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UPDATED NEW QUOTE BY ULDIS SPROGIS 506!!!

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UPDATED NEW QUOTE BY ULDIS SPROGIS 505!!!

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UPDATED NEW QUOTE BY ULDIS SPROGIS 503!!!

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8 IMPORTANT FACTORS IN CLOSE GOOD RELATIONSHIPS!!!

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If you have integrity and are trustworthy, dependable, competent, friendly, and empathetic then your chances of forming close, good relationships is optimized. Being immoral and having many bad habits or one or more severe handicapping bad addictions will almost always ruin the possibility of close, good relationships. That being said there are 8 important factors which affect the strength of a bonding relationship:

TRUST:

Trust is the most important bonding characteristic which makes a relationship possible in the first place. Being honest, sincere, and moral or having integrity means that a relationship can potentially flourish if nurtured further.

Lie, steal, or commit adultery and trust can’t exist. Some dysfunctional relationships continue to exist without trust because of fear of abandonment or the fear of physical violence but these relationships are definitely not good or happy ones.

COMMUNICATION:

A relationship is threatened and often ruined if the communication is very bad, if there is very little of it, and definitely ruined when there is no communication at all.

Ideal communication is being a good listener, asking relevant questions, being relatively brief in responses, respecting opposing opinions or beliefs, not being verbally abusive or offensive, and interrupting or changing the subject if the conversation becomes too verbose, too trivial, too emotional, or irrelevant.

RESPECT:

If you have integrity then you will be respected but respect can also be increased with appropriate kindness, gratitude, caring, empathy, openness, listening, dependability, responsibility, competence, expertise, confidence, tolerance of opposing opinions and beliefs, and respect increases by not being verbally or physically abusive. A socially prominent respected human will often also be admired.

RESPONSIBILITY:

A responsible human accepts the consequences of his or her actions and does not try to find excuses or blame others for his or her own mistakes and failures. Moral, parental, behavioral, and financial responsibility is essential for a good relationship.

COOPERATION:

Sharing and/or compromising on parental, household, and financial responsibilities is the essence of what cooperation is. Mutually agreeing on what is to be done by who at what time is what cooperation between two or more individuals means. Whether it is between two individuals or an entire team or organization a good relationship depends on successful cooperation.

BEING GOOD ROLE MODELS:

A good relationship thrives if the participants in the relationship are good role models. This is particularly important in parenting where offspring will do what you do rather than do what you tell them to do. Words are rather weak motivators if your personal behavior and your words don’t match up. If you are a good friend then associate with humans who are also good friends or try to mostly have relationships with good role model humans.

Realistically not that many are good role models and you will also have to learn how to interact with quite a few bad role models in the course of a lifetime without becoming overly cynical, jaded, or spoiled.

INDIVIDUAL FREEDOM:

In any relationship one must respect individual interests and pursuits which make a relationship interesting and potentially more rewarding. Encouraging or motivating someone to pursue their individual interests and build upon their strengths is usually good for a relationship.

PATIENCE:

Not every problem or confrontation needs an urgent solution. Sometimes some research, further discussion, consulting with competent adults, and just letting more time to pass determines whether mutual agreement is possible or whether a live and let live attitude is preferable.

Transient angry confrontations should be minimized by patiently waiting until a given situation can be calmly discussed instead. Angry confrontations often cause insults, put downs, name calling, humiliation, and ridicule which just creates bad feelings and no resolution of the conflict.  

Important problems with potential solutions need patient waiting until enough information and resolve grows to a point where a solution is obvious and possible.

Most parental relationships have a dominant or controlling partner who makes most of the important family decisions and runs the risk of becoming too tyrannical and impulsive with her or his demands. Emotional patience is often a virtue and patiently doing something is less of a virtue especially if it takes the form of procrastination on too many things.

 

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8 PRINCIPLES OF SMART PARENTING!!!

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BE GOOD ROLE MODELS AND SURROUND YOUR OFFSPRING WITH GOOD ADULT ROLE MODELS AND PROMOTE INTERACTION WITH GOOD ROLE MODEL FRIENDS:

Offspring primarily learn from what you and others do, not say, so try to surround your offspring with humans who are good and are doing good things. Try to keep the exposure to bad role models to a minimum and that includes bad role models in the media.

INTRODUCE OFFSPRING EARLY TO THE KNOWLEDGE AND TOOLS NEEDED IN SCHOOL AND THEIR ENVIRONMENT:

Schooling is of primary importance so start early teaching your preschool offspring the alphabet, words, numbers, and big pictures of wildlife or animals and plants, household objects, and vehicles.

Read them stories about real humans doing interesting things in their environment. Stories about animals and plants, vehicles, and household objects are ideal.

Provide them with crayons, paper, and coloring books followed by colored pencils and paper to do their doodles.

Keep computer interaction to a minimum until they reach school age since early on offspring should be learning about and from their physical environment rather than from a computer screen.

It is best if you can supervise or participate with your offspring doing these things together but a nanny or older offspring can also do this for you.

ENCOURAGE TACTILE INTERACTION WITH THE ENVIRONMENT:

Buy interactive toys such as dolls, animals, action figurines, cars, trucks, trains, building blocks or Legos, and balls.

Brain body coordination is very important in offspring development so expose your offspring to the environment and all the things in it as soon as possible.

SPEND SOME TIME INTERACTING WITH INDIVIDUAL OFFSPRING ALONE:

Each offspring craves individual attention and individual interaction will help you to bond and get to know your offspring’s uniqueness compared to other offspring which you may also have. Conversing with your offspring one on one will further his or her communication skills and knowledge. Ask your offspring many questions and get them into the habit of asking you questions too, especially if you feel there is not much to talk about.

ESTABLISH RULES AND SET LIMITS CREATING SELFCONTROL OVER OFFSPRING’S OWN RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR.

Teaching offspring to be selfcontrolled and responsible for their own behavior is important. Obeying rules gives them a sense of security and knowing how far they can go before a vital rule is broken.

Putting away toys before bedtime, personal hygiene, dressing oneself, putting plates and utensils in the dishwasher or sink after finishing eating, and teaching or learning to share with other offspring are vital rules on the way to more independent behavior.

Conflicts over rules can arise and you can assert your parental authority, give in if it is important to the offspring but not so much to you, compromise if both are happy with it, and problem solve where you discuss the situation and reach a consensus or a solution acceptable to both sides.

This is not common parenting procedure but if you can teach your offspring to SCHEDULE their own time by the clock each day such as time with friends, time with homework, time alone, time on the computer, learning something new time, time with a hobby, play time, etc. then they will learn to value their time in life and at work eventually and not be wasteful or inefficient with it.

MONITOR OR SUPERVISE OFFSPRING:

Make sure you know where they are, with whom they are, and what they are doing to make sure they are doing things safely and responsibly.

Promote your offspring’s responsible independence.

Don’t micromanage your offspring’s life during the school years because he or she must learn to ultimately behave independently and responsibly on their own and an overprotective attitude can harm this independence in the long duration.

DISCIPLINE:

If something is illegal, immoral, unhealthy, unsafe, offensive, too expensive, or not the right time, place, and social environment then I won’t let you do that is the right approach and you will be punished with withdrawal of a privilege temporarily and/or a severe scolding if a bad behavior is repeating too often.

Be consistent in your expectations and present a unified front as parents so that offspring do not try to play one parent against the other.

Mommy lets me do this so why don’t you? or Daddy lets me do this so why don’t you?

How to punish and the ideal way of punishing:

The quick way is to just say if you do that again then your punishment will be withdrawal of a privilege, or even a spanking for lying or stealing again for  very young offspring. Rarely a belt to the butt for a stealing teenager is necessary if taking away a cellphone or computer privileges does not work.

Ideally you identify the bad behavior, state why it is wrong, give alternative behaviors which are acceptable or may reach the same goals, a clear statement of what the punishment is going to be, and a statement of the expectation that it will not happen again. This approach is for smart educated parents.

Anger is inevitable but try to avoid insults, put downs, name calling, humiliation, and ridicule when it comes to disciplining your offspring.

Consistency in enforcing important rules is very desirable but realize that in the real world, except for immoral behavior, there are always one or two or more exceptions to your rules depending on the time, place, and social environment.

