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HUMAN SEX IN A NUTSHELL!!!

Why do humans have sex?

The two primary reason humans have sex is that it is usually pleasurable and some want to reproduce or have children. Yes, things like a dry vagina and sexually transmitted diseases such as herpes and chlamydia can cause painful sex and cause sterility in females so unprotected sex with strangers can be devastating on occasion. Some females or males who can’t reproduce the natural way sometimes have to undergo in vitro fertilization or wind up adopting children.

Some women don’t enjoy sex that much because there is inadequate clitoral stimulation before and during sex or the husband may suffer from premature ejaculation. In these unfortunate instances the wives usually have sex mostly because their husbands want it and it keeps peace in the family.

What is human sex?

For normal natural human sex usually there is some sexual foreplay followed by thrusts of the penis within the vagina. Then there is deviant sex or kinky sex where there is anal penetration by the penis, cock sucking, slapping, hitting, or pinching, licking of the labia, use of dildos, penis desensitizer salves, etc. Frankly this is usually done by humans who are getting a little bored with regular or standard copulation and foreplay which is just mostly kissing, hugging, stroking or petting, and endearing words.

Who has sex?

While normal sex is usually between a male and female there are deviant forms of sex which include same sex partners, threesomes, and the ultimate deviance or an orgy which is really group sex. There is also sex with children or pedophilia which is illegal in most countries and further sexual deviance such as bestiality which is sex with an animal. Some who don’t have a sexual partner or want a more attractive one pay for sex with prostitutes who are usually female but can also be male. Masterbation, pornography, and sex robots are for those who want sex without a live partner and usually when no live partner is available.

Where is sex done?

Sex is done almost anywhere except in public although this has been tried also. Usually sex is performed at home in bed but there are many other neverending places such as in the shower, on the floor, in the car, in a boat, in a plane, underwater, on the beach, in the woods, in orbit, etc.

When is sex performed?

Just before bedtime is probably when sex is done more often but frankly you can have sex any time of day or night.

How much sex does one have?

There are sexual addicts who have to have sex many times a day but for most humans once a high frequency of sex with a new partner runs its course sex is a very individual thing and it can range from once a day to once a week or month. In old age, unless you are using erectile dysfunction medication, the sex may be once a year or none at all.

How do humans have sex?

Some perform sexual acts alone or masturbate and there are even sex robots who are your partners when real humans are not available. You can have sex alone or with more than one partner broadly stated as group sex. There are physical sexual aids such as dildos and bondage items for the deviant. Then there are sex enhancements which are sometimes drugs designed to enhance the pleasure of an orgasm or sexual act. There are desensitizers for the penis designed to prolong the ejaculation point. There are even sex swings to make sex thrusts easier to do.

Why is birth control so important?

Most couples can no longer afford big families so birth control is essential. A condom is smart but even here sexually transmitted diseases are still transmitted with relative ease if sex is performed before marriage with a diseased partner. Vasectomies can sometimes help in birth control after having enough offspring but mistakes can be made without a form of birth control and pregnancy can still happen so and abortion may be necessary if the unwanted offspring is not given over to adoption. Morning after pills which abort a fertilized egg are also good emergency forms of birth control if you get seriously drunk and realize you are probably pregnant and don’t want a child.

The only unfortunate thing about birth control pills and uterine inserts is that they can impair fertility in the long duration so there is some danger in using artificial forms of birth control. I practiced coitus interruptus successfully without using a condom and succeeded in family planning of offspring.

Conclusion:

Sex is big business and all the promoted deviance and promiscuity is having a damaging effect on family life. Promiscuity can become a bad habit which marriage won’t cure. Traditional natural sex with natural foreplay such as stroking, petting, kissing, hugging, and endearing words is no longer considered adequate by many. Sexual standards have been set by society so high that many feel inadequate when performing sex primarily meant for successful reproduction in nature.

Nature considers prolonged sex an unnecessary luxury for reproduction so natural sex seldom lasts more than a couple of minutes. The result of unnatural pornographic artificially extended copulation has been an unhealthy unrealistic obsession with sex by too many which helps to handicap the social fabric and has a tendency to ruin family life with too many searching for the ideal sex partner. Too many males and females feel like inadequate sexual partners and fall for penis enlargement scams and quite a few females have silicon breast enlargement implants and cosmetic surgery.

Few understand that happy married life should often mean more than just great sex. If your sex is not that great adultery is almost never the answer. A financially responsible, trustworthy, loving and caring personality is often more important for a lasting marital relationship.

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MARRY WHEN YOU CAN AFFORD IT!!!

Historically in many cultures and currently in many parts of India, Pakistan, etc. there is something called a dowry which is some property in the form of goods, land, money, etc. which is usually given to the groom by the bride’s family upon marriage. You can argue all you want about the advantages and disadvantages of the dowry system but the fundamental fact is that marriage with offspring is an expensive proposition and the more financial resources that a couple has, the more probable it is that the family will have a secure and hopefully happy future.

