy away from letting the relationship develop further with potential good results despite the obvious behavior flaw or flaws which we see in another human. As long as the flaw is not immoral such as lying or cheating then we should give the human a chance to reveal his or her full personality before we pass judgment on them.

Not being able to reciprocate an honest, sincere, reliable human with similar honesty, sincerity, and reliability because we are afraid of being hurt is a skill that many of us may have to learn.

Low selfesteem or selfconfidence

Some may simply believe they have too many flaws to be considered attractive to the opposite sex and suffer from low selfesteem or selfconfidence. If you have a good job and are not fanatically devoted to it, are a good conversationalist and are not afraid to be honest, sincere, and reliable, and have excluded your severe flaws from your personality then you should not have a problem with low selfesteem or selfconfidence.

Trapped by the safe single routine and fearing to disrupt it with potential bad results

Some of us have simply led the single life too long and are relatively happy with it especially if we have failed one too many times in the relationship department. You may just have to accept the fact that you are getting plenty of satisfaction being single and that you don’t need to pursue any serious relationships. You can console yourself in feeling good about not contributing to the world overpopulation problem.

Making too many rules for yourself or others

Failed relationships frequently lead us into making many intuitive rules on how to behave and not behave the next time. Trying to be too intimate once and being deeply hurt may make us be less intimate the next time to avoid being deeply hurt again.

If your flaws are what turns humans off then no amount of rule changing will solve your relationship problems. Exclude as many of your flaws as you can or live with the fact that you should probably live the single life or be faced with a never ending series of failed relationships.

CONCLUSION:

IF YOU WANT TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL INTIMATE REALATIONSHIP WHICH MEANS BEING HONEST, SINCERE, AND RELIABLE THEN LEARN TO ELIMINATE AS MANY OF YOUR FLAWS AS POSSIBLE OR ACCEPT THE FACT THAT YOU ARE SO FLAWED AND COWARDLY ABOUT TRULY WANTING TO CHANGE YOURSELF FOR THE BETTER THAT THE SINGLE LIFE IS REALLY BEST FOR YOU!!!!!!

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RELIEVE STRESS OR GET YOUR DATE IN A GOOD MOOD WITH THESE POPULAR CLASSIC LOVE SONGS!!!!!!

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Tired of lousy love songs with poor lyrics and boring music then listen to these popular classical favorites which will relieve your stress or get you and your date into a romantic mood!!!!!!

311 Love Song

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=egX9ZDaIrkU

ABBA Fernando

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQsjAbZDx-4

ANDREA BOCHELLI Besame Mucho

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPRESlT4Ccg

ANDRE RIEU Bolero

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LwLABSm0yYc

ANNE MURRAY Snowbird

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pq9bHd58-LA

ALICE DJ Do You Think You’re Better Off Alone

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbjuLl50lro

BARBARA STREISAND The Way We Were

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n-KPGh3wysw

BARBARA MANDRELL If Loving You is Wrong

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iWo_UPr1BKE

BARRY MANILOW Can’t Smile Without You

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ycn4f7TQePM

BARRY WHITE Can’t Get Enough of Your Love

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x0I6mhZ5wMw

B.B. KING When Love Comes to Town

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=th1kQER770M

BEN E. KING Stand By Me

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vbg7YoXiKn0

BOBBIE GENTRY Ode to Billie Joe

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CZt5Q-u4crc

BOB DYLAN Just Like a Woman

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZBEhFhJhA2U

BONNIE RAITT Since I Fell For You

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91SJPzbU2E4

CAPTAIN & TENILLE Love Will Keep Us Together

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xjloX_EvYiI

CARPENTERS They Long to Be Close to You

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6inwzOooXRU

DEAN MARTIN Every Body Loves Somebody

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UxVdjw0Gm8I

DEBBIE REYNOLDS Tammy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ew3mtNZFrMY

DIONNE WARWICK Walk on By

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L0wCuwUneSM

DORIS DAY Secret Love

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FL87sHjXlVU

ELVIS PRESLEY Love Me Tender- Are You Lonesome Tonight -It’s Now or Never

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-Y-bd3aDMGA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_cS5aCozhcA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QkMVscR5YOo

If you liked this evergreen truth blog then read more of them and read one or more of my evergreen truth books, especially BEST OF THE BEST SONGS IN THE WORLD. There are about 1000 more super great songs to choose from!!!

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6 REMARKABLE FACTS ABOUT THE POWER OF MUSIC!!!!!!

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Music can ease the pain that you are suffering from.

Music can motivate speedier exercise and promote endurance during exercise.

Soothing music can promote better sleep without the need to resort to medication.

Music can relieve stress and anxiety, especially prior to and after surgery.

Music can induce a meditative state or change brainwave activity.

Music can elevate your mood and relieve symptoms of depression as long as it is uplifting and not heavy metal or techno.

CONCLUSION:

Music can change or modify your emotional state and speed up or slow down your brain and body activity frequently producing healthy side effects for body and brain. Dissonant or distorted rasping and hate filled music can change your mood or health in a bad way so be careful what you listen to and realize that not all music is good for your emotions or body health.

Here is a random sample of some classic forever good song music with emotional appeal.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUf4F9VXo_s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YJe5sMBpnNY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NqHf_xyw5bI

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPnciunYwHg

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=udEZ_JjNz4E

If you liked at least one or two of these great songs check out my evergreen book for about a 1000 more to choose from. Many were top popular hits and some songs even go back to the 50’s. All are my favorites and maybe some of them will also be your future favorites too!!!!!!

If you liked this evergreen truth blog then read more of them and read one or more of my evergreen truth books, especially BEST OF THE BEST SONGS IN THE WORLD.

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6 WAYS TECHNOLOGY WILL CHANGE EDUCATION!!!!!!

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Talent will be recognized early worldwide and their education will be subsidized if they can’t afford it.

Instead of proving over and over again that they have very good memories and can learn useful skills quickly, students will have the opportunity to break out of their classroom traps filled with slow learners by individualized online audio visual instruction which will permit them to progress to ever higher achievement levels and graduate much before other slow students in their age group.

It will not be uncommon for economically poor students to graduate before reaching 18 years of age and go on to university level training or education. Promotion based on achievement level and not age level will dominate the educational system of the future beyond the elementary school level.

Low cost education technology will challenge and probably greatly decrease future students in universities.

The popularity of job poor liberal arts education will decrease and be confined to private institutions of learning. The popularity of technological education will dominate for the relatively small percentage who will need a university level of achievement to progress on to a good paying job. The government will be financing less and less liberal arts education in universities since the probability of the education loan being paid back will not be cost effective in the future.

Education loans will be paid back based on future income limits.

Those students financed by the federal government in a technological or science field will only pay back the loan once they start earning a significant salary in their field. (about $50,000 a year)

Students will demand useful skills and not soft liberal arts skills which result in poor paying jobs OR no job at all.

The university will become decentralized for certain functions especially research and the rental of research labs worldwide.

The university of the future will not look like a university with hundreds of students attending one lecture and taking standardized tests based on the lecture but will be at different achievement levels and working in smaller groups where group participation is mandatory as part of a group effort towards useful realistic goals.

I add my 7^th change in education which I highly recommend takes place.

Only elementary school will be where socialization and secular moral training will exist for all students so that once they graduate they will be morally responsible students who know right from wrong and will need no further social education in a group or classroom setting.

The secular moral code is, except in emergency situations-don’t destroy biodiversity, don’t lie, don’t be inefficient, don’t steal, don’t commit adultery if married, and don’t murder.

After elementary school the educational system should focus on useful education for each student who can proceed at their own pace of learning and not be inhibited or pulled back by discipline problems, social ostracism, and learners slower than them.

It is a fact of life that robotization, standardization of parts, business monopolies, and worldwide competition means that society will be job poor in the near future and that many will be living on government welfare. Hopefully they will have the opportunity, throughout a lifetime if necessary, to reenter the job market based on personal time, effort, and ability in reeducating themselves at home, online, and free at government expense for a useful job.