EXPLAIN YOUR RULES AND DECISIONS:

This is very hard to do because for most the reason for the rules and decisions was probably almost never explained by your parents either. So the explanation is that it is ILLEGAL, IMMORAL, UNHEALTHY,UNSAFE, OFFENSIVE, TOO EXPENSIVE, OR NOT THE RIGHT TIME, PLACE AND SOCIAL ENVIRONMENT.

Other possible explanations are that it takes too much parental time, energy, and money or that the offspring is wasting too much time, energy, and money doing something. You are living an inefficient life if you spend too much time, energy, and money on relatively unimportant things.

Another explanation may be that the family has priorities or important things to do or consider and what offspring are trying to do does not fit those important priorities and can basically be considered trivial shit.

A whole book can be written on what is offensive in public, what is offensive behavior to parents, to humans in general, and offensive to certain humans in particular. If an offspring offends either parent then it is probably bad behavior as long as the parent identifies it as being rude, unkind, cruel, mean, insulting, name calling, a put down, humiliation, ridicule, selfish or uncaring, lazy, bragging, messy, arrogant, irresponsible, disrespectful, etc.. Few parents can identify words and match them to behavior successfully so just saying it offends me or someone else should be enough of a reason in most cases when you can’t explain in detail.

One authority figure said a rule and decision must be reasonable, logical, and consistent but frankly there is no definition of reason and logical so this is just stupid intellectual advice or no advice at all.

The best advice is to try and talk about a rule or decision and get the offspring’s point of view. If it makes intuitive sense to the parent then there may be room for compromise or- rule or decision adjustment.

SUMMARY:

In the United States parenting is getting harder and not easier to do in an increasingly immoral and technologically changing society which challenges almost all the accepted rules of behavior or accepted norms, customs, and traditions of society.

Gambling, drugs, alcohol, promiscuity, pornography, deception, lying and irresponsible behavior tempts offspring at every turn and threatens to turn into severe handicapping addictions. Try to isolate very young offspring from these bad influences as long as possible.

If you are a flawed human with too many bad addictions yourself then consider not having any offspring at all who will just practice those same addictions when they grow up. If you are a dysfunctional human then you will be a dysfunctional parent so unless you can get your shit together don’t even think about having offspring before you straighten yourself out first.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT THE EDUCATIONAL SYSTEM!!!

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The four most important factors affecting educational excellence are the quality of the teachers, the quality or usefulness of the education, the amount of money available for educational resources, and the moral quality of the students and parents in the educational system.

The quality of the teachers is a function of their educational achievement level and teaching ability or an ability to inspire students to do their best in the teacher’s field of expertise.

The quality or usefulness of the education is important because non technological fields are increasingly job poor and mostly a waste of time, energy, and money. Educational priorities must urgently be changed in public education to assure job readiness which may mean the introduction of more vocational and technological training programs earlier in the educational process and much less emphasis on team sports, music, drama or theater, languages, history, and the liberal arts in general.

The amount of money available for teacher’s salaries and educational equipment like computers and lab supplies is also very important but poor school districts not only struggle with less money but many bad teachers and also with offspring coming from dysfunctional families. Money alone will not solve the huge basic social drawbacks of offspring coming from dysfunctional and often immoral families.

The quality of the students depends somewhat on genetic inheritance but much can be achieved with a hard working moral family to back up the student. Unfortunately in poor neighborhoods there are many terrible parental unemployed role models, bad adult role models, and bad friend role models often pushing drug use, disrespect, and irresponsible behavior in general.

Interactive useful audio visual interactive computer education available to students in poor neighborhoods is the ultimate solution which will supply the potential for equal opportunity for all citizens if they put in the time, effort, and achievement necessary. Also this useful audio visual interactive computer education should be made available to all unemployed and destitute humans at any age so that they too see some hope out of their seemingly hopeless poor social circumstances.

However, the dysfunctional social environment of a poor neighborhood still has to be addressed with a universal secular moral code taught to all impressionable young student minds.

Teacher’s unions may extort more money from the school system but their emphasis on seniority and not inspirational teacher excellence is a major drawback. Also union general resistance to educational change to useful audio visual interactive computer instruction are severe handicapping tendencies which stifle educational necessary innovation.

Equal educational opportunity for all the citizens, no matter what the age, in poor neighborhoods is the only long duration system which will be more just than the present status quo handicapping existence or system!!!

 

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8 PRINCIPLES OF NEGOTIATION OR COMPROMISE!!!

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Some things are nonnegotiable:

First of all it is important to realize that some things are just not negotiable and if you must or want to impose your will then force or withdrawal of a privilege is the only possible solution although often a temporary one.

Try to compromise or negotiate with a terrorist or a religious fanatic who thinks your requests are those of the devil incarnate and you will fail miserably. Fanatical dogmatic beliefs are frankly nonnegotiable and you are delusional if you think that communication will lead to any changes in those beliefs unless you are in a superior military and monetary situation and can threaten or scare someone into submission with the fear of death or financial bankruptcy.

You rarely know ahead of time but sometimes there are nonnegotiable points or demands which the human will not change under any circumstances. You may prepare to give in to the nonnegotiable demand but get a concession in return or a promise to do something which you need or want and the human can provide you with. This too is a win win situation because you are still both getting something which you need or want.

I don’t intend to give pointers on international negotiations but the principles involved in individual negotiations or compromise also apply to some extent in international ones too.

Negotiations or compromises are statistical probabilities:

Another basic truth is that negotiations are a scientific statistical probability and not an absolute certainty. You can increase the probability of a successful negotiation but you can’t always guarantee it. You may use every trick, tip, or negotiation principle and still fail at reaching a compromise.

It greatly helps to have integrity, respect, and expertise:

One of the most important negotiation principles is being liked and/or respected by the humans with whom you are trying to negotiate. Military, economic, and moral strength are respected by national leaders but integrity and expertise are respected and sometimes even admired by common humans.

Integrity is something which should not be compromised and if you are asked to sacrifice your morality for some short duration goal then your reputation will be affected adversely. Lie, steal, commit adultery, or murder someone and you have lost your integrity as well as your good social reputation.

Exclude intense and not so intense emotions as much as possible:

Emotional outbursts or communicating with much emotion can doom a negotiation because any strong indication of anger or arrogance will cause impulsive defensive actions or basically saying no to everything. Stay as cool, calm, and collected as possible in total discussion mode. Also don’t come in with a strong emotional attitude of arrogance or superiority with cockiness, overconfidence, bluster, offensive personal attacks such as insults, put downs, name calling, humiliation, and ridicule. No deal will be the result.

Know your adversary as much as possible:

This means finding out all that you can about your adversary before the negotiation. What they believe, what they think, what they do and who their associates or friends are will give you an idea whether they are negotiating from weakness or from strength. If you don’t know all the vital details ahead of time then the negotiation itself is a time to ask smart questions which will reveal important beliefs, opinions, and relationships.

Use time to your advantage:

Sometimes you can yield to or refuse a demand for a day, week, month, or years after which you either agree to renegotiate or switch to getting your demand for another duration. Time has an interesting way of changing minds because sometimes during duration ongoing circumstances almost force one to compromise.

Decrease and/or increase the frequency and/or length of a behavior or activity:

Sometimes a family compromise is merely decreasing the frequency and/or length of a behavior or doing it less often and not so long. Both spouses may feel that one is spending too much time on a behavior or activity which is causing family problems or personal dissatisfaction. The compromise is to promise to exchange behavior reductions and to shop less or spend less time on sports.

Spending more time on a behavior or activity may also be a compromise. One spouse may promise to spend more time interacting with offspring and the other may promise to spend more time researching recipes for tasty new home meals.

The third form of compromise is one spouse promising to increase an activity or behavior and the other promising to decrease an activity or behavior.

Stop or promise to never do that behavior or activity again is another possibility in a compromise.

A good behavior or activity can be increased or decreased in frequency and duration during a compromise but a bad behavior or activity should only be decreased in frequency and duration in a compromise. Immoral behavior or activity should be stopped.

Using the herd instinct or desire to belong to a group:

Sometimes compromise is more successful if you can point to many humans who are doing what you need or want to be done by a human. Peer or group pressure is sometimes a disadvantage in parental negotiations but if peers or groups are doing something right or it is something that you approve of then you can try to use peer or group pressure in a negotiation.