Yes, a family with offspring is an expensive proposition so it is obvious why a dearth of enough money is often the leading cause of many divorces in the modern western world. In effect, a family can’t survive on love alone. All you need is love to marry is the popular dominant dangerous myth promoted in the west.

Historically in agrarian cultures where you have mostly farmers, offspring were an advantage because they could help with the farm work and make the family money and in old age families often stayed together so offspring were also old age insurance when the parents could no longer work on the farm.

Today most offspring are an incredibly large financial liability and cost an arm and a leg to educate and provide them with basic necessities. There are also many cases where upon graduation the offspring can’t find a decent paying job and wind up living with the parents for financial reasons.

So the best advice to give before marriage is make sure that you can afford it, especially if you want to have offspring. Yes, you can marry, use family planning or contraception and not have offspring until you can afford it. If you have offspring by accident and one spouse doesn’t want an abortion then a nasty divorce with unwanted legal financial responsibilities may be the result.

Now love and sex is a very powerful force of nature and it is entirely possible to run across a potential very compatible mate as young adults but neither party is making enough money or both are still educating themselves for a useful job or career. What do you do? Well you can live together or live separately being sexually faithful and use birth control and under no circumstances beget offspring. If a spouse gets pregnant then the smartest thing to do is to either get an abortion or give up the child to an adoption agency upon birth. Marriage should mean offspring and until you can afford offspring, don’t marry!

In the modern era usually both spouses are working and you may be wrongly concluding that you can afford offspring. Realistically child care, especially when they are young is a full time occupation and unless you can afford a nanny prepare for the high probability that one spouse will have to take much time off from the job to raise the young child. You will be surviving on one salary alone for a considerable period of time so make sure that you have enough money saved up or better yet wait until one spouse alone can afford to support the family with child.

If one spouse is a compulsive shopper or another accumulates large credit card debt then this is a danger sign that there is financial hardship ahead. If neither spouse is financially responsible then the relationship will probably crash and burn so avoid this circumstance as much as possible. If one spouse is financially responsible and in charge of all the money then the relationship may still be doable but not if both are financially irresponsible. If one is financially responsible and the other is not then prepare for a boatload of ongoing nasty arguments about money.

Yes, enough money and managing it wisely is very important in a marriage and if you fail on either count then most of your arguments will be about money and will almost definitely lead to eventual divorce.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT LUST+

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Lust: v. to desire sex excessively

To lust means to desire sex excessively and some give in to the desire with many sexual partners if the lust extends to more than one human.

If you are a polygamous male then lusting after more than one wife would theoretically be acceptable but lust is still an extreme sexual addiction which is not healthy mentally nor perhaps even physically in the long duration.

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THE TRUTH ABOUT RAPE+

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Raping and pillaging have historically occurred simultaneously and violently prone individuals seem more likely to use violence to have sex too.

In the US there are rape statistics and it seems that about half of all rapes are under the age of 18 and a vast majority under the age of 30. About half or more of all rapes are not reported and there is only about a 2% conviction rate.

Most of the rapes seem to be date rapes or rapes with humans that you know and there are even date rape drugs which are used by some which mentally mess you up so much that you don’t remember the details of the rape.

To minimize the possibility of a rape use common sense. Don’t get wasted on alcohol and drugs, avoid dating abusive violent personalities, don’t go to remote locations, especially with strangers, and keep an eye on your drinks or have a friend do so in unfamiliar bars or places, especially if a stranger seems interested in you.

If you are sober and awake and know basic self defense or know how to effectively attack the groin area and eyes then the possibility of getting raped is minimized.

There is also the remote possibility of getting gang raped, especially if you are unconscious. Stay away from male gangs if you fear that possibility and don’t date gang members.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT HOMOSEXUALITY+

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It is possible for two males to fall in love with one another platonically and if many traditional societies did not have a taboo against it, especially religious ones, sexual relationships between males would be more common. Homosexuality in prisons is an example of artificial situations of males only resorting to male sexual partners as the sole alternative to having sex with a human body.

I love a female as a sexual partner because it is not only the way that nature predominantly prefers it but I dislike the thought of having to poke my penis in the rectum or asshole of another male. The homosexual sex basically repulses me even though I understand that this feeling also is largely a biased cultural phenomenon.

I feel that homosexuals should have the right to adopt unwanted orphans or foster children but in no way should they have equal rights in adopting normal healthy children wanted by married heterosexual partners.

It is my belief that it is better to have homosexual parents than no parents at all but no normal child should be deprived of a great heterosexual family with both male and female and the corresponding differing personalities. This way the children will learn what a healthy communication and interaction is between male and female so that the children can grow up to have healthy heterosexual families of their own.

I also don’t like the flaunting, boasting, or homosexual pride exalting it as a superior lifestyle. Homosexuality can be tolerated by society but when it is flaunted, actively solicits members, or becomes a homosexual mafia then I strenuously object to this kind of behavior.