Sadly many will be on welfare for an entire lifetime and not be able to function with a good paying job ever.

If you liked this evergreen truth blog then read more of them and read one or more of my evergreen truth books, especially EDUCATION REFORM.

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4 MAJOR THINGS WHICH MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP BETTER WITH 30 DETAILS!!!

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YOU KNOW MANY INTIMATE DETAILS ABOUT YOUR PARTNER

You can name one or more of your partner’s FAVORITE books, songs, childhood pets, food, TV programs, celebrities, athletes, politicians, relatives, childhood friends, etc.

You know your partner’s best friend and know the friend’s best and worst qualities or characteristics.

You know your partner’s goals and/or aspirations in life,

the most embarrassing moment in childhood,

the proudest moment in childhood and adulthood,

and the characteristics and/or personality traits gotten from parents.

If you have offspring then you know what personality traits your partner has passed on to the offspring,

you know your partner’s flaws in detail and you don’t use stereotypic descriptions.

YOU NURTURE YOUR PARTNER’S GOOD GOALS AND INTERESTS

You support your partner’s good ideas and dreams,

frequently when you disagree you acknowledge the sensible points,

you offer praise or are enthusiastic when something good happens to your partner,

you mutually remember and relive major moments of happiness such as great vacations or important happy family events,

you remember new and mutually challenging moments in life,

when you argue you care about your partner’s feelings and opinions and don’t resort to name calling and profanities.

YOU MUTUALLY CARE ABOUT ONE ANOTHER

Your partner basically cares about you or tries to nurture or support you and tries to protect you from bad influences and bad humans.

You frequently express appreciation and admiration for one another,

you feel that you are teammates working towards common goals,

you are physically affectionate with each other and especially in the morning before departing to work,

your partner reacts kindly to your traumatic or fearful moments,

you don’t refuse to talk about important topics that your partner cares about, you care about your partner’s relationships with family, friends, acquaintances, boss, coworkers and respect them,

you have mutual fun together,

you value many of your partner’s suggestions and are willing to try them out, you enjoy spending time together,

when you are stressed or upset you can go to your partner for emotional support,

you rarely condemn, show contempt, hatred, cuss, or use a stereotypic name such as crazy or stupid,

you know that if you have something important to say then your partner will listen to you attentively,

and you have your own personal love gestures, signs, or affectionate words.

YOU HAVE A TRUSTWORTHY RELATIONSHIP

You are confident that your partner won’t cheat on you or jeopardize your financial security.

Your partner is honest, sincere, and reliable.

If your partner lies then hopefully it is because there is fear that feelings will be hurt and it is mostly white lies about relatively unimportant things since your partner probably hasn’t learned to be diplomatically honest when it comes to comments about a substandard gift, new clothing, or the quality of a homemade meal.

If you liked this evergreen truth blog then read more of them and one or more of my evergreen truth books, especially COMMON SENSE.

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5 WAYS TO INCREASE THE PROBABILITY THAT YOU WILL BE HAPPIER IN THE FUTURE

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Many humans are not happy with their jobs, with relationships, with friends, with family, and many with themselves. Solution: reeducate yourself and get a better job, research relationships, friends, family, and personal development and try to apply the new knowledge to your personal life which will hopefully give you greater and more future happiness in your life. What you need is better job skills, money management skills, and social skills to be considered successful in this world.

Of course you can say, forget it, this requires too much DIFFICULT EFFORT on my part so I will continue living my life without any major changes being made since I am not interested in improving my personality or my job.

For those of you interested in change and improvement here are some tips on how to improve your health, personality, and social skills which should help in making your interactions with other humans more successful and happier.

SENSE AND EXPRESS GRATITUDE FILLED WITH OPTIMISM

Frequently remind yourself and be thankful that you are alive, that you are having happy moments in your life, and that you are able to live life another day. Try to face each day charged with an optimistic outlook. Then when you interact with humans express gratitude for the little favors and kindnesses which they offer you and a mere “Thank you” is acceptable. You can follow this up by reciprocating or helping, doing a favor, or being kind to the human who has helped you in some way.

DON’T HATE ANYONE FOR TOO LONG AND FORGIVE MOST OF THE TIME

Humans will do terrible things to you which you will hate but if they are family or close friends then learn to forgive and forget if those terrible things are rather rare. Coworkers may also do hateful things and they too can be forgiven if they do it once or twice but don’t be a sucker and let them continue their bad behavior if it threatens to destroy good working relationships with others on the job. Take action and complain to your boss if the human becomes truly intolerable and starts to threaten the quality of your work output.

SET SHORT DURATION AND LONG DURATION GOALS AND SPEND MOST DAYS TRYING TO ACHIEVE THEM

Committing yourself to goals will make it seem like you are truly making progress in your life and you can happily celebrate a little each time you reach a short or long duration goal. Achieving the goals should make you happy for a little while and you should have many more happy future moments if the goal achievement brings more happiness in your life after it has been achieved.

CARE MORE ABOUT CLOSE IMPORTANT SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS THAN WITH CASUAL ONES

Caring means nurturing or supporting and protecting a relationship with a human. It should be obvious that you should spend more time caring about your family and close friendships than caring about your casual friends and acquaintances. Don’t obsess about what casual friends and acquaintances think of you because they are not that important in your life to deserve the attention. You may sometimes get rude and nasty remarks from humans which are not close to you but you should not let this bother you unless it is a truthful remark about one of your bad characteristics or behaviors.

TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY

You need a healthy body as a prerequisite to a healthy happy mind so get some moderate exercise (a twenty minute fast walk about 3 times a week is usually enough), get enough sleep, spend some time meditating and/or thinking, and eat healthy with as much certified organic food as you can afford or make time for.

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STOP DOING THESE 30 DYSFUNCTIONAL THINGS WHICH YOU MAY BE GUILTY OF!!!

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Are you spending time with the wrong humans, are you getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons, are you blaming others for your troubles, and are you jealous of others? Stop doing these things and 26 others in Leslie Carter’s blog which may apply to your life and are things which are handicapping your lifestyle which could be much better without them.

http://bucketlistpublications.org/2013/09/03/30-things-to-stop-doing-to-yourself/

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10 EMOTIONAL SKILLS NEEDED TO HELP YOU BECOME A GOOD COMMUNICATOR!!!!!!

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Can you maintain a trusting bond after arguing and hurting feelings?

Call someone stupid, an ass hole, crazy, nuts, or a profanity such as motherf**ker or bitch. After such a careless outburst can you properly apologize and retain a trusting bond or do you get lasting resentment and wanting revenge for hurt feelings which weakens a trusting caring relationship.

Do you get violent and/or cruel during an argument and/or after it?

Abuse is frequently verbal but it can also be physical. If you plan to have offspring then it is definitely not a good idea to have a violently abusive spouse.

Are you emotionally addicted to impulsive irrational spending or shopping?

Getting emotionally high on impulsive spending is something you should definitely try to control or correct before making a marital commitment. Bad money management is the leading cause of divorce.

Do you persist beyond frustration?

There are plenty of frustrations in family life and on the job and persistence is frequently what you need to overcome the problem. Can you continue to pursue a frustrating goal despite much failure or are you one who easily gives up and accepts permanent failure rather quickly? Having no courage to overcome important frustrations is a great handicap in a relationship.

Are you willing to courageously discuss difficult problems or do you ignore or try to avoid them?

Difficult problems are very emotionally stressing and if you are the type who tries to always avoid or ignore them with silence then the relationship will not endure and the problems may even get worse with delay.

Do you have the patience to wait or delay impulsive gratification or are you one who needs to act on an impulse immediately?

Impulsively buy a cheap product now or wait until you can afford a quality product later by saving up. Impulsively eat a snack right away or wait for the main meal to eat. These are two examples which require waiting or delaying gratification which has a greater reward with patience and waiting. Excessive credit card debt is an example of not delaying gratification enough and frequently bordering on imminent bankruptcy as a bad end result.

