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THE TRUTH ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS

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Relationships with offspring, spouse, close friends, friends, and casual acquaintances all require a slightly different skill set.

If you are honest, sincere, dependable, competent, and in effect moral and trustworthy then you should be respected and even admired by close relationships and the chances are good that you will also have good relationships with them.

Be immoral by lying and deceiving much, be unreliable, be incompetent and generally untrustworthy and you will have bad friends if you have any at all.

To improve relationships further it helps to be a good listener and conversationalist who can relate to and understands different humans and social classes. It helps if you have a good education and are interested in more things than just your job or family so that you have interesting things to talk about with other humans, especially if those interests correspond to their interests. If you have similar interests then you will improve your chances of a good two way conversation.

If you can read the emotional state of the human that you are relating to then you will be far more successful in communicating without unnecessary arguments, confrontations, and disagreements. Conflict where one side is trying to win at all costs should be avoided if possible if you want to maintain a good relationship.

Relationships need time, energy, and frequently money to maintain or even improve them so make sure that you allocate most of your time, energy, and money to the most important human relationships in your life.

Job or career relationships come first and family second unless there is a crisis situation in the family. Social contacts beyond job or family can be important if you are in sales or a leader in an organization which is looking for new customers or new members.


Remember, if you want interesting good relationships then you have to be interesting yourself and good too. If you are poor, badly educated, and unemployed then don’t expect your best friends to be rich, educated, and fun to be with!!!!!!

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THE TRUTH ABOUT BLOGGING

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You will probably not make any money blogging. There are some scam artists who promise you the easy life with almost no effort if only you part with a few of your hard earned dollars and join their scam so don’t fall for it.

You won’t sell very many of your books blogging because even if you have thousands of followers you need to interest and reach at least a million to sell a few thousand books.

Moderating and replying to comments is mostly a waste of time and at best you will maybe find a few casual acquaintances with casual rather useless trivial knowledge or information to share with you.

You can’t choose what followers you don’t want such as those who like to use profanities or those who are scam artists.

Quality blogging escapes most of us because most are not passionate about anything of importance in human’s lives. Most bloggers run out of material to write about rather quickly and if they continue to write it is about random thoughts and ideas which few are interested in.

If you don’t have a passion or passions to write about and if you are not spending hours a day researching your passion for new developments and interesting facts then chances are you won’t have a quality blog which humans will be returning to.

Blogging is an interesting hobby but not a serious profession. If you want your blogs to be published professionally you will have to have the credentials and writing ability or celebrity status. You will also probably have to conform to and promote the corrupt mythology of the media and corporations who control the official press.

Finally, if you are hoping to write a block busting novel someday don’t delude yourself because the younger generation does not like to read lengthy novels or books and prefer instant gratification and not verbose writing. The internet is killing book writing as a profession.

Knowing the truth, do you still want to blog for the fun of it?

 

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6 SUBSETS PRODUCTIVE HUMANS DO

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Subset: n. a thing

CHOOSE PRIORITIES IN LIFE

Determine if family life with many offspring is what you would like to use the most time with or your business or job. Sometimes you can have a large family if your spouse does not need to work and can be a full time parent or if your spouse makes enough money to maintain a housekeeper and nanny. You can have the best of both family life and business life but make a logical choice of priorities between family and business if you don’t think you will be making enough to financially succeed in both. If you are starting out in business then don’t have many offspring at the start but wait until you are financially successful before you have more offspring.

BE EFFICIENT

Don’t use time on subsets which you can’t do easily and which require much time to master completely. Focus on your strengths suchas knowledge and skills which you have and can do efficiently. Try not to make goals which require you to learn many new skills and much new knowledge because you are probably going to make many mistakes and will be confronted with many difficult problems to solve if you do.  Applying new skills and knowledge to a job is stressful so minimize the stress by efficiently doing what you do best as a first priority.

COMBINE YOUR ACTIVITIES

Some people stress on whether to use more time on the job or family or friends or acquaintances or entertainment or etc. Divide your time so that you can use some time with every interest which you might have but try to use more time with your priorities. In descending priorities you will use more time on work less time on family and less time on close friends and less time on entertainment and less time on miscellaneous subsets suchas hobbies and casual acquaintances which don’t earn any money but are just financial expenses and frequently time wasters.

AVOID WASTING TIME SOCIALLY

Social media and humans can waste much of your time with trivial communications if you let them. Make your communications as short as possible and loaded with factual useful information if possible. If you feel that you are only “hanging out” with friends and relatives or family without getting new useful knowledge as a goal then put a stop to it because you are wasting valuable time socializing without achieving a utilitarian goal. If you have something new and useful to teach someone then do so. If you are just reviewing past trivial events then put a stop to it by being short and concise and to the point and end the communication speedily.

ACTIVELY TRY TO LEARN NEW SUBSETS WHICH WILL MAKE YOUR JOB MORE EFFICIENT

There are constantly new tools and new techniques and new technology which can save you much time and energy and money so use a little time investigating or searching for this new information to learn about. Learn to use the internet for the latest technological breakthroughs and more efficient procedures for doing your job.

DON’T STRESS TOO MUCH IF YOU CAN’T ALWAYS DO EVERTHING ON YOUR TO DO LIST

Making a list with priorities of what to do is important but don’t be too stressed if you don’t always complete everything on your to do list. Chances are your lower priority tasks are not that important so delaying doing them or not doing them may not be that important in your life.