Monthly Archives: February 2013

HAVING TROUBLE GROWING INDOOR PLANTS WHICH PRODUCE NEEDED OXYGEN IN AN AIR CONDITIONED HOUSE?

AIR CONDITIONING REMOVES TOO MUCH WATER FROM YOUR INDOOR AIR WHICH IS NOT ONLY UNHEALTHY FOR YOU BUT IS ALSO UNHEALTHY FOR INDOOR PLANTS.

BUY A HUMIDIFIER FOR YOUR AIR CONDITIONED HOME AND NOT ONLY WILL YOUR HEALTH IMPROVE BUT THAT OF YOUR INDOOR PLANTS WHICH WILL ALSO GIVE YOU MORE NEEDED NATURAL OXYGEN!!!!!!

LOW LIGHT HOUSE PLANTS ARE BEST FOR LOW LIGHT ROOMS.

DON’T WATER THE PLANTS TOO MUCH OR ADD TOO MUCH FERTILIZER OR YOU CAN KILL THEM OR THEY WILL NOT GROW RIGHT.

Research indoor plants completely before you decide to use them indoors because they will become your dependent offspring similar to more cats and dogs needing care and attention which you may not have on a regular basis.

If you don’t have the time and/or right knowledge to give the plants the right caring then don’t have any in your home!!!!!!

VISIT THE SEVEN NATURAL WONDERS OF THE WORLD BEFORE YOU DIE!!!!!!

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Iguasu Falls and the Grand Canyon and Harbor of Rio De Janeiro and Amazon Rainforest and the Great Barrier Reef Victoria falls and Mount Everest is my list of what I consider to be the most outstanding natural wonders.

I have been to the first three and they were worth every cent for the billion dollar emotional excitement which they provided.

The only remaining place where I would intensely like to go is scuba diving the Great Barrier Reef in my retirement years but I may have to wait a decade before that desire translates into fact.

You probably have a bias toward human made wonders of the world so I have included a Wikipedia article of some other choices which you may like personally.

My suggestion is don’t waste your money on minor excitement and use YouTube and Google Earth to visit your favorite places on your computer.

If you would like to travel to a great natural wonder in person start saving about 5% of your paycheck for that one or two trip to the most exciting experiences which nature can provide. Enjoy!!!!!!

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http://www.popsci.com/science/article/2013-02/best-nature-gifs-whole-wide-web

3 USEFUL AGILITY RULES FOR A HAPPY FAMILY AND ONE VERY IMPORTANT MORAL PRINCIPLE!!!!!!

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Mythical authoritative rule over the offspring is not the best teaching tool in modern families. Agility training or interacting as a team as you parent is the basic rule for a happy successful family.

This means adapt constantly to everyday events and problems and don’t be too constant in your opinions on daily events and problems.

This means empower the offspring or permit them to make some decisions and permit them to offer their point of view if they have any.

This means communicate your story or review your family history and go over the good times in your lives and the bad times and how you got through them.

This means that successful offspring frequently have successful families which gives them a sense of motivation and purpose in their lives.

This may not be very useful information for ghetto offspring with bad family backgrounds but this can be improved in the near future by greater selfmotivation caused by individualized achievement through audio visual interactive educational software.

Agility teaching does not reveal that there is a more important basic moral code which should serve as the foundation upon which many decisions in life should be made-don’t destroy biodiversity and don’t lie and don’t be inefficient and don’t steal and don’t commit adultery if married and don’t murder.

The most important question to ask in almost every family circumstance and/or problem is-

Are we being efficient in solving this problem and are we going to save time and energy and money doing so in the long duration?

Here is the complete TED video by Bruce Feiler which is very informative. Enjoy!!!!!!

THINGS AND PRIVILEGES WHICH YOU CAN TRY TO ASK FOR IF YOU CAN’T GET MORE MONEY FROM YOUR BOSS!

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Raisen: n. adding money to a salary

ASKING FOR A RAISEN AND NOT GETTING IT CAN BE UNPLEASANT BUT YOU MAY NOT BE AWARE OF SOME PRIVILEGES WHICH YOU CAN TRY TO ASK FOR INSTEAD.

BEFORE STARTING A JOB WHERE THE SALARY SEEMS TOO LOW YOU CAN TRY ASKING FOR FREE EDUCATION OR JOB TRAINING AND FREE GYM OR YOGA CLASSES.

A FEW MONTHS INTO THE JOB OR WHEN YOU THINK YOU ARE SECURE IN THE JOB TRY ASKING FOR STOCK OPTIONS IF IT IS A COMPANY WITH STOCK OR MORE VACATION TIME.

IF YOU BECOME A SENIOR EMPLOYEE YOU CAN TRY ASKING FOR A FREE CAR AND FREE BUSINESS CLASS TRAVEL.

IF YOU HAVE MADE IT TO A VERY LARGE RANK YOU CAN PROBABLY GET FIRST CLASS TRAVEL WITH VIP SERVICE AND A BONUS OR SUPPLEMENTAL RETIREMENT PLAN OR LARGER RETIREMENT INCOME.

THERE ARE 28 MORE PERKS WHICH YOU CAN ASK FOR BY READING AN ARTICLE BY KATE WHITE WHICH I HAVE INCLUDED NEXT CALLED 31 GREAT WORK PERKS PEOPLE DON’T TELL YOU ABOUT

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ARE NUTRITIONAL SUPPLEMENTS NECESSARY IF YOU EAT HEALTHY???

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Nutritional supplements are used in the American diet because most soils are depleted of the natural balance of nutrients and humans think that artificial supplements are necessary to rebalance nutrient intake. Taking supplements will only put your body more out of balance and may create an artificial adjustment by your body to the lopsided nutrition. What you really need is an intake of balanced micro nutrients which supplements don’t provide.

If you eat a varied certified organic food diet and supplement it with natural bee pollen from wild flowers you can kiss unnatural unbalanced food supplements good bye and save a lot of money doing so. Also a diet of raw milk and blood sausage about once a week can ensure a good nutrient rich diet without the need for a very varied array of organic foods.

What follows is an article ARE NUTRITIONAL SUPPLEMENTS NECESSARY?

http://www.nutritionalsupplementsforhealth.com/Nutritionalsupplementsarticle.html

IF YOU ALREADY ARE DRINKING RAW MILK ONCE IN A WHILE AND EATING BLOOD SAUSAGE ABOUT ONCE A WEEK AND ARE EATING THE CERTIFIED ORGANIC FOODS OF YOUR CHOICE AS FREQUENTLY AS YOU CAN AFFORD THEN A LITTLE TEASPOON OF WILD FLOWER BEE POLLEN ONCE A WEEK WILL ENSURE THAT YOU WILL NOT NEED ANY FOOD SUPPLEMENTS AT ALL AND YOU CAN SAVE A BOATLOAD OF MONEY ON FOOD. BELIEVE IT OR NOT!!!!!

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WHY USE FRAGRANCES AT ALL?

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MYTH: You need fragrances to smell good.

TRUTH: Smells in nature are used to identify your territory and frequently create fear in trespassers. Flowers attract bees and insects but human females are not flowers trying to attract bees and insects but are trying to attract men who usually are not interested in flowers or their smells.

The truth is that one hundred percent of artificial fragrances from unnatural chemical derivatives will offend someone in society.

You may think or believe the fragrance is great but trust me if you asked humans the most would be offended by it.

If you don’t want to offend anyone that you interact with then don’t wear a natural or unnatural fragrance.

Use unscented deodorants if you sweat much.

I personally think the smell of confederate jasmine is an attractive smell but if I were to wear it I am sure that I would offend someone in the world and would be called effeminate.

Use your favorite smells to smell up your own home territory if you want to but don’t advertise it in public if you don’t want to offend someone.

Honestly most of the perfumes or colognes on the market aren’t strong enough or exist long enough to be worth the money.

Smells in nature are used to identify your territory and to attract insects and for few other reasons.

So try to limit your fragrances to your own territory or home and exclude them from public places.

The truth is that fragrances should be limited to your home territory and should not be used in public places!!!

Forget about all those pleasant smell sayings from brainwashed people who don’t know the difference between a natural smell and an unnatural one.

It is pure bullshit!!!

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9 REASONS YOUR COWORKERS MAY NOT LIKE YOU MUCH

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THEY MAY THINK YOU ARE A SLOB

Slob: n. a lazy and slovenly human

Slovenly: adj. a habitually careless and messy human

Lazy: adj. using a minimum amount of energy on many actions causing delay and/or slowly doing a delegated action(s) which usually requires more speed

Messy: adj. dirty and disorganized

Your personal messy appearance and messy desk top appearance may label you a slob in the office but a slob also implies that you are probably also lazy and careless in your office work habits and relationships with other humans in the office.

If you are a lazy and careless personality then you have much to improve in your life and it won’t be easy but at least a first attempt may be to improve your personal appearance and not be dirty and disorganized with your personal hygiene and clothing.

The next attempt may be to organize your desk top so that it doesn’t remind humans of a junk pile. If you are really a complete slob you are destined to probably remain one for a lifetime and there is not much which can be done.

YOU HAVE BAD EMAIL ETIQUETTE

Don’t use upper case letters when communicating on the computer because it is a form of shouting and people will just not take you very seriously if you shout in every communication and when you have a true emergency circumstance where you may need upper case letters you won’t be able to use the shouting effect.

Hitting “reply all” is also not good to do because your boss may be on the list and also get the communication which may be considered inappropriate or you may communicate something bad about a coworker and you will suffer for it.

You may feel so important that you use “high priority” for almost every email. Don’t do this because when you have a real emergency and need to use it no one will be acknowledging that it is an unusually important email.

YOU’RE CONDESCENDING

Condescending: adj. communicating and revealing a feeling of superiority and implied criticism of others

Don’t brag about your work achievements or create the impression that you know everything and your coworkers are just dead wood in the office or useless.

You may feel your new concepts and work is superior but the feeling among your coworkers will be bad and your reputation as a good team worker will be lost.

GIVING EXCESSIVE PERSONAL INFORMATION

Remaining in professional business mode is how you should try to work and communicating excessive personal information which may seem important to you but does not help the business is unacceptable.

Don’t go into great detail about health problems and marital disagreements and offspring’s latest achievements and private phone calls during work and details about a hot political topic or sporting event and information about your favorite pastime.

If you are a smart employee you will maintain as much privacy about your personal life as is possible.

Everyone has problems and interests away from work and no one really wants to hear about it because they have their own problems and interests which they care about more.

YOU ARE LAZY

If you are messy that can be fixed somewhat easily but if you are lazy too you will not be liked.

Lazy means that you do your work slowly and are frequently late with your work and that you probably try to get your coworkers do as much of your work as possible and still try to get credit for it.

If you don’t get fired for being lazy and manage to squeak by your reputation will be bad and the smartest thing to do is not waste the time and energy and money of the company and coworkers and stop cheating or stealing from them and move on to a different job where laziness or inefficiency is not considered a moral crime.

YOU’RE A BACKSTABBER

Taking complete credit for a worker’s work and stealing a concept which is not your own is a form of stealing information and it is immoral and you will be hated for this by the coworker whom you stole the credit or concept from.

You automatically communicate “no” to any new concept your coworkers have and share with you

YOU AUTOMATICALLY COMMUNICATE “NO” TO ANY NEW CONCEPT YOUR COWORKERS HAVE AND SHARE WITH YOU

If you are almost always judgmental and critical of new concepts presented in brainstorming sessions your concepts may start to be ignored because no one wants to be involved in a communication with you knowing that you will be too critical of alternative concepts which you coworkers may have and want to present.

