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THE TRUTH ABOUT MODERATION+

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Moderation: n. avoiding extremes in behavior(s) and/or communication(s)

Everything in moderation including moderation is good advice for most humans, especially those that enjoy commitment to extreme lifestyles.

Extreme behavior is frequently risky or dangerous behavior and stretches body and mind to extreme limits which are not good for you in the long duration.

A moderate lifestyle will frequently last a long time with predictable results and an extreme lifestyle will frequently crash and burn rather quickly with unpredictable results.

To progress society needs some extreme risk takers but the smart ones who survive are usually the ones who are quick to adapt or make changes when things seem to go bad or wrong.

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8 THINGS YOU SHOULD LEARN FROM SHITTY HUMANS!!!

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It is best to try and avoid shitty humans. If you can’t avoid them then ignoring them as much as possible may be a solution but you will have to learn to defend yourself and your loved ones against them if they become an inescapable part of your life, especially if they are trying to spread lies about you or your loved ones.

You learn to develop a thicker skin or learn to handle mistreatment without becoming too upset or giving in to abuse. You maintain your composure and hold on to your integrity when crap is being thrown at you.

You learn to defend yourself and those closest to you if they come under unjustified attack or attempted abuse. You courageously defend yourself and your loved ones against lies if they are being spread.

You learn that sometimes you may be victimized by mistreatment only because you were available and the bad human was just transferring their bad experience effects or dissatisfaction on you and misdirecting their venom.

You learn that some shitty humans refuse to be helped with advice or consideration and you should not pursue your goal of helping if the human refuses it.

You learn that some shitty humans are just rude, annoying, abusive, and gossip because they enjoy being jerks so you should not become depressed if you are surrounded by more than one such personality type.

You learn that if you live with resentment, hatred, jealousy, and anger at some of the bad things which humans do to you then it will handicap you emotionally. It is best to forgive and move on if possible or to forgive and remember forever so it doesn’t affect you adversely again or so that you can take appropriate steps to avoid future hurt.

You learn that shitty humans have shitty habits and that it is almost always wasted effort trying to reform them or get them to change those shitty habits.

You learn that shitty humans are all around and with time you learn to ignore or avoid them as much as possible so that they have minimal bad impact on your life and emotional well being.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT IGNORING***

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Ignore: v. to intentionally not see and/or not participate in a subset(s)

Sometimes when we can’t solve a problem, don’t like what is said to us, or can’t deal with a confrontation or argument we try to ignore it and hope that it will go away and leave us alone. We intentionally may turn our head away or just not participate in an unpleasant activity or effectively try to ignore it.

If we have unpleasant coworkers or friends which we don’t need, ignoring or avoiding them as much as possible is frequently the right thing to do. Unless it is a very important situation, ignoring it will sometimes make it go away or at least lessen the unpleasantness which would exist if we confronted the situation head on.

Ignoring family or work problems is frequently not the smart thing to do because they can develop into serious important problems which will then need our immediate attention.

Ignoring, avoiding, or trying to exclude the trivia in our lives is the smart thing to do so we can devote precious time to the things which really matter and are important in our lives.

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