Homosexuality is deviant behavior and it should not have total equal rights with heterosexuality. I can envision some homosexuals playing the system by adopting children as a married couple, divorcing, and living on welfare with the children as their brood. The percentage of this happening may be very small at the beginning but with time successfully playing the system will be imitated and more will join the con.

I don’t think that you should be a closet homosexual and admitting it is no moral transgression and is desirable honesty but I don’t want the lifestyle shoved down my throat with blatant aggressive propaganda advocating the lifestyle.

 

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THE TRUTH ABOUT STD’S+

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STD: n. sexually transmitted disease

Promiscuity: n. a human having transient sexual relationships with many different humans

MYTH: YOU CAN HAVE SAFE SEX WITH CONDOMS.

In the United States, more people have genital herpes than all other sexually transmitted infections combined -– 50 million people in total. If there are 6 humans that you know then chances are great that one promiscuous one has herpes! There are more mind-boggling statistics but I leave you to research this further on the web.

Having many transient relationships with many different humans not only develops a bad habit but makes faithfulness with one partner much less probable in the future which frequently results in adultery and failed marriages. Add to this the inevitable danger of contracting an STD virus which can make your sex life a living annoying, painful, and even deadly process.

CONDOMS ARE NOT EFFECTIVE against herpes simplex virus and human papilloma virus. Herpes causes annoying pain and the papilloma virus can cause cancer.

Experts say being exposed to at least one STD virus is virtually inevitable. Viral STDs make up the modern “4-H club.” Herpes simplex virus (HSV), human papilloma virus (HPV), hepatitis (B and C), and HIV are the most common STDs, causing pain, cancer, liver disease and AIDS, respectively.

Here is a link to bacterial sexually transmitted diseases which you should also be aware of and oral sex can transmit them:

http://www.sexualityandu.ca/stis-stds/types-of-stis-stds/bacterial-stis-stds

Bacterial STDs like gonorrhea, chlamydia and syphilis, are relatively easy to cure with antibiotics if detected and treated early. Genitalherpes, genital warts, Hepatitis B and HIV are viral infections that cannot be cured, but the symptoms can be treated and managed but are a pain in the butt if you have them and you carry the stigma of being sexually diseased for the rest of your life!!!!!!

A hedonistic lifestyle has its cost in bad relationship problems, a bad reputation, and inevitable health problems. It is frankly not worth the transient pleasure which it gives and forgetting to use a condom or birth control pill can result in an unwanted pregnancy and possible abortion.

If you are smart then you will limit as much as possible sexual relationships with humans whom you consider to be very good friends and good potential mates and not have any sexual relationships with other casual acquaintances.

In this era of rampant promiscuity I personally would ask for an STD medical checkup with anyone that I decided to have sex with. That is a cold hard truth that I would live with since oral sex can transmit sexual diseases and virginity is no longer a guarantee of a disease free mate.

 

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ARE YOU MARRIAGE MATERIAL OR A ONE NIGHT STAND???

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If you have a poor job, bad personality, a bad education, and bad communication skills then chances are you are a one night stand.

You can improve your job and improve your education with much personal invested time, effort, and achievement. If you have a bad personality or bad communication skills and are a young adult then the chances that you will change this for the better are rather small and improbable because bad social habits are very hard to change in adulthood.

If you are honest, sincere, dependable, trustworthy, somewhat caring, and competent with a good paying job then chances are you are marriage material if you do not have a history of being promiscuous or unfaithful.

If your looks, personality, communication skills, education, and dynamic goal oriented lifestyle are not enough to attract someone on more than a handful of dates without sex then you should seriously consider improving your non sexual characteristics which are the bonds which will keep a relationship going in the long duration.

Try to use sex as the primary attractant and you will fail miserably in a close long duration trusting relationship. Even serious marriage minded males do not want a promiscuous liberated female or one who gives sex freely with no strings attached.

Online dating and most dating can be a very frustrating and disappointing in an increasingly promiscuous hedonistic culture. Many are victimized by social brainwashing which encourages irresponsible behavior or the live for today party mentality. Good marriage material in western cultures is becoming increasingly rare so don’t be too disappointed if you aren’t finding any good marriage material these days who can commit for a long duration responsibly.

CONCLUSION:

Be honest, sincere, dependable, trustworthy, competent, somewhat caring, and faithful and try to associate with humans who also have those fundamental important characteristics since most will have similar minded friends. In effect, try to associate with humans who are also marriage material. If you have surrounded yourself with humans who are one night stands then don’t be too surprised if you have become or are one of them!!!!!!

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THE TRUTH ABOUT SEX

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In nature species have sex because they want to reproduce healthy specimens or offspring for the next generation. It is only dysfunctional western cultural propaganda and the big business sex industry which promotes the idea that sex can be for pleasure only and reproduction need not enter the picture in a sexual union.

