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THE TRUTH ABOUT INGRATIATE*

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Ingratiate: v. to get acceptance and affection by (persuasive and clever praising and/or agreement) and/or (asking for small favors)

 

The whole process of getting a favorable attitude of acceptance and affection from someone is called ingratiating. It is getting to have someone have a favorable opinion of you and also sincerely liking you.

It sometimes takes more than one action to achieve ingratiation. Some of the techniques used are persuasive and clever praising, real or pretentious agreement, subtle communications, and asking for small favors.

In most relationships honesty is the best policy and if you are trying to ingratiate yourself with someone with pretentious agreement and praise or insincere flattery then you are not being honest with the human and your dishonesty may be discovered at a later time and the acceptance of you and the affection for you will also probably end.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT OBEDIENCE+

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Obedience: n. accepting and doing a command(s) which is frequently a (law(s) and/or rule(s)) and/or social norm(s)

As parents we expect a certain amount of obedience from our offspring. Some even want obedience from their pets and sometimes train them or bring them to obedience schools.

In the adult world we obey rules, laws, and social norms all designed to give society a certain amount of predictability.

Teenagers frequently rebel against parental and social norms and try to disobey them with usually bad consequences. There is nothing new in human nature and once we learn more and more about it we then become more tolerant of human deviance or at least learn to live with it if it deviates in a moral way and is not an expression of immorality.

With government laws being so numerous and more being added on yearly there will always be humans disobeying them to some extent since they are unjust in many special circumstances and not worthy of obedience.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT OFFER+

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Offer: n. a subset(s) which is shown for voluntary acceptance and/or rejection and/or communicated for voluntary acceptance and/or rejection

 

It is easy to confuse an offer with a request or a command because the human making the offer would frequently love to command you to take the offer or would like to bluntly request that you accept the offer.

The impulse to say “buy or do it” or “I would like you to buy or do it” is very strong and saying “would you like to buy or do it?” is something which doesn’t come naturally.

Control freaks prefer to command and request and seldom make offers which implies voluntary agreement from you.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT PROPOSAL+

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Proposal: n. a proposition which is frequently an offer of marriage presented for acceptance or rejection

A proposal is really a proposition and its most common form is an offer of marriage to be accepted or rejected.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT APPROPRIATENESS+

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Appropriateness: n. adding and/or subtracting a subset(s) necessary for a different subset(s) and being normative and acceptable for the circumstances

Appropriate private behavior is sometimes not appropriate in public and social norms are frequently challenged by the younger generation bringing their private lives and behaviors into the public eye. To be appropriate in public we frequently have to modify a behavior to make it acceptable by adding and/or subtracting something which we say or do. 

Creative humans also have to keep some of their creative efforts private because they are sometimes inappropriate for display in public. Social norms and acceptable standards frequently determine the appropriateness of a behavior, information, product, and service.

The punishment for deviating from social norms and accepted standards is frequently rejection, failure, ridicule, laughter, criticism, condemnation, condescension, name calling, insults, disrespect, ostracism, and humiliation.

Have radical views and start publishing them on the internet and there is a high probability that you will be censored in some way.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT SUGGESTIONS***

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Suggestion: n. presented for consideration and done for acceptance and/or rejection

Most suggestions are either rejected or accepted and implemented if you are fortunate. There are circumstances where a suggestion may only be partially accepted or it may be the trigger for a better idea which is then acted on.

Suggestion boxes are common but it is rather rare for companies to actually seriously consider all the suggestions which may frequently run opposite to company operating procedure.

In relationships if you don’t want to be bossy and demand something or it is not that urgent then a suggestion is frequently accepted more readily than an actual order or demand. This is because a human frequently does not automatically switch to a defensive mode of thinking if they feel they are not being bossed around.

 

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