Are you emotionally too defensive when confronted with a mistake?

Some emotional egos are so large that those humans will almost never admit to a mistake and even lie with implausible excuses to avoid blame. Being easily offended by blame leads to many undesirable arguments and bad feelings.

Can’t detect or identify low intensity emotions such as anxiety, affection, sadness, loneliness, sincerity, and liking?

Failure to note low intensity emotions means that one may fail to communicate emotional support for emotional hardship. You may not be able to verbalize empathy with minor failures or bad events which personally affect a human and need to be noticed or acknowledged frequently with emotional support. Most men are currently very bad at identifying low intensity emotions and disappoint women frequently by not picking up subtle emotional cues.

Do you give praise or emotional support for successes in someone’s life?

Financial support for worthwhile important goals is essential but you should should be able to also praise and give emotional support when one achieves those desirable important goals in life.

Do you know how to regain optimism by interacting with good friends or activities which increase your morale when needed?

Ultimately happiness is something which you are personally responsible for and if you are unhappy then you should have enough self-motivation to get yourself back into an optimistic happy mood if it has been temporarily decreased by a bad personal event or personal failure.

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20 WAYS TO MAKE A GOOD MARRIAGE BETTER

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Share chores, bond with each other’s friends and family if they are not a source of arguments, eat healthy certified organic food, and exercise moderately.

There are 15 more ways that you can improve your marriage as shown in this huffingtonpost.com blog.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/bridal-guide/20-ways-to-make-your-marr_b_3279639.html

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THE LOGICAL SINGULARITY OR FLAW IN STRING THEORY!!!!!!

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String theory attempts to explain the universe in terms of the oscillation of a wave between two points in space. The problem is the unanswered question as to what happens when the two points are shrunk to become one point. Does the wave frequency go to infinity or does it go to zero? In either case it is an unanswered singularity question with no meaningful answer.

Yes, even string theory has a singularity with no acceptable answer so string theory and the limitation of mathematics with an inability to explain a point or infinity or zero will never be able to answer the great mysteries of the universe at the subatomic or cosmic level.

Presently string theory is basically stating that the universe is just one infinitely large hologram and I just don’t believe that this is a complete explanation of the universe or ever will be!!!!!!

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THE 5 MAIN IMPORTANT REASONS WHY YOU ARE STILL SINGLE!!!!!!

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You are not FINANCIALLY ready for a serious relationship or marriage, you have severe personality flaws, you are interacting with the wrong crowd, you met mr. or ms. right but they were not interested in you, and you haven’t met mr. or ms. right.

The first reason is the most important one because most marital relationships break up because of inadequate finances or very bad financial management. The reasons why you may not be ready for a serious relationship is a poor job but second and third in line are severe personality flaws and hanging around or interacting with humans who are job poor and/or have severe personality flaws themselves.

Getting more education and learning better job skills is your responsibility and it will take time to fix. Having serious personality flaws is not so easy to fix because you have been living with the bad habit(s) for years and a quick fix is not possible. You can blame your parents, your bad friends, or poverty circumstances but ultimately it is your responsibility to recognize or be aware of your flaws and do something about the bad influences in your life so far if you are going to progress in life towards better relationships with someone.

With a good job will come confidence and an increase in self-esteem but if you are not the honest, sincere, and reliable kind looking for an honest, sincere, and reliable human partner then you will fail no matter how intense the initial chemistry between you may seem.

Being a bad conversationalist is also a very important priority and if you are the selfish kind who wants to dominate the conversation or totally passive and quiet and withdrawn then you will frequently fail in starting up a good relationship and maintaining it for mutual satisfaction, mutual problem solving, and optimistic mutual emotional support.

CONCLUSION:

If you want to optimize your chances of having a successful relationship and are not very attractive then land a good job, become honest, sincere, and trustworthy, learn to be a better communicator, and start hanging around with a better group of humans who are also honest, sincere, and reliable.

This is an ideal recipe for getting into good relationships and unfortunately most real common humans wind up settling for much less in a human partner and frequently live to regret it. The incredibly high divorce statistics and so many unwed mothers are perfect examples of failed relationships with mostly bad morals and bad financial standards.

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13 PHRASES YOU SHOULD TRY TO AVOID OR SAY DIFFERENTLY!!!

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Say “I’ll try to help if I can” instead of “that’s not my problem” and say “Let’s discuss what’s possible under the circumstances” instead of “There’s nothing I can do”.

There are 11 more phrases which should be avoided or can be said better as shown in this huffingtonpost.com article.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/19/things-you-should-never-say-at-work_n_2717990.html

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12 WAYS TO GET DISLIKED OR EVEN HATED BY YOUR COWORKERS!!!

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Being a slob with a messy desk with food, drink stains, and leftovers is a bad start. Add to this bad personal hygiene with bad body odor and breath and a disheveled appearance and you can become an office pariah.

Being condescending or talking down to fellow coworkers by feeling that only you have all the right answers, telling everyone else that their ideas will fail, and criticizing them at every opportunity. Many of your ideas may actually be good but give others a chance to work on their own ideas too or you will soon have the entire staff hating you.

Stop communicating too much personal information and especially personal problems. Excessive talk about personal health problems, marital arguments, your offspring’s latest accomplishments at preschool no one cares about, and private phone calls are all detailed information which will bore and annoy almost everyone.

Being lazy and doing the bare minimum of work and sometimes trying to get help from coworkers will generate much hatred especially if you accept credit for the work that others have mostly done.

Being a backstabber and claiming credit for another’s work may get you temporarily higher in the corporate ladder but you will be hated by most of the humans which you have backstabbed and other workers will know about this too.

You are too noisy and just plain rude, inconsiderate, and annoying if you whistle, sing, hum, chew loudly, or play your music for all to hear. You are interrupting the quiet atmosphere needed for concentrated work efforts without interference by others.

Lying to your boss can get you fired and lying to your coworkers will ruin a trustworthy relationship and any hope of being respected and admired by them.

Procrastination on a team may mean that others will have to do some of the work for you and will cause much resentment and annoyance.

Tardiness will upset your coworkers because it is a sign that you don’t value their time and is another valid reason for being fired by your boss.

Lack of manners like being rude and thoughtless and not saying “please”, “thank you”, and “I’m sorry” will make smooth communication with your coworkers impossible and they won’t enjoy talking to you.

Bad email communication by being too abrupt, rude, and adding to that long windedness will guarantee that you will have bad communications with coworkers and a bad reputation in the office.

Being a busy body will annoy many who don’t want to reveal the minutia of their personal lives.

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12 THINGS NOT TO MENTION ON A FIRST DATE IF POSSIBLE!!!!!!

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If you have no job and are not a student, have mismanaged finances, or if you don’t like sex then you probably should not be dating at all. There are 10 more things which you should try not to mention on a first date because they will probably scare away your date with a very bad first impression.

Here is a link to huffingtonpost.com which details these first date taboo subjects.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/christine-gallagher/twelve-things-to-never-me_b_3166079.html

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6 UNDERDOG CUTE ANIMALS VERSUS SCARY PREDATORS

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Here is a link to a cracked.com article which describes 6 amazing animals with remarkable skills.

http://www.cracked.com/article_19243_6-terrifying-predators-routinely-owned-by-adorable-prey.html

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THE TRUTH ABOUT PASSION

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Passion: n. mentally sensing very intensely with some difficulty maintaining control and the behaviors which exist with it

Pursue your passion is frequently the advice given to someone who wants to become successful or live a happy life. This is a rather amoral way of looking at life because what may make you passionately happy may be something which will hurt you in the long duration. Some are passionate about sex, pornography, gambling, partying, drinking alcohol, and doing drugs which all can lead to rather dysfunctional lifestyles and even death in some cases of severe drug addictions.

