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Blatant: adj. emotional and conspicuous and offensive and usually bad behavior
A blatant liar is one who doesn’t hide his lying and frankly he or she does not have any friends. Blatant cheating at cards and blatant adultery is also not respected by most humans and is a reason why blantancy is not very common.
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Reprimand: v. to officially criticize for disobedience and/or bad behavior(s) but the criticism can also be done informally
Many are officially criticized for disobedience and/or bad behavior frequently in private in an organization or corporation and this is a reprimand.
Parents frequently also criticize their offspring for disobedience and/or bad behavior and this can be considered to be an informal reprimand by a parent performing his or her responsibility or duty to let the offspring know that they have crossed the line of good behavior in some way.
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Scold: v. to communicate punishment for a bad and/or wrong behavior(s) frequently with anger and/or being judgmental and sometimes with threats of punishment
Many parents frequently scold offspring. They have made a usually impulsive judgment that the offspring have done something bad and/or wrong and express their disapproval in a rather angry punishing tone of voice.
Sometimes the scolding is accompanied with threats of punishment to create a little fear so that the behavior is not repeated again another time. For very young offspring threatened punishment may be a spanking for very serious offenses such as fighting, stealing, and lying if isolation techniques don’t work but for older ones threatening to withdraw a privilege is a perfectly acceptable threat.
Unfortunately this scolding behavior is sometimes used on adults and teenagers with undesirable consequences because many adults and teenagers don’t want to be treated like a child and criticized in an angry tone of voice which frequently leads to arguments and defensive actions for such unjust treatment.
If you are smart then you will limit your scolding to young offspring once in a while when they really deserve a punishing angry tone of voice for doing something really very bad and/or wrong.
Judgmental anger expressed verbally is not only highly aggressive bordering on violence but it is a form of punishment which adults and teenagers frequently rebel against. If you add to your anger and threaten an adult with punishment then it will only make the reaction more rebellious and angry. Don’t scold adults and teenagers but try to frequently discuss disagreements and problems without an angry tone of voice.
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Disrespect: v. to sense that a human has much less value because of (immorality and/or criminality) and/or (many inadequate skills in a profession and/or (bad and/or wrong behaviors)) and/or inadequate experience
Here are some basic reasons why we disrespect humans and value them less than others:
They may be immoral or lie, steal, or are adulterous.
They may be criminals or law breakers.
They may be incompetent or have inadequate skills in a profession.
They may make many mistakes or do many bad or wrong behaviors. They may be mean, rude, use profanities, communicate poorly, have severe addiction problems such as alcohol, drugs, pornography, promiscuity, gambling, excessive impulsive shopping, and in general have bad personalities. They may associate with bad humans.
They may have inadequate experience in life with human relationships and events and may be overly naïve and have childish behavior.
If you find out that you are being disrespected by others then maybe you have one or more of the above characteristics.
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Approvement: n. judging a subset(s) to be good and/or right and this judgment is sometimes bad and/or wrong for the average human.
(Criminals and/or deceivers) and/or liars frequently approve of bad and/or wrong behavior
Approval can come from a law or rule, judge, expert, authority, commoner, or immoral human.
Be careful who you get your approval from because it may be illegal and/or immoral.
Most humans are very opinionated and they impulsively approve or disapprove of many opinions, ideas, beliefs, and behaviors. If you approve of something then you usually say “yes” and emotionally feel pleasant about what you are approving of.
If you do not approve of something then you usually say “no” or use words like stupid, crazy, nasty, horrible, terrible, disgusting, outrageous, unacceptable, bad, lousy, shitty, crappy, it sucks, and many more words and phrases which convey disapproval.
You have to be careful not to offend someone by your disapproval of someone’s behavior because words like stupid will upset someone who doesn’t think that they are stupid. They may have done only a few stupid things in their recent past but not enough to be labeled or stereotyped as being a stupid human.
The danger in approving something arises when you have been deceived or lied to and trust that what a human is telling you is the truth.
You may invest much money in a friend recommended supper risky penny stock only to find out that almost all the value is gone in a day or two.
You may be very tempted to invest thousands in a company recommended by a friend of yours because it returns as much as 20% a year on invested money which turns out to be a Ponzi scheme and you lose it all.
You may trust an acquaintance’s promise to pay you back a $20 dollar loan only to find out that the acquaintance vanishes from view and never pays you back the $20.
