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THE TRUTH ABOUT GAMBLING

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The truth is that most people inherently would like to get something of value for nothing or with very little effort or money.

There will always be people who will want to secretly gamble and play poker even in a cashless society where immoral activity can be reduced to a minimum.

If you gamble and mostly lose you are wasting energy which means that you are being very inefficient with your time and energy and money and that is nature’s sin.

Gambling has become big business so it is highly unlikely that it will be banned from the face of the earth into the predictable future.

When the government starts controlling the internet like in China gambling could die sooner rather than later and not pollute the society needlessly.

Yes China has a moral advantage over us in the short run but maybe not in the long run.

China can censor what it deems to be morally corrupt and this is a major advantage from a social standpoint.

It is easier for China to discipline its society along the proper acceptable social paths and its national police force is already in place so they are ahead of the United States and Europe in some important ways.

China now just has to produce quality products and people the way that I envision it and they could potentially compete with western countries very efficiently.

Of course this only assumes that they also impose my moral code upon the people and if they do this their political social structure is doomed in the long run so it is highly unlikely that they will want to relinquish their political power in the short run and institute my moral code which is don’t destroy biodiversity and don’t lie and don’t be inefficient and don’t steal and don’t commit adultery if married and don’t murder.

From a moral point of view gambling is really immoral because it is a very inefficient social activity which wastes time and energy and money for most of the participants.

In the wilderness animals gamble or take risks with their lives trying to avoid predators and addicted gamblers take risks with their financial security and are constantly being eaten up financially by the gambling institutions which prey on their money very efficiently.

Gambling is a waste because it doesn’t make you any smarter and healthier and wealthier and sexier and really happier and etc.

Yes there will still be gambling establishments suchas national and international lotteries where suckers will try to become overnight billionaires but most of the smart people of the world will just laugh at gambling and say- The odds are not in my favor so screw it!

Smart people will not even waste their precious time gambling and drinking with their buddies at home or elsewhere because there should soon be a cashless society which will make low level gambling more difficult.

Gambling over the internet will only be stopped with an international attempt at stopping it which will involve stopping gambling credit card money transfers by credit card companies and this is highly improbable into the predictive future.

As long as personal checks and money orders and bank checks can be used internationally gambling will not cease over the internet worldwide.

Just like prostitution it seems that gambling can not be stopped or excluded from a relatively free society very easily and it will continue to plague society into the predictive future because it exploits human greed and greed is a fundamental human flaw for many of us which each generation inherits and must cope with.

DOMESTICATED CERTIFIED ORGANIC SNAKE MEAT IS A GOOD SOURCE OF NUTRITIOUS PROTEIN!

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PYTHONS CAN HAVE FROM 8 TO 100 OFFSPRING DETERMINED BY THE SPECIES AND DIAMONDBACK RATTLESNAKES HAVE ABOUT 10 OFFSPRING. THE BURMESE PYTHONS IN THE EVERGLADES CAN BECOME A SOURCE OF FOOD FOR PEOPLE AND ALMOST EXCLUDE THE PEST PROBLEM IN THE EVERGLADES.

CATCHING THE BURMESE PYTHONS CAN BE DONE BY ATTACHING A ROPE TO THE REAR FOOT OF A PIG AND ATTACHING A DIGITAL SENSING DEVICE TO THE PIG’S HEAD SO THAT WHEN THE PYTHON TRIES TO SWALLOW IT THE SENSOR WILL RECORD THE INTENSE STOMACH ACID OF THE PYTHON AND NOT AN ALLIGATOR WHO WOULD NOT SIGNAL AND HUNTERS CAN QUICKLY GO AND KILL THE PYTHON BEFORE IT HAS A CHANCE TO REGURGITATE THE PIG.

AN EXPLOSIVE CHARGE COULD BE ATTACHED TO THE PIG WHICH GOES OFF AND KILLS THE PYTHON ONCE THE PIG IS SWALLOWED WITH NO HUNTERS NEEDED IN THE PROCESS!!!!!

TECHNOLOGY IS THE ANSWER TO MOST PROBLEMS IF IT IS APPLIED JUSTLY AND USED TO ACHIEVE A GOOD DESIRED GOAL(S)!!!!!!

