Your moral values are the same and you have the same basic beliefs such as a belief in smart and/or hard work and a belief that offspring rearing is a mutual responsibility
You spend more time living in the present having short and long duration goals and spend almost no time reliving past memories
The relationship brings you more happiness than pain
Both of you are making changes in the relationship and making it better
You don’t justify bad behavior but take successful actions to exclude it from the relationship
You are not abusing each other physically and/or emotionally
Old problems no longer resurface after you have mutually agreed to solutions which work
You are not ignoring the relationship and making an effort to improve it and exclude problems when they arise
You support or encourage the growth of mutual and independent goals for each other
You both take active steps trying to make the relationship better
You sense that you are being appreciated and respected and trusted
You believe you are not wasting much time in the relationship
You are aware that you deserve the relationship which you are getting and don’t desire a different one
Conclusion: The more of the major 12 reasons that exist in your relationship the more perfect it becomes and if you have all 12 then you have an excellent relationship or maybe even true love.
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