You lend $2000 to a friend and he or she never pays you back and you lose a friend because you never forgive them for not paying you back.
You may approve of your offspring going out late at night on their own only to discover the next day that they went out and got drunk and did drugs with some bad friends.
You may approve of your spouse’s spending habits only to find out that she or he maxed out the credit card and created great financial stress.
You may say yes and do someone a small favor only to find out that they have a list of new favors to ask you which start to really annoy you.
You trust the dealer’s good description of a used car only to later find out that you purchased a lemon.
Be careful of approving anything where money changes hands and be wary of humans promising to do things when they have not fulfilled many of their promises in the past.
Beware of impulsive approval on important things in life such as buying a big house or committing to marriage which should require much conscientious thinking before saying yes to them, especially calculating the money which you will need to support a big house or family life.
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Apology: n. regretfully communicating the acknowledgement of a mistake(s) and/or bad behavior(s) which frequently injures someone and/or hurts someone’s feelings and/or sense of selfworth
Most apologies should start off with a sincere “Sorry”, demonstrating genuine regret that you made a mistake or did something bad which injured a human or hurt their feelings and/or sense of selfworth.
Most have a very high regard for themselves and don’t want to admit that they did something immoral, bad, or made a mistake.
Sometimes we hope that if we don’t respond with an apology then the mistake or bad behavior won’t be noticed. Wrong. If possible you should almost always apologize sooner rather than later because you don’t want to start to create an impression that you have a deceptive personality and that you will only apologize if caught for a misdeed but otherwise are secretive about it.
Sometimes we name call with words like stupid, crazy, lazy, bitch, ugly, and pig, argue feverishly, harshly criticize, ridicule, offend, and use put down phrases hurting someone’s feelings and/or sense of selfworth.
An apology should frequently be forthcoming if you do any of the above insensitive non empathetic things. Making up is frequently the phrase used to signify that you are sorry for what you did. You can sometimes do the apology with more than just words and follow it up by doing or promising to do something nice to make up for the bad behavior.
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Punishment: n. doing and/or giving a frequently unpleasant subset(s) which is done and/or given for not achieving a goal(s) and/or for doing a (bad and/or wrong) and/or illegal subset(s)
If you misbehave as children you have privileges temporarily suspended, if you are very late coming home then your spouse may harshly criticize you, if you are adulterous you get divorced, if you don’t get a useful education then you will probably not find a good paying job, if you do a lousy job then you get fired or demoted, if you commit a crime and are caught then you go to jail, and if you have a bad personality then you probably will have few if any friends.
These are just a few examples of punishments which humans and society enforces for bad or unacceptable behavior. We would all ideally like to be rewarded for everything which we do but the sad fact is that we do some pretty shitty things and punishments of all kinds will impact you in your life both small and large.
Many are leading unhappy unfulfilling lives and what they don’t realize that it is frequently punishment for not doing necessary things in the past such as following good role models. Life is not fair or just and it is frequently because you didn’t have good parents, good friends, or good role models to follow or imitate.
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Don’t be timely and you will irritate a human. Waste a human’s time by showing up late or making someone wait on you and by talking about personal problems or random things almost no one cares about and you will irritate a human.
Ignore humans not in your social status or much different from you and they won’t like you as a human being as much.
You ask too many favors, especially big ones all the time and become a major irritant.
You ask a question and follow it up with a long explanation of what you think the answer should be and almost demand to be heard on the subject.
You almost demand that humans respect you for your important position or status in a boastful way.
You begin to criticize human’s for weaknesses which they reveal about themselves feeling that you are justified in doing so and not realizing that feelings will be hurt.
You like to brag and even though you try to hide it humans can detect in your tone of voice and words that you are really trying to brag covertly.
You try to push your opinions on others who disagree with them.
CONCLUSION:
All the above will irritate humans and make them feel less about you and not respect you as much as you would like to be respected.
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You can keep a bad habit, spend less time on it, change to a bad habit which isn’t so bad, or replace it partially or totally with a good habit(s).
You are probably not aware of many of the bad habits which you have and the bad habits which you are aware of are giving you some satisfaction in your life so you are probably reluctant to change them or can’t change them because you are addicted to them. Your bad habits are largely impulsive emotionally driven behaviors which you don’t think much about logically before you do them and they are very hard to change.
Assume that you become aware of a bad habit and you then decide that you would like to change it. How do you proceed?