DOMESTICATED PYTHONS CAN BE FED ORGANIC CHICKENS AND RABBITS AND PIGS AND OTHER BABY ANIMALS AND GROW UP TO BE A HEALTHY ORGANIC SOURCE OF INFREQUENT BUT NUTRITIOUS FOOD FOR AN EXOTIC TASTY MEAL.

DOMESTICATED DIAMONDBACK RATTLE SNAKES CAN EAT ORGANIC SMALL RABBITS AND MICE AND CHICKENS AND ETC. AND GROW UP TO BE A HEALTHY ORGANIC SOURCE OF OCCASIONAL NUTRITIOUS FOOD FOR AN EXOTIC TASTY MEAL.

I HAVE TASTED THE MEAT AND IT IS VERY TASTY!

THE ONLY THING THAT YOU HAVE TO OVERCOME IS THE FEAR OF SNAKES!!!!!

BELIEVE IT OR NOT!!!!!

9 REASONS YOUR COWORKERS MAY NOT LIKE YOU MUCH

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THEY MAY THINK YOU ARE A SLOB

Slob: n. a lazy and slovenly human

Slovenly: adj. a habitually careless and messy human

Lazy: adj. using a minimum amount of energy on many actions causing delay and/or slowly doing a delegated action(s) which usually requires more speed

Messy: adj. dirty and disorganized

Your personal messy appearance and messy desk top appearance may label you a slob in the office but a slob also implies that you are probably also lazy and careless in your office work habits and relationships with other humans in the office.

If you are a lazy and careless personality then you have much to improve in your life and it won’t be easy but at least a first attempt may be to improve your personal appearance and not be dirty and disorganized with your personal hygiene and clothing.

The next attempt may be to organize your desk top so that it doesn’t remind humans of a junk pile. If you are really a complete slob you are destined to probably remain one for a lifetime and there is not much which can be done.

YOU HAVE BAD EMAIL ETIQUETTE

Don’t use upper case letters when communicating on the computer because it is a form of shouting and people will just not take you very seriously if you shout in every communication and when you have a true emergency circumstance where you may need upper case letters you won’t be able to use the shouting effect.

Hitting “reply all” is also not good to do because your boss may be on the list and also get the communication which may be considered inappropriate or you may communicate something bad about a coworker and you will suffer for it.

You may feel so important that you use “high priority” for almost every email. Don’t do this because when you have a real emergency and need to use it no one will be acknowledging that it is an unusually important email.

YOU’RE CONDESCENDING

Condescending: adj. communicating and revealing a feeling of superiority and implied criticism of others

Don’t brag about your work achievements or create the impression that you know everything and your coworkers are just dead wood in the office or useless.

You may feel your new concepts and work is superior but the feeling among your coworkers will be bad and your reputation as a good team worker will be lost.

GIVING EXCESSIVE PERSONAL INFORMATION

Remaining in professional business mode is how you should try to work and communicating excessive personal information which may seem important to you but does not help the business is unacceptable.

Don’t go into great detail about health problems and marital disagreements and offspring’s latest achievements and private phone calls during work and details about a hot political topic or sporting event and information about your favorite pastime.

If you are a smart employee you will maintain as much privacy about your personal life as is possible.

Everyone has problems and interests away from work and no one really wants to hear about it because they have their own problems and interests which they care about more.

YOU ARE LAZY

If you are messy that can be fixed somewhat easily but if you are lazy too you will not be liked.

Lazy means that you do your work slowly and are frequently late with your work and that you probably try to get your coworkers do as much of your work as possible and still try to get credit for it.

If you don’t get fired for being lazy and manage to squeak by your reputation will be bad and the smartest thing to do is not waste the time and energy and money of the company and coworkers and stop cheating or stealing from them and move on to a different job where laziness or inefficiency is not considered a moral crime.

YOU’RE A BACKSTABBER

Taking complete credit for a worker’s work and stealing a concept which is not your own is a form of stealing information and it is immoral and you will be hated for this by the coworker whom you stole the credit or concept from.