Don’t get ostracized for going to this “no” extreme.

YOU’RE NOT PUNCTUAL

Be on time to a meeting because if you are late and humans are wasting time waiting for you then you are stealing their time and the money of the business and coworkers and being inefficient.

If you are hated for not being punctual on the job it is justified because it is an immoral action.

YOU HAVE BAD BEHAVIOR

Behaving badly in the office can cause great annoyance and you can be hated for it.

If you are noisy in your cubicle you are stealing the right to silence which your coworkers have so they can efficiently proceed with their work.

Being rude suchas loud orders and arguing loudly and forgetting to communicate please and thank you when appropriate are behavior flaws which create friction between you and your coworkers and for which you will not be liked and maybe even hated.

CHANGE CHILD LABOR LAWS OR SHOULD TEENAGERS BE PERMITTED TO WORK AT REAL JOBS?

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MYTH: Teenagers should not work in the real world.

TRUTH: Teenagers should work about 4 hours a day in fast food places as cashiers and as factory assemblers in safe factories and in urban farming at less than minimum wage to instill a proper work ethic and gain work experience in the real world. Some skilled and valuable teenagers will work at more than current minimum wage if they are productive members of the business. Real work experience in the real world will motivate them to learn more conscientiously so that they are not trapped in a low paying job for the rest of their lives.

School hours can be cut by 4 hours each day because students are not learning much of anything worthwhile in school these days. Liberal arts classes should be cut like music (band and chorus and theater and ballet and dance) and art ( ceramics and culinary and fashion design and creative writing and expository writing and journalistic writing and world literature and English literature and arts and crafts) and physical education or sports and foreign languages and history and social science and and political science. Students aren’t learning any useful skills which they will later need in life but will be just killing a lot of valuable time. Surely the school system can cut education in middle and high school by at least 4 hours!!! Over 99.9% of the students will never use that liberal arts education in their lives for useful skills on the job!!!!!!

The truth is that there should not be an arbitrary age of 18 or so before a teenager can work. The truth is that many teenage children should be permitted to work in a safe environment such as a fast food outlet or safe assembly line work or urban farming for about 4 hours a day. Teenagers historically helped parents on the farm and there is no reason why the work ethic can’t be promoted in the society at large today.

They can commute to and from work on a scooter or be shuttled back and forth by their parents. The truth is that many precocious children will choose to continue their education rather than work at menial jobs which should be quickly disappearing in the highly robotized society of the future.

Teenagers should be able to drive scooters and motorcycles which don’t exceed 30 miles per hour if they can prove their driving ability. They should also prove that they are morally competent and realize the consequences of reckless driving with adequate testing and a handful of adult trustworthy witnesses which would include family and friends and independent government evaluators.

Enough driving dexterity develops before the age of sixteen in some children and mental stability can occur by the age of about thirteen for some early bloomers. At thirteen some Jews become men in fact and not only symbolically by having a bar mitzvah. Women have a bat mitzvah.

In the old agricultural days children used to do hard labor on the farms and helped their parents make a living and learned to work hard. It is time that teenage children start working again at less than minimum wage for about 4 hours a day at a part time job. Parents can shuttle them to and from paying work instead of to and from sports and entertainment activities in school which just waste a lot of time and energy and money.

Sure children will be competing with adults for jobs in the workforce and will cause many adults to become unemployed and destitute. The unemployed and destitute will be provided with free further education in a technological field and support for their basic needs door to door by the government so they won’t be missing their minimum wage labor jobs very much.

Think and do what society expects you to do and by 18 you will be considered an adult. What bullshit! The world is filled with a majority of 18 year old adults who are behaving like immature small offspring and many are without jobs or stuck in boring and minimally productive lifestyles devastating the environment in their mindless overly simplified habituated and indoctrinated ways.

Most people are just another brick in the wall of egalitarian imprisonment with little hope of escaping it.

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HOW WOMEN CAN EXCLUDE STRESS ABOUT A DIVORCE FROM THEIR LIVES

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A DIVORCE HAS NOT DESTROYED YOUR REPUTATION AS A GOOD HUMAN SO STOP FEELING GUILTY AND CONTINUE WITH YOUR LIFE.

DON’T WAIT FOR YOUR EX TO APOLOGIZE TO YOU FOR LEAVING YOU BECAUSE YOU WERE BOTH GUILTY TO SOME DEGREE THAT THE MARRIAGE ENDED.

STOP WORRYING ABOUT A FUTURE WHICH IS UNCERTAIN AND A PAST FULL OF MISTAKES BUT LEARN FROM YOUR PAST MISTAKES AND CONTINUE WITH COURAGE AND DETERMINATION TO MAKE YOUR FUTURE LIFE BETTER.

PARENTING THE OFFSPRING AFTER A DIVORCE IS MORE DIFFICULT BUT NOT IMPOSSIBLE ESPECIALLY WHEN THE BOY STARTS TO IMMITATE HIS DAD MORE THAN YOU. THE EFFECT WILL PROBABLY BE THAT YOUR SON MAY ALSO NOT SUCCEED AT LIVING IN A MARRIAGE FOR A LONG DURATION IF AND WHEN HE DECIDES TO MARRY. HE WILL PROBABLY HAVE MANY OF THE PERSONALITY PROBLEMS OF YOUR EX. TO EXCLUDE THE BAD INFLUENCE OF YOUR EX TO SOME EXTENT TRY TO FIND ROLEMODELS OF MALES WHICH ARE HAPPILY MARRIED AND COMMUNICATE TO YOUR SON ABOUT THE GOOD QUALITIES WHICH THAT MALE HAS THAT YOUR EX DOES NOT.

WITH JOINT CUSTODY OF THE CHILDREN IT IS A LITTLE MORE DIFFICULT TO BE JUST FRIENDLY WITH YOUR EX AND ACCEPT HIS INDEPENDENT LIFE BUT START BEHAVING LIKE A PLATONIC FRIEND TOWARDS HIM AND EVERYTHING SHOULD WORK OUT FOR THE BOTH OF YOU.

WITH A NEW GIRLFRIEND YOUR EX WILL HAVE LESS TIME WITH THE OFFSPRING BUT HE PROBABLY HAS LITTLE MORE WHICH HE CAN TEACH THEM ABOUT LIVING LIFE SO HE IS NOT AS IMPORTANT IN THEIR LIVES AND THE LESS TIME HE USES WITH HIS OFFSPRING THE BETTER.

IF THE NEW GIRLFRIEND IS MORE ATTRACTIVE DON’T FEEL THAT THAT WAS THE PRIMARY REASON THAT HE LEFT YOU BECAUSE THERE IS MORE TO A RELATIONSHIP WHICH LASTS THAN ONLY BODILY BEAUTY.

IF YOUR EX WAS AN ADULTEROR DON’T STRESS ABOUT IT BECAUSE HE WILL PROBABLY HAVE THE SAME PROBLEM WITH HIS NEW RELATIONSHIP EVENTUALLY. IF NOT MAYBE HE HAS FOUND BETTER SEX AND SOMEONE WHO CAN LIVE WITH HIS INCOMPLETE PERSONALITY.

IF YOU TRIED TO CONTROL YOUR EX WHILE HE WAS MARRIED YOU WILL EVEN HAVE LESS POWER TO CONTROL HIS INDEPENDENT LIFE SO STOP STRESSING ABOUT THE ABSENSE OF CONTROL THAT YOU HAVE OVER HIM.

DON’T BLAME YOURSELF OR THE OFFSPRING BEHAVIOR FOR BEING RESPONSIBLE FOR THE EX LEAVING THE FAMILY FOR ANOTHER WOMAN. EVEN IF YOU AND THE OFFSPRING WERE RESPONSIBLE YOU CAN’T CHANGE THAT FOR THE BETTER AFTER IT HAS BEEN DONE SO STOP STRESSING ABOUT WHAT IS IMPOSSIBLE TO CHANGE.

IF THIS IS YOUR SECOND OR THIRD DIVORCE MAYBE YOU ARE NOT MARRIAGE MATERIAL SO DON’T STRESS ABOUT IT AND ADAPT TO A SINGLE LIFESTYLE AND STOP FEELING GUILTY THAT YOU ARE NOT MARRIED.

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THE MINIMUM WAGE MYTH

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MYTH: We will always be able to remain fully employed as a nation and it is desirable to do so.

TRUTH: We need massive underemployment to get rid of trivial unnecessary jobs in the economy and make it more efficient in the future by offering free education in a technical field as a realistic hope of future employment to those unemployed and destitute who have a desire to put in the effort and who have the ability and who will try to achieve a greater level of quality education.

With a safety net for the unemployed and destitute there will be no need for a minimum wage because if it is too low then citizens will remain unemployed and destitute supported with basic needs delivered door to door but no vehicle transportation.

Instead without a minimum wage employers will be able to hire teenage offspring to do fast food and clerical help and urban farming and safe factory jobs and other safe jobs at minimal hourly rates for about 4 hours a day so that they get training in the work ethic on the job with financial help from the family. Children of the employed will have the opportunity to learn basic job and people skills which will be very useful in the employment world where it is frequently said that you can’t get a job without experience.

Teenage offspring of the employed will get all the job experience which they need and then some! We will also be once again in a competitive position with developing countries like China and Russia.

There may be some that feel that there would be less time for school if they worked. Shorten the school day by four hours a day because offspring aren’t learning useful job skills in school anyway and a liberal arts education is overrated and is largely an inefficient trivial pursuit expensive bureaucracy to boot.

Teenage offspring of the unemployed and destitute should not qualify for part time work because it would motivate the adults to have more offspring and send them out to earn spending money for the unemployed and destitute. Instead the teenage offspring of the unemployed and destitute should be spending more time on education which will benefit them later in life.

I don’t believe in using profane language but I use fuck here to get the message across to those working people that I love so much such as furniture movers. Those people have bodily difficult jobs carrying heavy furniture every day and it is a hard boring job. Many of them use fuck and motherfucker every forth word or so and I empathize with them.

I am a man for the working people because I have been there and seen it and experienced it with my own body sweat. Yea I can also move medium weight furniture. I am not afraid of dirty difficult jobs or any job because different jobs are necessary and to be admired. I worked my but off doing a speedy job by moving speedily with about three to five boxes at a time strapped to my back. Did I get rewarded for that extra work? No! I was working for minimum wage and there was no incentive to work efficiently and make the customer happy with a speedy move.

The truth is that most of those minimum wage jobs are unjust and in about 10 to 20 years there should be very few minimum wage jobs that robots can’t do better. Most of those minimum wage workers should be educating themselves on the internet for better technologically based jobs. Education retraining in science and technology over the internet at home or in school should be financed by the federal government and the instruction for the audio visual education should be provided by private firms also potentially funded by foundations such as the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation. All the recipients of this free internet education would be the unemployed and destitute and all students in public schools and community colleges and universities.

The truth is that most minimum wage jobs should be robotized and humans should not be trapped into working at minimum subsistence levels for long durations. That kind of work is truly dehumanizing and an unjust exploitation and minimization of the full potential of the human body and mind!!!!!!

WE DON’T NEED A MINIMUM WAGE IF WE PASS LAWS GUARANTEEING A SAFETY NET FOR ALL UNEMPLOYED AND DESTITUTE ADULTS AND THAT INCLUDES RECENT SCHOOL GRADUATES WHO CAN’T FIND EMPLOYMENT IN THE WORKPLACE. ONLY FOOD STAMPS ARE NOT ENOUGH HELP FOR THE UNEMPLOYED AND DESTITUTE STRANGERS AND FAMILY OFFSPRING!!!!!!

