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HUMAN SEX IN A NUTSHELL!!!

Why do humans have sex?

The two primary reason humans have sex is that it is usually pleasurable and some want to reproduce or have children. Yes, things like a dry vagina and sexually transmitted diseases such as herpes and chlamydia can cause painful sex and cause sterility in females so unprotected sex with strangers can be devastating on occasion. Some females or males who can’t reproduce the natural way sometimes have to undergo in vitro fertilization or wind up adopting children.

Some women don’t enjoy sex that much because there is inadequate clitoral stimulation before and during sex or the husband may suffer from premature ejaculation. In these unfortunate instances the wives usually have sex mostly because their husbands want it and it keeps peace in the family.

What is human sex?

For normal natural human sex usually there is some sexual foreplay followed by thrusts of the penis within the vagina. Then there is deviant sex or kinky sex where there is anal penetration by the penis, cock sucking, slapping, hitting, or pinching, licking of the labia, use of dildos, penis desensitizer salves, etc. Frankly this is usually done by humans who are getting a little bored with regular or standard copulation and foreplay which is just mostly kissing, hugging, stroking or petting, and endearing words.

Who has sex?

While normal sex is usually between a male and female there are deviant forms of sex which include same sex partners, threesomes, and the ultimate deviance or an orgy which is really group sex. There is also sex with children or pedophilia which is illegal in most countries and further sexual deviance such as bestiality which is sex with an animal. Some who don’t have a sexual partner or want a more attractive one pay for sex with prostitutes who are usually female but can also be male. Masterbation, pornography, and sex robots are for those who want sex without a live partner and usually when no live partner is available.

Where is sex done?

Sex is done almost anywhere except in public although this has been tried also. Usually sex is performed at home in bed but there are many other neverending places such as in the shower, on the floor, in the car, in a boat, in a plane, underwater, on the beach, in the woods, in orbit, etc.

When is sex performed?

Just before bedtime is probably when sex is done more often but frankly you can have sex any time of day or night.

How much sex does one have?

There are sexual addicts who have to have sex many times a day but for most humans once a high frequency of sex with a new partner runs its course sex is a very individual thing and it can range from once a day to once a week or month. In old age, unless you are using erectile dysfunction medication, the sex may be once a year or none at all.

How do humans have sex?

Some perform sexual acts alone or masturbate and there are even sex robots who are your partners when real humans are not available. You can have sex alone or with more than one partner broadly stated as group sex. There are physical sexual aids such as dildos and bondage items for the deviant. Then there are sex enhancements which are sometimes drugs designed to enhance the pleasure of an orgasm or sexual act. There are desensitizers for the penis designed to prolong the ejaculation point. There are even sex swings to make sex thrusts easier to do.

Why is birth control so important?

Most couples can no longer afford big families so birth control is essential. A condom is smart but even here sexually transmitted diseases are still transmitted with relative ease if sex is performed before marriage with a diseased partner. Vasectomies can sometimes help in birth control after having enough offspring but mistakes can be made without a form of birth control and pregnancy can still happen so and abortion may be necessary if the unwanted offspring is not given over to adoption. Morning after pills which abort a fertilized egg are also good emergency forms of birth control if you get seriously drunk and realize you are probably pregnant and don’t want a child.

The only unfortunate thing about birth control pills and uterine inserts is that they can impair fertility in the long duration so there is some danger in using artificial forms of birth control. I practiced coitus interruptus successfully without using a condom and succeeded in family planning of offspring.

Conclusion:

Sex is big business and all the promoted deviance and promiscuity is having a damaging effect on family life. Promiscuity can become a bad habit which marriage won’t cure. Traditional natural sex with natural foreplay such as stroking, petting, kissing, hugging, and endearing words is no longer considered adequate by many. Sexual standards have been set by society so high that many feel inadequate when performing sex primarily meant for successful reproduction in nature.

Nature considers prolonged sex an unnecessary luxury for reproduction so natural sex seldom lasts more than a couple of minutes. The result of unnatural pornographic artificially extended copulation has been an unhealthy unrealistic obsession with sex by too many which helps to handicap the social fabric and has a tendency to ruin family life with too many searching for the ideal sex partner. Too many males and females feel like inadequate sexual partners and fall for penis enlargement scams and quite a few females have silicon breast enlargement implants and cosmetic surgery.

Few understand that happy married life should often mean more than just great sex. If your sex is not that great adultery is almost never the answer. A financially responsible, trustworthy, loving and caring personality is often more important for a lasting marital relationship.

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MARRY WHEN YOU CAN AFFORD IT!!!

Historically in many cultures and currently in many parts of India, Pakistan, etc. there is something called a dowry which is some property in the form of goods, land, money, etc. which is usually given to the groom by the bride’s family upon marriage. You can argue all you want about the advantages and disadvantages of the dowry system but the fundamental fact is that marriage with offspring is an expensive proposition and the more financial resources that a couple has, the more probable it is that the family will have a secure and hopefully happy future.

Yes, a family with offspring is an expensive proposition so it is obvious why a dearth of enough money is often the leading cause of many divorces in the modern western world. In effect, a family can’t survive on love alone. All you need is love to marry is the popular dominant dangerous myth promoted in the west.

