Monthly Archives: February 2019

UPDATED NEW QUOTE BY ULDIS SPROGIS 1378!!!

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UPDATED NEW QUOTE BY ULDIS SPROGIS 1376!!!

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UPDATED NEW QUOTE BY ULDIS SPROGIS 1375!!!

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UPDATED NEW QUOTE BY ULDIS SPROGIS 1377!!!

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UPDATED NEW QUOTE BY ULDIS SPROGIS 1374!!!

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THE IMPACT OF BAD DESTRUCTIVE EMPLOYEES ON THE WORKFORCE!!!

Negative attitude word cloud concept

This is a reworded article gotten from the basic ideas in Insperity’s blog “A Practical Guide to Managing Difficult Employees.”

Common ways bad destructive employees affect the workplace:

They lower employee morale, reduce productivity, decrease other employee’s performance, decrease the quality and profit of the business, and are a legal liability.

Types of bad destructive employees and what to do about them:

The overly emotional employee:

Speak to the employee immediately if he or she shouts, slams doors, throws things, argues with others in a loud tone of voice, and uses profanity.

Confront and talk to the overly emotional employee but try to avoid sentences beginning with the word YOU which sounds accusatory and will put the employee immediately on the defensive. Instead start with a question such as what did you shout about, what was the loud argument about, or what was the reason for using a harsh profanity?

Everyone is entitled to one emotional outburst once in a while but if it becomes frequent then suggest weekly private meetings where frustrations can be vented or discussed before another angry explosion occurs in the workplace. Emphasize the importance of keeping a cool head in the workplace because it annoys, shocks, troubles, and interrupts or disrupts other employee morale and performance. You definitely don’t want a repetitive emotional time bomb working for you for very long.

The bullying employee or manager:

Ranting and raving at another in a pushy manner on a regular basis is one way that someone tries to assert power or dominance over others. This attempt at intimidation will anger others and affect or decrease the morale and performance in the workplace.

Some managers use this scare tactic to try to get performance out of others and if it sometimes succeeds workwise it will still decrease the respect and morale of the employee.

A manager who spreads gossip, criticizes too often, yells, name calls, puts down, belittles, humiliates, ridicules, and insults will not be respected very much and morale will suffer. If the manager excludes employees from projects as punishment or takes credit for another’s work then this too will decrease morale.

If the manager is a bully then only higher ups may be able to do something about it. In the case of an employee it is important to get the details of the bullying in a calm and collected fashion from both parties before suggesting ways to radically decrease or hopefully eliminate the bullying.

The repetitive naysayer:

Most naysayers offer advice on why a project won’t work but often don’t offer alternatives and this can lead to team effort grinding to a halt. A pessimistic attitude can affect the whole team and beyond to other departments too.

Confront an employee with repetitive negativity and try to find out if there are personal problems which are possibly affecting his or her decision making process. Make sure to document by being specific and accurate in detail all the negative instances to avoid the possibility of discrimination or harassment suits. Say that an employee has trouble working in group situations rather than stating that someone is a trouble maker and doesn’t get along with teammates.

The social butterfly:

Being very sociable is only bad if deadlines are not met or work is not getting done. Confront the employee and give specific examples of how excessive talking is affecting the work. Try to get the employee to socialize less and perhaps channel this sociability by letting him or her spend time on social events for the office such as planning office parties or leading a welcoming committee for new workers.

In conclusion, being extremely emotional, a bully, a naysayer, and a social butterfly once in a while will cause no great harm to an organization but if the behavior is habitual or very repetitive then detailing the episodes with good documentation and firing the employee is a logical thing to do to avoid poisoning the morale and productivity of the entire workforce.

3 important management mistakes that anger employees:

  1. Engaging in very emotional confrontations.

Fiery arguments are the worst case scenario since cool, calm discussions are preferable by a mile.

If you are conveying bad news to an employee then it is important to start off on a positive note and make sure it is a private one to one meeting and not a session which other employees can hear.

Read the employee body language and pay close attention as you deliver the bad news in a truthful, factual, helpful, inspiring, and kind way. Above all be courageous, factual, calm, and private.

  1. Undervaluing employees or not giving credit where credit is due and not thanking them for their important contributions.

