Don’t be a woman who needs a man but be a woman a man needs and don’t be a man who needs a woman but be a man a woman needs.
5 RULES WHICH WILL HELP MAINTAIN A HAPPY MARRIAGE:
If one of you is angry then don’t be angry back but try to be the calming influence.
Never yell at each other unless the house is burning.
If someone has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
Don’t harshly criticize but do so lovingly in a calm voice.
Don’t bring up past mistakes unless one is repeating itself again.
Reality is not an illusion. Pinch yourself and it hurts and live life badly and be the victim of much misery and unhappiness.
Improve your relationships by being patient, kind, not envious, not too proud, not rude, not too selfseeking, not easily angered, and keeping no record of wrongs unless they are immoral ones with which you don’t want to be victimized again.
7 Steps to rational happiness:
Do more meditational thinking and less emotional stressing, smile more and frown less, listen more and talk less, be more accepting and less judgmental, do more and watch others less, appreciate more and complain less, care more and fear less.
Apologizing by saying “I’m sorry” doesn’t always mean that you were wrong and the other human was right. It means sometimes that you are sorry for the fact that there had to be misunderstanding in the first place and that you are not going to let your “always right” ego get in the way of a valuable ongoing mutual relationship because sometimes both of you are a little wrong and a little right at the same time. Except for strict morality, life is not always right or wrong but often something in between the two extremes.
Except for strict morality, real life is not always right or always wrong but partially right and partially wrong or sometimes right and sometimes wrong.
Learn how to have fun without alcohol, how to talk without cell phones, daydream without drugs, smile without selfies, and love with moral conditions.
Money can buy humans with these characteristics and possessions but MONEY CAN’T BUY these things which you can then call YOUR characteristics and possessions: There are at least 20 things which money can’t buy for you personally.
Devoted respect and admiration
Offspring who admire and respect you
Natural personal beauty
Good manners
Common sense
Integrity
Good close friendships
Longevity
An analytic mind
Purposeful creativity
Patience
Gambling luck
A strong work ethic
True love
Peace in the world
Talent
Wisdom
Humility
An outstanding social reputation
Youth when you’re old
The goal for great humans is not to live forever but to create something which will last a long duration.
Where you are going is much more important than how fast you are going somewhere but going fast in the right direction is exceptionally good.
Common and celebrity humans basically love the same thing. Common humans love being spoiled with time, attention, and kisses and celebrity humans love being spoiled with time, attention, and applause. Both love feeling wanted and important.
I choose to live by choice, not by chance, to be motivated, not manipulated, to be useful, not used, to make changes, not excuses, to excel, and sometimes compete, I choose selfesteem, not selfpity, I choose to listen to my impulses, not to the random opinion of others.
“Sorry” is a good apology when a mistake is made but not good enough when trust is broken by immorality and trust can’t be reestablished.
Love someone who does the right things and not one that just says the right things but doesn’t behave accordingly.
Humans can inspire you, entertain you, or drain you. Choose them wisely.
The only true wisdom is that you should know more useful knowledge than what you already do.
A relationship is a changing ongoing process and not a finished product which stays the same over time.
Ignorance can be educated, crazy can be medicated, but there is no cure for fanatical dogmatism.
Try to find the good in humans because much is occasional forgivable bad behavior but don’t ignore or forget the immorality in them because you don’t want to be victimized twice by them.
Follow your heart and you will find out it basically stands still and repeats itself. Follow your brain and you will find that it can potentially lead you to anywhere where you would like to go just by thinking and obeying the goals it makes for you.
Anyone who believed in unending growth on a finite planet is either crazy or an economist.
Some humans die at 30 but aren’t buried until 80.
Great minds have often encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds.
Don’t let schooling interfere with selfeducation.
One way to destroy an enemy is to make him into your friend.
Wherever they go some create happiness, others whenever they go away.
Prejudices are rarely overcome by argument and can’t be destroyed by reason or logic alone.
Great relationships are not made up of perfect humans. They are made up of compromises, adjustments, caring, and understanding.
There is no safe way to remain in a relationship with a human who has no conscience and is immoral. The only solution is to escape.
The 7 dangers to human virtue: wealth without work, pleasure without moral conscience, knowledge without character, business without morality, philosophy without empathy and compassion, science without humanity, and politics without principle.
The personal price of anything is the amount of time and energy which your life devotes to it.
Drugs are a waste of time and energy. They destroy your memory, health, and selfrespect and everything which goes along with your selfesteem.
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