Monthly Archives: December 2013

FEMALES!!! 3 IMPORTANT QUESTIONS WHICH NEED A YES ANSWER BEFORE MARRYING!!!

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Is he or you going to be a good provider moneywise?

Will he be honest, sincere, dependable, and one who fulfills his promises?

Does he believe adultery is immoral or something definitely not to do?

If he or you are not going to be a good provider then don’t plan on having offspring and if you decide to do so anyway then at least keep your finances separate and secretly save up some money for an inevitable divorce at some point in the future.

If he lies to you during the relationship, is not dependable with his promises, and is not very punctual when he promises to be so then don’t marry under any circumstances because your marriage will be an untrustworthy emotional hell on earth.

If he has a series of failed marriages due to adultery or if he has been very promiscuous during his single years then don’t marry because bad sexual habits last a lifetime and are almost impossible to change in this hedonistic western culture.

CONCLUSION:

If you find a good provider who doesn’t lie to you, is dependable, is not the cheating kind, and is not afraid of commitment then go for it with all of your feminine charms and get married!!!!!!

These are rather high standards for marriage material and few modern males these days will qualify. Remember, it is BEST TO REMAIN SINGLE then to marry in haste or marry a financially poor, unreliable, untrustworthy mate. Marry a scum bag and you will regret it the rest of your life and so will your offspring if you make the mistake of having any by him!!!

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WHAT DO YOU DO IF YOU HAVE NO PURPOSE IN LIFE AT 20, 40, AND 70 YEARS?

Lynx (Felis lynx) hunting snowshoe hare.      If you have no purpose in your life at 20 with no desire to get a job, no wealth, bad education, no family, a less than attractive physical appearance, no social status, limited abilities, and too many dysfunctional personality traits, what do you do?

Try to get on welfare, become a begging bum, join a cult or connect with a religious organization which will help you to get food on the table and some basic necessities, or commit a crime and get free room and board in jail. Live a marginal existence and be happy that you are alive with a full stomach and use alcohol and drugs when you want to escape your boring world.

Usually at 20 you have your whole life ahead of you and you will find some small and/or big goals to pursue which will give you purpose in life if you don’t give up and haven’t become a vegetable or burnout on drugs.

If you are 20 and feel stuck in a shitty job with no future read my evergreen truth blogs for free or shell out $3 and buy my evergreen truth books HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE: HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT; HOW TO SAVE TIME & MONEY,   HOW TO SAVE MONEY, LOVEALL, and   MODERN HUMAN BEHAVIORS. I promise that you will find purpose in your life and if you still don’t want to change for the better then at least you will be much smarter than the average human working at minimum wage and be able to give them good advice.

If you have no purpose in your life at 40, are single, have no offspring, have no family, have no friends, have no job, no money, have had many disasters and disappointments in life and want to give up on life then try to get on welfare disability with symptoms of acute depression which you may have to fake.

If you have held down a job in your past then try to get one at lower pay and you will be able to afford basic food, shared shelter, and scooter transportation and live a rather simple and reclusive life with the internet as your major source of entertainment. You can get new knowledge on the internet if you chose to pursue it and maybe discover some new small and/or big goals which you would like to pursue to give your life some or more purpose.

If you have no purpose in your life at 70, feel abandoned by your offspring and friends, and are in bad health then you will probably wind up in a senior care facility at government expense and you will be wishing that your life could end if you don’t develop friendships with fellow retires. If you don’t have access to the internet for entertainment and knowledge then your old age predicament will be even worse.

If your health is rather good then try to eat healthy certified organic food, share shelter with one or more humans, drive around in a scooter if you can’t afford a car and get on the internet to travel the world and gain new knowledge about anything which may pop into your mind at any point in time. Remember, even if you can’t move around much you can still develop or maintain a healthy mind using the internet and remain young at heart or more accurately young in the brain until you can no longer see or hear or until you die.

Finally, remember that whether you are 20, 40, or 70 you can find satisfaction and purpose in your life by knowing that you are trying to lead a good moral life. If you don’t have a religious moral belief then try to adopt and live by this very practical secular moral code. Except in emergency situations- don’t destroy biodiversity, don’t lie, don’t be inefficient, don’t steal, don’t commit adultery if married, and don’t murder. If you follow this moral code you will be respected and admired by almost everyone that you meet in your remaining years on the face of this precious planet. Be moral and prosper!!!!!!

