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Helping others, giving to charity, or volunteering reinforce our moral values and actually chemically makes us feel better. Giving to charity is a transient good feeling but volunteering and interacting with humans and giving something of yourself usually increases your sense of selfworth and makes you feel good about the kindness which you are demonstrating. Gratitude on the part of the receiver is also appreciated and makes us feel good about an overall positive interaction.
Volunteering can not only boost your selfesteem but it can also boost your friendliness quotient and improve your bonding potential with others. Volunteering can be a rewarding experience, it can boost your mood, give you a sense of purpose, lower stress, and give you a sense of belonging to the community. Volunteering also can increase your sense of gratitude for what you have and will provide guidelines for how you can help yourself in times of need.
Most important is helping others by mentoring them to succeed in life. Whether you are mentoring offspring or an adult to follow in your footsteps and then exceed you, you are creating the leaders of tomorrow and this will give you great satisfaction latter in life. The bonding which happens during mentoring can lead to lifelong friendships which will definitely increase your happiness quotient.
Finally kindness is often contagious and often reciprocated by moral humans whom you are being kind to. Being able to help a friend in need with advice or other kinds of emotional or physical support will make you happier in many cases and your friend may reciprocate the favor at some point in the future. Even though the personal benefits of volunteering or helping acquaintances and strangers may not be as rewarding as helping a friend it can be rewarding none the less.
There are sociopaths, selfish individuals, and miserly types who help others only if they feel that they will get more back at some point in the future. Most moral individuals have been taught that helping others or being kind is a good thing and they help others because they feel it is the righteous thing to do and they feel good doing it most of the time. Interaction with moral humans is what makes happiness possible so don’t be overly disappointed or unhappy if not everyone appreciates your kind helping attitude because not everyone is moral.
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Essentially after a qualified and competent worker is hired a boss’ job is to motivate and support or help the worker to do the job well and with enthusiasm.
BOSSES MOTIVATE WITH THE FOLLOWING TECHNIQUES:
They encourage when reluctance or fear of not being able to do the task is felt,
they maintain an atmosphere of trust so that no worker is overly fearful or dissatisfied with the emotional working environment and feels free to communicate with the boss and say anything that they may feel is relevant,
they are decisive and confident thus giving the worker the courage to do even when the task seems hard and difficult,
they accept occasional worker failure, don’t lose their optimism, and don’t use insults, put downs, name calling, and ridicule to belittle the worker,
they clearly communicate the rules and goals of the company giving confidence, clear guidance and understanding, and a sense of purpose to the worker,
they contribute to the work at hand by participating and working along with the workers at least once in a while to maintain an esprit de corps and don’t just isolate themselves in the office all day,
they are effective listeners and make their workers feel important and respected when they communicate,
the best bosses also have a sense of humor and can tell entertaining stories to perk up workers,
they are thankful or show gratitude so that workers feel that their efforts are appreciated,
they are inspirational and optimistic and give earned praise appropriately thus inspiring workers,
they have an ability to energize their workers when the going gets tough or tedious.
they know how to discipline good workers who are starting to goof off or are no longer doing a good job. This can be done with a threatened firing or pointing out role model workers who are doing the job well or better and thus challenging the wayward worker to do better or get back in shape.
SUPPORT OR HELP IS GIVEN WITH THE FOLLOWING TECHNIQUES:
They acknowledge work well done or give credit where credit is due,
they empower or give the tools and direction necessary to do the job and are good coaches,
they are results oriented and are not out to win a popularity contest if it means a job not well done,
they strengthen the workforce by eliminating bad workers who destroy the incentive to do well and function at optimal efficiency.
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Donate: v. to give ingus to help a lifeform(s) and/or institution
Ingus: n. information and/or goods and/or services
You can donate many things and it is usually to help a lifeform(s) and/or institution.
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Assist: v. to help a subset(s) to achieve a goal(s)
In real life we frequently need assistance from other humans who help us on our way to achieving our and common goals. Assistance can be voluntary without pay but most assistance is gotten by paying those who assist us. A housecleaner or landscaper is usually not thought of as an assistant but that is exactly what they are doing or assisting you in taking care of the house.
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Aid: v. to help with a nonlifeform(s)
Traditionally to aid someone just means to help someone so to give aid a unique definition I chose to limit the definition of aid to nonlifeforms. I used a tool as an aid in my work or the money aided him is proper usage of the word aid. I used a dog to aid me or I aided him personally would be a wrong usage of the word because lifeforms are a major part of the helping process.
Objects are aids on their own in getting things done and humans and lifeforms are helpers in getting things done.
It can be debated whether dead lifeforms such as processed foods are aids in nutrition or help nutrition or unbalance nutrition and I recommend the use of aid for dead lifeforms which realistically should not include living seeds, eggs, raw milk, whole fruits, and vegetables.