The first rule to follow would be to pick your passions carefully because they are frequently addictive and you don’t want to become a slave to the bad passions which you may be pursuing.

Passions have number, intensity, frequency, and duration

Not everyone puts all their eggs into one basket or one passion. It is entirely possible to be passionate about more than one thing and it is even advisable to be passionate about more than one thing so that you have a backup plan B and maybe even C if plan A does not work out or you become dissatisfied with its pursuit.

I have been a physics teacher, a computer programmer and systems analyst, a builder, a mortgage investor, a remodeler, a landlord, and am currently writing much in my retirement years mostly based on the research into truth which I have done throughout a lifetime and am still doing now. My plan A, B, C, D and E didn’t last very long and I am currently engaged in plan F and G.

Few realize that achieving the goal of some passions requires inborn talent frequently accompanied by a very good memory and if you don’t have the talent and good memory then you are dreaming the impossible dream if you want to become president, a rocket scientist, doctor, celebrity, talk show monolith, sports star, or famous writer.

How passionate you are about something is determined by how emotionally satisfying it is, how frequently you engage in your passionate pursuit, and how long you spend in hours pursuing it. If you are passionate about your job then you love it, spend every day at it except maybe weekends, and you probably put in more than just 40 hours a week.

How long you totally spend on your passion depends on how long it lasts and continues to give you satisfaction. If you lose your job then you may be able to find a similar one and continue your passion or you may have to go into an entirely different line of work if your job becomes obsolete due to technological advances.

CONCLUSION:

Select you passions carefully and be realistic in your choices since exceptional success frequently requires talent and a very good memory. Passionately working hard at it alone will not be enough to reach that unrealistic idealized goal in life. If you are the average human then you should be passionate about the common things in life such as close friends, nice family, pleasant pastimes such as healthy eating and moderate exercise, and a job with a decent wage.

You will be much happier living a normal passionate life without the unrealistic delusions of grandeur which some humans are burdened with throughout a lifetime and the tragic series of failure which they suffer which is inevitable when you don’t have the ability necessary to reach lofty goals.

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6 SALES TRICKS TO GET YOU TO BUY SOMETHING

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Free coffee, using curse words, talking fast, getting you to say yes to one thing, getting too friendly, and figuring out your type and adapting the sales pitch are all techniques of trying to convince you to buy a product which sometimes works.

This link to cracked.com gives the details.

http://www.cracked.com/article_19071_6-real-world-jedi-mind-tricks-salesmen-are-using-you.html

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15 TRUISMS ABOUT HUMANS!!!

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Wait long enough and bad humans will reveal their badness.

You may not know whether a new friend will be a good one or whether a potential spouse will be what you are looking for based on first impressions. Continue to interact and time will reveal whether they are indeed good choices without any serious drawbacks because few humans can maintain a good reputation for long without making a mistake and also revealing some of their bad characteristics.

When opportunity strikes seize the moment.

If you have prepared yourself and opportunity knocks then speedily take advantage of it.

You can’t teach someone who won’t listen and learn.

Sometimes no matter what you try to tell someone, if they don’t listen and are too narrow minded to take good advice they will never learn to be better or make the necessary changes to improve.

Very few humans stay the same for a lifetime.

Aging teaches many humans not to repeat the same old hurtful mistakes over and over again and most get a little wiser as time goes on. Most humans change with time and changing circumstances which is a law of nature.

Smile and chances are that that human will smile back at you.

Optimism is frequently contagious.

Don’t accuse someone of a character flaw if you have it also.

If you are guilty of a human imperfection then fix it before you go and start blaming another human for the same flaw. Lead by example and not just with words.

Only one selfish passion in life is overly restrictive and you won’t live a full and rewarding life without regrets.

Too narrowly focus on one passion in life and you will regret not paying enough attention to other things in life such as family and close friends and maybe even traveling to experience nature or other cultures too.

Try to be kind even under adversity because someone else may be going through something worse.

When we are under stress due to bad circumstances we may be angrier and less empathetic to others who may indeed be going through worse circumstances and may really need more optimistic emotional support than you.

Most humans are selfish.

Offspring are selfish and many of us don’t learn to channel our egomania into more mutually advantageous experiences and behaviors.

Optimistic happiness is your responsibility.

Happiness originates from within and humans can only encourage and praise you so far but when you are away from them all alone then happiness is up to you and your self-motivating optimism.

Never hire or marry out of pity.

Feel sorry for the bad circumstance and past experiences of a human and hire them or marry them and you will frequently end up just as unhappy with mutually unacceptable bad experiences.

Rushing or haste is frequently inefficient and wasteful.

Trying to do things too fast will cause you to make more mistakes than usual and you will regret the time, effort, and even money wasted.

What you do will be noticed much more than what you say.

Leading by example is much more impactful then just trying to lead by words alone.

Be honest, sincere, and reliable and you will be admired and respected by most.

If you don’t lie and are punctual and fulfill your promises then you will be admired and respected by most others.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.

If someone lies to you or deceives you and takes advantage of your money or good personality once then the chances of it happening again a second time increase because a liar lies more than once for personal gain.

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WORDS WHICH WILL DAMAGE A MARITAL RELATIONSHIP!!!

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The 3 most damaging things which you can say to your spouse are:

I hate you!

I’ve never really loved you!

I wish you would die!

There are 23 more things which will hurt your spouse’s feelings much which Ben Donley mentions in his blog.

http://bendonley.com/2013/12/02/marriage-killer-1-thou-shalt-not-say-the-following-things-to-your-spouse/

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HAVE ALL 10 PREDICAMENTS AND YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS DEFINITELY IN THE TOILET!!!!!!

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If you have most of these 10 characteristics in your relationship then it is definitely a dysfunctional one and you should consider a separation as soon as possible and no therapist will probably solve your impossible situation.

You don’t trust one another, are unreliable, and don’t fulfill any promises that you make. This situation alone is reason enough to divorce or end the relationship!!!!!!

You don’t communicate with each other anymore.

You don’t spend any time doing things together.

You argue and fight all the time.

You don’t have any sex.

You constantly have thoughts about leaving the relationship.

Neither of you is happy in the dysfunctional relationship.

You have unhappy stressed out offspring.

You are financially on the verge of bankruptcy.

Your relationship is mostly bad with little if any good.

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SOME AMAZING ANIMAL ABILITIES WHICH ARE HARD TO BELIEVE!!!!!!

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The blue whale can have a ten foot long penis.

The kangaroo rat can survive 5 years without drinking a drop of water.

A dog’s sense of smell is 10,000 times better than a human’s.

The American wood frog can freeze in the winter and thaw out in the spring.

Cave crayfish can live to be 175 years old.

Sea turtles can have continuous sex up to 12 hours.

There are 22 more amazing things that some animals can do as described in this cracked.com article.

http://www.cracked.com/photoplasty_688_28-real-animal-abilities-you-wont-believe_p28/#28

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8 MARRIAGE REGRETS YOU SHOULD LEARN TO AVOID!!!!!!

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I regret settling for unacceptable behavior.

Find out before marriage if your potential spouse has any unacceptable behaviors which you won’t be able to tolerate and definitely not be able to change, especially addictions to lying, alcohol, drugs, pornography, gambling, promiscuity, arguing, sports, selfish impulsive spending, and job.

I regret impulsively marrying someone I hoped would change or could be changed by me.

Disciplining an adult like a child or changing bad habits which your spouse has is frequently impossible to do and will become a big attempted failure on your part. Marry a bad personality with a poor job and the probability is great that you can’t change the bad personality and poor job situation.

I regret becoming complacent.

Being complacent in a marriage basically means that you feel relatively secure and happy with the marriage the way it is and will probably not put in much effort to try to maintain or improve it. All marriages need continued difficult work to make them last and ignoring the importance of marriage maintenance or being complacent will not make it last very long.

I regret assuming that love will be able to erase a bad past.