You automatically communicate “no” to any new concept your coworkers have and share with you

YOU AUTOMATICALLY COMMUNICATE “NO” TO ANY NEW CONCEPT YOUR COWORKERS HAVE AND SHARE WITH YOU

If you are almost always judgmental and critical of new concepts presented in brainstorming sessions your concepts may start to be ignored because no one wants to be involved in a communication with you knowing that you will be too critical of alternative concepts which you coworkers may have and want to present.

Don’t get ostracized for going to this “no” extreme.

YOU’RE NOT PUNCTUAL

 Be on time to a meeting because if you are late and humans are wasting time waiting for you then you are stealing their time and the money of the business and coworkers and being inefficient.

If you are hated for not being punctual on the job it is justified because it is an immoral action.

YOU HAVE BAD BEHAVIOR

Behaving badly in the office can cause great annoyance and you can be hated for it.

If you are noisy in your cubicle you are stealing the right to silence which your coworkers have so they can efficiently proceed with their work.

Being rude suchas loud orders and arguing loudly and forgetting to communicate please and thank you when appropriate are behavior flaws which create friction between you and your coworkers and for which you will not be liked  and maybe even hated.

HOW WOMEN CAN EXCLUDE STRESS ABOUT A DIVORCE FROM THEIR LIVES

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A DIVORCE HAS NOT DESTROYED YOUR REPUTATION AS A GOOD HUMAN SO STOP FEELING GUILTY AND CONTINUE WITH YOUR LIFE.

DON’T WAIT FOR YOUR EX TO APOLOGIZE TO YOU FOR LEAVING YOU BECAUSE YOU WERE BOTH GUILTY TO SOME DEGREE THAT THE MARRIAGE ENDED.

STOP WORRYING ABOUT A FUTURE WHICH IS UNCERTAIN AND A PAST FULL OF MISTAKES BUT LEARN FROM YOUR PAST MISTAKES AND CONTINUE WITH COURAGE AND DETERMINATION TO MAKE YOUR FUTURE LIFE BETTER.

PARENTING THE OFFSPRING AFTER A DIVORCE IS MORE DIFFICULT BUT NOT IMPOSSIBLE ESPECIALLY WHEN THE BOY STARTS TO IMMITATE HIS DAD MORE THAN YOU. THE EFFECT WILL PROBABLY BE THAT YOUR SON MAY ALSO NOT SUCCEED AT LIVING IN A MARRIAGE FOR A LONG DURATION IF AND WHEN HE DECIDES TO MARRY. HE WILL PROBABLY HAVE MANY OF THE PERSONALITY PROBLEMS OF YOUR EX. TO EXCLUDE THE BAD INFLUENCE OF YOUR EX TO SOME EXTENT TRY TO FIND ROLEMODELS OF MALES WHICH ARE HAPPILY MARRIED AND COMMUNICATE TO YOUR SON ABOUT THE GOOD QUALITIES WHICH THAT MALE HAS THAT YOUR EX DOES NOT.

WITH JOINT CUSTODY OF THE CHILDREN IT IS A LITTLE MORE DIFFICULT TO BE JUST FRIENDLY WITH YOUR EX AND ACCEPT HIS INDEPENDENT LIFE BUT START BEHAVING LIKE A PLATONIC FRIEND TOWARDS HIM AND EVERYTHING SHOULD WORK OUT FOR THE BOTH OF YOU.

WITH A NEW GIRLFRIEND YOUR EX WILL HAVE LESS TIME WITH THE OFFSPRING BUT HE PROBABLY HAS LITTLE MORE WHICH HE CAN TEACH THEM ABOUT LIVING LIFE SO HE IS NOT AS IMPORTANT IN THEIR LIVES AND THE LESS TIME HE USES WITH HIS OFFSPRING THE BETTER.

IF THE NEW GIRLFRIEND IS MORE ATTRACTIVE DON’T FEEL THAT THAT WAS THE PRIMARY REASON THAT HE LEFT YOU BECAUSE THERE IS MORE TO A RELATIONSHIP WHICH LASTS THAN ONLY BODILY BEAUTY.