Stay focused on your goal(s):

Some aggressive negotiators, especially high pressure saleshumans, will try to intimidate, ignore, or cleverly change the subject to get you to say yes so try not to lose your focus on the goal(s) which you actually need or want and not those which you don’t want or need.

During a negotiation I had to repeat myself four times or ask one car salesman what was my yearly interest on a car loan based on a $3000 down payment. He ignored me or changed the subject four times before he finally came up with a printout in writing.

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MEN ARE APPRECIATED AND SOMETIMES LOVED WHEN THEY DO THESE 22 THINGS!!!

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Men are appreciated when they do something for a woman, when they enjoy sharing interactions or experiences with their woman, or when they do something manly.

Doing things for a woman may be

making a date,

arranging a trip,

scheduling a walk,

giving desired, enjoyable, appropriate gifts,

giving an affectionate kiss or caress,

giving compliments for looks, a choice of clothes, or a tasty meal preparation,

doing a household chore like cooking,

empathizing and giving emotional support after a hard day at home or on the job,

doing the woman a favor not ordinarily done,

getting a better job which is giving more financial support, and

fixing something broken around the house.

 

Sharing parental responsibilities like

teaching reading and math to young offspring,

playing with them,

helping with homework,

going to interesting places like amusement parks, museums, exhibitions, county fairs, concerts, movies, etc.,

sharing household chores,

sex, and

sharing shopping experiences.

 

Manly things are

enjoying sports,

reading technical books,

pursuing a hobby, and

having interesting male friends.

These are considered manly things but what they really are just things predominantly enjoyed by males in a culture but they are also enjoyed by some women.

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8 PRINCIPLES TO FOLLOW FOR A BETTER MARRIAGE!!!

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LEARN TO COMPROMISE AND COOPERATE:

Most important is to learn the art of compromise or cooperation. Sometimes this involves the sharing of household chores or responsibilities and offspring raising responsibilities. Sometimes it means mutually sacrificing some pleasant time for the benefit of the family unit.

An example of compromise or an exchange of mutual sacrifice may be as follows. The husband may ask the wife to sacrifice something and the wife may ask the husband to sacrifice something in return. For example, the husband may sacrifice some pleasant time with his buddies or watching sports to spend more time reading to, playing with, and helping offspring with homework. In exchange the wife may sacrifice some time and save money by not shopping for clothes and jewelry so often.

Sharing the household chores by both spouses is possible. Cooperating or assigning responsibility for a given household chore to one spouse is the common way of doing things so you don’t have to alternate responsibilities on a daily or weekly basis. In either case it can be seen as both spouses sacrificing their time and energy or fulfilling their responsibilities in a cooperative way.

The compromise is really an exchange of behavioral changes. “If you do this which is what I want then I will do what you want.” Priorities are changed in each compromise and your old priorities or what you spent most of your time with will change and make room for other priorities considered to now be more important.

Most compromises and cooperative behaviors initially may feel like sacrifices of pleasant old habits which are hard to change unless you have an optimistic courageous attitude that the change is for the better and the new modified habit or changed behavior is really going to be mutually beneficial.

Out with the old and in with the new viewed courageously and enthusiastically is the key to successful happy compromises. In effect, the time, energy, and money spent on an old habit will be modified and more time, energy, and money will be spent on the new now preferred habit.

Compromising can really be thought of as an ability to cooperate in a relationship so that both parties mutually benefit in some way.

TRY TO RESOLVE CONFLICTS WITH DISCUSSION RATHER THAN ARGUMENTS.

If there is a conflict or difference of opinion then you can seek to resolve it, ignore it, or learn to live with the differences of opinion or agree to disagree. How important the issue is should determine whether there is an urgent need to resolve it or if it is rather insignificant and can be ignored for some time without serious consequences. If the issue is not urgent and important then switching from argument mode to discussion mode is the preferred way to do it.

Arguments are confrontational with aggressive words and defensive verbal reactions which inflame emotions and make it harder to agree on something because it is a winner take all approach, or one side must win and the other side must lose. Sometimes the urgency is so great that immediate action is necessary and there is no time for smart discussion and you may have to give in to an emotional fit.

When a problem is not that urgent then there is time for discussion which may last a few minutes or hour and the problem may be resolved over the course of a few days or even few weeks. Sometimes a problem must be researched or a resolving opinion gotten from a friend so one time discussions are not always the rule but in fact rather infrequent because most serious problems need much time to resolve and this means resolution within a few days or few weeks.

Discussion is not easy to learn because one spouse may be very verbal and talk their head off while the other may be one with few words and not very skillful with give and take conversation.

Most arguments are about not doing something which should be done or about doing something bad which shouldn’t be done. Women are usually the ones trying to make you feel guilty about never doing something or always doing what they consider to be bad.

The key to conflict resolution is sometimes a question of doing something more frequently or not doing something as frequently since old habits die hard and are not easy to change overnight. Sometimes conflict resolution is promising to do something more often or not doing something so often since completely eliminating or radically changing the behavior is usually almost impossible to do realistically. Women who try to change their husband’s behavior overnight or with incessant nagging are doomed to fail so it is a good idea not to marry someone with too many behavioral drawbacks which need reforming.

FORGIVE AND TRY TO FORGET:

Confrontational attacking emotional arguments demonstrating verbal aggression can quickly degenerate into insults, name calling, put downs, and ridicule which hurt feelings and elicit vengeful defensive feelings. Being called stupid, crazy, worthless, scum bag, etc. really need an apology sooner or later so forgiving one for these transgressions is often vital to maintaining respect or trust in a relationship.

If it is not an unforgiveable moral transgression such as lying or adultery the behavior can usually be forgiven but trying to forget passionate insults, name calling, put downs, and ridicule is very hard to do realistically so try not to argue if arguing brings out the worst in you. Sometimes tone of voice is very important and there are sometimes nice ways to ridicule and put someone down without stirring up permanent vengeful feelings.

Crappy arguing should sometimes be forgiven with more than just an apology. A promise to do something nice may be the best solution to severely offending a spouse. Kiss and makeup are vital to a lasting marital relationship.

BE TRUTHFUL AND NOT VERY HURTFUL:

Never be afraid to reveal your true likes and dislikes to a spouse in a calm manner but be cautious not to utter something in intense emotional anger which you wish you could take back later but can’t once it leaves your mouth. An honest or truthful relationship will maintain an atmosphere of trust and respect so vital to a lasting relationship. A spouse will often forget what you did wrong given enough time but harsh words said in anger can leave permanent emotional scars which can last a lifetime.

STAY TRUE TO YOUR CORE MORAL VALUES:

Despite differences in personality and viewpoints it is important to maintain your core values such as integrity, dependability, promise fulfillment, loyalty, faithfulness, and friendliness. You can offend once in a while, make mistakes occasionally, and do some bad things along the way but you should never lie or commit adultery which are the most important core moral values.

PLAY BY THE RULES:

Each household has rules which are basically household responsibilities to be carried out by each spouse. Sharing in household responsibilities and/or a division of work or household responsibilities is the way that responsibilities are usually divided up. In no situation should one radically feel that they are doing all the work or have all the responsibilities and the other partner has none or very little.

SUPPORT INDIVIDUAL INTERESTS:

There is nothing as nice as having shared interests such as offspring to maintain a bonding relationship in marriage but there are marriages where each spouse may have very important interests outside the family and these should be encouraged as much as possible.

Encouraging the growth of outside interests makes for an interesting relationship which should never get boring since there is always something new to discuss which one spouse has not experienced. Very dependent interactive relationships can last a long time but independent activity can lead to more fulfilling lives for both spouses and a great pride in personal accomplishment too.

Two working spouses is increasingly becoming the norm for financial reasons alone and even though there is a risk that career priorities may lead to a geographical breakup of a relationship the ultimate resolution of the potential problem may be to relocate geographically to the area where one spouse will be making the largest income.

BE FINANCIALLY RESPONSIBLE:

One of the major reasons for divorce is financial instability which is caused by having offspring too soon or spending too much money during marriage, getting into overwhelming debt, and having to declare both financial and marital bankruptcy.

Budgeting money is the key to not overspending on big cars, big houses, many clothes, too much eating out and expensive vacations.

With the technological revolution job security is no longer a guarantee for a lifetime so continual selfeducation or learning new useful skills for a job are becoming increasingly vital to stay financially afloat.