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Contribution: n. giving a subset(s) to help a different subset(s)
You can contribute your time, energy, and money to help someone or help a cause. Sometimes you can give a gift or do someone a favor to help them in the form of advice or suggestions on what to do or think.
Some contributions to a human’s sense of well being are as simple as saying “thank you” for something which you get from someone or “I’m sorry” as an apology for an insult, put down, name calling, harsh criticism, or ridicule.
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Dependency: n. a lifeform(s) needing relatively much (financial help and/or help) and/or control by a human(s) and/or subset(s)
Welfare dependency or dependency on the government for support and offspring dependency or dependency on parents for support are the two predominant forms of dependency in society.
Pet and domesticated animal dependency on owners for food, care, and shelter is also a great area of animal dependency.
If given the choice most adult humans prefer to be independent rather than dependent on support from another human or organization but there is an increasingly large number of humans who are on welfare dependency and can’t seem to figure out a way out of it and are stuck in dependency from generation to generation.
Finally the most important area of dependency is the dependency of wildlife and wilderness on responsible governments for protection from exploitation and destruction. Ultimately wilderness areas are the safety net of a healthy food supply for future generations when irresponsible use of technology will make domesticated food and drink unhealthy to consume due to pollution from pesticides, herbicides, food GMOs, artificial chemical fertilizers, growth hormones, antibiotics, an assortment of other unnatural or artificial chemicals used on farm animals, monoculture agriculture, animal factory farming, and overly processed food with too much added sugar and unnatural artificial ingredients or chemical additives.
Organic food is the savior of human health on into the foreseeable distant future and technology can be used responsibly in promoting organic food growing efficiency.
We are all ultimately dependent on healthy nature and if we destroy that health and original biodiversity human civilization will be imperiled and the result will be much sickness and death for future generations!!!!!!
Future generations will become more and more dependent on robots who will be their slaves doing most of the thinking and working for them so human dependency will increase rather than decrease on into the foreseeable future. Independent lifestyles will become increasingly reduced in number as more and more will be living dependent on some form of welfare.
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Fidelity: n. giving a human(s) loyalty and help
Sexual fidelity and fidelity in general is very important in marriage but fidelity is also important in close business relationships where trust is paramount and loyalty and help is expected from all major participants.
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Finance: v. to help a subset(s) with money
When you finance a project or activity then you are essentially helping it along with a money contribution.
Financing family life responsibly is a challenge, especially if there are two breadwinners who have their own strong opposing views on how the money should be spent.
Usually getting financing is only part of the battle to get things done. The most important consideration in financing is how the money is spent in detail because spending it all rather quickly without caution is sometimes very tempting to do.
The world of business financing has conservative and liberal approaches and there is great temptation to try and make big short duration profits rather than investing for the long run which is the conservative approach. The instability of the financial system of the world is primarily caused by big money speculating too much with the nation’s money supply and the result is financial instability and bankruptcy threatening at every turn.
Irresponsible spending by governments and not balancing the budget is one of the major failings that imperil the long duration health of a nation. With businesses essentially being too big to fail and governments guaranteeing them against default, the inevitable descent into overwhelming debt is inescapable and each crisis situation just gets worse with longer lasting consequences that impoverish a nation.
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Officiousness: n. annoyingly eager in offering undesired and unrequested (help and/or advice) and/or services
A meddling busy body who eagerly offers help or advice which you didn’t request or don’t need is being officious. He or she may officiously try to meddle in your private family life or your job life and it is something that you wish that they would not do.
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Promotion: n. motivating and helping a subset(s) to grow in importance frequently by increasing rank and/or privilege
Advertising of information, goods, and services can be thought of as being a promotion but the most common usage is when you are promoted to a better or more responsible position in an organization or job.
Human promotion frequently corresponds to an increase in status or rank and it is usually highly desirable by humans who want to be higher on the social pecking order.
Not everyone has a desire to be promoted and have a responsibility over more and more humans. Some employees don’t care if they are never promoted in their jobs to positions of management and this is perfectly acceptable because not everyone wants to manage other humans and be responsible for their behavior.
In school promotion from one grade to the next exists and most humans desire to be promoted that way but for some humans being promoted in life is not something they all desire. There are plenty of humans who just want to put in a good days work and don’t desire in the least to be leaders or managers of other humans who are often difficult to manage in this modern era of many disobedient, irresponsible, and somewhat selfish personalities.
Some businesses have poorly paid lower management positions where you theoretically have higher status but have to suffer through commuting to far away time consuming boring management conferences and making less money than the humans whom you manage. Promotion in these businesses is actually a sacrifice of your time, money, and energy and very few wish to be promoted in this way.