IF YOUR EX WAS AN ADULTEROR DON’T STRESS ABOUT IT BECAUSE HE WILL PROBABLY HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM WITH HIS NEW RELATIONSHIP EVENTUALLY.  IF NOT MAYBE HE HAS FOUND BETTER SEX AND SOMEONE WHO CAN LIVE WITH HIS INCOMPLETE PERSONALITY.

IF YOU TRIED TO CONTROL YOUR EX WHILE HE WAS MARRIED YOU WILL EVEN HAVE LESS POWER TO CONTROL HIS INDEPENDENT LIFE SO STOP STRESSING ABOUT THE ABSENSE OF CONTROL THAT YOU HAVE OVER HIM.

DON’T BLAME YOURSELF OR THE OFFSPRING BEHAVIOR FOR BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR THE EX LEAVING THE FAMILY FOR ANOTHER WOMAN.  EVEN IF YOU AND THE OFFSPRING WERE RESPONSIBLE YOU CAN’T CHANGE THAT FOR THE BETTER AFTER IT HAS BEEN DONE SO STOP STRESSING ABOUT WHAT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO CHANGE.

IF THIS IS YOUR SECOND OR THIRD DIVORCE MAYBE YOU ARE NOT MARRIAGE MATERIAL SO DON’T STRESS ABOUT IT AND ADAPT TO A SINGLE LIFESTYLE AND STOP FEELING GUILTY THAT YOU ARE NOT MARRIED.

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10 MONEY MISTAKES WHICH CAN THREATEN A MARRIAGE

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Money problems and infidelity are the two primary sources of divorce. You can solve the infidelity problem with selfcontrol and a moral conviction that infidelity is wrong and will cause distrust and jealousy and anger and a fear of abandonment which can all speedily end in divorce- so don’t even think about adultery!

Not being frugal enough with money and excessive financial debt will end in divorce but there are minor but important reasons which can also shorten the duration to divorce. The reasons are:

Not communicating about spending money over a monthly goal which you should set for yourself

If you want to spend money beyond the limit of your monthly income  discuss it with your spouse and decide whether it is something you really need to do or whether it is an impulse buy that you desire emotionally. Only talking about whether to exceed your income for a short duration before you do it is the right thing to do and will prevent emotional arguments blaming each other for overspending.

Believing that you can buy a loving marriage

It is true that having a good job and high income will attract the opposite sex into marriage but if you put too much effort into making more money during a marriage it will become a source of conflict. If you believe that buying an expensive gift and/or a luxury car and/or expensive diamond will compensate for an absence of loving and caring interactions you are very wrong. A loving relationship means that you participate in many caring behaviors with your spouse or are very nurturing and protective towards him or her in many ways. To get a better idea on what loving behaviors you should be practicing or doing with your spouse read my book LOVEALL.

Ignoring opposite spending habits

If one spouse decides that the other is almost always spending money foolishly and/or impulsively and either wasting it or going into credit card debt then this is a strong reason for possible divorce especially if you are the thrifty personality and think before you spend almost every dollar and feel stolen from with wasted money. A nonutilitarian spouse coupled with a frugal spouse frequently causes financial destruction and many arguments about money to short duration divorce.

Not knowing how to divide up money

You may not know whether joint or separate accounts are better for the marriage. If both of you like to communicate about your spending habits and don’t get stressed communicating about money and spending it and saving it then a joint account is probably a good way to go.

If you both are employed and make your own money but don’t like to communicate about money spending then it is best to keep separate accounts so that money arguments will be easier to resolve when they exist. If one spouse’s account is always much in debt then the cause of financial difficulties can be known speedily and accurately and the responsible party gets the complete blame and has to change her or his bad money spending habits.

Too much debt

There is nothing more stressful than taking on high interest difficult to pay back credit card debt which seems to never leave but constantly unpleasantly threaten. How to be debt free and live economically in COMMON SENSE will help you to get out of debt and stay there.

Hiding your debt or purchases from your spouse

If you feel guilty about your excessive debt or purchases and try to hide this from your spouse you will create much distrust and anger in a relationship once the deception is revealed which it eventually will because there is a high probability that your spouse will reveal the treachery to a friend who will then reveal it to you.