Praise and acknowledgment for work well done is important in any job but in teamwork what is further important is to acknowledge an employee’s impact on business success and trying to mentor them by giving them challenging new tasks on projects, encouraging them to attend workshops and join professional organizations, and help them develop a plan to reach their goals within the organization.

Along the way it is important to try and reward their efforts with special perks such as lunch with the boss where personal issues can be discussed, giving company apparel or nicknacks such as a shirt with a company logo, and extending certain privileges such as VIP parking. Impromptu time off such as showing up late for work or quitting work early can also be good motivating rewards.

Making office space available for peer to peer recognition and kudos with high fiving can also be a motivational reward.

  1. Finally, leaving an employee in isolation from boss and other employees is one of the most unmotivational things that you can do and work performance will suffer as well as the employee morale.

Try to create an open door policy with adequate feedback from an employee where he or she can air grievances or frustrations, make suggestions, report on work progress, ask questions or seek advice, share concerns and work issues, and make contacts with other employees.

An open trusting respectful relationship between boss and employees and between employees themselves is the primary goal which one should strive to achieve in the business.

 

You can probably categorize about 4 styles or personality types for behavior in the workplace and some have combinations of the 4 since no one employee usually fits into one exclusive pigeonhole category.

 

The dominating personality type is fast paced and wants the work to be completed in a timely manner. They generally prefer respect, control, and challenge in the workplace.

 

The influencers are usually extroverted who are fast paced, energetic, like enthusiasm and fun, and like recognition from others.

 

Supportive and almost submissive personality types are good listeners, support others, are slower paced, team oriented, reserved, and basically desire that others be nice to them and others.

 

The conscientious employee is precise, careful, detail oriented and accurate. He or she prefers logical data-based decisions.

 

Of course the ideal personality type is someone who dominates when necessary, is a good influencer of others, is supportive when needed, and is generally conscientious based on the circumstances as they present themselves. You could call that human a jack of all personality styles who adjusts his or her personality to the circumstances or the tasks at hand.

 

The employee handbook should set the rules for proper and inappropriate behavior in the workplace. Subjects covered are code of conduct, communication policy, nondiscrimination policy, compensation and benefits policy, employment and termination policy, and acknowledgement page.

 

Holding regular performance reviews and check ins of employees is important to get valid feedback. Simply asking -How is it going? followed by coaching, encouragement, and relevant feedback.

 

Focus on the employee’s strengths and contributions, keep the review short, have an open discussion on employee goals for the future, create an employee grievance policy where you get the grievance in writing with documentation for the investigation, and generally encourage an open door policy so an employee is not shy about complaining appropriately if he or she sees something is not as it should be.

 

The above procedures validate the fact that you are interested in the employee staff and not just in their work.

 

A positive optimistic company culture can avoid employee negativity with unsatisfied employees, low productivity, high turnover rates, and less profit.

 

A motivating company culture can flourish if there is- honesty which encourages trust within workplace relationships, if employees know the purpose or goals of the organization and how each contributes to their advancement, and regular feedback which is motivating and offers recognition of work well done.

 

In conclusion, occasional negativity can be tolerated if it is immediately addressed and dealt with. However, habitual or repetitive negativity will definitely harm an organization and the morale of the employees so if no solution can be found to stop the negativity, documentation of each event is essential and eventual firing of the offending employee is a must.

THE SAD HEART WRENCHING TRAGIC END OF LIFE SYMPTOMS OF A LOVED FAMILY CAT!!!

Seldom asked is the question -What happens to some cats at the end of a natural life?

The first noticeable sign of old age for about a 20 year old cat is an inability to jump as high as usual. A decrease in agility and strength is one of the first signs of getting old. Where previously it was a breeze to jump on the kitchen countertop from the floor it now becomes impossible to do and is limited to jumping no higher than a chair’s height.

Food and water are fundamental to a cat’s survival and not being able to consume food in many forms is a sign of bodily and health decline. The cat first refused to eat dry filet mignon and shrimp cat food, then had trouble eating and started choking on hand fed small thinly sliced top round roast beef and cooked ham (his favorite food), then could only eat moist semi chunked wet canned meat, and finally could only lick soft pate seafood and soft pate turkey meat. What was very noticeable was the progressive decline of eating ability and not being able to swallow any food even of a smooth pate consistency. Swallowing difficulty was an obvious fact.