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6 PROVEN ACTIONS TO RELIEVE TEMPORARY STRESS

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Exercise your body with a slow walk during which you can further relax by trying to meditate about something pleasant which you will do in the future and listen to nature sounds. If you are exercising on a treadmill listen to nature sounds or view some wildlife predator prey or wild animal families in action on a high definition screen on the wall.

Eat one of your favorite meals which are not just energy boosting snacks and fill up your stomach with milk and meat which will leave you with a full satiated feeling and you will begin to feel relaxed and if you are really stressed eat a blood sausage because lions eat meat and blood before they relax and fall asleep.

Follow this up by drinking a favorite wine or beer which will have a further sedative effect on your body.

Women may prefer to follow this up with a warm bath and some favorite nature sounds in the background during which you can meditate on some favorite theme of a past or future event. You can also view wildlife scenes on a high definition screen on the wall.

Go to bed and start meditating with nature sounds in the background about past or future pleasant events or hopes or just try purging your mind of racing thoughts by counting from one to a thousand starting with a thousand.

Finally with a good exercise and meal and drink and some favorite nature sounds in the background try getting some good sleep to end the day.

HOW TO TASTE TEST DRINKS FOR THE ONES YOU PERSONALLY LIKE THE MOST

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Taste test your own coffees and teas and wines and beers. Here’s how. Let’s start with a coffee taste test. Taste the coffee hot and black without milk or sugar. How does it taste? Is there any sign of a bitter aftertaste that is too over powering and does not taste good? If it is rather mellow in flavor that is a good sign and we can wait for the coffee to cool down to room temperature at which point we will give it another taste test. Does it taste more bitter? If it tastes more bitter buy another coffee and do a comparison test.

The true test is a comparison test so you should be doing this at the same time with two or more dark hot coffees. Hot coffee is a taste or energy overload and your sense of taste can’t detect the subtle nuances in flavor that the coffee has. At room temperature compare which two coffees taste the best and you are done! Now you know which coffee you like best no matter what the coffee commercials may claim!

With wine or beer compare the taste of two or more at ice temperature by adding ice cubes. Once again there will be a cold energy under load which means that your taste senses will be literally frozen and not capable of noticing subtle flavor differences. Allow the wine or beer to reach room temperature and taste again. Sure bad wine will taste bad at room temperature and the question is which one tastes the least bad. That is the wine or beer that you should be drinking cold.

Sure the experimentation is a little time consuming but it is well worth the effort and you will truly know what tastes best for you!! And you alone!! Then dare to buck the social trends that your friends and relations and society try to ram down your throat with socially embarrassing rhetoric and phrases!

Actually you can taste and compare all kinds of products and drinks at room temperature. You can do this for soft drinks too. Which one tastes the best at room temperature when comparing two or more sodas? This is a sure fire way of finding out what your favorite soda really is. An objective personal evaluation and true evaluation of your taste preferences can be made this way.

So go forth and experiment with as many taste tests as you want. Happy HUNTING- Let the best tasting soda and/or drink and/or food exist in your world! I personally don’t approve of sweet sodas but I’m not the taste boss, you are!

If you find that you don’t like the taste of a soda or wine or beer at room temperature then why should you be drinking it in the first place? Dare to say no! I won’t put anything bad tasting in my mouth and swallow it! Why should you?

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9 IMPORTANT REASONS TO SEARCH FOR A NEW JOB

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IF YOUR COMPANY IS EXPERIENCING FINANCIAL DIFFICULTIES AND YOU FEEL THAT CUSTOMERS ARE ABANDONING THE COMPANY FOR GOOD REASONS SUCH AS BAD CUSTOMER CARE OR OUTDATED PRODUCTS OR BETTER COMPETITION FROM ANOTHER COMPANY(S) THEN START SEARCHING FOR A NEW JOB.

IF YOU ARE BORED ON THE JOB TALK TO MANAGEMENT ABOUT ADDITIONAL EDUCATION WHICH YOU MAY NEED TO GET TO A BETTER POSITION IN THE COMPANY OR BUSINESS AND IF THERE IS NO BETTER MORE INTERESTING JOB THEN START SEARCHING AND REEDUCATING YOURSELF FOR A NEW ONE.

IF YOU ARE LEARNING NOTHING NEW ON THE JOB AND CAN’T MOVE UP IN RANK OR SALARY AND YOUR PRESENT SALARY IS NOT VERY HIGH THEN START SEARCHING FOR A NEW JOB.

IF YOU ARE MENTALLY TOO STRESSED AND ANXIOUS AND FEARFUL ON THE JOB OR IF YOU CAN FEEL THAT YOU CAN’T DO THE BODILY WORK NECESSARY THEN START SEARCHING FOR A NEW JOB.

IF YOU FIND ANOTHER JOB WHICH YOU THINK WOULD BE MORE INTERESTING IN THE SAME OR SIMILAR AREA OF EXPERTISE THEN YOU CAN TRY CHANGING YOUR JOB TO A NEW ONE.

IF YOU FIND YOUR MORALITY THREATENED BY COMPANY PRACTICES SUCH AS DECEIVING CUSTOMERS WITH CLEVER TECHNIQUES WHICH DON’T FULLY INFORM THE CUSTOMER OF LATER BAD EFFECTS THEN START CONSIDERING A SWITCH TO A NEW COMPANY OR BUSINESS.

IF YOU ARE DEVIATING TOO MUCH FROM YOUR ORIGINAL CAREER GOALS THEN CONSIDER CHANGING TO A NEW JOB.

IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING WORK HARRASMENT IN THE FORM OF THREATENING COMMUNICATIONS OR SEXUAL COMMUNICATION ABUSE THEN START SEARCHING FOR A NEW JOB.

IF YOU HAVE A BOSS WHO STEALS OR TAKES CREDIT FOR THE WORK THAT YOU DO AND DOESN’T REWARD YOU WITH MORE MONEY OR PRIVILEGES THEN START SEARCHING FOR A NEW JOB.

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10 MONEY MISTAKES WHICH CAN THREATEN A MARRIAGE

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Money problems and infidelity are the two primary sources of divorce. You can solve the infidelity problem with selfcontrol and a moral conviction that infidelity is wrong and will cause distrust and jealousy and anger and a fear of abandonment which can all speedily end in divorce- so don’t even think about adultery!

Not being frugal enough with money and excessive financial debt will end in divorce but there are minor but important reasons which can also shorten the duration to divorce. The reasons are:

Not communicating about spending money over a monthly goal which you should set for yourself

If you want to spend money beyond the limit of your monthly income discuss it with your spouse and decide whether it is something you really need to do or whether it is an impulse buy that you desire emotionally. Only talking about whether to exceed your income for a short duration before you do it is the right thing to do and will prevent emotional arguments blaming each other for overspending.

Believing that you can buy a loving marriage

It is true that having a good job and high income will attract the opposite sex into marriage but if you put too much effort into making more money during a marriage it will become a source of conflict. If you believe that buying an expensive gift and/or a luxury car and/or expensive diamond will compensate for an absence of loving and caring interactions you are very wrong. A loving relationship means that you participate in many caring behaviors with your spouse or are very nurturing and protective towards him or her in many ways. To get a better idea on what loving behaviors you should be practicing or doing with your spouse read my book LOVEALL.

Ignoring opposite spending habits

If one spouse decides that the other is almost always spending money foolishly and/or impulsively and either wasting it or going into credit card debt then this is a strong reason for possible divorce especially if you are the thrifty personality and think before you spend almost every dollar and feel stolen from with wasted money. A nonutilitarian spouse coupled with a frugal spouse frequently causes financial destruction and many arguments about money to short duration divorce.

Not knowing how to divide up money

You may not know whether joint or separate accounts are better for the marriage. If both of you like to communicate about your spending habits and don’t get stressed communicating about money and spending it and saving it then a joint account is probably a good way to go.

If you both are employed and make your own money but don’t like to communicate about money spending then it is best to keep separate accounts so that money arguments will be easier to resolve when they exist. If one spouse’s account is always much in debt then the cause of financial difficulties can be known speedily and accurately and the responsible party gets the complete blame and has to change her or his bad money spending habits.

Too much debt

There is nothing more stressful than taking on high interest difficult to pay back credit card debt which seems to never leave but constantly unpleasantly threaten. How to be debt free and live economically in COMMON SENSE will help you to get out of debt and stay there.

Hiding your debt or purchases from your spouse

If you feel guilty about your excessive debt or purchases and try to hide this from your spouse you will create much distrust and anger in a relationship once the deception is revealed which it eventually will because there is a high probability that your spouse will reveal the treachery to a friend who will then reveal it to you.

A good way to stop deception is to ask about twice a year to observe the account balance in a credit card(s) which your spouse has in his or her name only. If there is deception then it will be revealed. Honesty which maintains trust in a relationship is necessary and if you mentally sense deception then ask to see the credit card(s). If the spouse communicates “don’t you trust me?” say “prove it to me because I have doubts about your nonutilitarian impulsive habits which exist and are greatly stressing me!”.

Borrowing or lending money from or to family

If the amount is over a thousand dollars sign a legal binding contract such as an IOU with date of transaction and a date by which the money should be repaid. You will avoid many arguments and not need excuses about how you couldn’t pay back on time or have to beg a hundred times for the lent money to be repaid to you. Not only can money problems threaten a marriage but it can also threaten good relationships with relatives and can be one of the primary reasons for bad interactions with them.

Believing that men should have the responsibility for investing money and women should concentrate on daily expenses

Unless you consider yourself to be a professional financial investor share your investment ideas with your wife because traditional investing in the stock market is not a safe long duration or short duration investment but a losing gambling house for the average and million dollar investor. The really big money and computers are controlling the short duration movement of stocks in the stock market and this makes investing a really unprofitable for most. If you want short duration security for your money and feel that you must invest then invest mostly in large cap stocks or big corporations with large dividend yields. In the short duration this is a better investment than keeping your money in a bank savings account.

Banks these days are paying almost no interest on savings accounts because they don’t need your money but get it from the government. If you have a large savings account in a bank then inflation will reduce its value in the long duration. This means that the bank is stealing your money by reducing its value every year. This is no reason to panic and invest in very risky stocks and loose much money in a very short duration.

Failing to understand that money problems can frequently cause many short or long duration existences of emotional displeasure and arguments

Emotional displeasure and arguments about money problems cause periodic stress and many additional durations of unhappiness. Unhappiness is caused by only remembering the money problem which does not stop speedily. The emotional relatively short and sometimes longer durations of stress continue as long as the money problem exists unsolved.

Those humans without money reserves and frequent financial crises frequently have to make short duration loans or borrow money speedily or suffer transportation loss for short durations until enough income is saved to repay. Those working in low paying jobs and living from paycheck to paycheck with no money reserves suffer the most emotional displeasure and arguments.

Not spending your money on common experiences

Common experiences or doing things together suchas both going to wine or food tasting in a fancy restaurant or going to a national park together gives longer duration pleasure and can become a good memory for reflection.

You should always anticipate new common experiences more than reflecting too much because this is the boring fate of many old people who are living in past memories and frequently can’t adapt to new subsets existing in the environment. Don’t communicate and repeat the same exciting old common experience frequently or you will start boring your spouse or close friends.

If you are trying to make new friends repeating communications about old experiences too frequently will frighten a potential new friend away. Don’t live too much in the past but plan new experiences for the future and fulfill those plans if you can and if they are not too expensive.

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COOK FOOD SCIENTIFICALLY AND SAVE ALL THE TASTY NUTRIENTS

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MYTH: Standard food preparation which is boiling and frying is the best way to prepare food.