Financial recklessness or irresponsibility will make a bad relationship worse and terminal and a good relationship is not really possible in the real world.  If you can’t control your money then you will not be able to control your relationship successfully.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT ABANDONMENT+

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Abandonment: n. departing from a lifeform(s) and/or a subset(s) frequently permanently

You can abandon offspring, a pet, or an unsafe house and it is frequently a permanent action.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT COUNSEL+

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Counsel: v. to give legal and/or social advice with or without discussion

When you counsel someone then you either give legal and/or social advice to someone with or without discussion. Marital and psychological counseling are common social forms of counseling and divorce and business counseling have important legal considerations to discuss.

When you give advice to your offspring then you can consider it to be a form of life counseling which you relay to your offspring hopefully for their future benefit and perhaps even your own benefit in the long duration.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT GROAN*

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Groan: v. to make a low frequency inarticulate sound expressive of (pain and/or grief) and/or (disappointment and/or undesired (commands and/or requests))

Sometimes an articulate “owe!” is superimposed on a groan because of pain and an articulate “oh!”, “oh no!”, or “oh my!” is superimposed on a groan signaling large disappointment or grief. Offspring will sometimes groan when asked to do something unpleasant or when commanded to do something which they don’t want to do right away.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT INNOCEMSEX*

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Innocemsex (minor): n. the right of a minor not to see deviant adult sexual behavior and not to be (motivated and/or threatened) and/or forced to interact sexually before he or she becomes an adult with full reproductive rights and/or the right not to steal minor sexual innocence

Frequently claimed as a right to free speech is the right to view sexually explicit material including pornography by adults.

Just as true is the fact that exposing very young offspring to pornography and deviant sexual activity can result in an adult leading a life of sexual debauchery unable to establish healthy moral committed relationships with the opposite sex. Minors should have the right to be exposed to moral free speech and pedofilia is not moral free speech.

There should be a right to shelter minors from sexual participation or the viewing of deviant sexual activity and that is what the word innocemsex means or the right of a minor to censored sexual behavior.

Pedofiles or adults wanting to have sex with minors is viewed negatively by most cultures and justifiably so. Pedofilia is stealing a minor’s sexual innocence and it should be a crime everywhere.

Deviant adult sexual behavior subject to censorship for minors can vary in definition from culture to culture but my recommendation is to consider the natural sex act between male and female, face to face or back to face, as the standard sexual acts and deviance from it would be the use of artificial sexual aids such as dildos, rectum copulation, maybe even penis sucking, and orgies which all may be entertainment and kinky deviance for adults but in my opinion not appropriate for minor viewing or participation.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT INQUIRY*

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Inquiry: n. collecting knowledge and/or facts about a subset(s) and frequently by getting answers to questions about samer subset(s)

 

Detective and crime movies and shows frequently demonstrate the inquiry process in action with the asking of many questions from humans potentially involved in the crime or its periphery. The questions often asked are what were you doing? at what time? and with whom were you with?

The time, place, and actions going on there along with material evidence are frequently used as the circumstantial evidence needed to proceed with further inquiries until the crime is solved.

Motive for most premeditated crimes is significant in weeding out extraneous facts and information not relevant to the crime. Why someone did a crime? is a very important question to ask and try to discover an answer to.

Often close relatives, close business partners, or friends of the murder victim are the primary immediate suspects to a crime and the more remote the relationship of the offender to the victim the less chance there is of finding the murderer or criminal offender.

One of the keys to a good inquiry is getting to get humans with a good reputation to answer truthfully and an ability to spot the liar and exclude his or her opinions or versions of what happened in actuality. Inquiry is only as good as the source reliability so cameras and audio pickup devices are frequently more reliable than I witness accounts of a crime.

Prisoner interrogation is another form of inquiry used in wartime circumstances and it has slightly different rules and one of them is no benefit of an attorney during questioning. Enemy prisoners are sometimes sleep deprived or exposed to annoying sounds to wear them down psychologically and make them prone to answer truthfully out of a basic desire to return to normalcy and not borderline torture techniques.

A daily or periodic inquiry into the activity(s) of offspring minors is an excellent way to keep monitoring them or keeping an eye on them and their activity and especially important is keeping an eye on the humans whom they are associating or communicating with. Use of cellphones to communicate is complicating the problem of keeping track of offspring and whom they are communicating with so it is important to maintain rights to view their social networking friends on a periodic basis too.

 A good technique for keeping a conversation going and extracting as much useful information as possible is to ask questions or basically inquire about someone and/or their activity. You have to be careful being suspected of being a busy body with all your questions but there are clever ways also of getting to a desired question indirectly first and then delivering the desired punchline question.

For example you can start off with a general open ended question suchas How was your vacation? followed later by more specific and probing questions suchas What interesting humans did you meet on vacation or Did you go alone on vacation? followed up by who did you go on vacation with. In effect start out with a general non privacy invasive question and then gradually work your way up to the perhaps personal private question which you would really want answered.

Finally asking relevant questions and intently listening to the answers with perhaps a nod of the head or saying that’s true, yeah, interesting, etc. all designed to communicate that you are listening intently and feel that the human has something important to say. Not only will you derive much unexpectedly useful information about a human but you will get some respect from them as well and they will feel important and respected by your polite engaged listening.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT UNDISCIPLINE*

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Undiscipline: v. to use inadequate selfcontrol and/or disobeying many good and/or righta behaviors and/or rules

 

Undisciplined offspring can be a nightmare. They have little selfcontrol and disobey many good behavior norms frequently being rude, inconsiderate, using bad language, and sometimes have radically different tastes in clothing and makeup.

Undisciplined offspring is one of the major reasons why education is so bad in poor neighborhoods. Disruptive or undisciplined behavior in class does not lead to a very good learning environment for the rest of the offspring and it is a perennial problem for teachers who are forced to live with the disruptive learning environment.

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REVOLUTIONARY DISCOVERY: BABIES MINDS ARE VERY LOGICAL!!!

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If you think your babies mind is mush to be filled in with your teaching about what the world is really like then you will radically change your mind after viewing this great video by Laura Schulz on two revolutionary baby experimental approaches. If you are a parent of young offspring then you should greatly enjoy this video and really be amazed by the new knowledge about babies!

Babies and young offspring think better than many grown adults who are not very logical in their behavior and thinking processes thanks to an archaic educational system which just tries to turn everyone into another brick in the wall of human ignorance!

http://www.ted.com/talks/laura_schulz_the_surprisingly_logical_minds_of_babies

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THE TRUTH ABOUT UNTRUTH*

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Untruth (General): n. a subset(s) which has existed with a minimal and inaccurate number of logical correspondences and/or has a relatively large probability of existing in the future with a minimal and inaccurate number of logical correspondences

 

Untruth (Judicial) (Unjtruth): n. not a relevant (fact(s) and/or concept(s)) and/or fiction(s) which may be used to prove beyond a reasonable doubt the (deceptive and/or lying) and/or fraudulent nature of something through evidence and/or testimony by (deceptive and/or lying) and/or fraudulent humans and it may include non-relevant unstruth or untrue testimony by (deceptive and/or lying) and/or fraudulent specialists in their field.

Unstruth may therefore be a subset of judicial unjtruth during a trial. The reputation of a specialist and his testimony is no longer the only information needed to convict a criminal nor is it just to force or use the threat of force to put one in a mental institution beyond a reasonable doubt. Relevant factual evidence, audio and/or visual, is now necessary to jail a criminal or to put one in a mental institution in the new world organization!!! A claim of violence on self is no longer valid unless supported by picture or video evidence since the reputation of many is questionable these days in the mythical existence of almost all people. If you have an abusive spouse or acquaintance install an audio visual camera in your home or get an audio recording device to prove what you are witnessing is true beyond a reasonable doubt!!!

 

Untruth (Scientific) (Unstruth): n. a subset(s) not proven by the scientific method

 

If it is true that about 31% lie on their resume and about 80% of women tell half truths then this is the primary reason why society is suffering from immorality and its consequential relationship breakdown in the modern western countries. The more truthful a society, the more moral and cohesive relationship wise it becomes. The more untruths that society suffers from the worst are its human relationships!!!!!!

It is time for a secular morality which is except in emergency situations- don’t destroy biodiversity, DON’T LIE, don’t be inefficient, don’t steal, don’t commit adultery if married, and don’t murder!!!!!!

