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THE TRUTH ABOUT PREOCCUPATION*

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Preoccupation: n. thinking about and/or doing a subset(s) intensely to a large degree and frequently ignoring other thoughts and/or actions for duration

Preoccupation simply means intensely focusing your attention on something(s) and excluding and/or ignoring other things for duration.

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12 RELATIONSHIP BAD HABITS WITH SUGGESTIONS, PART 3 OF 3!!!

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Seeking approval:

Some humans are too committed to trying to please others and getting praised for it. Doing things and saying things and then expecting or hoping for human approve of what you do will create much frustration because frankly most humans don’t care that much about you daily trials and tribulations.

They are too much involved with their own lives to care that much about your own, especially if they are just casual friends or acquaintances.

Seeking approval from offspring by trying to please them too much will create overly dependent offspring not being so good at living independent lives and close friends will probably start making unreasonable demands on you if you are too intent on pleasing them.

 

Living through others:

Getting too involved in the lives of you offspring or spouse and valuing their successes or failures as your own will not only seem like being a busy body but you will sacrifice having a worthwhile life of your own pursuing what you really want or like in life.

You effectively become a parasite on other humans  mainly reveling in their successes and stressing through their failures. Take time out for your personal wants and interests too to create more balance in your life.

 

Frustrated with absence of progress:

If you spend much of your time in frustration with your own absence of progress in life or that of your offspring, spouse, or close friends then you may start complaining much and repelling others.

The key to overcoming frustration is to set smaller achievable goals in life and succeeding at them. When you do start succeeding then your level of frustration should decrease.

 

Spying:

Spying on someone like your offspring or spouse is a sign of distrust and the feeling may be heightened if you have offspring or spouse who hide things from you and lie to you.

Spying is a sign that you no longer have a trusting relationship with humans and that you are either an untrustworthy human yourself or that you gossip too much about your offspring and spouse to others and your offspring or spouse no longer trust you to be confidential with sensitive information.

Spying on a potentially cheating spouse is common in modern society and it is sometimes necessary to get to the truth of the matter.

 

Gossiping:

Gossiping is really spreading rumors which may not be true and it can hurt someone’s reputation and even your own if it is not the truth.

If you are not sure about the truth of a rumor then don’t spread it before checking the source and by all means avoid spreading rumors from a known unreliable source, especially humans who you rarely know and can’t determine whether they are lying or not.

Chit chatting about humans is not always gossip if you basically stick to real truthful things which they are doing in life.

 

Ignoring spouse, offspring, or close friends:

Behaving like important humans in your life don’t matter to you by ignoring them is a form of isolating yourself from humans and having a failed relationship or a very small relationship at best.

You can ignore bad humans and humans who are trying to take advantage of you but ignoring humans who you should care about is a communications or relationship breakdown.

 

Fighting and/or arguing in public:

If you fight or argue in public then you will not only embarrass whom you are fighting or arguing with but you will also develop a bad reputation as an inconsiderate hothead among other humans.

They will begin to think that you have severe relationship problems with your family and interacting with other humans.

Try not to fight or argue in the first place and if you do then do so privately.

 

Depending on luck:

If you feel that good things will happen if you are lucky then you will probably stop preparing for opportunity and not be able to grab it when it does come along.

Luck has played some role in many human’s lives but they have usually prepared themselves with personal effort and are ready to qualify or deserve the luck when it does come along.

 

Nagging:

Nagging is a form of complaining and the squeaky wheel frequently gets the grease or something is done about the complaint.

However, if there is too much nagging or squeaking then there is the possibility that the nagging  or squeaky wheel will be ignored or the source of the nagging abandoned.

 

Control freak:

 Some humans are control freaks or try to control others and events as much as possible. Control freaks are frequently tyrants who want things done their way or no way at all and it is the source of much arguing, disagreement, and bad feelings.

Harmonious living with a control freak is usually not possible unless you are a docile subservient human seeking to avoid responsibility for your own actions.

In a democratic society the tyrannical control freak is frequently dysfunctional and will only be happy if moved to another culture which idolizes controlling types.

Tyrannical husbands who want total control over offspring and spouse are getting exceedingly rare these days in the west unless they are controlling bosses at work and carry on the bad relationship habit at home.

 

Feeling victimized:

If you feel victimized by humans and circumstances then chances are that you will not be struggling that hard trying to improve things or the situation.

The “poor me” attitude frequently wanting sympathy from others will frequently backfire with humans not willing to offer you any sympathy and usually not wanting to have relationships with you either.

Misery loves company and if you do have any friends left they will be leading similar miserable lives and you will be wallowing in your misery a long time.

 

Living in the past:

Old humans with little life left frequently live in the past recalling past experiences and retelling their life stories over and over again to whoever will listen.

Some ex jocks or athletes and young movie or TV stars also live in the past and frequently wish they were young again and able to compete or function at the same high level.

If these aging relatively young humans don’t find other worthwhile careers or interests to pursue they frequently  become alcoholics and drug abusers and lead very dysfunctional unhappy lives.

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8 THINGS YOU SHOULD LEARN FROM SHITTY HUMANS!!!

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It is best to try and avoid shitty humans. If you can’t avoid them then ignoring them as much as possible may be a solution but you will have to learn to defend yourself and your loved ones against them if they become an inescapable part of your life, especially if they are trying to spread lies about you or your loved ones.