Some feel that a bad past will be erased or cured with a loving relationship but the truth is that bad past experiences and behaviors greatly influence future experiences and behaviors and a crappy past frequently means a crappy future also. Feeling sorry about a bad past and marrying the human with a bad past is frequently a big mistake.

I regret marrying someone I didn’t love or really liked.

Money and prestige or celebrity are sometimes reasons why women marry men whom they don’t love and they learn to regret it if the spouses have a bad unloving or uncaring personality.

I regret having an open marriage.

Open marriages eventually lead to a fear of abandonment, anger, hatred, and jealousy which is not so obvious to the young but rears its ugly head as you grow older and less secure with your sexual attractiveness.

I regret being in such a rush to get married.

This is just an example of how infatuation with a new human causes you to behave irrationally and want to marry someone on first impressions only. The irrational behavior which you are guilty of is not knowing their true personality with all the logical advantages and frequently unacceptable drawbacks which are hidden below a superficial surface behavior which leads to a very bad appraisal of reality.

I never should have married someone with a history of walking out.

Bad habits are hard to break and if one spouse has had a string of divorces or two or more then the chances or probability that they will remain married to you for life are very bad.

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EXCESS IN A BELIEVED “HEALTHY” HABIT CAN ACTUALLY BE BAD FOR YOUR HEALTH IN THE LONG DURATION!!!!!!

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Take too much of a vitamin supplement, drink too much water, exercise too much, exclude too many foods from your diet, brush your teeth too much, shampoo your hair too much, get too much sunlight, and basically do too much of any “healthy” habit and you will probably cause long duration health problems.

This article in weather.com gives 13 examples of bad excess “healthy” habits with details.

http://www.weather.com/health/13-healthy-habits-can-hurt-20130909

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26 IMPORTANT WORDS OF WISDOM TO THINK ABOUT AND APPLY TO YOUR LIFE!!!

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EMOTIONS

Trying to win every argument is foolish because no human is perfect and a calm discussion is always a better approach to solving a solvable problem.

Share your grief with someone who cares.

If you can’t change the hated thing then avoid it or try to forget it because thinking about it is a waste of time and unnecessary stress.

Optimistic happiness is your responsibility.

Envy and jealousy is a waste of mental effort and time.

RELATIONSHIPS

If a relationship has to remain a secret then you shouldn’t be in it.

Grudges or no forgiveness has no place in family life or relationships with close friends.

Dare to be different once in a while since most of us should not be trying to win a popularity contest of being boringly normal.

You can’t change what humans think of you but if you are honest, sincere, and reliable it should not matter if they think the worst of you.

If we were aware of everyone else’s problems we would probably want to continue living with ours.

Fulfilling a promise also means showing up on time or being reliable.

A friend in need is a friend indeed.

GOALS

Learn from your past mistakes and bad behavior but don’t wallow in a bad past.

Life isn’t fair or just, but it can be good with consistent optimistic effort.

Life is too short to wallow in pessimistic misery so switch to optimistic effort.

Dedicate much time to the passion in your life but remember that living a full and satisfying life is more than just your selfish passion.

Don’t just live on future hopes but savor present moments of pleasure also and do things which will increase the probability of reaching those future hopes.

Disaster may occur but always ask-will it matter 5 or 10 years from now?

The only certainty in life is that there will be change.

Growing old is better than dying young.

Get rid of everything which isn’t useful and not a source of healthy pleasure.

When in doubt and there is more than one choice, choose the less risky one.

MONEY

Save some money for emergencies and retirement with every paycheck.

Don’t compare your life to profligate spenders because too frequently you can’t afford their lifestyle.

Use debit not credit cards if you can’t or refuse to budget your money.

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17 MEANINGFUL NON RANDOM ACTS OF KINDNESS

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Kindness: n. a relatively small medium intensity caring which isn’t requested

Favor: n. giving a relatively small reward to someone and exchanging it for a minimal received reward such as a “thank you”

Kindness is a relatively small caring behavior which frequently makes one feel good and/or is a small favor granted without being asked.

15 EXAMPLES:

Donate your used books to the library

Let someone in front of the line if you have many and they only have one or two items.

Volunteer at an animal shelter or food bank.

Donate to a wildlife fund.

Plant a tree.

Mentor a student in your field of expertise.

Give up your seat to the handicapped or elderly on public transportation.

Open the door for someone with full hands or in a wheelchair.

Give an honest and sincere compliment even to a stranger once in a while.

Host an international student.

Renew a potentially useful friendship.

Become an organ donor.

Give a homeless human your doggie bag.

Say “ please” and “thank you” in public and really mean it.

Give a fellow driver the right of way such as merging into your lane.

Forgive a friend a small debt and never bring it up again.

Apologize with “I’m sorry” for offensiveness, rudeness, or being wrong.

Say hi to a remote neighbor or smile at a stranger.

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THE BITCOIN SCAM!!!!!!

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Bitcoin money is speculative virtual or traditional “paper” money with no collateral or backup real wealth if the currency collapses. If the controllers of bitcoin decide to take down the fake monetary system on a whim or reduce its value via a secret computer algorithm you will become impoverished with less or no value or money for what you have invested. A bitcoin crash to zero is a realistic probability if those controlling the monetary system decide to steal it all from you.

The basic idea of bitcoin is a worldwide currency which is an ultimate ideal currency but any worldwide currency should be tied to tangible assets such as commodity mines, real estate, and solvent businesses manufacturing real products and/or services. The currency should not be a speculative currency which is inflated by a computer algorithm and based on no real tangible value or matter and/or energy.

Governments like the United States and China are counterfeiting currency or printing money without tying it logically to the growth of tangible assets in the GNP and inflating the money supply causing worldwide prices to go up and concentrating the wealth into fewer and fewer hands and impoverishing many in the middle class who are in great debt and paying exorbitant interest rates. There is a great danger that in the not so distant future we will once again have feudal like lords or the elite at the top and billions of serfs living at subsistence levels or working for subsistence wages without hope of advancement.

CONCLUSION

The world will eventually need a worldwide currency to avoid wars between nations but a just one which is tied to reality and a currency which is not a speculative crap shoot which can implode at any time. What is realistically needed is a currency which maintains its value or purchasing power without inflation on into the foreseeable future of the world. The bitcoin scam is definitely NOT that JUST worldwide currency for all its inhabitants.

In fact bitcoin is now being used to hide illegally made money and to transfer wealth across international borders without paying a tax.

You can see by the chart that there is a bitcoin bubble or an irrational increase in value and when it bursts the shit will hit the fan!!!!!!

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11 IMPORTANT SOCIAL TRUTHS ABOUT HUMAN NATURE: PART 10

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No-one is ever poor who has the sight of his eyes, the use of his feet, and a healthy brain

This is an optimistic way of looking at poverty. No matter how poor you are, if you have good food and good health, you are fortunate.

You can fool humans some of the time, but you can’t fool them all of the time.

Another way of putting it is that you can try to lie to humans some of the time but if you lie to them too frequently then they will no longer believe you. There is an exception even to this general principle because you can lie to lottery players that they will get megabucks and no matter how many times they lose they still will be fooled into thinking that they can win the jackpot the next time around.

A promise is a debt

This is an interesting way of looking at a promise because promising means fulfilling an obligation at some point in the future and a debt is similar because it is also an obligation to be paid back at some point in the future.

Food is no more important than wisdom.

Without food you die so it is a higher priority or more important than wisdom. You can live without much wisdom and still survive with food.

When in Rome do as the Romans do.

When living in a foreign culture try to behave like they expect you to behave. You can also be yourself, but expect to be looked at in a suspicious way.

In politics we presume that everyone who knows how to get votes, based on looks and eloquence, knows how to administer a city or a state. When we are ill.. we do not ask for the handsomest physician, or the most eloquent one.

It is a fact of modern political life that the best looking smooth talking politicians get the people’s votes and true qualifications for the job seldom enter the picture. This is the bad result of a social glorification of beauty and not smarts.