A good way to stop deception is to ask about twice a year to observe the account balance in a credit card(s) which your spouse has in his or her name only. If there is deception then it will be revealed. Honesty which maintains trust in a relationship is necessary and if you mentally sense deception then ask to see the credit card(s). If the spouse communicates “don’t you trust me?” say “prove it to me because I have doubts about your nonutilitarian impulsive habits which exist and are greatly stressing me!”.

Borrowing or lending money from or to family

If the amount is over a thousand dollars sign a legal binding contract such as an IOU with date of transaction and a date by which the money should be repaid. You will avoid many arguments and not need excuses about how you couldn’t pay back on time or have to beg a hundred times for the lent money to be repaid to you. Not only can money problems threaten a marriage but it can also threaten good relationships with relatives and can be one of the primary reasons for bad interactions with them.

Believing that men should have the responsibility for investing money and women should concentrate on daily expenses

Unless you consider yourself to be a professional financial investor share your investment ideas with your wife because traditional investing in the stock market is not a safe long duration or short duration investment but a losing gambling house for the average and million dollar investor. The really big money and computers are controlling the short duration movement of stocks in the stock market and this makes investing a really unprofitable for most. If you want short duration security for your money and feel that you must invest then invest mostly in large cap stocks or big corporations with large dividend yields. In the short duration this is a better investment than keeping your money in a bank savings account.

Banks these days are paying almost no interest on savings accounts because they don’t need your money but get it from the government. If you have a large savings account in a bank then inflation will reduce its value in the long duration. This means that the bank is stealing your money by reducing its value every year. This is no reason to panic and invest in very risky stocks and loose much money in a very short duration.

Failing to understand that money problems can frequently cause many short or long duration existences of emotional displeasure and arguments

Emotional displeasure and arguments about money problems cause periodic stress and many additional durations of unhappiness. Unhappiness is caused by only remembering the money problem which does not stop speedily. The emotional relatively short and sometimes longer durations of stress continue as long as the money problem exists unsolved.

Those humans without money reserves and frequent financial crises frequently have to make short duration loans or borrow money speedily or suffer transportation loss for short durations until enough income is saved to repay. Those working in low paying jobs and living from paycheck to paycheck with no money reserves suffer the most emotional displeasure and arguments.

Not spending your money on common experiences

Common experiences or doing things together suchas both going to wine or food tasting in a fancy restaurant or going to a national park together gives longer duration pleasure and can become a good memory for reflection.

You should always anticipate new common experiences more than reflecting too much because this is the boring fate of many old people who are living in past memories and frequently can’t adapt to new subsets existing in the environment. Don’t communicate and repeat the same exciting old common experience frequently or you will start boring your spouse or close friends.

If you are trying to make new friends repeating communications about old experiences too frequently will frighten a potential new friend away. Don’t live too much in the past but plan new experiences for the future and fulfill those plans if you can and if they are not too expensive.

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7 RADICALLY UPDATED OBSOLETE BUDDIST TEACHINGS ON HAPPINESS AND PEACE FOR THE MODERN WORLD

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DON’T INTERACT WITH FOOLISH PEOPLE BUT SEEK AND HONOR THE WISE

UPDATED: DON’T INTERACT WITH IMMORAL HUMANS BUT FIND AND FOLLOW THE ADVICE OF MORAL HUMANS AND SKILLFUL HUMANS WHO ARE TRYING TO FIND THE TRUTH AND ARE USING THE TRUTH AND APPLYING IT TO THEIR LIVES AND THE LIVES OF OTHERS

TO LIVE IN A GOOD ENVIRONMENT AND PLANT GOOD SEEDS

UPDATED: DON’T DESTROY BIODIVERSITY OR WILDERNESS PLANTS AND ANIMALS BUT CONSERVE AND EXPAND IT WHEREVER POSSIBLE AND TRY TO LIVE IN AN ENVIRONMENT OF MORAL PEOPLE

TO HAVE A CHANCE TO LEARN AND GROW AND BE SKILLFUL IN YOUR PROFESSION

UPDATED:  THE INTERNET AND SCIENCE AND TECHNOLOGY ARE SPEEDILY MAKING MANY PROFESSIONS OBSOLETE. THE FEW SURVIVING WILL BE VERY HIGHLY SKILLED PROFESSIONS WHICH MOST OF US WILL NOT BE ABLE TO SPEEDILY REEDUCATE OURSELVES FOR. LIVING ON WELFARE AND PUTTING IN TIME AND EFFORT AND ACHIEVING REEDUCATION GOALS WILL BE TIME CONSUMING FOR MOST AND MANY MAY CHOOSE TO BE ON WELFARE FOR A LIFETIME IF THEY CHOOSE TO STOP THE LIFELONG REEDUCATION PROCESS.

