If you have a good job which will last then you have already reached your most important priority in life. Being financially stable means that you have the money to lead an exciting fulfilling single life if you choose to do so and it also means that if you want a family then you can afford one. If you are good at managing your finances and have good communication skills then you will probably have a happy family life too.
If you don’t have a good job and are single then your most important “secret” priority in life should be to train or educate yourself for a good paying job and devote much of your spare time trying to achieve that goal. Sometimes a long and difficult apprenticeship in an organization working your way up the pay scale may be the answer. If not, then preparing for a better job elsewhere should always be an important priority. You may be 30 or 40 before you reach financial stability but the quest is well worth it since you will have only lived about half of your life with the other best half is still in front of you.
Having a good paying job means that you will become a chick magnet even if you are not that attractive and if you are a female then having a good paying job means that if you become the victim of a failed marriage with offspring then you will be able to support them after the divorce and not have to go on welfare assistance and live in poverty.
Living a carefree adventurous life while young and single and not having a good income means that your creature comforts will be minimal and your relationships with the opposite sex will mostly be dysfunctional ones or one night stands. If you are a very attractive female then your physical allure may compensate for a poor income but if you are a handsome poor income male then the only status which you can hope for is a “good time guy” and nothing more.
If you have a good paying job and are honest, sincere, and reliable then your single life will probably be a success and so will your married life be a success if you decide to commit to one and have not been overly promiscuous before the commitment.
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