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THE TRUTH ABOUT UNRULY*

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Unruly: adj. disobeying rules and frequently shown with overt disobedience and/or undisciplined behavior(s)

Unruly offspring are the most common but adults can be unruly too and at the extreme end they can participate in rioting.  Most rules are broken nonviolently but violent behavior is very serious rule breaking and is frequently punished by the law.

Break any rule and there is usually some form of punishment associated with the rule breaking. For offspring it may be denial of a privilege for duration such as grounding. For adults it may be getting fired from a job, social censure or even ostracism, and in violent rule breaking there may even be fines or imprisonment associated with the unruliness.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT USEFULNESS+

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Usefulness: n. doing a subset(s) to achieve a goal(s)

If you are doing something useful then chances are good that you are achieving short and/or long duration goals which you have set for yourself. Of course you can survive or live another day and that is useful too but true usefulness is doing things which will improve your life soon or at a later date.

 

A useful tool or car is something that is usually reliable, worth the price, and something which you can feel a little pride in because it does a job efficiently and well or gets you to a desired destination in a timely reliable way.

 

Some humans are more useful than others because they have more knowledge, experience, or a better education from which you can benefit in some way if you are friendly with that human. If they sacrifice some of their time in being nice to you and teaching you some new vital information which you may not have been aware of then it can become very useful in your life.

 

Sometimes pets too are useful which teaches one to love animals and the responsibility of caring for them. For older humans pets can even become good companions and dogs especially may motivate you to get a little walking exercise every day for your own personal good health benefit.

 

Unfortunately the use and discard or throw away philosophy has resulted in many throw away or discarded relationships among humans. If a human is no longer useful in your life then your start looking for a better replacement or a more useful one.

 

Family life frequently suffers when one party feels the lifestyle is no longer very useful to them in the long duration.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT VESTING+

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Vest: v. to give authority to do and/or possess a subset(s) and/or a set(s)

 

If you have a vested interest in something(s) such as equity in the stock market that means that you probably own some part of that subset(s) such as some property and/or some equity. Of course you could theoretically own all the stock equity in a public corporation but that is usually not done and is reserved for private corporations only.

 

Parents also have a vested interest in their offspring and own them to some extent and have the right to demand certain proper social behavior from them to avoid public embarrassment, censure, criticism, or ostracism.

 

A vested interest in a sport, profession, or activity(s) also means that you have some ownership rights and frequently want that activity(s) to thrive for your benefit and the benefit of others.

Vested interests are the reason for the status quo approach by most who are afraid to lose their vested interests if changes are made in politics, education, economics, law, agriculture, theoretical science, sociology, sports, medicine, psychiatry, relationships, manufacturing, business, and any entrenched profession for that matter.

Necessary change means a change in vested interests and it is obvious some of these vested interests will get hurt financially and so resistance persists until crises demand definitive changes and the present circumstances are no longer tolerable or tolerated by almost anyone.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT REPRIMANDS+

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Reprimand: v. to officially criticize for disobedience and/or bad behavior(s) but the criticism can also be done informally

 

Many are officially criticized for disobedience and/or bad behavior frequently in private in an organization or corporation and this is a reprimand.

 

Parents frequently also criticize their offspring for disobedience and/or bad behavior and this can be considered to be an informal reprimand by a parent performing his or her responsibility or duty to let the offspring know that they have crossed the line of good behavior in some way.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT UXORICIDE+

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Uxoricide:  n. willfully and forcibly stealing one’s wife’s life

 

The definition is merely legalese for a husband murdering his wife or one of the many forms of homicide.

 

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8 COMMENTS ON 8 OF 17 AMUSING KID QUOTES COMPILED BY HOLLIS MILLER!!!

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Young offspring are frequently more truthful than their parents, relatives, or friends and will come up with some truly embarrassing truisms telling it like it really is and not how society wants things to be viewed as through colored glasses, deceptions, or myths.

Here is the complete article from huffingtonpost.com

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/05/06/the-funniest-thing-your-kid-said_n_7213254.html?ncid=newsltushpmg00000003

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On comment 2 the three year old daughter is obviously not part of a nudist family and thinks that penises should be hidden at home.

On comment 4 the three year old playing with a doll who can’t stand up vents her frustration and it is all due to cheap and incomplete unrealistic doll manufacturing which can be greatly improved though the cost would also have to be greater and maybe make it unaffordable for the family to purchase.

On comment 5 it is a reflection of outdated thinking by an elderly coach who still thinks that all shoes should be tied with laces and not modern Velcro laces.

On comment 7 a three year old daughter is already stereo typecast and feels mom should play with the doll that does the dishes which is stereotyped as being women’s work.

On comment 9 a three year old daughter asks her dad if boys and girls can wear dresses. Dad answers yes and the daughter says it’s not your style already being typecast into thinking that men shouldn’t wear dresses.

On comment 13 a four year old gets bored with a new junk cup in one day and honestly answers “Here, Mama. This is the worst cup I have ever seen.”

On comment 16 a creative 9 year old boy is told that saying “shut up” will hurt feelings so he honestly answers when he can’t take the incessant talking anymore-“Silence you peasant!”

On comment 17 a five year old daughter knows the meaning of the dollar and its association with work. Instead of pausing to chat with the daughter the daughter admonishes her mom to go back to work because she has many things that she wants her mom to buy for her.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT RIGGING+

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Rig: v. to give an unjust advantage to one side of a conflict(s) and/or competition

Humans have frequently complained that a game, sport, election, or competition was rigged. Sometimes humans complain that a family conflict was rigged by other family members against them or that there was in fact some unjust advantage in the circumstance.

Gambling is rigged to favor the house and sometimes family members gang up on one family member and in effect make for an unjust or rigged argument or conflict which needs solving.

The court system is rigged in favor of the wealthy who can afford good lawyers and your education is rigged if you get a bad one in a bad neighborhood compared to an average education in a middle class neighborhood. We all know that the most wealthy send their offspring off to expensive private schools so the whole educational system is rigged to favor the monied class.

What can be done to solve this seemingly insurmountable dilemma? Make free useful technological education free over the internet to anyone at any age who is willing to put in the time, effort, achievement, and ability to learn new useful job skills.

Provide cramped housing and computers for free to the loners and families who are destitute and unemployed no matter what age and from whatever social background. Deliver their standardized basic needs door to door with private efficient delivery companies.

This way some will be able to learn their way out of poverty no matter what the socioeconomic class they are in. None of them will be cruising the world in their private vehicles looking for fun and adventure at taxpayer’s expense.

That is truly a just efficient solution to the educational and economic problem of inequality. Don’t like your socioeconomic status in this world? Then learn hard and mentally work your way out of your dire predicament and the sooner the better!!!!!!

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SHARING A REVOLUTIONARY NEW WAY TO EAT AT HOME!!!

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Make a meal or new recipe and you find out that some member of the family does not like the meal. The solution is to fill the refrigerator with organic food such as whole milk, organic eggs, fresh fish for sushi meals or steak tartar, and fill the pantry and kitchen cabinets with organic spices, unsweetened food products, organic pasta, organic unsweetened cereals, organic unsweetened snacks such as nuts, seeds, beans, blue corn tortilla chips, quinoa chips, etc. and let each family member prepare their own food only when they are hungry. 

Stop treating offspring with candy and sweet deserts which creates an unnatural sweet tooth craving and the resultant unhealthy overload of unnatural sweetened food products on supermarket shelves. The long duration effect is unhealthy overly sweet eating habits which damage long duration health. Switch to organic unprocessed naturally sweet fruits as treats for your offspring instead!!!!!!

 

Family members can choose anything that they want to eat from the refrigerator, freezer, or pantry. No offspring will overeat again and may even be eating many times a day or snacking on what they personally like the best and not on some stupid artificial recipe which requires much frying and cooking and usually results in many greasy dishes.

As early as possible offspring should be taught to be their own personal chefs making food which they like the best from the food which you provide for the home and judiciously shop for when at the supermarket.

Let family members make their own soups with as many ingredients as possible in them with organic noodles, pasta, rice, beans, etc. that they like, diced meats and fish that they like, the organic spices which they like in the quantities that they like, with an assortment of diced organic vegetables which they like, and provide organic fruits in the open on the kitchen counter top for healthy snacking during the day. Healthy soups should be a mixture of as many tasty ingredients as possible because if you add one tasty ingredient to another the result is a tasty byproduct.