 

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THE FRAUDULENT STUPIDITY OF PSYCHIATRIC BIPOLAR QUESTIONNAIRES CAUSING BIASED MISDIAGNOSING!!!

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Read this questionnaire and then find out why most psychiatrists are non-scientific quacks who don’t know what they are talking about and should be shut down as a valid profession in society except in the drug treatment of violent offenders in jail.

Not only is the included 12 question questionnaire unscientific because it doesn’t accurately determine the frequency of the behaviors mentioned or how many times a day, week, or month the behavior exists but it is subject to extreme bias if the answerer lies and answers “very much” on all the 12 questions.

This questionnaire is definitely not proof that someone has a bipolar personality disorder and is the reason why so many relatively normal humans are misdiagnosed as needing drug treatment for mere social deviance from normative behavior.

It is obvious that there is an emotional problem if you intensely cry and laugh five to ten times a day, or if you can’t concentrate on your work because of intense emotional feelings existing five to ten times a day which pop into your head spontaneously and then just as quickly subsides and this goes on for weeks at a time. The questionnaire does not determine if this is the case.

If your very intense emotions are interfering with the quality and quantity of your work and you are on the verge of being fired then you may not need a sedative drug but a new line of work instead. The questionnaire does not determine if this is the case.

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Bipolar Screening Quiz

By Ivan Goldberg, M.D.

Use this brief, time-saving questionnaire to help you determine
if you may need to see a mental health professional for diagnosis
and treatment of bipolar disorder. 

Instructions: The items below refer to how you have felt and behaved over much of your life. If you have usually been one way, and have recently changed, your responses should reflect how you have usually been. In order for the results of this quiz to be most accurate, you should be 18 or older and have had at least one episode of depression.

(What in the world does ONE episode of depression mean? That you had a very bad day on the job and got nothing done so you felt depressed!)

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I am a  year old Female / Male

1. At times I am much more talkative or speak much faster than usual.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

How frequently does this happen? Once a day, week, or month because we are all more talkative depending on the circumstances. What in the world does “at times” mean? At times I am very much talkative. Aren’t we all at times very much talkative?

 

2. There have been times when I was much more active or did many more things than usual.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

 

How many times have you done more things than usual? Once a day, week, or month because we all are more active some days than others. There “have been times” when I have been “very much” more active. Haven’t we all!

 

 

3. I get into moods where I feel very ‘speeded-up’ or irritable.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

 

How many times have you felt more irritable? Once a day, week, or month because we all have more irritable times some days than others. I get into moods when I am very much irritable when I am trying to do something important and someone is constantly interfering.

 

4. There have been times when I have felt both high (elated) and low (depressed) at the same time.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

 

This is impossible biologically to have two moods at the same time so this question should be totally eliminated from the questionnaire!

 

5. I have been much more interested in sex than usual.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

 

When we get hot over the opposite sex we are very much more interested in sex and it is a symptom of normal people not illness. This question is irrelevant!

 

6. My self-confidence ranges from great self-doubt to equally great overconfidence.

Not at all
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Very much

How many times have we been more confident than at other times when we feel no doubt? We all frequently  experience great self-doubt when we don’t know what to do and have great doubt about the outcome.

It depends on the circumstances and is not a symptom of illness. Once again, do you feel that way once a day, week, or month?

 

 

Bipolar Screening Test
Part 2

Instructions: Continue to answer the questions below describing how you have felt and behaved over much of your life. If you have usually been one way, and have recently changed, your responses should reflect how you have usually been.

Top of Form

7. There have been GREAT variations in the quantity or quality of my work.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

 

How many times has the quality or quantity of your work changed? Once a day, week, or month because we all have experienced bad work days and good ones the next. If you do have erratic work habits then it is a result of an inability to concentrate and the question should be asked about ability to concentrate on the work and not the indirect question which this is.

 

8. For no apparent reason I sometimes have been VERY angry or hostile.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

 

We all feel very angry or hostile “sometimes” when confronted with rude or bad people in our lives so this is definitely not a sign of illness.

 

9. I have periods of mental dullness and other periods of very creative thinking.

Not at all
Just a little
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Moderately
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Very much

 

Creative thinking is rare in people so being mentally dull is the fate of most people. Once again, how frequently does this swing from mental dullness occur? Once a day, week, or month?

 

10. At times I am greatly interested in being with people and at other times I just want to be left alone with my thoughts.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

 

We all are interested in being with people sometimes when we feel lonely and at other times we just want to be left alone. It is not a sign of mental illness.