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Sponsorship: n. giving funds and/or helping a subset(s)
A donation is just giving financial support and most sponsorships involve some additional help other than financial to support a cause, a human, or an organization. A true sponsor usually has more responsibility than just a financial investment role and frequently offers additional help of some kind.
Sponsoring a needy child overseas means financial support but also some communication with that child encouraging or motivating them with love, affection, and advice.
Many athletes are sponsored by corporations in a purely monetary way so sponsorship is just a way of making the donor feel more important than they really are and the sponsors are usually not helping in other ways too.
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Leaders should be short, sincere, and to the point in their communications but each of these phrases can be embellished with added words when it seems the appropriate thing to do.
Leaders offer earned or justified praise to their workers which is a very good motivational tool. You can personalize praise and adjust it to a sports fan by using phrases such as home run and touchdown but it is not very appropriate for female employees:
Congratulations!
Thank you
Great job
Nice work
You earned it
You outdid yourself
I’ll remember this forever
I’m proud of you
I couldn’t do it better
It’s new but I like it
You’re the best at that
Leaders admit when they’re wrong or made a mistake. When both are responsible for the failure they share the blame:
I’m sorry
I’m wrong; your right
I apologize
My fault, sorry
Let’s learn from this
We’ll do it right next time
Leaders affirm that they are a source of help if needed:
You can count on me
I’ll try my best
I’m here to help
I’ll help if needed
It’s my pleasure
I’ll support you
Let’s check your data
Leaders remind a worker of his or her importance:
I’m listening
I believe in you
Back me up
I need you
You come highly recommended
Make a suggestion
Leaders delay a conversation for latter when pressed for time or when no immediate answer is possible:
Let’s table that topic for now!
We’ll get back to this later!
Let’s discuss this further at a later time!
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PRAISING OR REWARDING AN EMPLOYEE:
You scored!
You hit a home run!
You landed it!
Great work!
Nice work!
You’re great at that!
You’re the best at that!
I approve of it!
I support you!
I think that’s great!
I couldn’t do it better!
You did it perfectly!
I’m giving you a raise for that!
You did your homework well!
That is an exciting new approach!
It’s new but I like it!
OFFERING TO HELP OR SUPPORT AN EMPLOYEE:
I can answer that right now!
Let’s find a solution which works for you!
Let’s look at your information!
Let’s check your data!
I’ll be honest with you!
The company supports you!
I approve of that!
Let’s start again!
What’s holding you back?
Make a suggestion!
Why the delay?
Tell me your reasons!
DELAYING A CONVERSATION FOR LATER:
Let’s table that topic for now!
We’ll get back to this later!
Let’s discuss this further at a later time!
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Help: v. to give a lifeform(s) a subset(s) so samer lifeform(s) can frequently achieve a necessary and/or desired goal(s)
You can help a human by offering them money, food, a possession, a service, knowledge, physical, or emotional support in time of need. Anything which you offer a human which will assist in achieving his or her goal(s) is help.
Students sometimes need help with homework and need transportation to and from school.
The best human relationships are where mutual helping exists or where each human in the relationship works as a team helping each other to reach their goal(s).
Sometimes the help offered such as the current welfare system only promotes further dependency and actually has some bad consequences. The destitute and also unemployed need a safety net at any age but the system must be radically reformed to eliminate corruption as outlined in my evergreen truth book CHANGES IN WELFARE LAWS.
We can all help biodiversity to survive by protecting and even expanding wilderness real estate. Wilderness plants and animals will help themselves if we just leave them alone and that is mostly all the help that they really need from us.
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Nurture: v. to help to develop and/or to grow
Nurturing is a very important part of human caring behavior. When we nurture a plant we make sure that it has enough sunshine, water, and fertile soil to grow well and when we nurture humans we make sure that the human is praised for behaving well and we support the development of the human with education and financial assistance.
Nurturing does not include protective behavior which is also a part of caring behavior. Protective behavior is making sure that plants don’t get eaten by predators and for humans it is making sure that they are in a physically safe environment surrounded by noncriminal humans.
Nurturing plants, animals, and humans is very important and it is also important to protect them from dangerous circumstances or situations. If you are properly nurturing your offspring then you are providing them with what they need to develop and grow into healthy independent adults.
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Benefit: v. to help and/or to profit a lifeform(s)
Morality, money, information, goods, services, humans, privileges, job, lifestyle, nature, and emotional support can all benefit an individual or help them in some way. If you are unhappy, unhealthy, and with no friends then it is time for change and that means it is time to think differently and behave or do things differently or change your lifestyle so that you can benefit more from it.
