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UPDATED NEW QUOTE BY ULDIS SPROGIS 1352!!!

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UPDATED NEW QUOTE BY ULDIS SPROGIS 1272!!!

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A THEORETICAL MORAL DILEMMA WHICH ISN’T REAL!!!

A popular theoretical moral dilemma is proposed by ethical relativists which in real life just would not happen. A hypothetical question is posed. If you were the conductor of a train that was out of control and about to kill 6 humans would you veer left in a track fork and kill only one human on the track or let the train continue and kill 6 humans?

 

The reason this is an unrealistic scenario is that if you were in charge of running a train then you would know that there is such a thing as a warning horn to signal humans who may be on the tracks. Yes, you could also theoretically claim that the horn was inoperable and that you could not warn the endangered humans in time. If that were the case then you could ask what 6 stupid or inebriated humans were on the tracks with a noisy oncoming train in the first place? Stupid carelessness is often punished by nature and in this case some of the six would probably realize a train was coming and warn the others. If all six were careless idiots then they all deserve to die.

 

Another variation on this theme is this. If you could save 3 human lives, one with a transplanted heart, one with a transplanted bladder, and one with a transplanted liver would you kill one healthy human and use his organs to save the lives of those other three? If numbers alone are used to justify killing one or a few to save the lives of many then you can see how immoral this decision would be for a society. Individuals would be forced to sacrifice their lives to save many lives.

If you are having trouble making moral decisions then keep this one idea in mind.

 

A just moral decision must be good for the individual and also good for others in that society in the short and long duration. And finally, don’t let hypothetical, theoretical, unproven scenarios mislead you into erroneous moral decision making.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT HOAX

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Hoax: n. a subset(s) intended to deceive and/or defraud which is not a fraudulent contract nor a deceptive trick designed for entertainment nor a deceptive advertisement of ingus which can be considered fraudulent by some

A hoax in its purest definition is a lie about reality but in general usage it does not mean a fraudulent contract, a deceptive trick designed for entertainment, or a deceptive advertisement which can be considered fraudulent by many.

Examples of historical hoaxes are global warming caused by humans, Piltdown man, Lock Ness monster picture, and the Cardiff giant. You can claim or argue that the Book of Mormon or the Bible is a partial hoax or contains lies about reality or contains deceptive and untrue facts.

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QUOTE BY THOMAS SOWELL!!!

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UPDATED NEW QUOTE BY ULDIS SPROGIS 816!!!

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THE TRUTH ABOUT BEYOND A REASONABLE DOUBT+

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Truth beyond a reasonable doubt or TBRD: n. is unaltered and/or unmodified audio visual dated and timed evidence in court from a reputable source proving something existed in the past with a certain amount of certainty even though audio visual evidence can be tampered with very skillfully and pose as reality when it isn’t reality

 

In an increasingly immoral society with untrustworthy witnesses it is becoming increasingly harder and harder to prove that something, especially a crime existed in the past.

 

Professionals, authorities, and humans in general can lie under testimony in court and make a seemingly highly probable event an actual fictional occurrence. This is why the reputation of testifiers is increasingly becoming important in court verdicts because traditional undated and untimed evidence in the form of pictures is highly suspect because it may have been taken two days, a few months, or even years ahead of time and presented in court as evidence for a recent occurrence theoretically matching the evidence in court.

 

Until we have a more moral secular society many court verdicts will unfortunately be shams and as highly unreliable and as irresponsible as the humans who testify in court.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT VIRTUALITY+

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Virtuality: n. an artificial environment frequently with a cloose correspondence to sensory visual reality and/or imaginary sensory visual reality

 

Cloose: adj. existing at a relatively (short distance in space and/or small time interval) and/or (small number and/or small degree) and/or small quantity

Today virtual reality is largely a visual experience but it is also possible to have virtual reality with sound too since it is a wave with frequencies just like light frequencies. Sure, sound virtual reality will probably sound like noise to most ears so it has limited real functionality. Visual reality can also be noisy reality if it deviates too greatly from reality. Visual noise is rampant and deserves extinction.

Virtual or visual reality can be distorted into mutant forms of expression with a mixture of real and imaginary mutant forms making the net product a mutant also and subject to potential future extinction. Ask yourself. Would I like to live with those artistic mutant creations if they became part of my real world? Yes or no?

The answer in many cases would be a resounding no. I don’t want that mutant living on my property or in my city and wish it would disappear replaced by natural plants and animals that are beneficial to the environment and not toxically hazardous to it.