TRUTH: A lot less energy use and healthier food can be obtained with less heat.

It is untrue that meat has to be grilled or fried at high heat to save the juices. In restaurants where food has to be prepared speedily this is necessary. If you have the time at home then get a medium rare steak by heating up water to about 130 or 140 degrees Fahrenheit or 54 or 60 degrees Celsius and place the heated water in a water cooler which maintains a relatively constant temperature. Then place the steak in a zip lock plastic bag and let it cook for about 45 minutes. This slow cooking will be a medium rare steak with the natural juices in it and no carcinogenic compounds which result from burning the steak or too much browning.

If you want your steak well done or something in between increase the temperature of the water at which you cook the steak to 170 degrees Fahrenheit or 77 degrees Celsius or less and cook for 45 minutes.

Steaming vegetables is not the healthiest way to prepare them because heat sensitive vitamins such as vitamin C decrease and boiling them flushes too many water soluble nutrients into the water which is poured out. Instead place the vegetables in a zip lock plastic bag with enough water to cover the diced vegetables. This decreases the cooking time. Place it in hot water in a cooler at constant hot temperatures and at a temperature that you can experiment with.

I tried diced broccoli especially the finely diced stalks and placed it in a plastic bag and cooked it for half an hour in 160 degree Fahrenheit or 71 degree Celsius water. It was very flavorful with a pleasant crunchy taste. The water in the zip lock plastic bag was delicious to drink without the need for salt or flavorings which you can add if your tastes desire it. When you finish heating the vegetables also drink the water in the plastic bag and get the complete nutrients which have leached out.

I tried diced potatoes for 15 minutes at the same temperature and liked the texture better than that of mashed potatoes. Try cooking more than one diced vegetable at the same time and see if you like the results. You have plenty of wasted time on your hands so put it to good use experimenting with different temperatures and cooking times. Enjoy a healthier lifestyle designed to fit your personal tastes and no one else’s!!!

You will no longer be a slave to recipes which ask you to prepare meats and vegetables in the oven or a frying pan and the food will be grease free unless you prefer to add a little flavorful melted butter to the mix. After you prepare the basic food you can add as many spices and sauces to suit your taste if your taste buds have been desensitized by years of abuse with too sweet and too spicy food and natural mild food tastes don’t taste good.

You don’t have to marinate the food inefficiently where you waste most of the marinade after the soaking period is over. It is better to use less concentrated spices and liquids and add them to the steak or vegetables after they have been cooked if you like the marinade flavors.

Don’t be afraid to mix different foods which taste good because over 90% of the time you will have a recipe free product which will taste good and be good for you!

Growing edible insects and using them as food additives is a great future concept but even greater is the growing of edible bacteria mass and then killing it and using this as a nutrient rich food additive which could be a great source of proteins and fats and carbohydrates. Bacteria reproduce at great rates given enough CO2 and other dissolved nutrients and bacteria reproduce and grow more speedily than plants and livestock. Third world food problems could be partially solved with this knowledge.

Hopefully restaurants will soon start prepreparing food the scientific way and serving it to their paying customers who just don’t want to waste time waiting for the relatively long cooking process to end.

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NECESSARY NEW LAWS FOR BUSINESSES

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MYTH: Taxes should not be higher for polluting high accident rate industries.

TRUTH: Money or tax penalties for dangerous industries and businesses are necessary to motivate them to become less polluting and less dangerous in the future and they need not have insurance coverage if the government gets a higher tax and can afford to pay for the dangerous health hazards to the public which cause illness and injury. Extra government tax revenue from these dangerous industries and businesses can pay insurance claims and medical bills without a middle man which are the insurance companies.

The truth is that businesses can only be controlled with taxes and laws which control safety standards and include the pollution levels of toxic chemicals. Polluting and very unsafe businesses should be most highly taxed and in the future national and international monopolies should also be highly taxed. Unsafe businesses cause many injured workers existing as unemployed and destitute so they should either be mandatorily insured or should pay higher taxes proportional to their accident rates and not be insured by a private insurance company.

All employed individuals should be taxed and there should be a national sales tax on goods to decrease consumption and to support the growing numbers of unemployed and destitute citizens.

Nontoxically polluting and nonmonopoly businesses should not be taxed at all but should be motivated to compete with each other for monopoly rank.

Conglomerates should be taxed if some of their subsidiary businesses are polluters or if some of them are monopolies. This will motivate conglomerates to exclude toxicly polluting and monopoly businesses and it will simplify government tax forms because there will be independence between taxed and nontaxed businesses and percentage rate calculations of the taxed and the non taxed business enterprises will not have to be made. Conglomerates would not be tempted to commingle funds to help an unprofitable polluting business subset.

Taxation of corporations will exist simplified since there will exist independence between toxicly polluting businesses and monopoly businesses and the most desirable organically or biodegradable polluting and stable material recyclable polluting nonmonopoly businesses which should not be taxed at all. eg.

certified organic restaurants would not be taxed and

certified organic farmers would not be taxed and

certified organic flower and plant growers would not be taxed and

certified organic domestic animal producers using organic food to feed the animals would not be taxed and

certified wholesalers of organic food would not be taxed and

landscapers using organically grown plants and lawnmower humans would not be taxed even if they mow chemically treated lawns and plants and

vehicle rental companies would not be taxed and

car dealerships and vehicle repair shops would not be taxed as long as they recycled their toxic waste products or put them in nonpolluting containers and

repair people and repair companies for homes would not be taxed and

wholesalers and retailers of building and car supply businesses would not be taxed.

Primary manufacturers of materials for vehicle parts or house parts from raw materials which cause polluting byproducts in the air and/or land and/or water would be taxed. (containerization and non polluting storage of most of the toxic pollutants but not including carbon dioxide which is a natural environmental gas used by plants could be containerized for at least 200 years and could qualify for a large tax decrease)

What constitutes a monopoly? An absolute monopoly with 100% control of the market is very rare and unusual so perhaps about 95% control of the market for goods or services should be a standard used to label a business a monopoly.

Also price fixing is possible through collusion by more than one company so a difference in wholesale price of 5% or less can be considered monopoly pricing policy by two or more companies.

Gasoline wholesale prices may not vary more than by 5% so most gasoline companies can be labeled monopoly companies and can be taxed. The real reason oil companies should be taxed is that oil refineries pollute the environment with toxic chemicals and this is the primary reason why they should be paying taxes.

The truth is that monopoly businesses in the future should mean less choice in the variety of products on the market.

Small companies on the internet will always offer specialty products not existing locally. Even when art and craft products should severely decrease in popularity there will always be some who will continue to pursue classic art and craft skills and try to sell the archaic products on the internet and other places.

Nuclear and coal power could be used to efficiently power electric vehicles when the supply of gasoline decreases but nuclear and coal power will end at some point in the future and a switch to renewable sources of energy is a predictive reality.

The only renewable source of energy which is worth pursuing intensely is solar power.

Switching only to natural gas is insanity and very inefficient for the long duration because natural gas is not dense enough and is even rarer than gasoline in the earth’s crust. Temporary switching to natural gas for trucks is not cost effective in the long duration and gas heating of homes in the short duration is a good means to use this nonrenewable relatively scarce resource.

The energy business is the most important business because how we use energy and in what form we use it determines how efficient a society is with energy. The more efficient the energy use with renewable forms of energy is the more just the society can be. A just society also means that the energy is used primarily for useful survival based behavior and not the pursuit of trivial behavior.

Businesses should continue to centralize in huge megastores such as WalMart and Costco and Sam’s Club with a one stop shopping for everything concept. Instead of commuting to many buying centers only a few buying centers should exist for suburban areas which still survive the necessary movement towards urbanization.

Fewer workers should be necessary because of standardized parts and the fact that modern scanning machines and robotized stocking machines and automated credit verification techniques will soon replace cashiers and most goods stacking personnel.

Food businesses with fresh perishable organic produce should be desired by the urban health conscious and there should always be a choice of new foods and new food crazes which one can follow which are imported from many parts of the world. Some supermarkets are slow in providing an much organic produce so specialty supermarkets and organic food franchises may have to compete to accelerate the movement towards certified organic farming produce.

Service stations should continue to carry high volume food and drinks and dry goods in the transitional period. The only subsets of small towns should be robotized service stations within the country which will service the largely national traffic which should still exist in every region of the country.

Businesses in small towns should go bankrupt as more and more humans move into larger urban areas where commuting is more economical. The truth is that service stations in the future can be automated and there should be no need for many humans to live in the middle of the country. Only robots will service these service stations on a regular basis.

The internet should be the source of most rare or specialty goods and only frequently used standardized goods should be available in local stores and local service stations.

The truth is that businesses should be given government tax incentives to move to primary urban centers along the coast of the southern states where there is adequate water.

Snow free living can be the most economical lifestyle in the long duration. The truth is that monopoly businesses will standardize goods and an unnecessary excess supply of varied goods could be reduced to an efficient minimum.

With an ever increasing number of unemployed and destitute citizens and a severe decrease in bodily tourism it makes sense that vacant hotels and motels can be temporarily purchased by the government and used as residences for the vast numbers of unemployed and destitute citizens in the transitional phase to primarily urban communal living.

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7 RADICALLY UPDATED OBSOLETE BUDDIST TEACHINGS ON HAPPINESS AND PEACE FOR THE MODERN WORLD

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DON’T INTERACT WITH FOOLISH PEOPLE BUT SEEK AND HONOR THE WISE

UPDATED: DON’T INTERACT WITH IMMORAL HUMANS BUT FIND AND FOLLOW THE ADVICE OF MORAL HUMANS AND SKILLFUL HUMANS WHO ARE TRYING TO FIND THE TRUTH AND ARE USING THE TRUTH AND APPLYING IT TO THEIR LIVES AND THE LIVES OF OTHERS

TO LIVE IN A GOOD ENVIRONMENT AND PLANT GOOD SEEDS

UPDATED: DON’T DESTROY BIODIVERSITY OR WILDERNESS PLANTS AND ANIMALS BUT CONSERVE AND EXPAND IT WHEREVER POSSIBLE AND TRY TO LIVE IN AN ENVIRONMENT OF MORAL PEOPLE

TO HAVE A CHANCE TO LEARN AND GROW AND BE SKILLFUL IN YOUR PROFESSION

UPDATED: THE INTERNET AND SCIENCE AND TECHNOLOGY ARE SPEEDILY MAKING MANY PROFESSIONS OBSOLETE. THE FEW SURVIVING WILL BE VERY HIGHLY SKILLED PROFESSIONS WHICH MOST OF US WILL NOT BE ABLE TO SPEEDILY REEDUCATE OURSELVES FOR. LIVING ON WELFARE AND PUTTING IN TIME AND EFFORT AND ACHIEVING REEDUCATION GOALS WILL BE TIME CONSUMING FOR MOST AND MANY MAY CHOOSE TO BE ON WELFARE FOR A LIFETIME IF THEY CHOOSE TO STOP THE LIFELONG REEDUCATION PROCESS.

TO BE ABLE TO SERVE AND SUPPORT YOUR PARENTS AND CHERISH YOUR OWN FAMILY AND HAVE A VOCATION WHICH BRINGS YOU JOY

UPDATED: SOCIAL SECURITY HELPS YOUR PARENTS AND YOU SHOULD ONLY OFFER HELP IF PARENTS ASK FOR IT IN FINANCIAL EMERGENCIES OR GREAT FINANCIAL DIFFICULTY. LOVE AND CARE FOR YOUR OWN FAMILY BUT WHEN YOUR OFFSPRING ARE ADULTS AND FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT LET THEM LIVE THEIR OWN LIVES WITH LITTLE INTERFERENCE FROM YOU ESPECIALLY BY NOT INTERFERING WITH UNWANTED ADVICE ON HOW TO LIVE LIFE BETTER. SOMETIMES A JOB WILL NOT BRING YOU HAPPINESS BUT YOU SHOULD EXIST WITH IT UNTIL YOU FIND A BETTER ONE OR REEDUCATE YOURSELF FOR A BETTER ONE.

