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10 SIGNS OF BAD MANAGEMENT!!!

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The bad manager tries to manage through fear and frequently threatens to fire an employee and has a high turnover rate with many firings.

The bad manager lies to customers and employees and is not respected or admired because there is no trusting environment established.

The bad manager does not know how to motivate employees with earned praise and appropriate rewards and privileges.

The bad manager creates a bad political atmosphere pitting one employee against another thus creating more conflict than cooperation in the organization.

The bad manager always complains that employees are not working hard enough when he or she themself put forth very little effort.

The bad manager publicly humiliates employees and puts them down thus ruining morale.

The bad manager micromanages employees and interferes in the work process more than necessary.

The bad manager ignores or does not listen to complaints, suggestions, and differing opinions or ideas and doesn’t value employee feedback.

The bad manager assumes an arrogant stance that he or she can do no wrong or never makes mistakes, takes credit for all successes, and blames others when things go wrong.

The bad manager gripes about his or her dysfunctional personal life and just proves that not only is he or she disliked at work but that humans in his or her personal life also dislike him or her.

CONCLUSION:

A good manager can be respected and feared if he or she is honest, competent, and just in the treatment of employees. A lying, incompetent, and unjust manager who just tries to manage through fear alone will almost always be a failure and there will be terrible morale among the workers.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT DATING

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If you have a good job, are attractive, communicate well, share common morals, and generally have the same education or social background then you should have more success in online or offline dating. For more detailed information about dating use these 8 links to gain expert knowledge about how to date.

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/04/21/online-dating-tips-for-adults/

https://uldissprogis.com/2014/01/04/what-to-ask-on-a-first-date/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/12/13/16-questions-you-can-ask-on-a-first-date-or-online-before-the-first-date/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/06/17/8-classifications-of-online-and-offline-daters-which-one-are-you/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/04/18/11-hints-you-are-probably-not-ready-for-a-serious-dating-relationship/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/11/23/are-you-dating-a-responsible-caring-real-man/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/10/06/5-types-of-women-smart-men-should-avoid-when-dating/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/07/18/12-dating-mistakes-women-make/

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE

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If you would like to be married or are married here are 15 links on marriage which will tell you what is important about marriage. Scan these blogs to see what might interest you or skip to the end and briefly read about the truth about marriage in a nutshell.

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/01/07/14-ways-to-help-ruin-a-marriage/

https://uldissprogis.com/2014/01/10/7-acceptable-imperfections-in-a-healthy-marriage/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/12/22/20-ways-to-make-a-good-marriage-better/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/12/16/8-marriage-regrets-you-should-learn-to-avoid/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/12/05/7-things-which-can-increase-the-duration-of-your-marriage/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/10/30/11-important-things-which-will-help-a-marriage-to-last/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/09/21/4-most-important-things-in-a-long-duration-or-lasting-marriage/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/09/01/10-common-reasons-humans-in-bad-marriages-dont-divorce/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/11/05/6-important-relationship-bad-habits-in-a-marriage/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/11/01/8-financial-or-money-questions-which-you-should-ask-before-marriage/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/07/22/5-serious-topics-to-discuss-thoroughly-before-marriage/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/04/11/mostly-stupid-advice-given-by-an-amateur-marriage-counselor/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/03/26/how-to-end-a-marriage-speedily-intentionally-or-unintentionally/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/02/16/10-money-mistakes-which-can-threaten-a-marriage/

https://uldissprogis.com/2013/02/06/what-are-the-4-most-important-priorities-in-a-marriage-or-a-relationship-with-the-opposite-sex/

THE TRUTH ABOUT MARRIAGE

Marriage is a serious financial and moral responsibility to spouse and offspring and the financial burden and responsibility for raising offspring should not become a government function enforced by hundreds of laws.

If you can’t afford marriage then you should not be married but remain single.

The two leading causes of divorce are financial mismanagement or absence of adequate finances and adultery. Families have a high probability of breaking up if financial resources are scarce and society promotes hedonistic promiscuous lifestyles for most of its citizens.

Love and sexual attraction alone are not enough for a successful happy responsible marriage. The sooner modern society begins to recognize this fundamental truth and pass laws which demand financial responsibility first before marriage the sooner will the world escape the avalanche of failed marriages and dependent offspring which taxpayers or government welfare is forced to support.

Historically and in some parts of the world a dowry or enough money was mandatory before marriage. This is just an acknowledgement of the fact that money was and still is the number one priority for a successful marriage.

Human nature and a just functioning society has not changed much since those days and financial resources should once again be the primary determining factor in government sanctioned marriages.

Yes, you can still live together with the one that you love and are sexually attracted to but if you have half a brain you will put off marriage and offspring until you are financially solvent.

Of course there will be humanitarians who may object to the genocide of poor humans but reality demands that unwed mothers on welfare be limited to one or two offspring and not be incentivized to have a brood all at tax payer’s expense. If you have more than two offspring on welfare then you should be forced to give up additional offspring for adoption. Not passing such limitations will create a marriageless society with most women on welfare assistance and government playing the role of daddy the provider.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT FAMILY

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In the western world healthy families are soon going to be a scarce commodity.

A radical decrease of good stable paying jobs, bad financial management or excessive credit card debt, a promiscuous society, and a lack of a secular moral code for impressionable young minds in elementary school is the reason why families are disintegrating because there is a breakdown of trust between humans and trust between the governed and the governing leadership.