Virtual reality is great if it reflects real nature with as close a correspondence as possible and the next best subjects are transportation vehicles and buildings which are part of our real world existence. If virtual reality distorts reality then it also distorts your brain functions and impairs them in the long run because they have not been tested by nature for thousands of years or more and survived.

Who would like a pyramid in their back yard? It is a mutant artistic status symbol creation of the ancient Egypt and we don’t need it anymore in our modern world so recycle or destroy it and the historic literature on it and let desert wildlife return there instead!

There are plenty of mutant status symbols existing in the modern world and they too should be recycled or destroyed and replaced by wilderness or efficient sustainable long lasting products wherever possible. The throw away society must come to a speedy end and reusable, repairable, dependable, and long lasting should be the requirements for functional excellence.

Quality not quantity should be the long duration goal. This is vitally so in agriculture where organic is the standard of healthy excellence and substandard modified food without enough natural nutrients should be frowned on and ultimately rejected by everyone.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT PARADOXES+

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Paradox: n. illogical communications only possible in mythological nonrealistic language

There are no paradoxes but only the use of language inaccurately. This example is supposedly a paradox but on further examination of reality it is not.

All Creatans are liars said by a Cretan so is he lying or telling the truth? There is no paradox because in the real world no one lies all the time or 100% of the time. Rephrased the sentence should read Cretans lie much said by a Cretan who is obviously probably telling the truth or it is an exception to the general absolute false rule that Cretans lie ALL the time.

It also seems like a paradox that something or someone created the universe. Then one can ask who created the creator? An infinity of creators? The way out of this seeming dilemma or paradox is to assume that time and the universe is infinite or that it has no beginning and no end. Frankly humans are just not smart enough to answer all the questions which they pose in a logical understandable way because no one truly knows what zero or infinity really means, especially mathematically.

Theoretical concepts in mathematics such as an infinitely small point in space having infinite mass, energy, and gravity are mythological concepts which don’t make sense because no one truly understands what infinitely small means and definitely don’t understand what infinite mass, energy, and gravity means in the real world.

Some questions simply have no answers and applying absolute word concepts to reality is really an inaccurate way of describing the real world. Language is fundamentally deceptive language which often doesn’t seem to make sense or is not absolute truth but mixed in with many exceptions to general or absolute rules called falsehood.

All mortals die. John is a mortal and he will never die. Obviously the second statement is a lie or a miracle or myth or an exception to the general rule.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT PESSIMISM

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Pessimism: n. a belief that a goal(s) will be achieved with a very low degree of probability and a general belief that bad events will be more frequent than the good events in living

Some of us are more inclined to be pessimistic and feel that the bad events in our lives will far outnumber the good and don’t confront the world with much optimism and applied effort.

Many pessimists are fatalistic and feel that nothing in the world will improve and will rather become worse as time passes.

Not all pessimists are miserable and lead miserable lives with miserable friends but frequently humans do not want to associate with pessimistic personalities because many are so devoid of hope for the future and fail to inspire others to do better in their lives.

Prepare for the worst and plan for the best is a healthy dose of pessimism and optimism which is what a realistic appraisal of reality demands.

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SHARING 21 TRUISMS YOU SHOULD KNOW ABOUT!!!

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THE TRUTH ABOUT TRUTH

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Truth (General): n. a subset(s) which existed with a large number of logical and accurate correspondences or has a relatively large probability of existing in the future and will have a large number of logical accurate correspondences.(scientific truth had a large number of accurate and logical correspondences in the past and will probably continue to have a large number of accurate correspondences in the future and is a standard of truth which future general truth should also have) The greater the number and accuracy of the logical correspondence will be the more true it will be!!!!!!

 

Truth (Judicial) (Jtruth): n. a relevant fact(s) and/or concept(s) which may be used to prove beyond a reasonable doubt the (nondeceptive and/or nonfraudulent) and/or honest nature of something through evidence and/or testimony by hopefully (non deceptive and/or nonfraudulent) and/or honest people and it may include scientific truth or testimony by hopefully (nondeceptive and/or nonfraudulent) and/or honest specialists in their field.  Scientific truth may therefore be a subset of judicial truth during a trial.

 

Truth (Scientific) (Struth): n. a scientifically proven subset(s) proven by using the scientific method

We all intuitively feel that there are truths, untruths, and partial truths in the real world. The truths of yesterday are no longer true today so it seems that truth is a relative term or that it can change. Many feel that the opposite of truth is a lie. This black or white appraisal of reality is frequently wrong. There are partial truths or statistical truths and they are in fact partial lies and can be called deceptions instead.