No one is truly free, they are a slave to wealth, fortune, the law, or other people restraining them from acting according to their will.

The truth is that we are only free to function within the limits set by our finances, laws, and acceptable social behavior.

Four snippets of good advice:

1. If at first you don’t succeed, there is a reason why and until you figure out that reason, you will not succeed.

2. If you want to succeed at something that requires an excellent memory or an inborn talent, you will not succeed no matter how hard you try and you might burn yourself out in the fruitless effort.

3. If you struggle with a situation, but never learn the underlying lesson or never learn to avoid it, it will come back to you over and over again until you learn to deal with it or avoid it.

4. If you think your life is just okay, then you still have more to learn about how you really should be living and experiencing life.

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6 MYTHS ABOUT WOMEN WHICH MOST HUMANS BELIEVE BECAUSE OF CULTURAL CONDITIONING!!!!!!

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Women aren’t as aggressive as men, they aren’t as horny, don’t like porn as much, are vainer, aren’t as good at math, and aren’t as physically abusive. These are all myths and in fact many women can be more aggressive than men and more physically abusive.

For mind opening more details check out this cracked.com article:

http://www.cracked.com/article_18760_6-things-everyone-knows-about-women-that-arent-true.html

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12 IMPORTANT MENTAL BIASES WHICH INTERFERE WITH LOGICAL THINKING!!!

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It is hard enough trying to be logical in this emotionally biased world but there are impulsive decisions which we make automatically without frequently realizing the illogical nature of our impulsive choices. George Dvorsky writes about 12 of the most important mental or cognitive biases and if you understand them then you hopefully will adjust, adapt, and not make as many shitty illogical decisions in the future.

http://io9.com/5974468/the-most-common-cognitive-biases-that-prevent-you-from-being-rational

The biggest bias is a very strong belief or opinion which you have and the natural tendency is to evaluate or judge the world based on your belief and/or opinion reality. If you strongly believe in something then you will probably not investigate or understand why others do not believe the same thing and why others have a strong dislike for your belief or opinion.

Religious wars and wars between different cultures are historical proof that humans are willing to fight and even die for their beliefs and strong cultural biases which also have a very strong supportive personal emotional attachment or bias.

I have a strong scientific bias but I realize that “scientific” statistical results frequently are untrue biases when applied to medical research and especially psychiatry and the behavioral “sciences”. Much so called human truths or human nature are culturally dependent and can’t be proven scientifically in the laboratory. Wise or good common sense and logical thinking applied to cultural norms is the only way of rationally approaching human subjects.

I like to pride myself in writing evergreen truth blogs but unfortunately many of my communications are biased towards similar western and eastern cultures in their present form.

I am presently disappointed with and frequently writing or fighting against all the emotional trivial crap and pollution that this world is living in and destroying biodiversity in the process with a mythological morality which puts humans first and wild nature last. I am all about applying truthful logic to this emotionally illogical destructive human world which seems like an impossible realistic goal but I have dedicated the rest of my life to the truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth as I see it. Am I biased? Sure, but hopefully in a constructive way trying to destroy as much untruth as possible along the way and showing how this world can be improved from its myopic destructive present destiny!!!!!!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EA14Sm5OjIk

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THE TRUTH EVERGREEN BLOG CELEBRATES 1 YEAR OF BLOGGING!!!!!!

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Thanks to all my followers and likers who have given me encouraging feedback this past year!!!!!!

I blogged in a rather unconventional way by blogging every day about many topics which interest me and have over 400 blogs so far.

So far I have about a100 views a day with about 75% coming from search engines and the rest from interested bloggers.

My pride and joy is about 20 truth evergreen blogs all describing Motivational words beginning with the letters A through Z which is my own creation and is responsible for over 50% of the daily views on my blog.

I am a generalist interested in almost everything and not a specialty blogger and that is why I never run out of topics to write about. It will probably be a long time before I run out of things to write about. Thanks again and Enjoy!!!!!!

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DO YOU DESIRE OR NEED SELF-IMPROVEMENT?

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Not all of us desire to improve ourselves. We may have a good job, good close friends, a nice family, and interesting pastimes which make our lives seem happy and fulfilling and relatively secure.

For every successful happy human there are probably 9 who WISH that they had a better or more secure job, who would like a quality friendship, who would like to have a nice family someday, and who would like to participate in interesting pastimes if only they had the money.

Having a “normal” acceptable social lifestyle requires investing much time, energy, effort, and money on a daily basis and frankly most of us are trapped in our old habitual ways and are always short on cash so it seems to us that progress in our lives is almost impossible to achieve.

Most of our daily lives are filled with activity just trying to survive another day and few of us are not selfmotivated enough and know how to set aside the necessary time and money for improving ourselves and improving our surroundings.

With the internet, living life can be very cheap and entertaining without having to participate in the “rat” race of struggling to survive in a technological changing world which is creating fear, dissatisfaction, depression, and financial instability in many common humans.

Make enough money in a poor paying job or get on welfare and surf the world on the internet getting all the entertainment and marginal friends that you have time for! If you are basically a lazy unmotivated human, and don’t mind remaining single, then a computer lifestyle, eating healthy food, and exercising moderately is not a horrifying way to spend a lifetime!

For those of you who want more out of life than a computer for a spouse read my evergreen truth book HOW TO IMPROVE YOURSELF: HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT; HOW TO SAVE TIME AND MONEY and start on the path to a responsible lifestyle. With enough selfmotivation, time, ability, and effort you can get the things in life which you consider important enough to strive for as goals.

It will hopefully make your life more happy and fulfilled and not as boring.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XBCqy3-3z44

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16 QUESTIONS YOU CAN ASK ON A FIRST DATE OR ONLINE BEFORE THE FIRST DATE!!!!!!

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Keep in mind that these questions are not mandatory. You don’t have to ask them all on the first date. When you ask your first questions they should be slightly general in nature to not seem that you are interrogating or putting you date on the spot.

Remember, the first main objective of a date is to find out how much you have in common in a casual way because the more things that you mutually like and even hate, the better the probability of a good connection.

You should also be trying to create a good first impression with your looks and asking friendly follow up questions which shows that you are interested in them too and not just yourself and are a skilled and pleasant two way communicator.

Asking a question and getting an answer does not mean that you have to get to another question quickly. It can merely be a takeoff point to follow up with more questions or a flowing conversation about the answered question topic.

SHARING GOOD AND BAD EXPERIENCES during the conversation will either bring you closer together or show that you probably were not meant for each other right from the start.

How was your day?

What do you like to do in your free time?

Do you like your job?

Is there anything you really love or are very passionate about?

What are your favorite activities or things to do?

Tell me about your favorite friends.

Tell me a little about your family.

What are some things you dislike or hate doing?

Here are some important specific questions which may seem like you are putting your date on the spot if badly presented:

Are you close with your family?

Is there anything which you don’t eat or don’t like to eat?

How do you feel about (insert something which you are passionate about)?

Are you dating anyone else right now?

Do you live alone?

What do you see yourself doing 5 or 10 years from now?

What do you dislike or hate the most?

What do you get angry most often about?

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10 IMPORTANT SOCIAL TRUTHS ABOUT HUMAN NATURE: PART 9

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There are too few unchanging truths today.

Most scientific and technological truths are unchanging but morality should be changed and in a nutshell it should be in non emergency situations don’t destroy biodiversity, don’t lie, don’t be inefficient, don’t steal, don’t commit adultery if married, and don’t murder. With the exception of emergency situations such as wars and natural disasters, this basic secular morality should also be a new unchanging truth for society to follow.

Torture is barbaric.

This is just a way of saying that torture causes much pain and there are better ways of extracting information from criminals or terrorists these days.

Using force to stop force is not absurd.

