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HOW TO MAKE HUMANS LIKE YOU IN THE SHORT AND LONG DURATION!!!

Become genuinely interested in humans and keep improving your emotional intelligence with interactive human experience.

First impressions are important so smile when introducing yourself and remember a human’s name which are the first 2 signs of genuine friendly interest.

Be a good listener and only politely interrupt to change the subject if the human is getting too verbose or uninteresting.

Encourage others to talk about themselves and ask relevant follow up questions which show an interest in what they are saying and doing.

Talk in terms of the human’s interests or focus on the human’s loves and likes when interacting.

Make the human feel important by sincerely complimenting when a compliment is deserved and sincerely agreeing with an opinion if it seems to have merit or is plausible.

Share your views on a topic if there is a resemblance but rarely discuss highly controversial topics such as religion, politics, and sports unless you become close friends or are of similar persuasion.

In the long duration humans will like and maybe even admire you if you have integrity or are moral and honest, are trustworthy, are dependable, are competent, are friendly, or generally deserve to be respected.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT CHARM

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Charm: v. to arouse pleasantness and/or admiration by being visually attractive and polite and friendly and likable

A charming human can arouse pleasant feelings in another by being visually attractive, polite, friendly, and likable. A very charming human can arouse admiration in another by being very visually attractive, very polite, very friendly, and very likable which really means lovable.

Your charm can range from the likable to the lovable and it is up to you whether you want to be just liked or loved by someone. Charming an audience may be getting them to just like you and charming a potential spouse means added slightly different behaviors such as hugging, kissing, and touching such as holding hands and pats on the back.

Yes, many humans marry uncharming humans who are not that friendly, not that polite, not very likable, and borderline attractive. Many eventually end up in divorce because truly charming individuals are a rarity in society and there is no proof that charming individuals have longer duration marriages, especially in overly promiscuous societies. A charming individual is really an idealized human being with an abundance of good human behaviors and unfortunately in the real world most humans fall far short of this idealized state of charm.

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6 PRINCIPLES OF EFFECTIVE PERSUASION!!!

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The provided link gives an excellent presentation of the 6 major keys to successful persuasion which have been validated by science.

Very briefly if someone likes you, if you are an expert or authority figure, if you do them a favor first, if many have been persuaded already, if they have made a commitment, and if scarcity is emphasized then you are more likely to persuade successfully. Enjoy!!!

http://www.inc.com/justin-bariso/this-10-minute-video-teaches-you-exactly-how-to-persuade-others-proven-by-scienc.html

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6 WAYS TO PERSUADE OTHERS PROVEN BY SCIENCE!!!

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Very often you would like to persuade someone or get someone to say yes and agree to a suggestion or offer which you are making. There is an excellent link at the end of this blog which explains this very well in a video presentation.

If you want to view the excellent video at a later time then here is a brief and somewhat dry introduction to the topic.

RECIPROCITY: Humans are more likely to reciprocate, give back something, or be persuaded better if you do them a favor in a nice way first or give them something useful free as a token of your potential generosity.

SCARCITY: If humans sense there is a scarce service or product available which seems to be in short supply then there is a tendency to want to get it right away for fear that it will no longer be available again.

AUTHORITY:  An opinion, advice, or guidance from an authority figure with years of experience or expertise in a job is viewed more favorably than a generic or doubtfully qualified individual’s advice or guidance.

CONSISTENCY: Humans like to be consistent with what they have done in the past and if you can get prior commitment to something then chances are greater that they will follow through when asked again.

LIKING: If you share something that you like in common with a human that you are trying to persuade which may be as simple as a mutually liked food then there is more of a tendency to be persuaded or liking what you have to offer. Humans like others who are similar to them, pay them some nice compliments, and have a cooperative attitude in reaching future goals.

CONSENSUS: If you suggest or present evidence that as many as 75% of humans  who have much in common with the one whom you are trying to persuade  are buying or doing the same thing then the probability that they will also want to buy or do that something increases. This is an example of the herd instinct or wanting to become part of the same crowd of similar humans.

http://www.inc.com/justin-bariso/this-10-minute-video-teaches-you-exactly-how-to-persuade-others-proven-by-scienc.html

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT AMOROUS*

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Amorous: adj.  loverelating with a predominant emphasis on sexual love

Lovrelate: v. to sense much lovin and affection and liking for a subset(s) but not simultaneously

How frequently have you rejected amorous approaches by a human(s)?

Amorous means that the human expressed some loving and affectionate and liking behaviors towards you but most of the expression had sexual implications and when the behaviors are totaled up the experience of an amorous approach could almost be described as bordering on sexual obsession.

In most cultures more males are guilty of amorous approaches because so many have sex on their minds at a high frequency due to their inborn predatory sexual nature and far too many view females as sexual objects to be used or dominated with sexual relationships being the impulsive motivating desire.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT PREFERENCE+

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Preference: n. liking one subset better than a different and/or similar subset which is frequently chosen from the same set

A preference is usually a preferred choice between two or more similar subsets such as apples, food, clothes, cars, or houses. Occasionally the preference choice is between two very diverse activities such as reading and listening to music.

Preferences are very subjective and even though humans tend to choose what is the most popular there are many divergent preferences even among close friends or relatives.

Human preferences in the opposite sex and friends varies greatly but as a general rule the more attractive and good personalities are usually preferred over the unattractive and bad personalities.

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