Stopping cold turkey is one way but unless it is fear of death or severe social embarrassment it frequently leads to failure. Replacing a bad habit with a new good one is also problematic because practicing a new good habit takes from 10 to 30 days or more to become a reliable good habit. Replacing a bad habit with a good one which you already have can be more successful. Having a motivating friend, spouse, or support group may also help in your desire to change.
Adult humans with bad eating habits and behaviors are hard to change so it is important that you avoid them as offspring so that they don’t plague you into adulthood. Good role model parents, offspring, and adults are vital to minimizing the total amount of bad habits which you wind up with in life. Sometimes only near death or financial disaster will cure you of an addiction to drugs or profligate impulsive over spending.
Terrible or very bad habits are lying, stealing, and adultery which are also immoral. Do any of these things and a trusting healthy relationship with another human is not possible and you will wallow in unhappiness and misery unless you change and switch to honest faithful relationships.
CONCLUSION:
Eliminating a bad habit by going cold turkey, by replacing it with a new good habit, by replacing it with an old good habit, by replacing it in small steps or spending less and less time on the bad habit are all constructive ways of doing it with varying degrees of success.
What you really need is courageous determined self-motivation or a fear of a bad habit to get you to change to something better. It is basically up to you and your support group and if you fail then you only have yourself to ultimately blame for your failure to improve and partially or entirely exclude your bad habits!!!!!!
Some important bad habits which you should try to change are unhealthy eating, over working, gambling, pornography, impulse buying or shopping, unreliability, arguing, talking too much, and wasting time, energy, and money on trivial things.
Lying, deceiving, or adultery is also immoral behavior and not just a bad habit which is guaranteed to cause misery in your life.
Finally, not reading anything new and useful is a bad habit because it prevents you from being motivated by new knowledge which may be helpful in dealing with your old bad habits.
https://uldissprogis.com/2014/12/14/10-relationship-bad-habits-with-suggestions-part-1-of-3/
https://uldissprogis.com/2014/12/15/10-relationship-bad-habits-with-suggestions-part-2-of-3/
https://uldissprogis.com/2014/12/16/12-relationship-bad-habits-with-suggestions-part-3-of-3/
https://uldissprogis.com/2013/11/05/6-important-relationship-bad-habits-in-a-marriage/
https://uldissprogis.com/2013/10/01/4-reasons-your-brain-and-body-wants-to-stay-with-bad-habits/
https://uldissprogis.com/2013/06/15/9-bad-habits-to-eliminate-from-your-life/
https://uldissprogis.com/2014/01/05/6-bad-business-and-relationship-habits/
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Apology: n. regretfully communicating the acknowledgement of a mistake(s) and/or bad behavior(s)
Occasionally even the best of us makes a mistake or does something bad which affects another human and hurts their feelings or circumstance. If you are conscious of your mistake or bad behavior then you should apologize by saying that you are “sorry”, mention what you are sorry for, and sometimes follow it up by compensating the offended in some way for the inconvenience in their lives. If you are not sure about the compensation then ask them to suggest a compensation if you think there should be one but you personally don’t know what it can be.
Perfection is for robots and not humans and if you apologize appropriately then you will be respected, admired, and trusted even more by others because everyone in life does things which they should be sorry for and you will be forgiven by most humans if you apologize to them appropriately and assume responsibility for your bad actions.
If you were rude, severely critical, used profanity inappropriately, or name called someone saying that they were stupid, crazy, or worthless then saying “sorry” may be enough. If on the other hand you do something bad which winds up costing someone money then appropriate apologizing would be to pay them back the money lost in addition to a verbal apology.
If you borrow something from someone and break it then either repair it or buy a replacement along with an apology for the inconvenience caused them.
In married life you will frequently cause emotional distress about something and very frequently the best response is just to apologize and say “sorry honey”, ”sorry honey it is just my opinion”, or “sorry honey it won’t happen again” if it is truly a onetime mistake or bad behavior.
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“There is an incomplete philosophical struggle and it is between two rather distinct extreme mindsets. One is frequently but not always bad – it is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, lust, resentment, inferiority, foundationless pride, superiority, and inflated ego or extreme selfishness. “The other is frequently but not always good – it is faithfulness, joy, peace, caring, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, controlled generosity, compromise, and compassion. The same struggle is sometimes going on inside you – and inside every other caring human, too.”