Use greater force to stop force is a better way of putting it and it is not an absurd thing to believe in. Children who attack parents physically should be restrained first with greater force and continued compulsive physical aggressions can even be met with a justified forceful spanking. Tyrants who forcefully invade another nation should be met with superior force to stop this unacceptable aggression.

Violence is permissible even desirable occasionally.

Violence in self defense can certainly be justified in many cases.

You are a victim of the rules you live by.

More accurately, you are limited to a lifestyle by the rules that you live by. You are not a victim because no crime has been committed.

You can’t expect people to be something they’re not.

If you expect people to behave contrary to human nature or the way that they were raised, you will be disappointed.

You must be intimate with a token few.

This just means that you should have very few close friends that you can share your most intimate secrets with. The more friends that you share your intimate secrets with, the more likely it will be that your intimacy will be violated at some point in the future.

You owe the world not the other way around.

You owe the world a moral lifestyle and the world should help you in supporting that moral lifestyle.

If you lie down with dogs you’ll rise with fleas.

This just means that if you associate with bad people some or all of those bad behaviors will influence and change you for the worse.

The thief is no danger to the beggar.

This is not always true because the thief can steal what little the beggar has such as clothes.

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THE “SHOCKING” REAL TRUTH ABOUT HAPPINESS

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Science has proven that if you are doing things which feel pleasurable then you are happy in the moment. If you have bad behaviors which are giving you pleasure while you are doing them then you are happy doing them. The only problem is that your bad behavior will frequently result in many bad consequences which will ultimately add more unhappiness to your life and you should really be asking one question-

Should I FORCE myself to change my bad habits so that the frequency and duration of the bad consequences or unhappy moments decreases??? Another way of saying this is- Should I try to increase the times that I am happy and increase the length of time that I am happy every, day, week, month, or year by eliminating as many bad unhappy moments and bad unhappy consequences as possible?

A perfect example is a HAPPY panhandler or beggar. Give him or her enough free money during the day which they don’t have to work for and they will happily spend it on alcohol, drugs, and some food and drink at the end of the day. They will consume it and be relatively happy with life. If they don’t get any money during the day then they will have an unhappy day but WILL probably look forward to the next day or change their panhandling to another location where they hope to get lucky again. Nature loves efficiency and a beggar can be very efficient at surviving and not pollute his or her environment.

If you want to have a higher frequency of happy moments and want them to last longer then you will have to FORCE yourself to change some of your daily bad habits and replace them with better ones which don’t have as many bad consequences or unhappy moments.

Sure, most of us are conditioned to believe that more money, good friends, a nice family, nice possessions, and exciting pastimes will give us more happiness in our lives but that means more responsibility, hard work to earn the money needed, DIFFICULT learning of good job and good social skills, and having some time left over to enjoy the exciting pastimes which make you very happy.

It is a fact of life that the level of happiness for the rich is about the same as for the middle class and only the very poor are really very depressed and unhappy if they are living from paycheck to paycheck without a saved up a reserve for emergency situations such as unexpected medical expenses, car repairs, and appliance breakdowns. Add to this dysfunctional immoral lifestyles, alcohol or drug dependencies, bad social skills, a bad education and you have some very unhappy poor people living in an almost constant state of emotional and physical stress or crisis.

CONCLUSION:

If you are unhappy then you will have to analyze yourself OR know thyself. Identify the bad habits which are making you unhappy or giving you so many moments of unhappiness in life. Start excluding your little bad habits first to reassure yourself that you can really do something about your situation which should never seem hopeless. With lifelong optimism and constant research proceed to tackle or forcefully remove with mental toughness the major sources of your unhappiness or the bad habits which are causing some terribly bad consequences in your life. Replace your bad habits with better ones but be forewarned that this may frequently take a month or so of self-motivated constant hard mental and even physical effort.

I have written a truthful evergreen book HOW TO IMPROVE YOURSELF: HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT; HOW TO SAVE TIME & MONEY which will help you if you really don’t know where to start and are not very good at self-analysis. Another recommended book of mine is HOW TO SAVE MONEY which is a must read if you are heavy in credit card debt due to your impulsive shopping bad habits. If you are unhappy with your love life or family life I have evergreen books which will help you solve those problems too-LOVEALL and MODERN PARENTING.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT ATTENTION DEFICIT HYPERACTIVITY DISORDER (ADHD)

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Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) is a problem of not being able to focus, being overactive, not being able control behavior, or a combination of these. Many children with discipline problems have these same symptoms so many of the pure discipline problems are being misdiagnosed with ADHD.

ADHD is present in adults and in young offspring and it is frequently being misdiagnosed and treated with drugs with undesirable side effects. Many young offspring with discipline problems are being drugged to try and calm them down instead of applying appropriate discipline and exercise and healthy eating in the home and school environment. Psychiatrists are to blame for many misdiagnoses since they frequently attempt to do a quick fix of the discipline problem with drugs and not behavior modification which is what is really needed in most of the cases which are not that severe.

Humans are a diverse group with physically active pasts and hyperactivity is actually an advantage in nature. Unfortunately hyperactivity is frowned upon in the sedentary culture which we are trying to create and forcing normal “ADHD” human beings to function abnormally in a class or office setting.

Primitive societies have almost no ADHD problems so the diagnosis and treatment is a sign of an unhealthy sedentary modern society which tries to discipline the active behavioral deviants with sedative drugs.

There are many myths surrounding ADHD and this link at additudemag.com is trying to debunk 31 of them:

http://www.additudemag.com/31adhdmyths/index.html?utm_source=eletter&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=October

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8 PROBABLE REASONS FOR DEPRESSION

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About 1 in 10 Americans is diagnosed with depression. There are probable reasons why this is so.

Toxic food, isolation from nature, psychological attachment to pessimism, excess consumerism, too little exercise, suppressing bad feelings, psychiatrists pushing drugs for depression with bad side effects, and a toxic environment are all possible reasons for an increase in depression.

Basically many of us are not leading mentally and physically rewarding and/or healthy lives and that seems to be the basic reason behind so many depressed humans.

This link to naturalnews.com gives some details on this topic.

http://www.naturalnews.com/043150_depression_heavy_metal_poisoning_brain_function.html

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25 THINGS TO DO DURING YOUR FIRST MONTH ON THE JOB AND EVEN LATER ON!!!!!!

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In a nutshell, when you are starting a new job then you should be on your best behavior and start finding out information about and interacting with the humans which you will be working with in a friendly, not boorish or rude way. You should also start learning the skills which you will need on the job if you don’t have all of them already.

Most important of all, don’t start giving advice or making suggestions on how to improve the job until you have acquired a rather complete knowledge about the humans working with you and/or the rules of the job and how successfully in your estimation the rules are being followed.

Michael Dooley gives a useful list of what to do and not do on the first day on the job and many of the suggestions apply to working on the job later on also.

Show up at least 15 minutes early for your shift.
Avoid judging individuals based on their first impression.
Don’t share negative first impressions with other individuals.
Build relationships with everyone, not a friendship with someone.
Find out what is important to the company- immediately.
Avoid openly comparing your old job with your new job.
You don’t need to prove you “already knew that.”
Try to avoid being perfect at a task before you dive in.
Show initiative by offering to learn doing a task, rather than only observing it.
Don’t probe employees for their opinions on your new leader
Don’t ask individuals what you can get away with at work.
Put your cell phone away at all costs, even if all of the other employees are using them (personal usage).
Dress your best, look presentable- no wrinkles etc.
Ask others what drives them, and what their hobbies are to show your human side.
Follow up with other’s interests by sharing your own when they are similar.
Be the last employee to leave for the day.
Get plenty of sleep and be well-rested, don’t complain about being tired and bored.
Show general interest in other’s assignments and responsibilities.
Recap with your leader at the end of the day; thank them for providing you an excellent job.
Avoid making suggestions at all costs! Wait until you understand the business before you try to fix it.
When it is time for breaks, try to connect with everyone, force yourself to engage with others.
Be extremely professional, don’t curse or say inappropriate comments-ever.
Find top performing individuals- this is essential for your initial and ongoing development.
Don’t complain about processes and policies until you are qualified to challenge them.
Show nonstop appreciation for those willing to teach you along the way.

http://michaeldooleyblog.wordpress.com/2013/09/21/25-tips-for-your-first-day-of-work/

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THE PROBLEM WITH WORLD LEADERS IS THAT THEY ARE EMOTIONALLY SMART BUT NOT LOGICALLY SMART!!!!!!