The result is a promiscuous society with the breakdown of the family unit as the source for healthy mental and physical offspring. Yes, the world is overpopulated with humans and the last thing that we need is broods of offspring for every family unit but promiscuity is endangering the future mental and physical health of the family unit and destroying the sense of financial and caring responsibility which parents should have for their offspring.

If current promiscuity trends continue I see armies of disillusioned single women with offspring dependent on government as the male provider or dependent on alimony checks or struggling to support offspring on a female salary which statistically is less than male salaries.

If males can get sex for free or relatively easily then what is the incentive to make a financial and moral commitment to a female which they may not be that crazy about in the first place? Our cultural norms for desirable female beauty are so high that many males do not want to settle for much less than the ideal and an average looker frequently has little appeal as a marital partner.

Promiscuity increases the probability of immoral adultery in marriage and adultery is the second leading cause of divorce after financial mismanagement or failure which is the primary reason for divorce.

Finally, men frequently like sex more than women and women instinctively would like to have sex with someone who has the potential to be a good responsible father. With so many irresponsible financially challenged males it is no wonder that women are experiencing more than average dating fiascoes and are disillusioned by many of the roaming sexually predatory males.

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7 DRAWBACKS OF PORNOGRAPHY

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In a nutshell pornography is dehumanizing and increases the probability that you will have unsatisfying sexual relationships in real life. Here are 7 detailed reasons why pornography is usually bad for you and your partner.

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6 MYTHS ABOUT WOMEN WHICH MOST HUMANS BELIEVE BECAUSE OF CULTURAL CONDITIONING!!!!!!

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Women aren’t as aggressive as men, they aren’t as horny, don’t like porn as much, are vainer, aren’t as good at math, and aren’t as physically abusive. These are all myths and in fact many women can be more aggressive than men and more physically abusive.

For mind opening more details check out this cracked.com article:

http://www.cracked.com/article_18760_6-things-everyone-knows-about-women-that-arent-true.html

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13 MONEY TRUTHS ABOUT HUMAN NATURE: PART 1

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With money you can buy sex, but not love.

This just means that money alone will not guarantee a good loving relationship with someone.  Money certainly helps as a good foundation but personality traits such as caring, honesty, and loyalty are just a few of the many things which must be present to make love bloom.  My evergreen book LOVEALL will explain in detail what love is and how you should behave and how not to behave if you want to create a loving relationship with someone.  Money can not buy love but it can help you to get love because many women and men are attracted to wealthy people and money attraction is a very important foundation of love.

 You can’t buy love.  

You can rarely buy love but you can buy the services of loving people to take care of your children or family when you are not there and you can buy the services of people who love their work and are good at it.  Having money is a big attractant to women and if you have some minor personality flaws or are not that attractive then you have a better chance of finding a woman or man who will eventually grow to love you.  

Love does wonders, but money makes marriages.  

Too little money is still one of the major reasons why most marriages end in divorce because children soon enter the picture and marriage becomes an expensive lifestyle.  Basically, if you are smart then you should avoid marrying unless you are making enough money to support a family. Money will not make a successful marriage if the people can’t get along emotionally with each other or have severe personality flaws that clash so marry someone for more than just the money which they make.  

Money is a means to an end.  

It usually takes some money or a lot of money to reach most of your goals in life.  

If you have money, men and women will think you are wise, handsome or beautiful, and a good social example.  

This just basically means that humans will kiss up to you if you have a lot of money thus hoping to get some of it too.  

Once the last tree is cut and the last river poisoned, you will find that you cannot eat your money.  

This just means that if money is not used to preserve biodiversity and the environment, no amount of money will buy back a healthy diverse environment once it is destroyed by greedy destructive human activity.  

You get what you pay for.  

This is almost always true unless you are sold a high priced but performance poor product or service.  Some services are overpriced and you don’t always get honest repairs, so overpaying for a service does not always mean that you are getting your money’s worth.

 

Money doesn’t buy happiness but can help happiness to thrive.  

This is mostly true. If you overspend money on too many goods and services and pile up huge credit card debt you will probably be unhappy. Many relationships break up because of too little money or poor money management so not having money can cause great unhappiness! Having enough money means that you can usually use it to pursue the things that really make you happy in life. Money is the best foundation for happiness to thrive.  

Lend your money and lose your friend.  

This is almost guaranteed if the friend never repays the loan even when times are good.  

Buyer beware.  

Government regulation in all fields of business has tried to set acceptable standards for commerce.  Nevertheless, it is still basically true that you should be wary of buying from strangers and especially unreliable sources or people.  

A fool and his money are soon parted.  

This is usually true for people that have never learned to manage or budget their money. They then wind up living from paycheck to paycheck or effectively spend all the money that they make. The result is that they don’t save or invest any money and have none left when they spend it. Emergency situations mean a stressful financial crisis or going deeper into debt which is frequently never paid off.  

A penny saved is a penny earned.  

A penny earned can be a penny saved if you don’t spend it on something first.  

The best things in life are not free.  

