Daily Archives: November 9, 2014

PROLONGED WORRYING, BLAMING, AND ANGER ARE TIME WASTERS!!!

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The key to efficiently using your time is not to dwell too long on things which you can’t change in the past, present, or future. Time spent worrying, blaming, or staying angry over things you couldn’t change or won’t be able to change is a waste of time. Calmly reflecting on past mistakes and taking steps so that the mistakes won’t happen again is not time wasted because it involves changing yourself which is doable and not impossible.

Stop worrying about what others think since you can’t read minds, stop worrying about the worst that can happen which probably won’t, stop worrying about the economy which you can’t change, and stop worrying about past events which you can’t change.

Stop blaming bad luck and other humans remotely responsible for your own daily problems.

Stop staying angry and obsessing at strangers and events which you have no control over.

If you can’t change something or control it then stop wasting your time thinking about it or trying to change it or control it.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT DISOBEDIENCE***

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Disobedience: n. intentionally not accepting and not doing a command(s) which frequently is a (law(s) and/or rule(s)) and/or social norm(s)

Laws, rules, and social norms are really commands by society to behave a certain way within behavioral limits. If you intentionally don’t do these commands or don’t accept them then you are being disobedient and intentionally so.

There is offspring disobedience which is a learning process and parents try to correct this disobedience with their own tactics which vary largely depending on whether the offspring rearing is largely authoritarian or more democratic and consensus based.

Adult disobedience results in official punishment if caught and social ostracism or a ruined reputation for going too radically against social norms. Disobeying standard operating procedure or organizational rules can get you fired or released from important duties or responsibilities.

Dysfunctional family life with bad role model friends and mediocre teachers handicap many with dysfunctional relationships. Good relationships require obedience to good relationship etiquette which bad role models never teach.

Without a strong moral family experience and obedience to it offspring grow into adults with the same parental handicaps and frequently add to them with addictive bad behaviors which they learn from other dysfunctional friends.

Teenagers and young adults will even rebel against good family ethics but sooner or later discover that they have a good foundation to go back to in times of trouble and chaos.

Disobedience to old beliefs and laws results in some progress in society but disobedience to basic moral laws is what causes society to gradually self destruct. It is the wise human who realizes that not lying, not stealing, not being adulterous, and not murdering is something which each generation must learn and reaffirm over and over again.

 

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