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POLYAMORY OR WHY OPEN RELATIONSHIPS ARE AN UNHAPPY EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTER!!!!!

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OPEN MARRIAGE OR SEX WITH OTHERS OUTSIDE OF MARRIAGE IS PLAGUED WITH TOO MANY BAD EFFECTS TO MAKE THE LIFESTYLE A GENERALLY PLEASURABLE ONE. SACRIFICING THE TRUSTING RELATIONSHIP OF A MONOGAMOUS EMOTIONALLY STABLE RELATIONSHIP FOR A FEW MINUTES OF SEX IS JUST NOT THE SMART THING TO DO WITH YOUR LIFE.

 

HERE IS A LIST OF ALL THE BAD EFFECTS OF OPEN MARRIAGE:

  1. THE LOGISTICS OF SHARING YOUR MARRIAGE PARTNER MEANS THAT YOUR SPOUSE IS AN UNRELIABLE COMPANION IN YOUR LIFE WHEN YOU MAY NEED THEM THE MOST. ESPECIALLY IF YOU HAVE OFFSPRING IT IS HARD TO MAKE UP AN EXCUSE AND SAY TO YOUR OFFSPRING THAT DADDY OR MOMMY CAN’T TAKE YOU TO YOUR FRIENDS HOUSE BECAUSE HE OR SHE IS WITH ANOTHER SEXUAL PARTNER!!!!!
  2. SOCIAL STIGMA IS A MAJOR BAD EFFECT BECAUSE YOU WILL BE CONSTANTLY EMBARASSED BY ADULTS AND COOWORKERS AND OFFSPRING MAKING EMBARRASSING COMMENTS ABOUT YOUR DEVIANT LIFESTYLE TO YOURSELF AND OFFSPRING.
  3. YOU WILL CONSTANTLY BE EXPERIENCING MOMENTS WHERE YOU GREATLY FEAR THE LOSS OF YOUR LOVED ONE AND HAVE MANY FEARFUL ROLLER COASTER MOMENTS AS A RESULT OF JEALOUSY AND FEAR OF ABANDONMENT AND ALIENATION BROUGHT ABOUT BY AN ABSENCE OF ADEQUATE ATTENTION TO YOU AND YOUR DAILY NEEDS.
  4. YOU WILL CONSTANTLY BE BATTLING WITH EPISODES OF ANGER AND/OR FEAR AND/OR SADNESS AND/OR ENVY AND/OR INADEQUACY.
  5. CONTINUING THIS ON INTO OLD AGE IS NOT A REALISTIC HUMAN RELATIONSHIP CHOICE AND THE OPEN MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIPS WILL END SOONER OR LATER. PERMANENT MONOGAMOUS PARTNERS WILL BE FOUND AND THIS WILL END THE UNSTABLE OPEN MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIP.
  6. WHO NEEDS A HUGE BAD EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTER IN THEIR LIVES? IF YOU DON’T WANT CONSTANT INSECURITY IN YOUR LIFE AVOID OPEN MARRIAGE RELATIONSHIPS AND DON’T COMMIT ADULTERY IF MARRIED!!!!!
  1. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-O-zCiUCc3E