What then is it that differentiates my truth from your truth when your truth on a topic is different than mine? The answer is which description or communication about reality is more accurate. If your description is the more accurate one then you have more truth in your statement than I do.

What makes an object sink or float in water? Historically humans explained that God or nature caused an object to sink or swim in water but today most agree that the truth is that objects denser than water will sink and objects less dense than water will float. Not only is the scientific mathematical explanation more accurate but it also has predictive power and can predict which object will sink or float based on an analysis of its physical properties.

Many still believe in myths and deceptions, many of which are religious and cult beliefs, which are very inaccurate ways of making judgments about humans and the universe which we are living in and many modern humans believe that these myths are untrue or are such inaccurate statements that they should be considered to be untrue or lies.

Thus the battle to destroy old truths and replace them with new truths is a constant battle going on. Unfortunately in human affairs which include human emotions, actions, and beliefs a very accurate description of what is going on is not always realistically possible because truths about human behavior are relative to the culture which they live in. They are statistical probabilities and not accurate mathematical one to one correspondences which can make for accurate predictions about human behavior.

What causes anger, fear, laughter, love, and hate in humans depends on what they believe in and how they impulsively behave in their lives and the same circumstances and stimuli may result in a different behavior based upon whom you are talking about.

Accurately describing the difference between a sociopath and a law abiding citizen is not possible because the descriptions use inaccurate badly defined words. In reality there are degrees of sociopathism and degrees of law abidingness which means that law abiding humans sometimes behave like sociopaths and sociopaths sometimes behave like law abiding citizens.

Name calling or stereotyping a human by calling them stupid, crazy, smart, or unreliable may not be totally true because that human may do some stupid, crazy, smart, or unreliable things but when analyzed as a whole that human may indeed not be doing very many stupid, crazy, and unreliable things in his or her life. If you are quick to judge humans then you can very frequently make inaccurate untruthful judgments about them.

If a human says they did something and you have proof that they didn’t then you can accuse them of lying or being untruthful and not feeling bad about the accusation.The greatest certainty in your human judgments is if a human intentionally lies to you. If they intentionally lie then they are not to be trusted and you should keep your relationship with them at a distance.

However,the world is filled with lies and deceptions which humans believe to be the truth so before you call someone a liar start out by saying that you think it is an inaccurate description of reality instead. You may still not convince someone that they believe a lie but at least they won’t get as personally offended as they would if you called them an intentional liar to their face. They are in fact unintentionally lying based on your standards of truth.

Are there any moral truths or is it just situation ethics where almost any behavior is tolerated? Statistically most humans don’t like liars, don’t like to be stolen from, and disapprove of adultery. These are statistical facts or realities which can be considered to be the truth about 99% of the time. Human moral behavior is in fact a discussion of statistical truths which have some minor exceptions which are not important enough to seriously affect the truth of the general moral statement.

After a lifetime of study and research I have created my own statistical secular moral code which is the truth close to 99% of the time. It is a statistical truth and is except in emergency situations- don’t destroy biodiversity, don’t lie, don’t be inefficient, don’t steal, don’t commit adultery if married, and don’t murder.

Impressionable young minds in elementary school should be taught this close to absolute moral code so that their behavior is guided impulsively with the right decisions in daily actions. When they become adults they will learn of the necessary exceptions to these seemingly absolute principles but these realistic exceptions should not corrupt their basically sound morality.

If you believe in the overall truth of this secular moral code then you will have honest, sincere, and trustworthy relationships with humans in your life and you will be respected and admired by them.

You will have purpose in your life because you will contribute to the preservation of wildlife and try to make your life more efficient by not wasting so much time, energy, and money on trivial pursuits in life but you will be able to focus on the things in life which give you the most pleasure or happiness in the short and long duration.

If you don’t lie and are not adulterous then your spouse and offspring if you decide to have any will trust you and you will increase the probability that your married life will be a successful one.

If the world begins to teach this secular moral code then nations can live together peacefully and avoid the collapse of civilization in the future due to the conservation of biodiversity which will be a safety net when the pollution of the domestic food supply begins to cause too much death and disease in the population.

There is rigorous accurate scientific truth and human moral behavior statistical truth which can and should be changed in the near future for the benefit of all the citizens of the world. We all have our personal notions of what the truth is and you should try to spread those concepts of truth to others because in the process of doing so you may find new truths which you can incorporate into your own updated personal beliefs.