TO BE ABLE TO SERVE AND SUPPORT YOUR PARENTS AND CHERISH YOUR OWN FAMILY AND HAVE A VOCATION WHICH BRINGS YOU JOY

UPDATED: SOCIAL SECURITY HELPS YOUR PARENTS AND YOU SHOULD ONLY OFFER HELP IF PARENTS ASK FOR IT IN FINANCIAL EMERGENCIES OR GREAT FINANCIAL DIFFICULTY.  LOVE AND CARE FOR YOUR OWN FAMILY BUT WHEN YOUR OFFSPRING ARE ADULTS AND FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT LET THEM LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES WITH LITTLE INTERFERENCE FROM YOU ESPECIALLY BY NOT INTERFERING WITH UNWANTED ADVICE ON HOW TO LIVE LIFE BETTER. SOMETIMES A JOB WILL NOT BRING YOU HAPPINESS BUT YOU SHOULD EXIST WITH IT UNTIL YOU FIND A BETTER ONE OR REEDUCATE YOURSELF FOR A BETTER ONE.

TO LIVE HONESTLY AND BEING GENEROUS IN GIVING AND TO OFFER SUPPORT TO RELATIVES AND FRIENDS AND LIVING WITH BLAMELESS CONDUCT

UPDATED: DON’T LIE BUT BE HONEST AND SINCERE AND TRUTHFUL. LIVE INDEPENDENTLY WITHOUT AN URGENT NEED FOR YOUR RELATIVES. YOU WILL HAVE BLAMELESS CONDUCT IF YOU BEHAVE MORALLY WITH GOOD ETIQUETTE.

TO AVOID UNWHOLESOME ACTIONS AND TO BE DILIGENT IN DOING GOOD THINGS

UPDATED: AVOID BAD AND/OR WRONG ACTIONS WHICH MAY OFFEND OTHER HUMANS AND BEHAVE MORALLY WITH GOOD MODERN BEHAVIORS WHICH IS ALSO THE TITLE OF ONE OF MY BOOKS

TO BE HUMBLE AND POLITE IN MANNER TO BE GREATFULL AND CONTENT WITH THE SIMPLE LIFE NOT MISSING THE OCCASION TO LEARN THE DARMA

UPDATED: DON’T HAVE A HUMBLE OR SERVILE ATTITUDE BUT PUT IN THE TIME AND EFFORT AND ACHIEVEMENT TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE AND MAKE IT SUCCESSFUL AND TO SUCCEED AT THAT READ MY BOOK HOW TO IMPROVE YOURSELF: HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT; HOW TO SAVE TIME AND MONEY

TO BE MORAL YOU HAVE TO HAVE A MORAL CODE WHICH YOU TRY TO FOLLOW AND THE ONE I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IS DON’T DESTROY BIODIVERSITY AND DON’T LIE AND DON’T BE INEFFICIENT AND DON’T STEAL AND DON’T COMMIT ADULTERY IF MARRIED AND DON’T MURDER.

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7 FREQUENTLY IGNORED ACTIONS TO HAPPINESS!!!!!!

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Clooseh: adj. a human with whom you frequently interact with and/or have an intense emotional bond

 

  1. Mental Peace:

Some humans create personal anxiety and fear with a spouse in a marriage by being a responsible and devoted spouse but in dealing with the opposite sex have a playboy or playgirl mentality and different values.  This means hypocrisy and misery which is the result of trying to maintain essentially two split personalities which are not morally consistent.

If married then try to control your adulterous tendencies and you will be happier in the long duration.

Other people try to please too many different people with different wants and needs and this usually results in basic dishonest behavior which makes mental peace and happiness impossible because of immorality.