Try not to be envious, resentful, or jealous but try to be empathetic and benevolent instead
Instead of being unhappy and resentful of another’s possessions and characteristics and luck and circumstances, try to share in the feeling of accomplishment which another human is experiencing and feel that their good achievements, abilities, and circumstances are to be praised and not put down or criticized.
Try not to be cruel and mean but try to be kind or caring and sympathetic instead
Instead of willfully causing suffering and mental displeasure in a human and getting pleasure doing so try to be caring and sympathetic and share in the bad feelings and emotions caused by mistakes or bad circumstances which exist in a human’s life. You can be a strict and demanding disciplinarian or boss but try not to do it in a cruel and mean way.
Try not to be too greedy, selfish, with unfounded pride and too much superiority and arrogance but try to be with some generosity, caring behavior, and an adequate humility.
Try not to wallow in regret, pessimism, self-pity, sorrow, depression, hopelessness, guilt, and inferiority but try to be optimistically hopeful, happy, and develop as much selfconfidence and selfmotivation as possible by gradually changing more and more of your bad habits into good ones.
Above all try to be honest, sincere, truthful, and reliable and the bonds of your relationships with others will grow stronger and not weaker and you will be admired and respected by most close humans in your life.
Finally teach your offspring if you decide to have any this moral code- except in emergency situations-don’t destroy biodiversity, don’t lie, don’t be inefficient, don’t steal, don’t commit adultery if married, and don’t murder!!!!!!
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Are you spending time with the wrong humans, are you getting involved in relationships for the wrong reasons, are you blaming others for your troubles, and are you jealous of others? Stop doing these things and 26 others in Leslie Carter’s blog which may apply to your life and are things which are handicapping your lifestyle which could be much better without them.
http://bucketlistpublications.org/2013/09/03/30-things-to-stop-doing-to-yourself/
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I regret settling for unacceptable behavior.
Find out before marriage if your potential spouse has any unacceptable behaviors which you won’t be able to tolerate and definitely not be able to change, especially addictions to lying, alcohol, drugs, pornography, gambling, promiscuity, arguing, sports, selfish impulsive spending, and job.
I regret impulsively marrying someone I hoped would change or could be changed by me.
Disciplining an adult like a child or changing bad habits which your spouse has is frequently impossible to do and will become a big attempted failure on your part. Marry a bad personality with a poor job and the probability is great that you can’t change the bad personality and poor job situation.
I regret becoming complacent.
Being complacent in a marriage basically means that you feel relatively secure and happy with the marriage the way it is and will probably not put in much effort to try to maintain or improve it. All marriages need continued difficult work to make them last and ignoring the importance of marriage maintenance or being complacent will not make it last very long.
I regret assuming that love will be able to erase a bad past.
Some feel that a bad past will be erased or cured with a loving relationship but the truth is that bad past experiences and behaviors greatly influence future experiences and behaviors and a crappy past frequently means a crappy future also. Feeling sorry about a bad past and marrying the human with a bad past is frequently a big mistake.
I regret marrying someone I didn’t love or really liked.
Money and prestige or celebrity are sometimes reasons why women marry men whom they don’t love and they learn to regret it if the spouses have a bad unloving or uncaring personality.
I regret having an open marriage.
Open marriages eventually lead to a fear of abandonment, anger, hatred, and jealousy which is not so obvious to the young but rears its ugly head as you grow older and less secure with your sexual attractiveness.
I regret being in such a rush to get married.
This is just an example of how infatuation with a new human causes you to behave irrationally and want to marry someone on first impressions only. The irrational behavior which you are guilty of is not knowing their true personality with all the logical advantages and frequently unacceptable drawbacks which are hidden below a superficial surface behavior which leads to a very bad appraisal of reality.
I never should have married someone with a history of walking out.
Bad habits are hard to break and if one spouse has had a string of divorces or two or more then the chances or probability that they will remain married to you for life are very bad.
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It’s Not What You Said, It’s What You Didn’t Say
You Accidentally Asserted Power Over Them
They Think You Owe Them
You Wasted Their Time
You Assumed That Because You Were OK With a Situation, Everybody Was
For details on these accidental ways that you can make humans hate you read this cracked.com link.
http://www.cracked.com/blog/5-ways-youre-accidentally-making-everyone-hate-you/#ixzz2lZL3y0yK
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