I have defined love with an accurate definition which is better than the current definition of love which is very inaccurate but has some truth in it none the less. My definition of love is more true than yours or the worlds definition and understanding of love. More accurate definitions will create greater truth in this world and a more accurately defined language is what is desperately needed. SCIENTIFIC THESAURUS is my evergreen truth book which contains about 6000 more truthful definitions than standard dictionaries.

 

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WHAT IS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN REALITY AND TRUTH?

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Reality is everything which exists in this universe and that includes all beliefs which many now frequently feel are mythological, frequently some religious beliefs which are untrue.

Truth is a personal judgment of which realities are more valuable in our lives.

I personally believe or judge that scientific knowledge or mathematically provable realities are the most important. Secondly I believe or judge a secular moral code to be a vital reality in the peaceful interaction of humans on the face of this earth. I believe or judge accurate statistical evidence and scientific logical approaches to be more valuable in the formation of laws than just intuitive feelings of what fairness or justice should be.

Saying that something is false frequently means that you don’t value the response as an accurate description of reality. The wrong answer exists or is real but it is not accurate or is totally inaccurate. An accurate and sometimes mathematical description of reality is frequently more valued than an inaccurate description of reality in words and is considered more truthful or the truth.

If you say that something existed in the past and it is a totally inaccurate description then it is a lie or untrue. If you make a partially accurate description of a past event then it can frequently be called a deception or a partial lie or partial untruth.

Social truths are relative and subject to change from generation to generation with the exception of moral truths about human nature which are eternal statistically derived truths or realities about human behavior.

Your truth is different from my truth and unfortunately there is no objective truth which proves the necessity for the existence of a secular moral code so that peaceful human interaction worldwide is possible.

An evergreen truth blog may seem like a presumptuous exclusive claim on the truth and if you personally feel that it is my personal opinion and not your truth then of course you have a right to disagree. Peace!!!!!!

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5 SERIOUS TOPICS TO DISCUSS THOROUGHLY BEFORE MARRIAGE

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How many offspring will we have and when will we have them?

If you come from a large family you may want more offspring than your future spouse is willing or even able to support. Total agreement on the number of offspring is vital.

If you both have minimum wage jobs then offspring will be a severe time and financial burden on both of you. Until you are financially well off and stable don’t have any offspring and make plans for a possible realistic unwanted pregnancy.

Abortion or giving up the offspring for adoption is a logical solution which will have to be made if birth control does not work. Unplanned offspring appearing suddenly will frequently lead to a severe financial burden and speedily end in unwanted fierce marital turmoil, bankruptcy, and divorce.

 

In what religion will the offspring be raised if one or both of you are of different religions and true believers?

If you are a devout Baptist, catholic, or Jew then you and your parents may want the offspring to be raised in one and not two religions. One spouse will have to give in or compromise and choose a dominant religious affiliation for the offspring.  

Judeo Christian religions have many basic moral similarities but if you think that the traditions of one religion are stupid, trivial, or very unpleasant to deal with, a common morality may not be strong enough to overcome religious tradition biases or prejudices.

 

If religion plays a minor role in your lives what are the two most important moral convictions to have before getting married?

Believe that lying and adultery are immoral in a marriage and you will both have an excellent foundation to build a long duration happy marriage.

If you think that no morality is necessary in a modern marriage then you will be shocked into reality with a very unsuccessful one which will definitely end in divorce.

 

If one or both of you have dysfunctional inlaws with severe personality flaws or addictions (drugs, gambling, or alcohol) decide how you will minimize their impact on your lives?

Controlling inlaws who choose sides in a marital relationship is an extreme handicap and can lead to many spousal arguments and can even lead to divorce if the marriage is stressed financially also. Blame from the parents can lead to one spouse blaming the other for marital problems and it can quickly destabilize a marriage. If you are getting along well with each other then mutually decide to isolate imposing dysfunctional inlaws as much as possible.

What were the reasons you broke up with your exboyfriend or husband?

Fear of commitment and being overwhelmed by commitment financially are the major reasons males do not commit to marriage and can’t stay committed once married. Be realistic, family life means a great financial commitment which few males want, especially if the female does not have a good job or does not like to work and help greatly with the financial burden. Sex is relatively easy to find these days and there is no great social stigma for having it and not being married.

Offspring are expensive and require serious financial commitment from both spouses. Discuss long duration financial planning with your potential lifelong spouse. Offspring education after high school and the possibility of having to support young adults who can’t find jobs in an internet technological world of the future are realistic future expenses for the family budget.

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