You learn to develop a thicker skin or learn to handle mistreatment without becoming too upset or giving in to abuse. You maintain your composure and hold on to your integrity when crap is being thrown at you.

You learn to defend yourself and those closest to you if they come under unjustified attack or attempted abuse. You courageously defend yourself and your loved ones against lies if they are being spread.

You learn that sometimes you may be victimized by mistreatment only because you were available and the bad human was just transferring their bad experience effects or dissatisfaction on you and misdirecting their venom.

You learn that some shitty humans refuse to be helped with advice or consideration and you should not pursue your goal of helping if the human refuses it.

You learn that some shitty humans are just rude, annoying, abusive, and gossip because they enjoy being jerks so you should not become depressed if you are surrounded by more than one such personality type.

You learn that if you live with resentment, hatred, jealousy, and anger at some of the bad things which humans do to you then it will handicap you emotionally. It is best to forgive and move on if possible or to forgive and remember forever so it doesn’t affect you adversely again or so that you can take appropriate steps to avoid future hurt.

You learn that shitty humans have shitty habits and that it is almost always wasted effort trying to reform them or get them to change those shitty habits.

You learn that shitty humans are all around and with time you learn to ignore or avoid them as much as possible so that they have minimal bad impact on your life and emotional well being.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT SHORTSIGHTEDNESS***

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Shortsightendness: n. planning and doing for the short duration and ignoring planning and doing for the long duration and/or focusing on tactics and not having a strategy

There are shortsighted personal and business interactions which emphasize short duration benefits and profits and not long duration benefits and profits.

In your zeal to establish almost instant good relationships with humans you may be deceptive and even lie somewhat and use exaggerated praise and generous material gifts to try and be liked by someone. This sometimes works if you want rather immediate benefits from a relationship such as sex or sell someone on your risky idea and/or investment or get someone to buy something from you. In the long duration if you want a good reputation and relationship then you will fail since with time your phoniness will surface and the temporary trusting relationship will no longer exist and your reputation will be in the toilet.

In business the tremendous desire to get profits quickly for the short duration leads to shoddy merchandise, bad customer service, unhealthy food, very risky investments, and long duration possible financial bankruptcy.

In government shortsightedness leads to too many laws which favor big money and some small money special interests which don’t benefit the general welfare and handicap small and some relatively large minority groups and businesses.

Most dangerous is the shortsightedness of the food industry and government which no longer courageously supports true organic farming which helps to preserve the biodiversity of the food supply in society. No taxation of the truly organic food farmers, wholesalers of organic food, and organic restaurants would go a long way towards incentivizing a biodiverse healthy food industry. Refrigerated organic raw milk and organic raw milk cheeses and products sent nationally and internationally should be legalized! The health of the nation will gradually improve.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT NEGLECT***

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Neglect: v. to intentionally or unintentionally ignore and/or not care for adequately

Neglect can be unintentional or intentional and a misunderstanding and confrontation frequently exists when unintentional neglect is considered intentional. Forgetfulness is frequently considered a form of neglect and it is rampant in society. If you really cared about me then you wouldn’t be so forgetful!

Humans do forget and some more than others and failed promises to do something is frequently considered intentional neglect.

Males neglecting to spend enough time with offspring is frequently viewed as a sign of parental negligence or simply not caring enough and effectively ignoring offspring. Child neglect by both parents is frequently considered child abuse since offspring frequently don’t get the care they deserve or need.

Negligent businesses and landlords are sometimes sued in court and some lawyers make a killing from negligence cases. Negligence is frequently a question of being responsible for doing something and not doing it.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT AVOIDANCE***

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Avoidance:  n. choosing not to do a subset(s) and/or ignoring the subset(s)

We frequently try to avoid unpleasant circumstances, unpleasant humans, and unpleasant events but don’t always succeed because the world is filled with unpleasant circumstances, humans, and events. If we do our best to avoid unpleasantries then we frequently are not trapped trying to escape them.

We all have developed coping skills with unpleasantries. We choose to spend less time with unpleasantries, develop a calloused emotional attitude, or actually put in some time and effort trying to change unpleasantries a little so they are not so unpleasant.

Sometimes nagging is unavoidable and ignoring it is sometimes the best solution if it doesn’t stop and can’t be changed for the better. Being ignored is not what most humans want but it sends a message that you don’t like something much and are not willing to invest your time and energy arguing about it or trying to change the impossible. Of course if you don’t like your job then you can’t ignore it entirely or risk being fired so ignoring is not always the ultimate solution.

Bad behavior and bad humans frequently results in bad circumstances and bad relationships so basically try and avoid the bad and engage the good.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT IGNORING***

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Ignore: v. to intentionally not see and/or not participate in a subset(s)

Sometimes when we can’t solve a problem, don’t like what is said to us, or can’t deal with a confrontation or argument we try to ignore it and hope that it will go away and leave us alone. We intentionally may turn our head away or just not participate in an unpleasant activity or effectively try to ignore it.

If we have unpleasant coworkers or friends which we don’t need, ignoring or avoiding them as much as possible is frequently the right thing to do. Unless it is a very important situation, ignoring it will sometimes make it go away or at least lessen the unpleasantness which would exist if we confronted the situation head on.

Ignoring family or work problems is frequently not the smart thing to do because they can develop into serious important problems which will then need our immediate attention.

Ignoring, avoiding, or trying to exclude the trivia in our lives is the smart thing to do so we can devote precious time to the things which really matter and are important in our lives.

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