TO LIVE HONESTLY AND BEING GENEROUS IN GIVING AND TO OFFER SUPPORT TO RELATIVES AND FRIENDS AND LIVING WITH BLAMELESS CONDUCT

UPDATED: DON’T LIE BUT BE HONEST AND SINCERE AND TRUTHFUL. LIVE INDEPENDENTLY WITHOUT AN URGENT NEED FOR YOUR RELATIVES. YOU WILL HAVE BLAMELESS CONDUCT IF YOU BEHAVE MORALLY WITH GOOD ETIQUETTE.

TO AVOID UNWHOLESOME ACTIONS AND TO BE DILIGENT IN DOING GOOD THINGS

UPDATED: AVOID BAD AND/OR WRONG ACTIONS WHICH MAY OFFEND OTHER HUMANS AND BEHAVE MORALLY WITH GOOD MODERN BEHAVIORS WHICH IS ALSO THE TITLE OF ONE OF MY BOOKS

TO BE HUMBLE AND POLITE IN MANNER TO BE GREATFULL AND CONTENT WITH THE SIMPLE LIFE NOT MISSING THE OCCASION TO LEARN THE DARMA

UPDATED: DON’T HAVE A HUMBLE OR SERVILE ATTITUDE BUT PUT IN THE TIME AND EFFORT AND ACHIEVEMENT TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE AND MAKE IT SUCCESSFUL AND TO SUCCEED AT THAT READ MY BOOK HOW TO IMPROVE YOURSELF: HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT; HOW TO SAVE TIME AND MONEY

TO BE MORAL YOU HAVE TO HAVE A MORAL CODE WHICH YOU TRY TO FOLLOW AND THE ONE I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IS DON’T DESTROY BIODIVERSITY AND DON’T LIE AND DON’T BE INEFFICIENT AND DON’T STEAL AND DON’T COMMIT ADULTERY IF MARRIED AND DON’T MURDER.

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7 FREQUENTLY IGNORED ACTIONS TO HAPPINESS!!!!!!

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Clooseh: adj. a human with whom you frequently interact with and/or have an intense emotional bond

Mental Peace:

Some humans create personal anxiety and fear with a spouse in a marriage by being a responsible and devoted spouse but in dealing with the opposite sex have a playboy or playgirl mentality and different values. This means hypocrisy and misery which is the result of trying to maintain essentially two split personalities which are not morally consistent.

If married then try to control your adulterous tendencies and you will be happier in the long duration.

Other people try to please too many different people with different wants and needs and this usually results in basic dishonest behavior which makes mental peace and happiness impossible because of immorality.

The key to mental peace is a simplified morality which creates priorities so that you don’t waste time on stressful personal thoughts and other humans with immoral behaviors and interests which also stresses your mind and makes happiness less probable.

Don’t destroy biodiversity and don’t lie and don’t be inefficient and don’t steal and don’t commit adultery if married and don’t murder is a morality which will give you more mental peace and happiness in the short and long duration.

A Very Clooseh Companion:

A very clooseh companion is a spouse or a very close friend with whom you can be completely honest and are still accepted and loved no matter how many faults you may have.

Frequently friends and lovers are not very clooseh and you may choose to hide your true thoughts and personality to some extent. This is fine for many colleagues and friends and acquaintances since you would probably prefer them not to gossip about your true feelings and behavior if it is opposite to their own preferences. Your good public reputation which you may try to maintain may decrease if you communicated some controversial facts about your true personality and life.

The truth is that if you can’t be completely honest with a very clooseh companion such as a spouse or very best friend then you will not be as happy as you could be in the relationship. If you can’t share your deepest thoughts and feelings to a very clooseh companion you will not be as happy as you could be in the relationship.

A very clooseh companion is usually a long duration relationship without which you frequently will be less happy and more depressed in your life.

Communicating Personal Integrity or Honesty:

People can avoid the anxiety and stress caused by not having two split personalities- one on the inside and one on the outside. Many people may feel that this is an act of courage but having to hide the truth very frequently results in a pressure cooker lifestyle which can lead to unhappiness when you slip up and show your true feelings or true personality and your treachery is revealed.

Honesty is the key to maintaining a good reputation with people who basically want to trust you to be who you are in public and private. Research seems to show that the average American tells about 11 lies a week and this moral flaw is a primary source of unhappiness for most humans. It is a fact of life that mental and physical health will improve if you no longer tell those lies and half truths or deceptions which most humans find in you sooner or later anyway.

Honesty is still the best policy in the long duration but you will meet many short duration deceptive human manipulators who will try to brainwash you that honesty is for losers in life. Cheat or lie for short duration profit and you will suffer from this kind of immorality in the long duration and you will never be respected as a leader or a potential leader.

A Healthy Diet:

Toxic food and a diet with little variety will result in bad health which includes mood disorders. Cross cultural correspondences have shown that excessive sugar intake increases the probability of depression and badly affects the immune system.

A healthy diet means a great variety of certified organic foods and no GMO food and pure water and minimally processed food and no artificial ingredients and much raw food. A good place to start eating healthy would be to minimize processed sugar and artificial sugar in food which you eat or drink.

Making Realistic Goals:

Humans often pursue unrealistic goals with little hope of achievement and then wonder why they are so stressed out and discouraged. Hoping to become a sports star or a famous musician or a movie star or a celebrity as a profession are unrealistic goals for most of us who are just not that talented. This leads to unnecessary stress and pressure and anxiety which frequently results in much unnecessary disappointment and a large decrease in happiness.

Make goals in shorter and smaller achievable actions and the probability of reaching them will increase. This will result in greater satisfaction and more episodes of happiness in your life with less stress and pressure and anxiety. Be happier with making smaller improvements in your life instead of dreaming big and getting nowhere speedily with the dissatisfaction which accompanies attempts at unrealistic goals.

Judge Others As Humans Like You:

Unless you are the rare highly selfmotivated individual try to empathize with others and consider them to be similar to you in wants and needs and desires but unique in their choice of interests and behavior. You will become more responsive and respectful and compassionate and will begin to live more in harmony with others around you which will make your social interactions happier ones.

Develop a Thinking Mind:

Try to think about what you are doing or going to do in the near future and you will escape the life of a “mindless” automaton. Consciously taking some time out planning your life and following through to desired goals while frequently considering past successes and failures will motivate you to improve your life through personal historical thinking and you will become happier as a result.

Silence should also be an important part of your life so plan for some silent time and give your mind a needed rest and frequently on a daily basis if possible. Meditation or thinking without anxiety and/or emotion will relieve some stress and recharge your batteries with further mental excursions and profitable actions which will soon follow.

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HOW TO GET GOOD FRIENDS IN THE MODERN COMPUTERIZED WORLD

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YOU PROBABLY WANT FRIENDS WHO HAVE SIMILAR INTERESTS AND LIKES AND LOVES SO TRY TO MEET NEW FRIENDS WHERE YOU LIKE TO BE.

TRADITIONALLY WHICH IS NOW OLD FASHIONED AND OBSOLETE THIS MEANT GOING PERSONALLY TO EVENTS SUCH AS A MOTHER’S CLUB OR LIBRARY OR BOOK CLUB OR CHESS CLUB OR STORE GRAND OPENINGS OR THE SIERRA CLUB OR THE AUDUBON CLUB OR COMPUTER CLUB OR BAR HOPPING BUT TODAY YOU SHOULD TRY FINDING ALMOST ALL YOUR NEW FRIENDS ONLINE.

IF YOU WANT CASUAL FRIENDS AND DON’T HAVE A PASSION FOR ANY INTEREST IN LIFE JOIN FACEBOOK OR LINKEDIN OR JOIN AN ONLINE CLUB WHICH YOU CAN TRY BY GOING TO http://onlineclubs4u.blogspot.com/ WHERE YOU WILL FIND A GARDENING OR BUSINESS OR MUSIC OR HEALTH OR COOKING CLUB OR ETC. AND CASUALLY INTERACT WITH PEOPLE WHO HAVE MILD INTERESTS IN THESE AREAS.

IF YOU ARE EDUCATED OR HAVE A LOT OF EXPERIENCE IN AN AREA OR ARE VERY SKILLED AT SOMETHING AND LIKE TO WRITE TRY BLOGGING.

BLOGGING IS ANOTHER GOOD WAY TO MEET NEW GOOD FRIENDS WITH SIMILAR PASSIONATE INTERESTS AND YOU CAN GET STARTED ECONOMICALLY FOR ABOUT $27 A YEAR WITH WORDPRESS.

GET SOMEONE WITH BASIC COMPUTER SKILLS TO SHOW YOU HOW TO SET UP YOUR OWN PERSONAL WEBSITE USING WORDPRESS AND IT WILL OPEN UP AN INTERNATIONAL POTENTIAL GROUP OF NEW GOOD FRIENDS TO COMMUNICATE WITH IN AREAS WHICH INTEREST YOU THE MOST.

TIPS ON HOW TO AVOID WASTING YOUR TIME ON THE INTERNET:

STAY AWAY FROM HUMANS ONLINE WHO ARE TOO CHATTY OR HAVE LITTLE NEW INFORMATION TO TEACH YOU SOMETHING NEW WHICH YOU DIDN’T KNOW ABOUT.

TRY TO STAY AWAY FROM PEOPLE WHO HAVE TRIVIAL PURSUITS AND/OR INTERESTS WITH NO USEFUL KNOWLEDGE TO INFORM YOU ABOUT.

IF YOU ARE BLOGGING WITH WORDPRESS REALIZE THAT SOME BLOGGERS ARE MOSTLY INTERESTED IN PROMOTING THEMSELVES OR THEIR BLOG AND YOU WILL OFTEN GET A STANDARDIZED RESPONSE THAT YOUR BLOG WAS AWESOME AND WOULD YOU LIKE TO JOIN THEIR BLOG AND POTENTIALLY MAKE CONTACTS WITH THEIR FOLLOWERS.

READ A SAMPLE OF THEIR BLOGGING AND IF YOU THINK IT IS INFORMATION WHICH YOU WOULD LIKE TO READ ABOUT THEN JOIN THEIR BLOG BUT IF IT IS NOT THEN DON’T JOIN THEIR BLOG AND COURAGEOUSLY COMMUNICATE “ NO I DON’T WANT TO WASTE MY TIME FOLLOWING YOUR BLOG” AND CONTINUE TRYING TO FIND NEW BLOGGERS WHO RESPOND TO YOUR FUTURE BLOGS.

REALIZE THAT YOU WILL NOT FIND NEW GOOD FRIENDS SPEEDILY AND AS IN ANY FRIENSHIP YOU WILL HAVE TO GO THROUGH HUNDREDS OF HUMANS BEFORE YOU FIND SOMEONE WHO COULD POTENTIALLY BECOME A CLOSE FRIEND. BE PATIENT AND DON’T EXPECT INSTANT SUCCESS AT FINDING A GOOD FRIEND BUT SOONER OR LATER YOUR TIME WILL COME AND THE OPPORTUNITY WILL STRIKE YOU WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECTED IT TO.