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Emotional Smarts or ES: n. the ability to manipulate another’s senses to reach a good and/or bad goal(s)

Politicians have emotional smarts but not logical smarts when it comes to solving problems and conveying an appropriate message to the public. They manipulate your emotions but don’t publicize any useful logical solutions to the political, social, economic, and educational problems of the nation and world.

What are considered to be good leaders in society and who rise up the ranks of leadership are those who are more skilled in manipulating emotions and not logical facts. The few exceptions to this general rule are the technological leaders who have an abundance of logical technical knowledge and also human emotional knowledge.

Political leaders are the ones who aren’t leading society in a logical, efficient, sustainable way but instead are manipulating the emotions of the public to maintain their political power and the power of the special interests. They understand that promises must be made to appease the desires and beliefs of the majority of the citizens which they rule over. Those human beliefs are historically founded beliefs of what is true and untrue and very resistant to change despite their dysfunctional mythological nature in the present technological age.

The common man and woman are encouraged by their leaders to either love or hate, support or oppose and the result is that the ideology of the opposing party is hated and opposed. One opposing party is bad and their personal party is good. This group hate of the other group leads to political deadlock and an inability to compromise or find common ground which could help members of both parties. Manipulation of the fears and hopes of the public is what exists in the media and when the election is over the heavily funded special interests groups continue along with business as usual in a terribly inefficient way wasting the time, energy, and money of the taxpayers or society.

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STRESSED OUT??? CHANGE OR SWITCH TO 20 THINGS WHICH ARE NOT AS STRESSFUL!!!!!!

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It may not be obvious to everyone but the key to stress relief is switching to doing something which is not stressful. Here are some stressless things which you can do at home or on the job.

RELIEVE STRESS AT HOME OR AWAY FROM HOME–

Associate with non-work friends

Relax with your favorite music

Use your hands and not computer for an interesting hobby

Get a massage

Take a walk preferably outdoors

Pray, meditate, or think about something other than work

Read or watch something which makes you laugh

Stop arguing over politics, sports, religion, or beliefs which you can’t change

Have some sex

Breathe deeply

Take a shower or bath

Exercise

RELIEVE STRESS ON THE JOB–

Celebrate small successes with food and/or drink

Stop thinking about past mistakes or failures as being overly important because they will probably be unimportant a month or year from now

Do many similar small tasks all at once

Divide a large task into smaller steps

Be more selective in your information intake so you don’t drown in it

Don’t procrastinate at a task because you will be stressed when you start running out of time

Don’t work evenings and weekends except in emergencies

Find a less stressful job

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WHY BEES ARE DISAPPEARING AND DYING AND WHAT CAN BE DONE

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Bees are disappearing and dying because of monoculture farming, pesticides, and an absence of an abundance of wildflowers on civilized properties.

For a detailed coverage of the problem and possible solutions see this TED.com link.

http://www.ted.com/talks/marla_spivak_why_bees_are_disappearing.html

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10 IMPORTANT SOCIAL TRUTHS ABOUT HUMAN NATURE: PART 8

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The urge to steal and not private property creates crime.

Stealing is sometimes a very efficient way to obtain food or property and nature loves efficiency. Even in nature animals get upset with a vengeance if someone tries to steal their food away from them. Food can be considered private property. It is a crime to steal the food from the one that has made the kill or earned it even in human society.

There is still a pecking order even in pack animals as to who gets to eat first, second, third, etc. Stealing can be considered to be a crime for many animals almost everywhere in nature and sharing has its well established rules which are frequently challenged by younger less skilled animals.

It is true that some cheetahs will abandon their kill to other more aggressive stealing animals but this is just to avoid deadly personal injury which would make it unfit to kill prey again. If aggressive animals steal too much prey from the cheetah, the result is starvation and death. No one would advocate survival of the fittest for a human society so it is absolutely vital that private property be protected with laws against stealing which is fundamentally what all crime is about.

There should be a safety net in human societies for the unemployed and also destitute so that they don’t starve mentally and physically. They should be given an opportunity to work their way back into society with free useful mental technological education over the internet so they have the hope of new progress through personal effort and achievement over a lifetime.

Pursuing pleasure for the goal of pleasure will destroy you.

Doing only what only feels good will destroy you- is another way of putting it. Hedonism is one variation of this principle and it usually leads to debauchery, financial and even bodily destruction.

Rechanneling destructive impulses is a sign of maturity.

This is true because it is really a sign of maturity when you can redirect your aggression onto constructive activities, sports, and games but not be overly aggressive on humans.

Sacrificing yourself for a bad cause is not a moral act.

Immoral suicidal terrorists who kill innocent people would disagree with this point of view because they don’t believe their cause is bad. Sacrificing yourself for goals which don’t improve or maintain a healthy society is bad.

Self-awareness can be crippling.

Self-awareness is only a handicap if you understand or are aware of your weaknesses and don’t try to do anything to improve them in the future.

Selfishness is the most basic motivation.

This is a fundamental truth. Offspring start out being selfish and relatively few adults outgrow their selfish egoism.

Sin is a means of social control.

This is true from a religious point of view which makes a correspondence of forbidden behavior with the word sin. Laws which badly enforce moral behavior are the true means of secular social control these days and it should be replaced with a secular morality taught in elementary schools so that moral behavior becomes impulsive.

Survival of the fittest applies to humans and animals.

Unfortunately present social laws throughout the world are not encouraging the fittest to reproduce in greater numbers thus assuring a better gene pool for future generations. Instead, the less fit in society are reproducing in greater abundance thus making future societies less fit to survive.

I have written and published many evergreen books that cover this subject thoroughly and present the needed political, social, and economic changes to get closer to a more desirable goal of promoting the reproduction of healthy, smart, and wealthy humans.

Technology will make or break us.

This just means that technology can be used for good and bad purposes and it is up to society to try and limit the technology to as many good purposes as possible. If we permit technology to be used in too many bad ways then it will indeed break us or even eventually destroy the world.

The world operates according to discoverable laws.

Even in science, there are few laws left to be discovered. All human laws exist but the current ones need a radical update so that humanity can operate in a healthy way in the future.

The new updated or discovered moral code is except in emergency situations- don’t destroy biodiversity, don’t lie, don’t be inefficient, don’t steal, don’t commit adultery if married, and don’t murder.

My evergreen book CHANGES IN WELFARE LAWS is a must read if the nation and the world is to change for the better.

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WHY DO HUMANS GIVE TO CHARITABLE GOALS?

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Research is being done to find out why people give money to support a charitable goal. It seems that if the pleasure centers of the brain are activated then there is a greater probability of giving. The still unanswered question is why do some humans feel pleasure and others don’t when giving?

It is just a guess on my part but I feel that giving is connected to a basic belief in the charitable goal that you are giving to and having enough spare money to give in the first place.

Previous conditioning by role models who gave to charities probably affects your lifelong giving tendencies but most important is a personal strong belief in the charitable goal. I used to give to conservation organizations which I believed in when I was single and stopped doing so when I got married and had offspring and had less money to give for charitable goals. I no longer felt good about giving because my family priorities overrode charitable giving.

CONCLUSION:

You probably give to charities because it makes you feel good, because you believe in the charitable goal, and if you have some excess money to spend on the charitable goal. If you are very religious you may actually give about 10% of your income to the religious organization because you have been indoctrinated to believe that it is the right thing to do. Acting on a belief is a pleasurable experience.

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