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THE TRUTH ABOUT CONFLICT+

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Conflict: v. to attempt an action(s) against a lifeform(s) which may result in violence(s) but it is frequently an insoluble argument with different and frequently opposing beliefs and/or opinions

Conflicting opinions are often opposing opinions and/or beliefs which frequently result in intense insoluble arguments and occasionally may even lead to violent actions.

Other conflictens, historically known as conflicts, are more physical in nature such as slapping, pushing, and shoving which sometimes result in violent aggression  but this extreme is usually avoided in most cases if the involved humans are sober and not overly high strung emotionally.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT OPPOSE+

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Oppose: v. to conflict and/or compete against a subset(s)

If someone wants to do something and you don’t want them to do it then you are opposing them. This is what the essence of conflict is and there is also competing for the same goal(s) which is a form of opposition since you want possession of something which another party wants also.

When someone is pushing and you are pulling in the opposite direction then you are opposing them.

Language is also basically structured on an antonym for almost every word and opposition is basically institutionalized in the way that humans interact with one another. It recognizes the basic fact that almost anything that you may want to do there is probably someone whom you can find that wants to do the opposite of it sometimes or even always.

Human society is basically the struggle between opposing sides- the haves and the have nots. The have nots want what the haves have and the haves are reluctant to part with what they have.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT QUARREL+

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Quarrel: v. to argue angrily and/or disagreeably and it is frequently between humans who have a good relationship and the conflict is frequently resolved and/or ended without continuing resentment and/or permanently hurt feelings

Family quarrels are sometimes common and most do not result in continuing resentment or permanently hurt feelings.

Quarrels are transient arguments if the relationships are basically good and humans agree with each other most of the time. If the relationship is strained or dysfunctional then quarreling only makes the situation worse in the long duration.

As a general rule the fewer quarrels the better the relationship and if arguing can be replaced with much more discussion then the relationship benefits enormously.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT RESISTANCE***

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Resistance: n. opposing a (force(s) and/or desire(s)) and/or subset(s)

If you oppose force, a desire or temptation, a command, or a concept or belief then you are offering resistance.

Opposing force may lead to fighting and opposing a desire to take drugs may lead to withdrawal symptoms and both are examples of resistance. You can also oppose a command, a concept, or a belief which can lead to punishment, disagreement, or an argument.

In an ideal world there should be no resistance to what you want to do but in the real world friction, conflict, competition, and habits exist to frequently prevent you from reaching any goal or goals which you may have.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT CONFLICT

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Conflict: attempting an action(s) against a lifeform(s) which may result in violence(s) but it is frequently an insoluble argument with different and frequently opposing beliefs and/or opinions

 

Fewer and fewer conflicts are violent confrontations where one party tries to gain physical dominance over another but there are many communication conflicts with opposing beliefs and/or opinions being expressed and frequently resulting in intense emotional arguments.

 

Conflicting opinions abound in life because we all have them. It is a wise human who can deal with conflict in a calm rational manner and tries to discuss rather than argue against a different opinion. With strong beliefs the best advice is frequently live and let live. You stay with your strong belief and I will stay with mine! Let’s move on to a different subject but not discuss the contentious one any more.

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WHY YOU SHOULDN’T ARGUE AT ALL

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If you argue for entertainment or fun stop the bad habit because you will start unnecessary arguments impulsively with other humans when it is not appropriate.

Arguing with someone’s opinion which you disagree with will only lead to random emotional behavior which will waste time and energy without achieving a useful goal. You will not change a person’s mind with emotional righteousness and little logic but if you emphasize the important points with firmly said words you may succeed in updating their opinions which will adjust more with your own.

Don’t argue but try to discuss a topic as unemotionally as possible. If your opinion is weak and has only one or a few important provable facts use those to express disagreement. Permit your opponent to make the important points first and agree with the important ones which you also agree with. If you can’t answer an opinion with facts then remain silent and don’t push the topic further. Avoid as many arguments as you can because arguments frequently only express emotional disapproval and don’t solve any important problems.

There is no right method to argue or a wrong method to argue. All arguments are bad for you and your family and society. You will get angry at many things in your life but decrease anger as much as possible and count to 10 or even more until you are calm enough to continue a discussion and not an argument. If you can’t control your anger seek anger management help from a professional or start reading as much factual information as possible and not emotion filled literary works and hyped up emotional shows on TV and the media.

CONCLUSION: Arguing is verbal fighting or verbal abuse and one of you or both will get emotionally hurt by an argument. If you discuss any problem and use as many facts as you can come up with without getting emotional over it you will have a better chance of finding a solution. An attempted logical discussion, even if it fails, will not hurt your feelings as much and not leave you emotionally scared and wanting revenge or an apology.

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