Some other signs of health decline were a tongue which stuck out from the mouth and seemed a little comical but sad, salivating profusely during eating, and clumping of cat fur from self grooming with wet food and milk residue in the mouth. Half the right side of the tongue was whitish and the other half pink, the right side of the mouth or lip was a little open, and the right side of the cheek was covered with clumped blackish hair. Self grooming was bad with a disheveled overall look of the fur. An emaciated look and definitely not a pretty sight.

The whole eating procedure became very messy with bits of saliva coated food and milk spread over half the kitchen floor and about a foot up the kitchen counter cabinets and trash can which were signs that the cat was vigorously also shaking its head a lot during and after meal time. Cleanup of the wooden kitchen floor was a burdensome fifteen minute task every three days with Mr. Clean and many towels were used since a steam cleaner or soapy wet mop would still leave stuck on food residue on the floor.

Next the cat started to urinate in various spots across the house floor, peed in a counter top bowl, and even pissed in a handbag ruining it for further usage. We were afraid that soon the couch, bed, floor, and furniture in general would be damaged my urination so we isolated the feeding and roaming to the Florida room which could be closed off from the rest of the house. Because of the isolation, the tile floor of the Florida room was about 3 times easier to clean up and an open litter box could be used to observe defecation and urination patterns.

One day the cat had a biz ding crazy episode where he started to paw the floor as he drank water and started to paw the milk and water out of the bowl. This was followed by pushing the milk and water containers about a foot from their original position and spilling the contents all over the tile floor. We had two water ash trays for cigarette butts which he also pushed and spilled water out of and drank some of the contents too when there were no butts in the water. It seemed that the cat was desperately thirsty for water at that point and was frantic about drinking it from any location and even the toilet bowl.

On the day before the very end the cat was meowing about every five minutes and was pacing the floor restlessly and not sleeping. We thought that maybe the cat was in pain or felt extreme discomfort. The inability to eat or lick food of any kind, the incessant water and milk drinking failed attempts led us to feel that euthanasia and cremation at the humane society would be the best course of action to avoid further suffering and possible painful death by kidney failure, dysphagia, due to not swallowing any food and effectively starving him for three or more days.

I would often pet and groom the cat with a flea comb in my lap where he calmly would settle down and meditate for about 10 minutes at a time. On the last day before taking him to the humane society he was restless and only stayed in my lap for about 2 minutes of petting before he returned to pacing the floor or wandering into the rest of the house with the Florida room doors open.

My wife and son considered taking the cat to a veterinarian but we had heard that a friend of ours spent about 2000 dollars on her very old cat’s medical tests, diagnosis, and medication only to have to live with the tragic fact that the cat soon died about 4 days later after the trip to the vet and taking the medication and not eating. For a healthy two or three year old cat who stops eating an expensive barrage of medical test diagnoses and medication prescribed by a vet makes some sense but definitely not for a very old cat on his last legs in life.

Yes, hospice care or force feeding the cat with a tube down its throat could conceivably extend his lifespan by a few months or even a year but this is definitely not a pleasant or easily doable procedure for a cat who vigorously fights against pills being forced into the mouth. I once force fed a pet constrictor king snake who could no longer feed itself and extended its lifespan for about a year but I only had to force feed it about once a month and not every day.

The cat survived about the last three months on a diet of milk, soft pate food, and water and slept a lot, but when he stopped eating any food, stopped drinking milk, just tried to drink water, tried to poop and couldn’t, urinated infrequently and almost not at all, soft food would drop out of the mouth with grinding sounds, the desire to eat was still there but the ability to eat was gone, paced the floor without sleeping, and meowed constantly-We sensed that it was time to end it all before he suffered an agonizing death from starvation, kidney and possible liver failure. The humane society euthanasia and cremation for about a hundred bucks seemed like the right humane thing to do for a dignified death free of agonizing pain and suffering.

A sad heart wrenching end to an old cats days in this world but I really believe that we did all that was humanly possible in a loving way and made the right choice to end the cat’s life in a dignified manner free of pain and suffering. Should there be euthanasia for very old loved cats who stop eating? Definitely the right humane thing to do.

If you liked this evergreen truth blog then read more of them, about 4600 so far, or read one or more of my evergreen truth books, especially EVERGREEN TRUTH, rays of truth in a human world filled with myths and deceptions.

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