IF YOU ARE A TOTAL NOVICE ON THE COMPUTER AND CAN’T FIND AN ACQUAINTANCE TO TEACH YOU THE BASIC SKILLS THEN SAVE UP SOME MONEY AND SPEND IT OF A PROFESSIONAL TUTOR OR TEACHER WHO WILL GUIDE YOU THROUGH YOUR FIRST STEPS INTO THE GREAT INTERNET WORLD.

IF YOU DON’T HAVE THE MONEY TO GET PROFESSIONAL HELP SEARCH GOOGLE OR BING OR INFO.COM OR YOUTUBE WITH YOUR QUESTIONS AND YOU WILL FIND ALL THE ANSWERS SOONER OR LATER AND NOT HAVE TO PAY ANY MONEY TO GET THE KNOWLEDGE WHICH YOU NEED OR ARE SEARCHING FOR.

THE ONLY THING WHICH YOU WILL BE SACRIFICING IS YOUR TIME AND ENERGY BUT FORTUNATELY MOST OF US HAVE MUCH TIME AND ENERGY WHICH WE CAN DEVOTE TO A NEW INTEREST IF WE JUST STOP WASTING OUR TIME AND ENERGY ON TRIVIAL PURSUITS OR BAD HABITS WHICH MOST OF US HAVE IN ABUNDANCE.

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SOMEDAY HOME BREWING WILL BE VERY POPULAR WHEN THEY ROBOTIZE THE BEER MAKING IN THE BASEMENT OR EXTRA ROOM IN YOUR HOUSE.

ONE OF THE LARGEST DISADVANTAGES TO BEER BREWING AT HOME IS THE INCREDIBLE SANITARY CONDITIONS UNDER WHICH YOU MUST DO IT OR THE FLAVOR GETS DESTROYED BY UNWANTED BAD BACTERIA GROWTH.

WHEN THEY INVENT AN AUTOMATED STERILIZING DEVICE WHICH DOES THE STERILIZATION FOR YOU THEN ALL YOU WILL HAVE TO DO IS TO ADD THE INGREDIENTS FOR THE BEER INCLUDING THE SPECIAL FLAVORS OF FRUITS AND HERBS WHICH YOU WOULD LIKE TO TRY TO EXPERIMENT WITH AND HAVE A BLAST TASTING THE REACTIONS ONCE THE BREWING OR FERMENTING IS DONE!

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SOME OF YOU MAY WANT TO FIND OUT WHAT THE TOP 20 BEST SELLING AMERICAN CRAFT BREWERIES ARE SO I HAVE INCLUDED THAT WEBSITE ARTICLE:

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SOME OF YOU MAY WANT TO FIND OUT THE WINNERS OF THE BEST BEERS IN THE WORLD FOR 2013 AND I HAVE INCLUDED THAT WEBSITE:

http://www.ratebeer.com/RateBeerBest/

THERE ARE HUNDREDS OF BEER COMPANIES IN THE WORLD AND I HAVE INCLUDED A WEBSITE WHERE YOU CAN GO AND JOIN UP WITH GROUPS IN ANY REGION OF THE UNITED STATES.

THE WEBSITE ONCE YOU JOIN WILL SHOW YOU ALL THE ADDRESSES AND LOCATIONS OF THE BEER COMPANIES SO YOU CAN START TO ASK FOR THEIR PRODUCTS IN RETAIL ESTABLISHMENTS AND DO A TASTE TEST ON THEIR PRODUCTS.

IF THERE IS NO RETAIL BEER SELLER THEN YOU CAN ASK THE COMPANY OR BEER GROUP WHICH YOU JOIN HOW TO ORDER THE BREW ON THE INTERNET:

http://greatbrewers.com/

FINALLY YOU MAY WANT TO KNOW WHAT FLAVOR COMBINATIONS EXIST TODAY AND I HAVE INCLUDED A BEER TASTE WHEEL WHICH SHOWS ALL THE POSSIBILITIES WHICH YOU CAN CHOOSE FROM:

http://www.popsci.com/science/article/2013-01/infographic-day-beersci-edition-beer-flavor-wheel

THE NEXT COMMUNICATION IS A BRIEF VIEW OF THE GREATEST BEER COLLECTION IN THE WORLD AT CARLSBURG:

HERE IS A GERMAN DRINKING SONG TO GET YOU INTO A HAPPY MELODIC MOOD WHEN YOU DRINK YOUR FAVORITE BEERS. ENJOY!!!!!!

http://top40-charts.com/songs/media.php?sid=35366

20 TIPS ON HOW TO INCREASE WORK PRODUCTIVITY

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LOSE SOME OF YOUR BAD HABITS

DON’T MULTITASK BECAUSE IT DECREASES YOUR ABILITY TO FOCUS ON ONE IMPORTANT TASK WHICH YOU SHOULD BE SPENDING ALL OF YOUR TIME TRYING TO FINISH AS SPEEDILY AS POSSIBLE.

DON’T MAKE EXCUSES FOR NOT DOING SOMETHING ON TIME OR DOING IT INCOMPETENTLY BUT INSTEAD TRY TO LEARN FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND TRY NOT TO MAKE THE SAME ONES IN THE FUTURE.

DON’T CONSTANTLY CHECK YOUR EMAIL BUT STAY FOCUSED ON THE JOB WHICH YOU ARE DOING.

DON’T READ 100% OF THE NEWS BUT DETERMINE PRIORITIES ABOUT WHAT INTERESTS YOU THE MOST AND SPEEDILY SCAN YOUR FAVORITE NEWS SITE FOR THOSE ARTICLE HEADLINES WHICH YOU THINK WILL BE WORTH READING AND WILL PROVIDE YOU WITH NEW FACTUAL INFORMATION WHICH HOPEFULLY WILL BE USEFUL IN YOUR LIFE IN THE NEAR FUTURE.

UNCLUTTER YOUR DESK BECAUSE IT DECREASES EFFICIENCY.

STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT YOUR WORK AND/OR THE HUMANS WHOM YOU HAVE TO WORK WITH BUT INSTEAD FIND SOLUTIONS TO YOUR COMPLAINTS AND START DOING SOMETHING WHICH WILL IMPROVE YOUR WORK AND/OR YOUR INTERACTION WITH THE HUMANS WHOM YOU WORK WITH.

DON’T EAT FAST FOOD FOR LUNCH OR SNACK CONSTANTLY DURING WORK BUT EAT A VERY VARIED MEAL AT LEAST ONCE A DAY AND IT CAN BE ANY TIME OF THE DAY WHEN YOU HAVE THE TIME TO SIT DOWN AND EAT FOR ABOUT 30 MINUTES SINCE YOU HAVE A SEDENTARY JOB AND DON’T REALLY NEED THE EXCESS CALORIES IN YOUR BODY ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE HEAVILY OVERWEIGHT.

DON’T REACT TO YOUR PHONE FOR EVERY CALL AND EVERY TEXT MESSAGE IF YOUR PHONE IS NOT AN IMPORTANT TOOL IN THE JOB WHICH YOU ARE DOING.

DON’T PROCRASTINATE DOING YOUR JOB AFTER YOU HAVE DETERMINED PRIORITIES ON WHAT SHOULD COME FIRST AND SECOND AND THIRD IN IMPORTANCE OF ARRANGEMENT.

DON’T FORGET EXERCISE AND IF YOU CAN FIND THE TIME TO EXERCISE ON THE JOB THEN DO SO SUCH AS RUNNING OR WALKING UP AND DOWN SOME STAIRS OR GOING FOR A 10 MINUTE FAST WALK THROUGH THE BUILDING OR OUTDOORS.

IMPROVE YOUR WORK EFFICIENCY BY DOING THESE THINGS:

UNSUBSCRIBE TO USELESS EMAILS WHICH CAN MEAN A NEWSLETTER WHICH YOU NEVER READ OR SOCIAL MEDIA POSTS WHICH ARE NOT IMPORTANT OR ONLINE STORES WHICH YOU NO LONGER PATRONIZE OR WEBSITES WHICH YOU HAVE JOINED BUT NO LONGER USE.

TAKE APPROXIMATELY 10 MINUTE DURATIONS DOING NOTHING BUT MEDITATING OR TAKE 5 MINUTE DURATIONS PUFFING ON A CIGARETTE AND NOT INHALING AND THINKING ABOUT HOW YOU CAN DO YOUR JOB BETTER OR FASTER IMMEDIATELY OR AT SOME POINT IN THE NEAR FUTURE AND THIS IS JUST A FORM OF PLANNING AHEAD FOR YOUR JOB.

DO A WEEKLY SUMMARY OF YOUR JOB ACTIVITY SUCH AS WHAT WORKED AND WHAT DIDN’T WORK AND PLAN FOREWARD BY MAKING A FUTURE LIST OF THINGS TO DO WHICH YOU THINK WILL BE SUCCESSFUL.

GET IN SOME EXERCISE IF YOUR JOB HAS THE OPPORTUNITY TO DO SO 5 TO 10 MINUTES AT A TIME AND EVEN EXERCISING IN PLACE AT YOUR DESK IS AN OPTION WITH DEEP KNEE BENDS OR RUNNING IN PLACE OR DOING PUSH UPS OR JUMPING JACKS.

IF YOU HAVE BEEN PROCRASTINATING ABOUT A BIG JOB PUT A TIMER ON FOR ABOUT 10 MINUTES AND START WORKING ON IT AND SEE HOW FAR YOU CAN GET SINCE IT MAY MOTIVATE YOU TO CONTINUE ONCE YOU SEE THAT YOU ARE ACTUALLY MAKING SOME PROGRESS AT IT.

UNCLUTTER YOU WORK SPACE TO MAKE IT MORE EFFICIENT.

TAKE SOME TIME TO MAKE MENTAL PLANS BEFORE STARTING ON A PROJECT AND ASK YOURSELF WHAT INFORMATION OR THINGS WILL I NEED TO GET FOR THE JOB AND ESTIMATE ABOUT HOW MUCH TIME YOU THINK IT WILL TAKE AND PLAN AS MANY SMALLER STEPS IN THE JOB AND START SETTING PRIORITIES OF WHAT SERIES OF TASKS YOU WILL BE FOLLOWING OR JUST BASICALLY START PLANNING AHEAD.

RECORD THE GOOD BEHAVIOR WHICH YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR SUCH AS HELPING OUT SOMEONE IN THE OFFICE OR DOING A TASK SUCCESSFULLY AND YOU WILL FEEL MORE MOTIVATED AND OPTIMISTIC ABOUT THE NEAR FUTURE.

DISCUSS SOME PROBLEMS WHICH YOU HAVE HAD ON THE JOB WITH SOMEONE WHO IS DOING SIMILAR WORK AND ASK THEM FOR ADVICE ON HOW THEY SOLVED A SIMILAR PROBLEM SUCCESSFULLY OR YOU CAN EVEN DISCUSS IT WITH YOUR SPOUSE OR SIGNIFICANT OTHER IF YOU THINK THAT THERE IS A LITTLE POSSIBILITY THAT THEY MAY BE ABLE TO GIVE YOU SOME USEFUL ADVICE.

IF IT IS AN URGENT JOB AND YOU DON’T HAVE ENOUGH TIME TO DO IT AT WORK THEN WORK OVERTIME OR TAKE THE WORK HOME WITH YOU AND DO SOME WORK AT HOME IF THAT IS A POSSIBILITY.

7 TIPS FOR CREATING GOOD RELATIONSHIPS AMONGST OFFSPRING

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DON’T TRY TO CREATE A COMPETITIVE RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN OFFSPRING.