The social myth is that the best things in life are free which is not true. My best things in life are food and sex and I know of almost no one who is getting them both for free unless you are on welfare. Conversation is enjoyed by many people but you are still using your time and energy calories doing so, so it is not really free. To burn energy calories you need food and food is not free for most of us. It is best to rephrase this and say that the best things in life don’t have to cost much money.

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THE BIG SEXUAL MYTH VS THE TRUTH

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 MYTH: Sex should be a fun and a frequent activity and as kinky and divergent as possible.

TRUTH:  Most animals in the wild do not have kinky foreplay which lasts longer than a few minutes or they are caught and eaten by predators.  Sex has become a habitual trivial pursuit in society at great cost to the participants in the form of bad health or STD’s and addiction to time wasting porno sites and tragic failed marriages and relationships between the sexes. Reproduction and sex is serious and efficient in wild nature and it should remain as close to its original roots as possible for humans.

The truth is that there should be no unnatural sex toys to play around with but you can do so if you desire because there should be free choice to screw up your sex life if you want to.  Sex is not a game but a serious reproductive enterprise to be done the natural way.  If you want to suck a cock and have deviant fun then be my guest but it is a waste of time and the pleasure gotten is minimal.

If you want to lick the body or suck cock or lick pussy then you may do so but the increase in ecstasy is not there and it can spread unwanted germs to the vagina.  It is a boring repetitive waste of foreplay time.  The foot fetishes and fetishes in general are unnatural and you are realistically not getting any great pleasure out of it.  Are you really getting an orgasm from licking a foot?  I don’t think that you are.  You can use cream on the body and lick it off and you can lubricate your body with exotically smelling oils and do an infinite variety of stupid things during foreplay but will it really give you as much pleasure as an orgasm?  I think not.

So don’t waste your time, energy, and money on inventive sex toys that give you minimal added pleasure.   Don’t use rubber bands and/or anal and vaginal inserts and/or whips and/or prods and/or penile desensitizers and other artificial pleasure enhancers in your youth to excess because it can damage your long duration ability to have long duration pleasurable natural intercourse.  Dildos and massage vibrators can be used in moderation where premature ejaculation is a natural result and deprives a woman of any natural orgasms.

The only kind of foreplay that is really necessary and effective is clitoral stimulation with fingers before actual sex. Most other foreplay is an artistic excursion into trivial embellishments which all are boring and don’t give you the most bang for the buck.

Finally pornography will only give you unrealistic expectations of a sex life where you can seemingly copulate frantically for an eternity without ejaculation and the big cock big tit predominance will just make you feel that you are having an inferior sex life and will potentially give you severe feelings of inadequacy. Exclude pornography as much as possible because it greatly decreases the probability that latter on in life you will have a successful marriage without adultery entering the picture. After you have seen thousands of sexy women engaging in sex in your youth you will have a more difficult time making your future wife feel sexually secure in the marriage because your fantasy sex life will overpower your healthy real life sex life with spouse.

CONCLUSION:

If you want to have natural quality sex and not quantity sex then have sex more frequently and you will enjoy more orgasms. You don’t need to prolong the sexual act artificially with much deviant foreplay because it is basically unnatural and not the way that nature intended it. Nature knows best.

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7 BEHAVIORS WHICH MAY MEAN THAT HE IS ADULTEROUS OR UNCOMMITED AND HAVING SEX WITH ANOTHER WOMAN

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Adultery happens in marriage and a divorce is sometimes a potential way of getting compensated somewhat for the failed commitment. There are women who live together with a man without marriage for over a year and are still not married because he does not want to commit. If that is the case and both of you are financially capable of supporting a family life with offspring then he probably has the intention of leaving you for a better woman at a later date and is just using you for sex. If he has not cheated on you yet then he probably will in the future and you can’t claim adultery and he gets his freedom back with no legal consequences.

If you are living together for more than a year and have not bonded enough to commit to one another then ending the relationship is the best thing to do. If you are living together and financially not able to support any children and you are both working hard at improving yourselves for better paying future jobs then you can delay getting married until finances are large enough for security in a marriage. If he lands a good paying job and still does not want to commit to marriage then he is playing you for a fool and will cheat on you eventually.

Not having enough money to support a family is an excellent reason for not committing to marriage. You can continue living together but once he has enough to support at least one offspring and you independently on his own then marital commitment is essential and any further delay in the process is a behavior which means that he will probably leave you at some point in the future for another woman. Not enough money and financial mismanagement is the number one leading cause of divorce so if you are not financially secure and can’t control your bad spending habits then don’t marry or try to force a marriage because there is a high probability that it will fail sooner or later.