Family meals are an archaic tradition which should come to a speedy end!!!!!!

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SHARING 42 CUTE INSPIRING WILD ANIMALS WITH YOUNG AND YOUNG WILD ANIMALS!!!

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WHAT THE WORLD NEEDS NOW IS MORE TRUST NOT MORE LOVE!!!!!!

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Think about it. If you trust someone then you can also love someone but if you don’t trust someone then how can you love them? Love is a subset of trust and that means that trust is more important than love. Humans can love almost any human intensely for given durations but if you don’t trust them then the love that you experience with them can be very transitory.

What the world needs now is trust sweet trust, that’s the only thing that there is just too little of!!!!!!

 

Here is a recommendation of the things that you need to establish a trusting relationship, the magical bond which keeps humans attracted to one another!

 

Your actions are consistent or you don’t do one thing in one situation and another thing in the same situation latter on.

If your relationship is predictable then there is a greater probability that you will establish trust.

 

Your words match your deeds or you do what you say that you are going to do.

Actions speak louder than words and if you say one thing but do another then you will have a hard time establishing a trusting relationship.

 

You make promises that you can keep or you fulfill promises to the best of your ability.

Promise to show up on time or promise to do something and don’t then this is considered a lie about the future and your trusting relationship will be more tenuous if you don’t try your hardest to fulfill your promises.

 

You take responsibility for your decisions or if you make a mistake then you own up to it and maybe even apologize.

Managerial responsibility and parental responsibility and responsibility in general is essential if a trusting relationship will develop. Who wants to trust  an irresponsible, unpredictable human? Almost no one!

 

You don’t backstab or undercut those around you or you don’t try to cleverly manipulate humans and take credit for their good actions and don’t spread harmful rumors about humans for personal gain.

No one likes humans who take credit for their efforts in front of or behind their backs. No one likes to be manipulated behaviorally just to benefit someone’s personal gain, especially if bad rumors were spread about you to achieve those personal gains.

 

You don’t focus on yourself or don’t spend time bragging about yourself or your accomplishments or walking around with a haughty “I am better than you” attitude.

Trust develops better if a human is willing to share his or her success with others and is not obsessed with taking all the credit for it, especially in a boasting imperious way.

 

You monitor the success and welfare of your cohorts or notice how well humans who are important in your life are doing and guide or motivate them on to even greater success or wellbeing.

Being empathetic with the humans you influence or who surround you is important in developing trust because humans want to feel that you care about them personally.

 

You tell the truth in an honest sincere way avoiding harsh criticism, put downs, ridicule, and name calling.

I left this for last but it is the most important thing which you must have for trust to develop. Tell a lie, deceive a person with a partial lie, or tell untruths and a trusting relationship will not develop!

Honesty is almost always the best policy and it can be communicated in sincere ways which don’t hurt human feelings that much even when they may hurt feelings a little which is unavoidable reality.

 

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USEFUL TEACHING INFORMATION FOR PARENTS WITH YOUNG OFFSPRING!!!

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Not many parents are funny, have anecdotes, and interesting stories to tell their young offspring. This is why spending some time reading funny, anecdotal, interesting stories to your offspring is so important if you are a handicapped parent.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT SCOLDING***

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Scold: v. to communicate punishment for a bad and/or wrong behavior(s) frequently with anger and/or being judgmental and sometimes with threats of punishment

Many parents frequently scold offspring. They have made a usually impulsive judgment that the offspring have done something bad and/or wrong and express their disapproval in a rather angry punishing tone of voice.

Sometimes the scolding is accompanied with threats of punishment to create a little fear so that the behavior is not repeated again another time. For very young offspring threatened punishment may be a spanking for very serious offenses such as fighting, stealing, and lying if isolation techniques don’t work but for older ones threatening to withdraw a privilege is a perfectly acceptable threat.

Unfortunately this scolding behavior is sometimes used on adults and teenagers with undesirable consequences because many adults and teenagers don’t want to be treated like a child and criticized in an angry tone of voice which frequently leads to arguments and defensive actions for such unjust treatment.

If you are smart then you will limit your scolding to young offspring once in a while when they really deserve a punishing angry tone of voice for doing something really very bad and/or wrong.

Judgmental anger expressed verbally is not only highly aggressive bordering on violence but it is a form of punishment which adults and teenagers frequently rebel against. If you add to your anger and threaten an adult with punishment then it will only make the reaction more rebellious and angry. Don’t scold adults and teenagers but try to frequently discuss disagreements and problems without an angry tone of voice.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT SUPERIORITY***

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Superiority: n. sensing excessive competence and/or dominance in a subset(s)

As offspring we want to be stronger, smarter, more skilled, and more attractive than other offspring and want to be loved or valued more by older offspring and authority figures such as parents.

In effect we sometimes desperately want to be better or superior to others. This desire for dominance leads to stereotyping and group thinking later in life and is the source of much prejudice, bias, and superior group thinking.

Wanting to be better leads to feelings of superiority when you are better and it is an inescapable fact of human existence which must be combated in its extreme forms. Those who are not superior frequently try to make up for it with material possessions or status symbols which make them feel more important than they really are in society.

The truly superior in society are frequently the honest, sincere, dependable, competent, friendly, trustworthy, moral, and modest who do not flaunt their wealth if they have any and do not brag about their superior status in society.

 If you have integrity or are honest and moral then you are truly superior and it will be reflected in good relationships with other humans. Some without integrity may prosper financially in the short duration but their human relationships will be handicapped or frequently very bad.

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PARENTING BRIEFLY SUMMARIZED!!!

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REARING VERY YOUNG OFFSPRING IS JUDICIOUSLY USING BRIBES AND THREATS OR REWARDS AND PUNISHMENTS!!!

Young offspring rearing and offspring rearing in general is promises of rewards which could be called bribes, and rewards for accomplishments but not generally for good behavior which should be expected and enforced with threats of punishment or withdrawal of privileges.

There are also punishments which are the withdrawal of privileges and threats of punishment or threats to withdraw privileges. For very young offspring the threat of a spanking or actual spanking may also be used to curb serious violence, lying, and stealing.

A privilege can also be considered a reward and/or right to do something at almost any time or frequently. Withdrawing or threatening to withdraw the reward and/or right may be considered to be a form of punishment.

The best way to motivate offspring to behave well is with appropriate praise for good behavior and verbal condemnation for misbehavior. When the positive approach with motivating words fails then unfortunately privilege withdrawal or other forms of punishment may be necessary.

If you include hugs and kisses as rewards or signs of love and affection then this is definitely a plus but even more important is demonstrating the love and affection for spouse in front of the offspring.

The line between rewards and privileges is sometimes vague but here is a likely list for relatively young offspring:

PARTIAL LIST OF REWARDS:

Favorite food (not including sweets or the occasional desert),

time to play with a favorite or special toy,

playing a video game

going to the park

horsey ride

going out to eat fast food

going to the zoo

going to the library

fishing trip

money in piggy bank

wearing dress up clothes

making mud pies

PARTIAL LIST OF PRIVILEGES OR RIGHTS:

going to friend’s houses whenever they want

supervised computer use

listening to a bedtime story

riding on a bicycle with mom or dad

staying up late

setting the table

going to a movie with a friend

sleeping in a different place in the house

playing outside

bouncing on a bed

feeding a pet

making noises with pots, pans, rattles, or bells

riding a tricycle

going outside at night

PUNISHMENTS:

Isolation in the bathroom or closet for a period of time such as 10 minutes

Sitting in a chair or on the couch for a period of time such as 10 minutes

Box lunches instead of school cafeteria food (if you give organic food in box lunches then it is really a reward and not a punishment)

Staying indoors or an early curfew before the usual 9 pm deadline

Taking away a special or favorite toy for a few days or week

Taking away a daily privilege for a day, a few days, or week.

Offspring will sometimes refuse to eat the food given or prepared and they should not be bribed with the promise of sweets or desert if they eat the meal. The best recourse is to just say, no food until tomorrow or breakfast. Children will not starve if denied one or two meals and usually when they are really hungry they will eat almost anything given.

It is the responsibility of parents to develop good habits as early as possible.

As early as possible offspring should be introduced to a wide variety of food so that they learn to eat fruits, vegetables, and meat in a balanced way. Milk, natural juices, and water should be emphasized as drinks.