OFFSPRING SHOULD COOPERATE WITH ONE ANOTHER AND HELP EACH OTHER OUT IN TIMES OF NEED SO DON’T COMPARE THE EXCELLENT ACHIEVEMENTS OF ONE WITH THE NOT SO GOOD ACHIEVEMENTS OF THE OTHER AND MOTIVATE THE AVERAGE ACHIEVER TO DO BETTER.

EACH WILL HAVE THEIR OWN STRENGTHS AND WEAKNESSES AND YOU SHOULD NOT CREATE A FEELING OF INADEQUACY IN THE WEAKER OFFSPRING.

AVOID STEREOTYPING ONE OFFSPRING WITH GENERALIZED LABELS SUCH AS YOU ARE THE BEAUTIFUL ONE OR THE ATHLETIC ONE OR THE SMART ONE OR THE PERFECT ONE.

DON’T PUT BAD LABELS ON YOUR OFFSPRING SUCH AS YOU ARE THE STUPID ONE OR THE SPOILED ONE OR THE BADLY BEHAVED ONE OR THE CARELESS ONE OR THE CLUMSY ONE OR THE MESSY ONE ETC.

REALIZE THAT THERE IS A BIG DIFFERENCE IN DOING STUPID AND MESSY AND BAD BEHAVIORS ONCE IN A WHILE WHICH SHOULD NOT BE CONSIDERED TO BE THINGS THAT ARE GOING ON ALL THE TIME.

YOU SHOULD REMIND YOUR OFFSPRING THAT YOU LOVE THEM BUT ARE JUSTIFIED IN GETTING ANGRY OR UPSET WHEN THEY MISBEHAVE OR DO SOMETHING WRONG AND YOU ARE ANGRY AT THE WRONG AND/OR BAD BEHAVIOR AND NOT ANGRY AT THEM PERSONALLY.

COMPLIMENT YOUR CHILDREN ON GOOD ACHIEVEMENTS OR GOOD BEHAVIOR BUT MATCH UP THE COMPLIMENT WITH THE IMPORTANCE OF THE ACHIEVEMENT.

DON’T GIVE EXCESSIVE PRAISE FOR JUST PUTTING CLOTHES AWAY IN THE CLOSET AND DON’T IGNORE WORTHY ACHIEVEMENTS SUCH AS GETTING GOOD GRADES WHICH YOU COULD EVEN REWARD WITH MONEY BECAUSE GOOD ACHIEVEMENT IN SCHOOL WILL TRANSLATE INTO A GOOD PAYING JOB IF IT IS NOT A LIBERAL ARTS SUBJECT.

SPEND QUALITY TIME WITH YOUR OFFSPRING EXPECIALLY IF THERE IS SOMETHING NEW WHICH YOU CAN TEACH THEM.

DON’T WASTE YOUR TIME AND THEIRS TALKING ABOUT TRIVIAL EVENTS IN YOUR LIVES OR UNIMPORTANT THINGS OR MINUTE DETAILS ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED TO EVERYONE THAT DAY.

ENCOURAGE THEM TO EDUCATE THEMSELVES ON THE INTERNET INSTEAD OF SPENDING HOURS PLAYING MINDLESS GAMES AND CHATTING OR USING TOO MUCH TIME WITH FRIENDS ON THE INTERNET.

DON’T GET INVOLVED WITH OFFSPRING IN AN OFFSPRING ARGUMENT UNLESS ONE IS EXERTING PHYSICAL VIOLENCE ON THE OTHER.

FOR FIGHTING USE LOUD DISAPPROVAL OR A SHOUT TO TRY AND STOP THE FIGHTING BEFORE YOU PERSONALLY DO GET PHYSICALLY INVOLVED.

WHEN FIGHTING EXISTS THERE IS FREQUENTLY A NEED FOR PARENTS TO JUSTIFY THAT ONE OFFSPRING SHOULD NOT BE BLAMED BUT THAT IT WAS THE GUILTY ONE WHO STARTED THE FIGHTING.

BE CAREFUL HERE BECAUSE IN THE EXTREMES OF PASSION AN OFFSPRING WILL FREQUENTLY BLAME ANOTHER AND NOT THEMSELVES EVEN THOUGH THEY MAY HAVE STARTED OR MOTIVATED THE FIGHTING IN THE FIRST PLACE BY HITTING OR PUSHING FIRST OR BY TAKING AWAY AN OBJECT FROM THE OTHER OFFSPRING.

MOTIVATE OFFSPRING TO SHARE ACTIVITIES AND MORE IMPORTANTLY TO TAKE POSSESSION OF A TOY OR OBJECT FOR SOME TIME AND THEN SHARE THE TOY OR OBJECT BY GIVING AWAY POSSESSION FOR SOME ALMOST EQUAL TIME OR MUTUALLY SHARING A VALUED TOY OR OBJECT AT THE SAME TIME.

WHEN TAKING TURNS YOU WILL SEE ONE OFFSPRING LOOKING AT THE OTHER ONE PLAY WITH THE TOY OR OBJECT AND THIS WILL TEACH THE VIRTUE OF PATIENCE AND WAITING A WHILE FOR YOUR TURN TO COME NEXT.

THIS WILL TEACH THEM THAT IMMEDIATE GRATIFICATION IS NOT ALWAYS POSSIBLE AND THAT THE SELFISH APPROACH TO LIFE IS NOT THE RIGHT ONE.

COMPROMISING IS NOT AN EASY SKILL TO LEARN BUT IT ALWAYS INCLUDES A DECISION BASED ON TIME AND AN OBJECT AND/OR SUBJECT.

SHARING PARENTS ATTENTION AND SHARING OBJECTS ARE THE PRIMARY SKILLS NECESSARY TO HAVE GOOD HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS.

DON’T PICK A FAVORITE OFFSPRING WITH WHICH YOU SPEND THE MOST TIME WITH OR THE MOST MONEY ON.

EVEN THOUGH IT IS HUMAN TO LOVE ONE OFFSPRING MORE THAN ANOTHER BECAUSE OF AN ABUNDANCE OF BEHAVIORS OR CHARACTERISTICS WHICH YOU PERSONALLY LIKE YOU SHOULD TRY NOT TO SHOW FAVORTISM BLATANTLY BECAUSE YOUR OFFSPRING ARE GOING TO BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THAT THEY ARE NOT THE FAVORITE OFFSPRING NO MATTER HOW EQUALLY YOU TRY TO TREAT BOTH OR MORE THAN TWO OFFSPRING.

IF YOU FOUND SOME OF THIS INFORMATION USEFUL AND WOULD LIKE TO READ MORE ADVICE ON PARENTING BUY MY BOOKS FOR ONLY $3 CALLED MODERN PARENTING AND GOOD MODERN BEHAVIORS. ENJOY!!!

WELLNESS “EXPERTS” TREAT THE SYMPTOMS OF STRESS WHEN THEY SHOULD BE EXCLUDING THE CAUSES OF STRESS IN YOUR LIFE!!!!!

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WRONG ADVICE: REDUCE STRESS WITH A GOOD DIET AND HYDRATION AND ENOUGH SLEEP AND A GOOD SOCIAL NETWORK AND EXERCISE. BUT WHAT HAPPENS THE NEXT DAY? YOU ARE BACK IN THE STRESSFUL CIRCUMSTANCEAND YOU BECOME STRESSED OUT AGAIN AND SO THE ETERNAL CYCLE OF STRESS AND RELAXATION AND STRESS AND RELAXATION GOES ON WITHOUT A CURE!!!

GOOD ADVICE: DETERMINE WHERE MOST OF YOUR STRESS IS COMING FROM AND THEN TRY TO CHANGE THE CIRCUMSTANCES TO TREAT THE SOURCES OF YOUR STRESS.

THE 5 MAIN SOURCES OF MAJOR STRESS IN YOUR LIFE ARE FINANCIAL PROBLEMS AND WORKPLACE BAD STRESS AND PERSONAL BAD RELATIONSHIPS AND BAD HEALTH AND INTENSE ANXIETIES.

FIND OUT THE SOURCE OF YOUR STRESS AND WORK TOWARDS REDUCING IT IF YOU CAN’T EXCLUDE IT FROM YOUR LIFE IN A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME BECAUSE MOST SOLUTIONS TO EXCLUDING THE AMOUNT OF STRESS IN YOUR LIFE ARE LONG DURATION COMMITMENTS WHICH YOU WILL HAVE TO WORK ON CONSCIENTIOUSLY FROM DAY TO DAY FOR MONTHS BEFORE STRESS WILL BE REDUCED IN YOUR LIFE TO ACCEPTABLE LEVELS.

FINANCIAL PROBLEMS:

Financial problems are the number one source of stress these days. You and your family can’t do what you want to due to a shortage of money.

Debts are piling up.

Credit Card payments and pending mortgage installments and rising costs of education and increasing spending on health insurance and doctor visits are great stress sources.

Financial problems top the list of stressors.

Read my books HOW TO SAVE MONEY and HOW TO IMPROVE YOURSELF: HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE; HOW TO SAVE TIME AND MONEY and read the relevant information on topics in COMMON SENSE.

WORKPLACE BAD STRESS:

Stress in the workplace is another of the primary causes of stress. You may be worried about your next promotion and whether you will get it.

You might be confronting the (inconsiderate and/or bad behavior) and/or threatening communication behavior of your boss.

You might not be achieving your earned career goals as speedily as you think you deserve and you might be worried about office politics and back stabbing and cliquish mentality.

You might be stressed about some big change that is taking place in the organization or you might be stressed because of the imminent possibility of losing your job.

While you still have your job start searching a new one and/or start to retrain on your own for a better job.

My book HOW TO IMPROVE YOURSELF: HOW TO GET WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE; HOW TO SAVE TIME AND MONEY will be a big help.

COMMUNICATING EFFECTIVELY WITH PEOPLE covered in my book COMMON SENSE which will help you on the job.

PERSONAL BAD RELATIONSHIPS:

Personal relationships or problems with offspring bad behavior and the bad attitude of relatives and arguments with spouse or offspring and change of place because of job requirements and illness of a family member and moving in of parents or moving out of older offspring are all important causes of stress.

For family stress relief read my book MODERN PARENTING and if you are having loving relationship problems with spouse or significant other read my book LOVEALL for solutions to your stressful relationships and for your offspring and yourself read my book GOOD MODERN MANNERS which will also solve your stress in relationships with family and friends and acquaintances.

BAD HEALTH:

Heart diseases and hypertension and problems with eye sight and sugar afflict many people becoming an important cause of life stress for them.

Maintaining good health and reducing weight or increasing weight and having a healthy lifestyle can be the causes of stress due to health problems.

Health problems are greatly helped with healthy food and a little exercise and good restful sleep.

INTENSE ANXIETY:

There are also annoyances and/or intense anxieties which you collide with in your daily lives which go on to become some of the biggest sources of stress for you.

Commuting to workplace in heavy traffic and balancing work and family life time and parent teacher meetings with misbehaving and/or low grades issues at offspring’s schools and heavy workload at home and visits to the doctor with irritating unhealth and not enough sleep and no time to relax and no time to discuss nagging problems.

These are the kinds of daily anxieties which stress you out on a daily basis.

POTENTIAL PROBLEMS IF YOU DON’T TREAT EXTREME STRESS:

IMMUNE SYSTEM GETS WEAKER AND ONE OF THE REASONS IS THAT MORE CORTISOL IS PRODUCED BY STRESS WHICH MAKES INFECTIOUS DISEASES LIKE COLDS MORE LIKELY AND ONCE GOTTEN IT MAY TAKE LONGER TO BE DISEASE FREE AGAIN.