 

For married couples or those living together here are 7 behavior changes which may mean adulterous or unfaithful sexual behavior:

 

Sudden excess attentiveness and phone calls at unusual times:

Buying you gifts which he would not ordinarily buy and phone calls at unusual times during the day or night may imply that he is seeing another woman. Ask him what the unusual call was and if he seems secretive about it or gives you a suspicious answer then record the time and date of the call until you have about 5 of them written down. Next ask him for the phone and check out the calls that were made. If all five of them are to the same number then call that number and find out who it is. If the number has been erased from the list of calls in each of the five cases then he is probably hiding something. If he doesn’t give you the phone and says, don’t you trust me, then answer by asking why don’t you want to share it with me or communicate that you are doing it for your peace of mind or if you can get temporary possession of the phone secretly while he is asleep then check out the calls without him knowing about it. Whatever the situation, don’t accuse him of lying or hiding something until you have all the evidence with which you can confront him if necessary.

 

A changed man:

Sudden behavioral changes such as listening to new music, changing to a different scent, trying to be very sociable if he has been mostly introverted, wanting a new car when one is not needed, and a new way of dressing could be a symptom of Mid-life crisis but it may also mean that he is interested in another woman. It could be an effort to please another woman and not you.

 

His phone is suddenly turned off or he doesn’t give you access to it when requested:

Humans with nothing to hide don’t get upset or anxious when asked to share something like a phone with a wife. It could be a call from a bookie if he is  gambling and in great debt or a call from the credit card company if he is not paying great debt on his personal account but another possibility is that there is another woman that he is communicating with.

 

Suddenly having more frequent and aggressive arguments:

It may be because he is suddenly dissatisfied with the relationship if you have broken one or more mutual agreements or promises but it could also be because he has found another woman that has an interest in him and seems like a better spouse for him.

 

A sudden great decrease in a normal sex frequency:

It is almost guaranteed that he is getting his sex elsewhere.

 

Obsession with a new female:

He may not always use her name but if his conversation implies that he is talking about her very frequently then there may be more than just a casual relationship with her.

 

Beware of intuitive sensing:

You may not have obvious evidence of a major change in behavior such as those communicated above but just intuitively feel that he is seeing another woman. If you are starting to get paranoid about it may be slightly justified and due to some of your woman friends having adulterous husbands or your husband having adulterous male friends. Similar personalities frequently have similar problems in relationships so if your women friends are suffering from adultery you may have the same personality characteristics which cause a male to want to become adulterous. Similarly identical adulterous behavior can be potentially suspected from your husband if he has close friends who are adulterous males.

Start personally gathering any real evidence by trying to trace his movements or monitoring all his calls or hire a private detective to do it for you, especially if your husband is one who has an irregular schedule of being home at varied unpredictable times.

If you have caught your husband’s adultery once or he has confessed to it voluntarily once then you have evidence that he has done it once and the next time your intuition may be a reliable source based on past experience. Without past experience or evidence of adultery you must gather real evidence first for your intuitive suspicions and fear of insecurity before confronting him with any accusations of adultery which may actually be wrong and he may intensely disapprove of your mistrust and be very angry.

Another way of reassuring yourself that he is not being adulterous is to start calling him when you suspect that he may be away from job or home and with another woman and sense if he answers without showing anxiety or great dissatisfaction in his voice.

If your husband has an excellent record of not lying to you about other things in the relationship then chances are he won’t lie to you about his location during the day or night if asked and will not be angry at your questioning. If your relationship is good and is based on trust with no lies about anything to you then trust him. If he announces one day that he wants a divorce then that is the time that you can ask questions about the other woman which he has been seeing with extreme stealth.

If you have married a human who habitually lies to you or makes many promises and doesn’t fulfill them and you forgive him unconditionally then unfortunately you are the one responsible for your doubt and misery and fear.

 

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13 DATING MISTAKES SOME WOMEN MAY MAKE UNKNOWINGLY

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Not enough money and an adulterous personality are the two major reasons which lead to a divorce and they are also the two major reasons for failed relationships.  Avoid dating playboys and especially playboys and lazy uneducated men without a good job.

It is a mistake to date anyone who asks you for a date including losers and then having a very low opinion of men and assuming that all of them are irresponsible uncaring manipulative personalities unworthy of your attention. The best way to avoid disappointment and heartache is to avoid men without a job or men with jobs which are not stable or have poor income.

Stay away from men with no jobs and those who are bartenders, disk jockeys, musicians, models, actors, sports jocks, photographers, landscapers, cashiers and service workers working at minimum wage without an education and no plans for bettering themselves.

On online profiles avoid the handsome men, the ones who sound too good to be true, and those looking for a good time or fun in life. Once again follow up with a question about a job and possible future job plans to determine whether he will be worth your investment of time, energy, and money.

If he is divorced then really probe for as many reasons as you can find for why the marriage was not a success. If it was adultery or financial bankruptcy which was caused by overspending then avoid a date with that man.

This basic principle works both ways and unless you are very attractive then you should not be dating if you don’t have a job.

 

If you are stuck on an exhusband and are still in love with him then you will have a hard time learning to trust another man.  You will have difficulty investing optimistic time not being convinced that there is not more than one soul mate in your life which you can find if you look hard enough and frequently enough.