 

11. I have had periods of great optimism and other periods of equally great pessimism.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

 

When confronted with hope of success we are all optimistic and greatly pessimistic when the odds seem to be against us. Once again does this happen once a day, week, or month?  It is definitely not a sign of mental illness!!! And most people don’t swing from intense optimism to intense pessimism in one day because we usually don’t do enough things to feel optimistic or pessimistic about on a daily basis.

 

12. I have had periods of tearfulness and crying and other times when I laugh and joke excessively.

Not at all
Just a little
Somewhat
Moderately
Quite a lot
Very much

We all are tearful when confronted with emotional disaster in our lives and laugh and joke excessively when we are happy and having a good time. How often do we vary from unhappiness to happiness all depends on what we are doing. Does it happen once a day, week, or year? Or does it happen 20 times a day?

 

Psychiatry is not a science and it shows its stupidity in the way that it analyzes non-violent mental illness and then pumps you full of drugs with terrible side effects and withdrawal symptoms. If you are non-violent and diagnosed with mental illness don’t take any drugs and ask for therapy instead or you will be hooked or addicted to terrible drugs for the rest of your life.

 

HISTORICALLY THE MYTHICAL PSYCHIATRIC PROFESSION WAS DESIGNED TO TAKE OUT DEVIANT BEHAVIOR FROM SOCIETY AND INCARCERATE NON VIOLENT SOCIAL DEVIANTS!!!

I have no respect and not the slightest admiration for the fraudulent drug pushing psychiatric “profession” which is screwing around with human lives and making them worse not better in most cases.

Patients should be undergoing radical behavior modification which teaches them to eat healthy, get moderate exercise, acquire new useful skills, and how to interact healthily with other humans. Most need radical reeducation and have to start doing things in life which don’t make them “crazy” or “mentally ill”. Mood altering drugs with devastating side effects are not the answer in about 95% of all cases!!!!!!

If you are an alcoholic or drug abuser who can’t find purpose in life then you will not find it in a shrink but need to connect with purpose driven moral individuals. Where do you find such humans? They are rare in this relativistic immoral society so you are probably out of luck unless you read more of my blogs, some of which have the answers to your problems.

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WILL STATUS SYMBOLS MAKE YOU HAPPY?

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Many want to be respected and admired and think that the way to do it is to get the right status symbols in society. There are three basic categories of status symbols and they are social, body, and material status symbols.

Socially having or controlling much wealth is the biggest status symbol and you can inherit wealth or get it with enough effort and ability by getting a good education and entering a prestigious profession and rising to the top of the professional ladder.

Inheriting great wealth without the right education  and not having good human skills frequently means that you don’t know how hard it is to earn that much wealth and you may end up spending it all on material possessions and a hedonistic lifestyle of shallow relationships frequently peppered with a liberal use of alcohol and drugs. You will eventually deplete your wealth with profligate spending and wind up poor and very unhappy because you never learned how to make much money on your own.

Making much money with a prestigious profession probably means that you have much responsibility and will be working very hard and may not be wise enough to devote some of your valuable time on family and close friends. The result may be that you are professionally successful but have a failed marriage or worse yet some poorly educated and socially inept offspring who can’t make it on their own in life. One or more failed marriages and delinquent offspring will add much unhappiness to your life even though you have professional social status.

Especially many women feel that being as attractive as possible body wise is the key to social status and landing a good husband. Obsession with body weight, cosmetics, and fashion trying to stay as beautiful as possible fades with age and if you don’t have a career or good job to rely upon many body conscious women lead some very unhappy lives in old age when their external beauty fades. Attractive celebrities, attractive politicians, attractive sports stars, and attractive media professionals all make life very unhappy for the average citizen trying to achieve or maintain those unrealistic social standards of external beauty.

Wealthy or poor, material possessions are a status symbol in society and many mismanage their finances and go into great debt trying to have a big house, big car, expensive clothes, and the latest gadgets all on a shoestring budget. Impulsive shopping by both men and women is the cause of much unhappiness in humans reaching out for those material status symbols.

Finally, whether rich or poor the key to being truly admired and respected or having a good status in society is being honest, sincere, and reliable in your human interactions with family, close friends, and coworkers. Reliable means that you fulfill most of your promises and show up on time when you promise to do so. In other words you can be trusted with your promises. Trust and reliability is the bond which makes intimate successful human interactions possible and if you are the lying or deceptive kind then you will never be admired and respected by other humans, especially if you are in a leadership position and want to remain there.