Most good health comes from eating and drinking healthy and getting in moderate exercise. With this basic good organic natural foundation you can proceed to gather useful new information from reputable humans which will improve your personality, social skills, job skills, and teach you how to set small good goals in your life which you can achieve and start replacing the bad habits which you are trapped in.
You need help with your life but it ultimately must start with self-help and that means making an effort to connect with humans with useful knowledge which will help your predicament. Use the internet and search engines to find answers to your questions or solutions to your problems once you begin to identify them successfully.
Not all of us are unhappy, unhealthy, and without friends so pick one or more categories which you would like to improve from the list of 10 at the top and go for it with confidence, determination, selfcontrol, much research, and much new doing or activities. You will be benefiting yourself and other important humans around you and ultimately that is what life is all about!!!
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Helping someone frequently means an investment of time, energy, and rarely money. If money is the issue then it is best not to give any but recommend that they better manage their finances.
Loaning money to friends and relatives in need frequently results in broken friendships and relationships because the money is never paid back and lingering resentment ends the relationship sooner or later.
If they are employed recommend short duration loan companies like Amscot to get emergency money and if they are unemployed recommend that they apply for food stamps but refuse to give financial help.
Most financial problems are caused by overwhelming credit card debt, not budgeting money, and not having a savings account for financial emergencies. My evergreen book HOW TO SAVE MONEY is a very good reference for humans with money problems.
Very frequently when a friend is in trouble all they really want and frequently need is emotional support and empathy with their plight. Unless they ask for advice don’t always offer some because they will assume that you are criticizing them for not leading their lives in a proper way and may resent the advice given. If they do ask for help or advice then do the following.
Helping a friend is usually in the form of good intentioned advice after listening carefully to the problems that the friend is expressing and experiencing. Use your personal life experiences and personal knowledge to add to helpful advice which you think you can make.
If you can’t give advice maybe you can refer your friend to someone who can better help. Friendship is usually sharing life experiences both conversationally and physically.
If a friend seems to need help or advice give it to the best of your ability and be sincere. If there is something physical that you can do for a friend to help and it will not cost too much of your valuable time and effort and money then do it.
Some people just have friends so that they can “hang out” and have some company to use up their free time. Don’t do this because it will not help your life if you are not learning anything new or not experiencing a pleasurable pastime together.
Sometimes people make a mistake and don’t realize they have made one. Go through a description of their actions and see if they will begin to realize what the mistake was. If they still don’t see that they made a mistake or mistakes be sincere and communicate “That seems like a mistake(s) to me. What do you think?” If this question has no response then you will probably not be able to help in any rational way and you are probably wasting your time and should move on.
Everyone has the infrequent experience which greatly upsets and challenges their belief that they have the answer to everything. When something is troubling a friend or an acquaintance ask “what’s wrong?” and then listen to them express their fearful experience. It may upset you also but do your best to tap into your similar experiences and personal knowledge to give reassurance or some useful knowledge which might relate to the upsetting experience and try to emotionally calm the upset party.
When a person suffers a health fright their fear will often be difficult to understand. If it is a life threatening experience like a heart attack there is cause to be upset and only reassurance and listening to their fears will not help.
Suggest that most health warnings or problems are usually not fatal except for cancer and that with time the body will heal itself and the health fright will go away with the right nutrition and a localized exercise and/or rest for the area of pain. High blood pressure and signs of diabetes can be treated naturally without the need for constant medication. Offer help in the form of nutritional advice found in my blogs and you may succeed in calming down the health fright.
Helping someone to plan a visit is a logistical problem as well as a problem of scheduling things to do which may or may not be mutually beneficial. If the visiting guest can’t sleep over then suggest a nearby motel or hotel. Suggest a rental car or promise to drive them around in your own car if they don’t use their own car.
If they are not a close family relative or relatives then suggest possible interesting tourist sights which they could prepare for and visit. If it is a family affair and everyone wants to sleep over then ask them to bring air mattresses or provide them with some which you purchase yourself.
Helping someone prepare for a job interview may not be your strong point so suggest that they go on the internet and Google the information needed. In a nutshell your appearance is important and your resume should be sent prior to the interview and you should let the interviewer ask most of the questions to which you should respond in a sincerely and truthfully and enthusiastically where necessary.
Basically the job interviewer wants to know if you are experienced or a fast learner or are going to show up for work on time and if you seem to have an optimistic attitude and communication skills which will help in the job environment. Further education in the job field may also help to land a future job.
In this selfish, overly exposed to sex, modern society many humans need help with dating, family relationships, and finding close friendships. Many of my evergreen blogs cover these topics but if you want serious help and knowledge read one or more of my evergreen books LOVEALL, MODERN PARENTING, AND GOOD MODERN BEHAVIORS.
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