 

Expecting the man to make the first move all the time is a mistake because the male ego hates rejection and some appropriate flirting may be advisable if you find someone whom you would really like to know better but seems to be ignoring you.

 

Dating only potential soul mates or twin flames means that you have probably set your standards too high and are overlooking the somewhat geeky or minimally attractive man with a good job and perhaps a better caring personality.

 

Not being courteous and polite on a date and not saying thank you to compliments and good behavior towards you such as paying for a meal is a mistake even if you think your date is a loser and you can’t wait for the date to end. You may not have a high opinion of him but he will have a better opinion of you if you are nice to him nevertheless.

 

Don’t pretend or be dishonest in the way that you behave on a date because in the short duration a misleading hope of appearing more desirable will kill the possibility of a trusting intimate relationship developing further along in the relationship if your lies are discovered which they eventually will be given enough time. Be honest, truthful, and sincere always and you should have no regrets no matter what happens.

 

Don’t ask uninteresting questions which are boring or without personal connections. Ask about family, best friends, exspouse, good and bad experiences, and favorite and not so favorite things in life. Birds of a feather tend to flock together and you will find out much useful information about your date if you find out who his favorite family member is or what interests his best friend has. You will also find out whether he blames his ex for the divorce or whether he feels he is partially to blame for the breakup. Near the end of the date you can ask what his plans are for the future if any or if there is something he would like to do in life which he can’t do right now.

 

Don’t talk too much about an exspouse and avoid laying all the blame on them for the relationship not working out. You can keep an answer short and sweet by stating that the relationship just didn’t work out and you both decided to move on with your lives.

 

Stay away from addictive (drugs, gambling, or alcohol) and abusive personalities which should be a red flag but which may be a dangerous personality which you are attracted to because of past bad experiences with addictive and abusive humans in your life which you now almost consider normal and attractive.

 

Not knowing your core needs. Although some core needs may differ there are generalized needs which most women have. They don’t want someone who is irresponsible with money, can’t be faithful, isn’t honest and sincere so he can’t be trusted, is a poor communicator with many personality flaws, and does not want offspring at any point in his life. If you are in a relationship just for the fling then core values are not important but you can develop a reputation as a loose woman and other knowing males will treat you accordingly without much respect.

 

You give sex too early in the relationship. In an era of sexual freedom women are encouraged to be as free with sex as the men. Unfortunately, men respect women more who don’t give sex freely but make them earn it by forming a close platonic relationship first. Just as most women are repulsed by promiscuous males most males consider promiscuous females to not be as worthy as mothers. Only have sex once you have learned enough about the male to consider him a potential keeper and not just a good time buddy.

 

Only when you learn that the man has decided to choose you as an exclusive partner should you completely turn off your non sexual relationships with other potential males. If a woman has more than one male non sexual friend she will be more desirable in the eyes of a potential suitor.

If it is an online profile don’t lie about your weight, age, or use a picture which is old or doctored. Your date will be very disappointed and wonder what else you are lying about and will start out not trusting you.

 

 

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RELATIVELY RARE PROFILE OF AN INDEPENDENT PROSTITUTE

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She genuinely enjoys sex and has escaped being victimized and forced into the job by an aggressive pimp or organized crime.

She is coherent and sober and shows no signs of drug use or abuse and turns down clients who are on drugs or want to use them during sex.

She has not been sexually abused as a child and knows mentally and physically what she is doing and is proud of her profession and enjoys it.

She is an expensive prostitute and can make a good living with prostitution alone and is not doing it just to supplement her usual income.

She can limit the clients to two or three a week or one or two per day and is impeccably clean, not dirty, and not reeking from the smell of cheap perfume.

She does her best to minimize STD diseases by insisting on the use of a condom and never permits bareback sex.

She has a college degree and actually doesn’t mind spending extra time and companionship on a client and has long term goals and ambitions beyond prostitution.

She is not manipulative and will try to scam you in some way.

She will not do all the kinky things which you ask of her and has her limits or standards or what they will do or not do.

****She will ask the client whether he is married and decline service if he is. This almost never happens and that is why moral prostitutes are so rare if they exist at all in real life.

Conclusion: No matter how moral or nice a prostitute or “escort” wants to be she is still promoting adultery in a male which is an immoral act and all the other seemingly good qualities or characteristics do not make up for this fundamental immoral flaw. She is in fact a serious potential marriage destroyer.

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PORNOGRAPHY

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The truth is that pornography should be censored from children as much as possible.   It can prevent adults from leading truly loving sexual lives since so much of pornography is brutally impersonal artificially prolonged sexual behavior and deviant sexual behavior where reproduction is not the primary focus but artistic dysfunctional creative behaviors are introduced as acceptable normative standards.

Exposing children to pornography also means that pedophilia will run rampant throughout the society thus further decreasing the probability that adult couples will have successful long term loving marital relationships.

Males are obsessed with sex in puberty and later in life and are the primary users of pornography because sexual arousal in males is highly visual and a mere view of a naked female body in a picture can cause an erection.