As early as possible offspring should be taught the joys of reading by reading to them physical or online books and introducing them to the alphabet and numbers with alphabet and numbers toys or blocks. If you want your young offspring to be interested in school or learning then you have to start early at home introducing them into the world of learning from books and computers.

Neatness and orderliness should start young and a time to put away toys should become a daily accepted routine.

Most modern plastic toys are trivial crap which doesn’t teach anything useful so stick to physical construction toys, vehicles, planes, cars, trucks, dolls, action figures, animals, small plastic houses, appliances, tools, and geometrical shapes with different sizes. The more the real world is reflected in toys the better toys they are.

 

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AN OVERVIEW OF WHAT MARRIAGE IS AND ISN’T!!!

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Marriage should be sharing the good and the bad times but sometimes you will have to give in, sometimes you will get your way, sometimes you will have to be controlling, sometimes you will argue instead of compromise, and sometimes problems or irritations will remain unsolved for long periods of time. Being supported emotionally and financially in the good times is easy but being supported emotionally and financially in the bad times is evidence that the marriage can last.

You also have to share the workload and if one brings home most of the money then the other will have to take over most of the workload of keeping the house in order and spending more time with the offspring. Where both spouses work then housework and offspring rearing will have to be a shared responsibility. Marriage is responsible hard work and working out a just share of the responsibility will frequently determine to a large extent the success and happiness in the marriage. The extreme of I have to do everything and you do nothing is not a viable option.

Frequently one member is more domineering or is better at making decisions and solving problems than the other or you may have strengths in one area such as finance and weaknesses in another area such as offspring rearing. Letting a spouse dominate at something which they are good at should be encouraged.

Marriage is trying to balance things or coordinating effort to reach common  goals but it is also some independent behavior or pursuing your personal interests and getting support for those efforts from your spouse. Working together and sharing a business is rare and what makes interesting conversation possible is pursuing some independent goals, activities, or jobs and sharing those exploits with each other.

You are alike in many ways but also different in many ways and the dynamic interplay of these characteristics can make or break a relationship. If your communication skills are good, you are honest with each other and trust one another, and are good at sharing the load of responsibility then you will have a much more pleasant relationship than if you don’t honestly communicate and act irresponsibly.

A good marriage is a relatively safe intimate haven from a tumultuous sometimes crazy world but a stagnant marriage can also be quite boring so developing new or better interests, finding better jobs, and focusing on good long duration goals will help make the journey together more interesting and pleasantly challenging.

Bad times can really test a marriage and if you get through many of them successfully then your confidence that you will not be abandoned will be greater and you will know that you may have a lasting secure relationship and a truly best friend when times are tough.

When the offspring are leading independent lives and sex has ended then your major reasons for staying married may be challenged and unless you have maintained mutual respect and still enjoy being together and sharing your daily events with each other which have nothing to do with offspring, then a potential breakup is possible because you may find that you no longer have anything in common to enjoy.

Kindness, forgiveness, apologizing were appropriate, empathy, honesty, sincerity, dependability, competence, confidence, loyalty, optimism, caring, a common morality, mutual respect, mutual and independent goals, responsibility, good humor, and commitment are just some of the major characteristics which can make for a happy long duration marriage.

As long as you don’t lie to each other, are not adulterous, and are financially stable then you can have some personality drawbacks which won’t necessarily end a trusting relationship which is the bond which ultimately can keep you together despite your weaknesses and differences.

Few of us have loyal true friends and a spouse can be that one true loyal friend so you don’t have to live life as a loner without dependable human support or relationships. When you have something to bitch about then you will have a confidential trusting concerned listener to support you emotionally if not in other ways and you will not have to stew in your troubles alone. Confidentially confessing your troubles to someone is frequently therapeutic and lessens the misery.

Living alone with or without friends is an option which you should not feel bad about because you can spend most of your life pleasing yourself. Being married is more challenging and you can’t always please yourself but it can also be more rewarding in the long duration and your relationship skills with humans can improve if you learn from and master the marital relationship.

Many modern men are not good conversationalists, aren’t very caring, have been brainwashed with much promiscuous behavior, and have led rather irresponsible selfish indulgent lives as offspring,  and have bad jobs which don’t make them good potential husbands. If added to these basic facts a male comes from a dysfunctional family then the odds that a marriage will end in divorce are rather high and marriage should usually not be attempted.

Modern life no longer stresses important family values so your best bet is a husband who comes from a family which still values family values and a man who still gets along well with his family members. There are no guarantees in life that a good responsible childhood will mean a good responsible spouse but a messed up, carefree, or abused childhood and bad job are primary causes of messed up marriages and divorce.

Historically a husband who is a good provider, is moral, and has integrity was a great catch. Modern society’s values have changed and divorce has skyrocketed because the same basic historical values still apply to happy long duration modern marriages. Many modern women are good providers but unfortunately most men have not been taught to adjust to the new realities and few without the help of a nanny can do most of the young child rearing responsibilities well by themselves. Two working spouses with meager incomes and offspring is a recipe for disaster in the modern world.

In the modern world you can live together on meager incomes but whatever you do don’t get married, especially if that means offspring in your lives. Living together is an option while you are struggling to survive financially but once financial security is reached and you still don’t marry then that probably means that one significant other is hoping for a better partner to come along.

Marriage is a duty or responsibility to spouse and offspring and if you are not very responsible with your own life then don’t marry and ruin someone else’s life!

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THE TRUTH ABOUT INDOCTRINATION***

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Indoctrination: n. teaching a human and/or group to accept a subset(s) of beliefs without thinking

Science will never prove the need for human morality in the laboratory or elsewhere and humans must react impulsively in a moral way so that they don’t have to stop before each behavior and ask themselves-Am I doing the right thing?

Humans reacting impulsively towards one another in a socially acceptable way is necessary for peaceful human interactions and being indoctrinated from early childhood is vital. Without an indoctrination of common moral beliefs humans will lie, steal, get violent, commit adultery, and even murder one another.

Religions have historically taught morality in a rather inefficient way and are steeped in mythology which is no longer acceptable in the modern world. What is desperately needed is a new updated secular morality which the whole world can use to formulate proper behavioral examples which reflect that morality. A unified morality must be taught which will ultimately promote unified world peace and the survival of biodiversity on the face of this precious endangered planet.

Bio-diverse nature is very efficient or uses the least amount of energy and the least amount of natural resources to survive in a non-polluting way. Nature punishes the inefficient with starvation, disease, and death and that will be the eventual destiny of human civilization if it doesn’t acknowledge this important principle or rule and try to live by it.

Inefficient eating means not getting all the nutrients without toxic chemicals necessary for healthy survival or not eating enough organic food, An inefficient lifestyle means profligate spending which leads to financial crises or even bankruptcy. Inefficient conversation is talking too much and using an archaic language which needs too many years to learn to speak. Inefficient education is promotion based on age and teaching a class of 20 or more students by lecturing beyond elementary school. You may need a scientist to help you to recognize the trivial pursuits or inefficiencies in your life but that is one of the things which I have dedicated my life to.

 

Science has something to offer this new secular morality and it is the discovery of the primary importance of biodiversity and efficiency in nature which should be applied to human behavior too.

The indoctrination which I recommend for all impressionable young minds in elementary school worldwide is-except in emergency situations-don’t destroy biodiversity, don’t lie, don’t be inefficient, don’t steal, don’t commit adultery if married, and don’t murder.

 

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT IMPATIENCE***

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Impatience: n. eager anxiety for a subset(s) to end existence and/or begin existence

We may be impatient for something good to happen or we may be impatient for something bad to end. We may also be impatient for something bad to end so that something good can begin.

We may be eagerly anxious or impatient for a human date to arrive and just as impatient for a bad conversation to end. We have all dealt with impatience many times and some time must pass before the event(s) actually happens and this creates temporary eager anxiety.

Sometimes we get impatient over a problem which doesn’t seem to want to go away and this sometimes motivates us to solve the problem so that it will finally end. Some are more impatient than others and are just not comfortable with the thought of having to wait for very long.

Impatient bosses may annoy you with constant demands to do the job more quickly and impatient spouses may annoy you with many requests which they want to be done right away. Hyper individuals are frequently the most impatient humans and if you have a very laid back personality this can cause you much distress if they are in a position to place demands on you.