The key to mental peace is a simplified morality which creates priorities so that you don’t waste time on stressful personal thoughts and other humans with immoral behaviors and interests which also stresses your mind and makes happiness less probable.

Don’t destroy biodiversity and don’t lie and don’t be inefficient and don’t steal and don’t commit adultery if married and don’t murder is a morality which will give you more mental peace and happiness in the short and long duration.

  1. A Very Clooseh Companion:

A very clooseh companion is a spouse or a very close friend with whom you can be completely honest and are still accepted and loved no matter how many faults you may have.

Frequently friends and lovers are not very clooseh and you may choose to hide your true thoughts and personality to some extent. This is fine for many colleagues and friends and acquaintances since you would probably prefer them not to gossip about your true feelings and behavior if it is opposite to their own preferences. Your good public reputation which you may try to maintain may decrease if you communicated some controversial facts about your true personality and life.

The truth is that if you can’t be completely honest with a very clooseh companion such as a spouse or very best friend then you will not be as happy as you could be in the relationship. If you can’t share your deepest thoughts and feelings to a very clooseh companion you will not be as happy as you could be in the relationship.

A very clooseh companion is usually a long duration relationship without which you frequently will be less happy and more depressed in your life.

  1. Communicating Personal Integrity or Honesty:

People can avoid the anxiety and stress caused by not having two split personalities- one on the inside and one on the outside.  Many people may feel that this is an act of courage but having to hide the truth very frequently results in a pressure cooker lifestyle which can lead to unhappiness when you slip up and show your true feelings or true personality and your treachery is revealed.

Honesty is the key to maintaining a good reputation with people who basically want to trust you to be who you are in public and private. Research seems to show that the average American tells about 11 lies a week and this moral flaw is a primary source of unhappiness for most humans. It is a fact of life that mental and physical health will improve if you no longer tell those lies and half truths or deceptions which most humans find in you sooner or later anyway.

Honesty is still the best policy in the long duration but you will meet many short duration deceptive human manipulators who will try to brainwash you that honesty is for losers in life.  Cheat or lie for short duration profit and you will suffer from this kind of immorality in the long duration and you will never be respected as a leader or a potential leader.

  1. A Healthy Diet:

Toxic food and a diet with little variety will result in bad health which includes mood disorders. Cross cultural correspondences have shown that excessive sugar intake increases the probability of depression and badly affects the immune system.

A healthy diet means a great variety of certified organic foods and no GMO food and pure water and minimally processed food and no artificial ingredients and much raw food. A good place to start eating healthy would be to minimize processed sugar and artificial sugar in food which you eat or drink.

  1. Making Realistic Goals:

Humans often pursue unrealistic goals with little hope of achievement and then wonder why they are so stressed out and discouraged. Hoping to become a sports star or a famous musician or a movie star or a celebrity as a profession are unrealistic goals for most of us who are just not that talented. This leads to unnecessary stress and pressure and anxiety which frequently results in much unnecessary disappointment and a large decrease in happiness.

Make goals in shorter and smaller achievable actions and the probability of reaching them will increase. This will result in greater satisfaction and more episodes of happiness in your life with less stress and pressure and anxiety. Be happier with making smaller improvements in your life instead of dreaming big and getting nowhere speedily with the dissatisfaction which accompanies attempts at unrealistic goals.

  1. Judge Others As Humans Like You:

Unless you are the rare highly selfmotivated individual try to empathize with others and consider them to be similar to you in wants and needs and desires but unique in their choice of interests and behavior.  You will become more responsive and respectful and compassionate and will begin to live more in harmony with others around you which will make your social interactions happier ones.

  1. Develop a Thinking Mind:

Try to think about what you are doing or going to do in the near future and you will escape the life of a “mindless” automaton. Consciously taking some time out planning your life and following through to desired goals while frequently considering past successes and failures will motivate you to improve your life through personal historical thinking and you will become happier as a result.

Silence should also be an important part of your life so plan for some silent time and give your mind a needed rest and frequently on a daily basis if possible. Meditation or thinking without anxiety and/or emotion will relieve some stress and recharge your batteries with further mental excursions and profitable actions which will soon follow.

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