I don’t have scientific evidence on how males can be desensitized to female bodies sexually except perhaps by seeing a lot of naked female bodies not involved in sex in childhood and puberty. Without scientific evidence I think that naked parents walking around in a private house exposing their nakedness to children may be a partial solution to desensitize boys visual erotic reaction to naked women pictures.

When children ask questions about sex or reproduction show them videos of animals reproducing or being involved in sex. With the exception of of some animals, sex is usually quite a short behavior without many minutes or hours of unnecessary foreplay. Sex is efficient in nature and very purposeful and that frequently means short and sweet and exciting.

A SONG WHICH ILLUSTRATES WHY PORNOGRAPHY AND PROSTITUTION ARE HARD TO COMBAT.

YOU CAN’T GET RID OF PROSTITUTION SO INSTITUTIONALIZE IT!!!

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The truth is that prostitution is the oldest profession and it will unfortunately be around to the end of time.

A just government should try to ensure that prostitution is a voluntary choice and not an issue of human slavery.

There are far too many women who are victimized by criminal prostitution enterprises and are enslaved under lock and key and their lives are threatened if they plan to escape their involuntary servitude.

Prostitution is the oldest profession in the world and it should be legalized and taxed and monitored.

The prostitution of minors should be against the law but adult women should have the legal right to voluntarily sell their bodies if they choose to do so.

To avoid sexual violence and sexual coercion and abuse all houses of prostitution and high class single prostitute businesses should be wire taped with audio visual setups monitored by a police surveillance force and ultimately computer surveillance so that there is proof that no woman is being forced to have sex by a pimp.

Customer’s or John’s identities will no longer be secret to law enforcement but that is the secrecy which you will have to give up if you want to have paid sex.

The brutal pimp will be put out of business because sexual violence should definitely be against the law.

Locally houses of prostitution and high class prostitutes can be limited to restricted or zoned areas away from most family activities and life and preferably somewhere in the worst parts of a town or a city.

Advertising should be word of mouth only with no street solicitation and not over the internet or on billboard signs.

Prostitution is a social necessity but it should be treated with censorship as a potential blight on family life.

Why is prostitution a social necessity?

Because there will always be very ugly people and severely physically and/or mentally handicapped people who will want to have sex with a real woman.

There will also be plenty of males fantasizing what it would be like having sex with an attractive and sexy woman who physically surpasses the beauty of their young or old wives.

Male lust and a desire for varied sexual partners will lead many men to prostitutes who will fulfill their lust and fantasies for a price.

There will be a disincentive to cheat on a wife because that is adultery and should be against the law.

A wife suspecting that maybe a husband is committing adultery with a prostitute would be able to visit the police and get a check of her husband’s name on the customer list including high class prostitute lists.

If the husband’s name (identities will be checked before they are recorded such as with a license number) is on the client’s list she will have grounds for divorce if she so chooses.

Many wives after overcoming their initial rage and betrayal and feelings of jealousy may choose to forgive their husbands and give them a second or maybe third chance to not do it again and therefore will often not immediately be prosecuting for divorce.

They will have the power and the evidence in the form of audio video to file for divorce at any time without the need for a lawyer.

Standardized rules for custody of the children and financial rewards and/or property to be taken from the husband will be available so no court adjudication will be necessary and tax payers money will be saved since there will be no court costs other than those for the divorce filling fee.

A suggestion would be 50% of the husband’s current wealth unless there is a prenuptial agreement which offers less.

The total wealth of the husband should not be taken away because it is often the fault of both parties that the husband has gone to a prostitute and terminally jeopardized the marriage.

In the future and I predict it will probably be a rarity there may be some women who may choose a male prostitute and the same rules would apply to the wives as to the husbands and the husbands would get custody of the children.

This may not keep straying husbands from having sex with non-prostitutes while married, but at least the wife will have some assurance that she is not going to get STD diseases from prostitutes who could infect her husband.

A final note: There should also be periodic mandatory prostitute doctor checkups for STD contagious diseases and an official record kept of all those people who may have contracted them so that customers can be identified and contacted and quickly treated so that they will not spread STD diseases to their wives or other sexual partners.

With these recommended laws in place prostitution will be a legal business but never a big local business unless a corporation buys up all the prostitution businesses in the nation or world and makes big bucks on a yearly basis from the combined total.

There may be some who feel that monitoring will not work but this is just an admission of the fact that prostitution is a great way to make money illegally and launder the money for big profits.

Prostitution is just a big business enterprise which is continuing to thrive because of a cash economy which makes profits easy to hide.

In a cashless society the government will be able to monitor prostitution activity much more readily and make illegal activity a form of tax evasion punishable by financial penalties and even jail time so it is just a matter of time before prostitution becomes institutionalized similar to some European countries.

Make your profit while you can but in an open source society of the future clandestine business operations will be almost nonexistent and all for the benefit of the general welfare especially family units.