Historically in agrarian cultures where you have mostly farmers, offspring were an advantage because they could help with the farm work and make the family money and in old age families often stayed together so offspring were also old age insurance when the parents could no longer work on the farm.

Today most offspring are an incredibly large financial liability and cost an arm and a leg to educate and provide them with basic necessities. There are also many cases where upon graduation the offspring can’t find a decent paying job and wind up living with the parents for financial reasons.

So the best advice to give before marriage is make sure that you can afford it, especially if you want to have offspring. Yes, you can marry, use family planning or contraception and not have offspring until you can afford it. If you have offspring by accident and one spouse doesn’t want an abortion then a nasty divorce with unwanted legal financial responsibilities may be the result.

Now love and sex is a very powerful force of nature and it is entirely possible to run across a potential very compatible mate as young adults but neither party is making enough money or both are still educating themselves for a useful job or career. What do you do? Well you can live together or live separately being sexually faithful and use birth control and under no circumstances beget offspring. If a spouse gets pregnant then the smartest thing to do is to either get an abortion or give up the child to an adoption agency upon birth. Marriage should mean offspring and until you can afford offspring, don’t marry!

In the modern era usually both spouses are working and you may be wrongly concluding that you can afford offspring. Realistically child care, especially when they are young is a full time occupation and unless you can afford a nanny prepare for the high probability that one spouse will have to take much time off from the job to raise the young child. You will be surviving on one salary alone for a considerable period of time so make sure that you have enough money saved up or better yet wait until one spouse alone can afford to support the family with child.

If one spouse is a compulsive shopper or another accumulates large credit card debt then this is a danger sign that there is financial hardship ahead. If neither spouse is financially responsible then the relationship will probably crash and burn so avoid this circumstance as much as possible. If one spouse is financially responsible and in charge of all the money then the relationship may still be doable but not if both are financially irresponsible. If one is financially responsible and the other is not then prepare for a boatload of ongoing nasty arguments about money.

Yes, enough money and managing it wisely is very important in a marriage and if you fail on either count then most of your arguments will be about money and will almost definitely lead to eventual divorce.

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18 QUESTIONS YOU SHOULD ASK BEFORE MARRIAGE!!!

The two most important priorities in marriage are finances and offspring. It is very smart to make sure that you are on the same page on these two topics and have similar views on spending money or perhaps even saving some. Six questions you should ask are-

How much money should we both be making before having children?

Will we have enough money saved to take care of childcare when we have a newborn or will just one of us be working for a while?

About how many offspring would you like to raise or support?

If we won $10,000 how would you spend it?

How long do you think you will be working at your current job before you either get promoted or move on to a better job elsewhere?

What kind of work do you think you will be doing ten years from now?

 

4 important questions to ask relate to fidelity and promiscuity which is a very important subject to discuss because next to finances adultery is the second major cause for divorce in what is turning out to be a relatively hedonous western society with an overemphasis on sex and the pursuit of pleasure.

Beware, because old bad habits are hard to break or eliminate and if your future spouse has a history of great promiscuity then the chances are great that promiscuity will continue in the future too after marriage. Another important area to probe is a possible addiction to pornography and possible kinky sexual turn-ons which should be discussed prior to marriage to see whether they may handicap a consensual sexual relationship.

Are you monogamous?

What do you consider cheating in marriage?

About how many women or men have you slept with before you met me?

What turns you on sexually?

 

Housework can be a source for many arguments and you should determine whose responsibility it will be beforehand or whether you will be sharing the load and be assigned tasks to do such as cleaning, doing laundry, meal preparation, doing the dishes, taking out the garbage, yardwork, gardening, etc. Hopefully you won’t get into an argument about this is women’s work or this is man’s work because routine work is work no matter who does it.

Who will be responsible for the housework or will we be sharing it and how?

 

In-laws can be a major source for marital disagreement especially if some of them want to get involved in your marriage. Even worse is if they decide that they want to run it for you and are always critical of one spouse and take sides in marital disagreements. It is important to get a ball park idea on how important parents and in-laws will be in a marriage, especially if they are overly critical, combative, and don’t get along well with either spouse.

How involved will we get in supporting your parents in retirement years?

What role will your family play in our marriage?

What will you do if I get into a fight with your family?

 

What is also important is finding out how much of an introvert or extrovert your potential spouse is. You may find a very reclusive spouse unsettling and may start complaining about being ignored. On the other hand an extreme extrovert may spend too much time with other humans and once again you may begin to feel ignored. In either case, try to find out if you are going to have to deal with an extreme introvert or an extreme extrovert which may be disruptive to marital life.

How much space or time for yourself do you need?

What things do you enjoy doing by yourself?

 

Many of us just live from day to day without consciously planning or thinking about the future in any significant way. Some of us do have long duration goals so it is important to know how marriage will affect those goals.

What is your goal or purpose in life and how do you envision a partner fitting into it?

 

Finally, compatibility is often a function of similar likes and loves so it is important to find out in some detail what your potential spouse loves, hates, likes, and dislikes. If you find out that your morality is different or that you have radically different views on raising offspring then this can become a major source of arguments, disagreements, and unnecessary turmoil.

What do you love and hate the most and what do you like and dislike?

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