Be a trustworthy and reliable human and you will have good status with others whether you are rich or poor and you probably also will have optimized your happiness!!!!!!

 

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WHAT TO TRY TO BE AND NOT TRY TO BE!!!

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“There is an incomplete philosophical struggle and it is between two rather distinct extreme mindsets. One is frequently but not always bad – it is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, lust, resentment, inferiority, foundationless pride, superiority, and inflated ego or extreme selfishness. “The other is frequently but not always good – it is faithfulness, joy, peace, caring, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, controlled generosity, compromise, and compassion. The same struggle is sometimes going on inside you – and inside every other caring human, too.”

 

Try not to be envious, resentful, or jealous but try to be empathetic and benevolent instead

Instead of being unhappy and resentful of another’s possessions and characteristics and luck and circumstances, try to share in the feeling of accomplishment which another human is experiencing and feel that their good achievements, abilities, and circumstances are to be praised and not put down or criticized.

Try not to be cruel and mean but try to be kind or caring and sympathetic instead

Instead of willfully causing suffering and mental displeasure in a human and getting pleasure doing so try to be caring and sympathetic and share in the bad feelings and emotions caused by mistakes or bad circumstances which exist in a human’s life. You can be a strict and demanding disciplinarian or boss but try not to do it in a cruel and mean way.

Try not to be too greedy, selfish, with unfounded pride and too much superiority and arrogance but try to be with some generosity, caring behavior, and an adequate humility.

Try not to wallow in regret, pessimism, self-pity, sorrow, depression, hopelessness, guilt, and inferiority but try to be optimistically hopeful, happy, and develop as much selfconfidence and selfmotivation as possible by gradually changing more and more of your bad habits into good ones.

Above all try to be honest, sincere, truthful, and reliable and the bonds of your relationships with others will grow stronger and not weaker and you will be admired and respected by most close humans in your life.

Finally teach your offspring if you decide to have any this moral code- except in emergency situations-don’t destroy biodiversity, don’t lie, don’t be inefficient, don’t steal, don’t commit adultery if married, and don’t murder!!!!!!

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HUMANITY IS DESTROYING ITSELF BECAUSE OF GREAT INEFFICIENCY!!!

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Nature is just and punishes the inefficient with starvation or death and efficiently distributes natural resources to the deserving healthy species justly and permits the healthiest and smartest members to reproduce in greater numbers for the benefit of future generations.

Humanity is not just and doesn’t punish the inefficient with poverty, inefficiently distributes natural resources to its members, and the healthiest, smartest, and those with the best memories do not reproduce in greater numbers for the benefit of future generations. The major reason for this is that humanity uses a highly inefficient language for communications which is emotionally biased, has words with inaccurate illogical definitions, uses too many words with the same meanings, and uses a highly complex grammatical structure which takes too many years to learn. This delays adulthood to the age of 18 instead of permitting precocious 13 year olds, who get a job which can financially support a family, from becoming adults. Almost everyone should be fluent in language usage by the age of 13 and this is possible with an efficient, logical language of about 6000 words which does not include the words for everyday objects and scientific facts.

Humanity not only communicates inefficiently but has inefficient shelter, commercial buildings, cars, motorcycles, clothes, and entertainment which uses too much time, energy, money, and natural resources and dangerously pollutes the environment. The political system unjustly distributes the resources and permits the production and consumption of unhealthy food for the majority of the population.

Humanity is also inefficient because it has an inefficient religious moral code and no efficient secular moral code which should be taught young impressionable minds so that peaceful voluntary interaction among its citizens is possible and optimized and there is a sense of trust between leaders and citizens and family members in society.

The educational system is very inefficient. It mixes up the slow, medium, and fast learners beyond the elementary level and punishes the slow and fast learners trying to teach the average student. Elementary school is the only place where slow, medium, and fast learners should be mixed so that they learn appropriate social morality and etiquette which applies to all offspring.

Beyond elementary school students should be primarily taught with individualized interactive computer education where you proceed at your own pace of learning.

Liberal arts should be taught in private institutions of learning only and financed by local taxpayers who wish to have their offspring learn liberal arts. Science and technology should be taught in federally financed local public schools for those with very good memories. This way even those in poor neighborhoods with very good memories will be able to learn science and technology subjects and eventually escape the poverty trap. Yes, federal local public schools will be fewer and farther apart and will require more expensive transportation to get there but the world resource of very good memories is worth the added expense for the benefit of all.