Young offspring are frequently very impatient and don’t want to wait very long for anything. Parents are frequently motivated to respond or act just so that annoying repetitive impatient requests from offspring end.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT SUPERVISION***

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Supervision: n. mostly observing and sometimes controlling the activities of a human(s) frequently with minimum teaching

Supervision is observing and sometimes controlling human behavior but usually not teaching them anything new. Parents sometimes supervise their offspring minimally and just make sure that they do not play dangerously. At other times there is almost complete supervision or teaching mode when they are teaching a new skill to offspring which may be very hazardous if done improperly.

Some supervisors are teachers too so maybe a new word must be invented to cover supervision with much teaching going on. Managing your offspring may be an appropriate word which includes teaching functions. Parenting is also acceptable but not a very accurate description.

 Supervision can be thought of as telling humans what to do but usually not telling them how to do it.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT HUMILIATION***

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Humiliation: n. causing a human to sense shame and/or to decrease the pride of a human for duration

If someone has made you feel stupid, very embarrassed, or ashamed then you have been humiliated. The humiliation frequently does not last very long unless you have been humiliated in public and many humans will remember your humiliation and your reputation may suffer.

If you have behaved stupidly or badly but not in front of someone then humiliation is not an issue. The only time that we feel humiliation is if we know that our stupid or bad behavior has been witnessed by someone who disapproves and frequently tells us how stupid or bad they think it really was.

Parents sometimes humiliate us so that we feel bad enough so that we will not repeat the stupid or bad behavior again.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT SILLINESS***

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Silliness: n. a (random behavior(s) without a serious goal(s) and/or an unknown goal(s)) which frequently causes laughter and/or a smile

Offspring running around randomly yelling bleh bleh bleh and doing random body movements is an example of silliness. Offspring putting a pot on the head and making noises may be an enactment of some fantasy whose goal we are unaware of and also consider silliness.

We frequently don’t consider adults to be silly but rather stupid if they do some childhood silliness. We frequently laugh at childhood silliness but not at adult silliness because we assume that they are socially literate and no longer should do silly things. Comedians sometimes do silly things on stage and we frequently think it is funny and we are not judgmental about their silly behavior and call them stupid.

Slapstick comedy is random harmless violence and it is really silly behavior which we laugh at yet also consider stupid.

 

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9 TRUE REASONS WHY MEN DO AND FREQUENTLY SHOULD GET MARRIED!!!

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Marriage is the best way to give offspring a stable, secure, relationship learning environment.

Marriage is a legal document which does not condone adultery and gives a man a sense of pride, rightful possession, and responsibility to spouse and offspring.

Marriage is a commitment during the good and bad times and theoretically guarantees more than a fair weather friendship. It is a source of emotional and sometimes financial support in time of need during a hoped for lifetime.

Sharing the good and bad times makes the good times better and the bad not so bad or traumatic. Managing life as a committed team is frequently more satisfying.

A man would like to improve upon the family he never had or had but with needed improvements so that he can perhaps someday be proud of his offspring legacy.

He loves the idea of committing to someone who accepts and supports him with all his weaknesses or faults.

Safe and reliable sex is something which he enjoys.

He has probably fallen in love with a woman’s looks and personality and the rare man has also fallen in love with the woman’s smarts.

He can financially support a family or support a nanny for a working wife. Of all the reasons to get married this is the most important one which should almost always come first.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT AGREEMENTS***

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Agreement:  n. corresponding with similar opinions and/or facts frequently after discussion and adjustment of differences in fact and/or opinion and/or judgment and the results can be recorded

When you have two or more humans involved in an activity(s) agreement is frequently necessary. You frequently have to mutually decide or agree on a goal(s) and then agree on what is the best way to achieve the goal(s) and how much responsibility each participant has in the goal(s) achievement.

Sometimes opinions differ widely and agreement is not possible so the best solution is just to hold on to your own opinions if agreement is not essential. We may agree to disagree but life still goes on.

It is frequently a leader’s responsibility to choose a course of action even when agreement has not been made between all the participants or workers.

Sometimes agreement involves compromise between competing parties or each participant getting something desired out of the agreement but not everything desired. Economic and political treaties or agreements are frequently compromises where each side benefits but with some drawbacks for each side.

Sometimes there are different approaches to reaching the same goal(s) such as in raising offspring. One parent may have more of an authoritarian style of leadership and the other a more democratic or consensus style of leadership.

The truth is that for very young offspring and authoritarian style of parenting is preferable and a democratic style of leadership more appropriate in the teen years when offspring are capable of independent logical thinking too. You do it your way and I will do it my way is frequently an acceptable agreement style where more than one approach leads to the same goal(s).

In business agreement frequently leads to a formal agreement or contract.

Most household arguments are based in disagreements or differing opinions on what good and bad behavior is and what is an acceptable purchase and what isn’t. Harsh criticism or intensely blaming another as being totally responsible for a problem or mistake is frequently how household arguments start.

If a discussion does not lead to intense arguing then agreement is frequently possible but if it is confrontational or a you against me attitude then it sometimes makes agreement impossible and lingering dissatisfaction and resentment is the result.

Teamwork in a family is a very important desirable concept and in business it is increasingly modifying authoritarian styles of leadership.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT PROMISCUITY

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Promiscuity: n. a human having transient sexual relationships with many different humans

Sexual freedom disconnected from the reality of reproduction of healthy smart future generations raised by caring families is what promiscuity is all about.

Screw around with too many humans in young adulthood and chances are great that you will not have a successful adulterous free stable family relationship in the future.

Not all of us need to reproduce in an over populated world but if you eventually want to have a successful family then promiscuity should be avoided at all costs.

Whether male or female, before you get sexually intimate with someone then ask one very important question. Is it someone who has the potential to be a good mate in the future? If the answer is no, then don’t get sexually involved.

Sexual predatory males in young adulthood without a good income don’t have commitment on their mind because it is a great financial burden. If you are a female then realize that most financially irresponsible males do not make good fathers and you should not be screwing around with them unless you want to wind up as an unwed mother on welfare assistance.

Promiscuity can become a very bad habit which will haunt you when and if you ever decide to have a stable happy family with offspring.

Promiscuity also leads to the certainty of getting one or more sexually transmitted diseases some of which are incurable, especially the viral forms. Check my blog THE TRUTH ABOUT STD’S to get more vital information about them.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT NURTURING

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Nurture: v. to help to develop and/or to grow

Nurturing is a very important part of human caring behavior. When we nurture a plant we make sure that it has enough sunshine, water, and fertile soil to grow well and when we nurture humans we make sure that the human is praised for behaving well and we support the development of the human with education and financial assistance.

Nurturing does not include protective behavior which is also a part of caring behavior. Protective behavior is making sure that plants don’t get eaten by predators and for humans it is making sure that they are in a physically safe environment surrounded by noncriminal humans.

Nurturing plants, animals, and humans is very important and it is also important to protect them from dangerous circumstances or situations. If you are properly nurturing your offspring then you are providing them with what they need to develop and grow into healthy independent adults.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT NEPOTISM

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Nepotism: n. giving special privileges such as a job to relatives which is frequently not based on merit and/or achievement and this is frequently done in businesses

Historically many tyrants placed relatives in positions of power because they were thought to be more trustworthy although they frequently turned out to be less competent than someone more deserving or skilled.

Today in many businesses and corporations nepotism also exists and makes it harder for meritorious non genetically related employees to make it into the top ranks of an organization.

If nepotism is the main thing standing between you and great success then marrying into the family at some level may be the clever answer to your dilemma.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT NAGGING

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Nag: v. to frequently repeat identical (commands and/or criticisms) and/or annoying communications which annoy a human(s)

Repeat commands and/or criticisms or do them over and over again or repeat the same words or expressions or do them over and over again and you are nagging and are sure to annoy someone.

Wives are frequently accused of nagging but domineering husbands are also sometimes guilty of nagging.

Offspring are also sometimes nagged. Clean up your room, take out the garbage, come home on time, feed the pet, brush your teeth, hang up your clothes, and turn out the light are some examples of nagging expressions which can be stopped if you punish with the withdrawal of important privileges until the bad habit disappears or becomes so infrequent that it is acceptable behavior.

Nag too much and it is ignored communication. Unless it is something very important and has to be resolved don’t nag but do something about it.

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