Of all the above reasons for family failure the biggest is an absence of a common secular morality which will soon make the peaceful interaction of humans in a nation almost impossible and humans will once again be ruled by fear or rule by the threat of force and the use of force.

The two most important foundations of a family are a shared moral code that each spouse believes in and the second most important foundation is the financial means to support a family with offspring. Both a common morality and financial stability are being destroyed and the result is family breakup or even an inability to start a family because love and sexual attraction alone are not enough for a family to last as an ongoing social unit.

I personally don’t think that family breakups or an inability to support a family are necessarily a totally bad situation because the last thing that the world needs is more human mouths to feed or world overpopulation.

If you are still without family and single then don’t despair because you may still luck out and find moral compatibility and a spouse who can help to totally or partially support your family unit. With this knowledge and a little luck you may still have a successful family life in a sea of family breakups.

What is the WORLDWIDE secular morality which you and your spouse should believe in? It is except in emergency situations-DON’T DESTROY BIODIVERSITY, DON’T LIE, DON’T BE INEFFICIENT, DON’T STEAL, DON’T COMMIT ADULTERY IF MARRIED, AND DON’T MURDER!!!!!!

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HOW TO COMMUNICATE EFFECTIVELY WITH A WOMAN OR MAN

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Before you try to start a relationship with someone make sure that you are ready to start one.

If you are single and unemployed without money and no potentially good plans for the future then you should stay single and not even try to start up a relationship because you will crash and burn unless you are a super attractive sexy female .

When you communicate then do so with honesty, sincerity, and reliability. No serious woman  or man wants a BS artist who makes up stories which aren’t true and is unreliable and doesn’t show up on time for appointments or doesn’t follow through on promises made.

If you want to be respected and admired by any human then you must start by trying to establish a trustworthy relationship and that means not lying and not being unreliable.

Everyone wants to be complimented on their looks, have their beliefs and opinions reinforced, and feel good about what they are doing in life. If you compliment then be sincere about it and don’t make it seem that you think everything she or he does or thinks is the greatest thing in the world.

If your compliments are not sincere then they will think that you are just buttering them up so that you can get anything you want out of them. Overblown compliments may work in the short duration but your insincerity will have devastating effects later on.

Most women like to feel secure and you must speak confidently and decisively with a sense of self-worth. If your present life is a mess and you don’t know how to fix it then you are not going to radiate confidence and decisiveness and if you do it will be pretentious and a lie.

Be caring and that means verbally supporting a career as well as yours, supporting plans for the future, and supporting good opinions and beliefs which you agree with. You don’t have to agree with all his or her opinions but do if they are important ones.

Sharing or talking about both the good and bad experiences in life is important and it is the best way to really get to know a human. Sharing is a risk because you may reveal something which will create distance between the both of you but if you are interested in a long duration relationship then it is better for the bad things to surface so that you won’t have any unpleasant surprises if you decide to commit to the relationship with marriage later on.

When you ask how his or her day was listen carefully and respond appropriately supporting emotionally where appropriate and show that you really care about any expressed feelings and the daily routine which sometimes has unsatisfying moments.

Men sometimes have a hard time dealing with feelings and picking up on them during a conversation so many men unfortunately are handicapped emotionally and if you are a woman then you will have to be a little more understanding about this weakness.

If you get angry or want to yell and scream then don’t. Try to stay as emotionally calm and under control as possible.

Discussion and a controlled interchange is far preferable to an angry confrontation which is a verbal war or fighting. A healthy relationship means trying to reach mutual agreement on something or agreeing to a difference of opinion but not confrontational fighting tooth and nail to try and win an argument at any cost.

No one is perfect and if you make a mistake or do something bad then admit it and apologize and accept the blame. Sometimes if you don’t know how to compensate for your offense then ask if she or he has an opinion on how you can make up for your blunder.

Be careful not to promise that it won’t happen again if you think there is a great possibility that it might happen again because you don’t want to lie.

Good conversation should be a two way street and you should not spend most of it only talking about yourself and what you think is important in life. Back and forth talking is the best where you listen carefully and give appropriate feedback to what you have heard.

It is still a fact of life that most women like to talk more than men so if you are a man of few words then learn to become a good listener and when you respond make it short and sweet and to the point.

CONCLUSION:

There are important foundations to a good relationship and one of the most important foundations is the ability to have successful, honest, sincere two way conversations about experiences, opinions and beliefs, and emotions.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT ADULTERY

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In the western world with so many divorces, promiscuity, and single humans many married women and some men fear adultery or unfaithfulness and feel insecure in their relationships.

Adultery causes fear of abandonment, anger, hate, jealousy, and much unhappiness for the victim and offspring if there are any. 

In a sexually permissive society where many no longer consider adultery to be immoral you are fighting an uphill battle to find and then maintain a happy lasting marital relationship.

 

Finding that gem of a human who has a good job, has not been historically promiscuous, is not the victim of two or more divorces, and believes that marriage should be a lifelong commitment is becoming a rather scarce commodity.

 

Finding that trustworthy reliable human who keeps their promises and doesn’t lie to you is becoming a rarity and if you find such a person then go for it with all of your charms and skills, become a faithful friend, and hope for or make a marriage proposal.

 

If you are single, with a poor job, not so attractive, and with bad communication skills then maybe you should consider staying single because the chances that a marriage will last is close to zero. Poor financial management or poor income and adultery are the two leading causes of divorce.

 

Seriously assess your situation because your best course of action may be to just stay single, carefree, worry free, and not get married in the first place but live a happy single life!!!!!!

Adultery:  n. stealing marital sexual fidelity

 

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