IQ is a measure of how good your memory is and not how smart you are. There are too many humans with large IQ’s who are not very smart and are doing some disasterously stupid things to this world. To be smart you need to use a smart language like SCIENTIFIC THESAURUS and all those with large IQ’s or very good memories should be using it in the near future.

Even the poor will be smart because they will be using a smart language learned in elementary school. Yes, in life the poor will still do stupid things but they will not be called stupid because they will be using a smart language. The rich will also do stupid things in life but they will be doing much less with a smart language.

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BE ANGRY OR BE MENTALLY CONTROLLED AND PEACEFUL

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You can be angry at yourself, angry at mistakes, angry at another human or humans, angry at the injustice of institutions in this world, and angry at bad events.

We get angry because someone criticizes us or blames us for something which we may or may not have done. Recognize that no one is perfect, including yourself, and that if you get criticized or blamed then you may be totally or partially responsible for the bad situation.

Accept the fact that you may have to be angry at yourself and not others for something bad happening. Our overinflated ego can easily be hurt and anger is frequently the first way that we try and deal with the hurt and frequently unsuccessfully with dead end results and much unnecessary emotional turmoil.

We also get angry if someone does not listen to us or obey us when we think it is important to do so. Our spouse and offspring will frequently not listen to us and not obey us when we make demands and it is ok to get angry at young offspring who don’t know better or can’t reason well or at all.

Trying to be a dictator or tyrant or boss all the time will not work in a family setting and you should try to learn more democratic discussion and consensus building skills to be a successful leader in the family.

We also get angry if someone disagrees with an opinion which we might have on politics, sports, economics, etc. If an opposing opinion will not significantly affect work or family life then it is frequently not worth getting angry over. Live and let live in a sea of different opinions on subjects which you have little or no power over or can’t change in any significant way.

You have little or no control over politics, religion, sports, society, and economics so don’t get into heated arguments about what is not possible for one relatively powerless person to change for the better.

We also get angry if we think the world is conspiring against us and we are being victimized by it. The world has never been fair or just and will not be fair or just into the foreseeable future so stop blaming the system and try to find ways of working around it to get to your desired goals in life.

Finally we get angry at mistakes which we make which may or may not be our fault. Almost everyone makes a thousand and one mistakes in their lives and instead of getting angry one should try to learn from the mistakes and make sure that they don’t happen again or don’t happen as frequently in the future by making necessary changes in your life or changing your approach to things.

Fundamentally we get angry because our ego has been hurt or because our attempt at reaching a goal(s) has been stopped or hindered permanently or temporarily.

Getting angry is easy but suppressing the emotion and debating or discussing the situation calmly takes skill and selfcontrol which is not easy to obtain overnight.

Accepting the fact that no one is perfect including ourselves and accepting the fact that two or more humans will frequently disagree or have different opinions on a topic is vital to keep angry emotional outbursts to a minimum.

Here are 3 ways to reduce angry reactions which should work for anyone interested in managing their tendency to respond with anger first and not last:

Take a timeout:

Count to 10 before you respond is good advice because in the heat of the moment an angry remark is something which may hurt you permanently and it is not something which you can change once you have said it. Not responding for ten seconds or longer will frequently give us time to control our angry impulses and find a better answer or solution to the problem at hand.

Express your feelings and opinions in a noncombative way:

Once you have calmed down a bit don’t be confrontational or in attack mode but try to discuss the topic which made you angry in a calm collected way. Communicate the situation which caused the anger without immediately trying to control or hurt others with nasty comments and orders. Try to mutually come to an agreement on what should be done to diffuse the highly emotional situation. Let’s try to work this out in a mutually beneficial way if possible.

Instead of  being combative and saying “You make me angry” say “I feel angry” and instead of “I disagree with your opinion” say “I think that my opinion has validity because-“

Learn new communication skills:

Most humans get angry and lose control of their emotions because they frequently feel helpless in a bad situation. “What do I do next?” is frequently a question which goes unanswered and an angry response is the fast easy wrong response.  Learning to ask the right questions and getting answers to them are the communication skills which are necessary to navigate past a dysfunctional angry response.

Ask yourself and others who, what, where, when, why, how, and how much about angry situations. You will find out in a controlled way who or what caused the anger, where, when, and why the anger started, and how the anger can be eliminated in the future.

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