AN INCREASE IN ADRENALINE MAY REDUCE THE EFFECTIVENESS OF ANTI CANCER DRUGS AND THE PRODUCTION OF SHORTER TELOMERES WHICH SEEMS TO IMPLY THAT YOU WILL AGE FASTER WITH GREAT STRESS IN YOUR LIFE.

LATER IN LIFE YOU MAY BE MORE SUSCEPTIBLE TO HEART DISEASE AND ARTHRITIS.

STRESS DOES NOT CAUSE DEPRESSION AS POPULARLY BELIEVED BUT MUCH STRESS CAN LEAD TO A STATE OF FRUSTRATION AND AN INABILITY TO FOCUS AND OTHER SIGNS OF DEPRESSIVE ACTIVITY IN YOUR LIFE WHICH CAN RESULT IN SYMPTOMS COMMONLY ERRONEOUSLY DIAGNOSED AS DEPRESSION.

AN ADRENALINE RUSH CAUSED BY BAD STRESS IS EXCITEMENT AND NOT DEPRESSION OR A VERY LOW EXCITEMENT LEVEL CAUSED BY (WRONG AND/OR BAD BEHAVIOR) AND/OR BAD PROBLEMS IN LIFE!!!!!! HUMANS EXCESSIVELY FRUSTRATED AND UNABLE TO FOCUS FROM TOO MUCH BAD STRESS SHOULD UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES BE TREATED WITH ANTI DEPRESSIVE DRUGS OR ANTI PSYCHOTIC DRUGS WHICH WILL JUST MAKE EVERYTHING WORSE!!!!!!

SOME SYMPTOMS OF TOO MUCH STRESS ARE BURNOUT AND LESS PATIENCE WITH PEOPLE AND TENSION HEADACHES AND TIGHTENING OF NECK AND SHOULDER MUSCLES AND BACK SPASMS AND NECK SPASMS AND STOMACK HEART BURN AND IRRITABLE BOWL SYNDROME.

IT IS ESTIMATED THAT ABOUT 80% OF UNHEALTH IS STRESS RELATED.

For all your stress problems there is a solution in one or all the books communicated above and if you are a voracious reader go to my blog website at uldissprogis.com and get inspired by evergreen articles on almost any important subject which might be of interest to you. Enjoy!!!!!!

WHAT ARE THE 4 MOST IMPORTANT PRIORITIES IN A MARRIAGE OR A RELATIONSHIP WITH THE OPPOSITE SEX?

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TELL THE TRUTH!!!!!!

TELLING THE TRUTH OR BEING HONEST OR BEING SINCERE ALL MEAN THE SAME THING AND ARE NECESSARY TO MAINTAIN TRUST OR THE STRONGEST BOND IN A RELATIONSHIP.

LIE ABOUT SOMETHING OR MAKE UP AN UNTRUE EXCUSE FOR YOUR BAD AND/OR WRONG BEHAVIOR AND A TRUSTING RELATIONSHIP STARTS TO DECREASE AND ANXIETY CAN START TO ENTER A RELATIONSHIP WITH A CONSTANT INSECURE FEELING.

IS MY SPOUSE OR SIGNIFICANT OTHER TELLING ME THE TRUTH THIS TIME BECAUSE I HAVE SOME SUSPICIONS ABOUT IT BASED ON PRIOR EXPERIENCES OF LIES AND/OR UNTRUE EXCUSES?

YOU DON’T WANT YOUR SPOUSE OR SIGNIFICANT OTHER START DOUBTING WHAT YOU SAY IS A FACT BUT YOU WANT TOTAL SECURITY IN A CLOSE RELATIONSHIP AND THAT MEANS HONESTY OR TRUTHFULLNESS 100% OF THE TIME WITHOUT EXCEPTIONS!

THERE IS NO ACCEPTABLE “WHITE LIE” IN A CLOSE RELATIONSHIP ATTEMPTED ERRONEOUSLY TO AVOID HURT FEELINGS. IT IS BETTER TO HURT SOMEONES FEELINGS A LITTLE WITH THE TRUTH RATHER THAN MAKING UP AN UNTRUE EXCUSE HOPING TO AVOID HURT FEELINGS IN THE RELATIONSHIP.

IF ONE OF YOU PREPARES A MEAL AND IT GETS BURNT OR THERE IS TOO MUCH SPICING OR TOO MUCH SALT OR TOO MUCH SUGAR POLITELY SAY- THE MEAL WAS GOOD AND IT IS PROBABLY THE WAY YOU LIKE IT BUT FOR ME I FELT THAT THERE WAS A LITTLE TOO MUCH SALT OR TOO MUCH SPICING WHICH IS NOT MY FAVORITE OR THERE WAS TOO MUCH SUGAR ADDED TO BE VERY TASTY FOR ME. TO RESOLVE THE PROBLEM MAYBE YOU CAN SUGGEST THAT IN THE FUTURE YOU WILL ADD YOUR OWN SALT OR SUGAR OR ADD YOUR OWN SPICES WHICH YOU LIKE AFTER THE MEAL IS PREPARED WITH NOTHING ADDED. IF THE MEAL WAS BURNT THEN JUST EAT THE PART THAT WAS NOT BURNT AND DON’T MAKE A LARGE CONFRONTATION OR COMPLAIN ABOUT IT IN AN UNPLEASANT WAY.

IF YOU ARE A MALE AND THE TOPIC OF NEW CLOTHES EXISTS DON’T COMMUNICATE THAT IS A BEAUTIFUL OUTFIT OR I LIKE IT MUCH IF YOU DON’T. BE MORE SPECIFIC ABOUT THE CLOTHING AND MAKE FACTUAL COMMUNICATIONS INSTEAD OF EMOTIONAL ONES. SAY THE PATTERN IS A LITTLE TOO BUSY OR THE COLORS CLASH A LITTLE OR THAT IS NOT ONE OF MY FAVORITE COLORS OR I LIKE MORE CASUAL CLOTHING OR IT IS A LITTLE TOO FANCY.

IF YOU LIKE THE OUTFIT DON’T EMOTIONALLY SAY I LOVE IT OR IT IS GREAT BUT SAY FACTUALLY WHAT YOU LIKE ABOUT THE OUTFIT.

I LIKE THE COLOR COMBINATION OR THE PATTERN HAS EYE APPEAL BECAUSE IT DOESN’T CLASH OR THAT IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE COLORS OR THE LOW CUT NECKLINE IS SEXY.

AVIOD COMMENTS SUCH AS THE CLOTHES MAKE YOU LOOK THIN OR THE CLOTHES MAKE YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL BECAUSE THERE WILL BE AN ASSUMPTION THAT YOU THINK SHE LOOKS FAT IN OTHER CLOTHES AND NOT BEAUTIFUL IN OTHER CLOTHES.

REMEMBER NO CLOTHING MAKES YOU LOOK THINNER OR MORE BEAUTIFUL IF THE PERSON HIM OR HER SELF IS NOT THIN AND BEAUTIFUL BASED ON YOUR COMPLETE STANDARDS OF PERFECTION.

PUNCTUALITY IS ONE OF THE PRIMARY AREAS OF FRICTION IN RELATIONSHIPS. IF YOU PROMISE TO BE HOME OR SOMEWHERE FOR AN APPOINTMENT TRY TO KEEP THAT APPOINTMENT OR BE HOME ON TIME BECAUSE IF YOU ARE LATE YOU HAVE FAILED A PROMISE AND THAT CAN BE CONSIDERED TO BE A LIE. BY NOT BEING ON TIME YOU ARE WASTING THE TIME AND ENERGY AND SOMETIMES MONEY OF THE HUMAN BEING AFFECTED. YOU DON’T LIKE YOUR TIME AND ENERGY BEING WASTED SO DON’T WASTE OTHER HUMAN’S TIME AND ENERGY AND EVEN MONEY IF IT IS A BUSINESS APPOINTMENT OR AN ISSUE ABOUT SHOWING UP AT WORK ON TIME.

APPOLOGIZE IF YOU HAVE MADE A MISTAKE AND APPOLOGIZE IF YOU FEEL YOU ARE RIGHTA BUT YOU HAVE HURT SOME FEELINGS.

ALMOST EVERYONE FEELS OR WOULD LIKE TO FEEL THAT THEY ARE NEVER WRONG AND NEVER DO ANYTHING BAD TO JUSTIFY CRITICISM BUT REALIZE THAT NO HUMAN IS PERFECT AND NO MATTER HOW LARGE YOUR FEELINGS OF SUPERIORITY ARE YOU WILL MAKE MISTAKES AND BEHAVE BADLY AND INJURE YOUR SPOUSE’S OR SIGNIFICANT OTHER’S FEELINGS MANY TIMES IN A CLOSE RELATIONSHIP.

IF A MISTAKE AND/OR A BAD BEHAVIOR IS POINTED OUT TO YOU OR THERE IS A COMPLAINT ABOUT IT DON’T TRY TO ALWAYS JUSTIFY THE MISTAKE AND/OR BAD BEHAVIOR WITH SOME KIND OF AN EXCUSE THAT YOU WEREN’T THINKING RIGHTA OR THAT YOUR MIND GOT SIDETRACKED OR YOU DON’T THINK THAT IT IS SUCH A BIG DEAL IN THE FIRST PLACE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT.

DON’T MAKE UNTRUE PROMISES THAT IT WON’T HAPPEN AGAIN BECAUSE IT WILL BE A LIE AND YOUR BAD HABITS WILL CONTINUE ON INTO THE FUTURE AND YOU WILL MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE AND/OR DO THE SAME BAD BEHAVIOR AT SOME POINT IN THE FUTURE.

SAY “SORRY THAT I HURT YOUR FEELINGS AND MADE YOU FEEL BAD ABOUT IT” THOUGH YOU KNOW YOU WERE RIGHTA AND WILL PROBABLY CONTINUE TO MAKE THE MISTAKE AND/OR BAD BEHAVIOR IN THE FUTURE ALSO. EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU ARE RIGHTA ABOUT SOME INSIGNIFICANT MISTAKE AND/OR BAD BEHAVIOR DON’T MAKE A LARGE DEAL ABOUT IT AND A SIMPLE “SORRY” IS ALL THAT YOU SHOULD SAY AS A RESPONSE TO A COMPLAINT ABOUT YOUR SEEMINGLY INSIGNIFICANT BEHAVIOR.

IF IT IS A MORE SERIOUS MISTAKE AND/OR BEHAVIOR SUCH AS DOING TOO MUCH IMPULSE BUYING OR SPENDING TOO MUCH MONEY ON CAR ACCESSORIES THEN A LONGER DISCUSSION IS NECESSARY AND SORRY WILL NOT BE A SUFFICIENT RESPONSE.

LET YOUR SPOUSE OR SIGNIFICANT OTHER COMPLETE HIS OR HER COMMUNICATION AND/OR EMOTIONALLY INTENSE REACTIONS BEFORE YOU COMMUNICATE ANYTHING AS A REACTION

ONE OF THE LARGEST MISTAKES WHICH YOU CAN MAKE IN A RELATIONSHIP IS TRYING TO DOMINATE EVERY COMMUNICATION WITH YOUR PERSONAL OPINIONS OR THOUGHTS ON AN ISSUE OR PROBLEM. TAKE YOUR TIME TO LISTEN CAREFULLY WHAT IS BEING COMMUNICATED AND DETERMINE WHETHER IT IS SOMETHING YOU WISH TO GET INVOLVED IN.

IF ONE IS VERY ANGRY AND/OR VERY STRESSED IT IS PROBABLY BEST TO HEAR THE ANGRY AND/OR STRESSED COMMUNICATION AND THEN ONLY TRY TO POSTPONE A DISCUSSION ABOUT IT AT A LATER TIME WHEN THE EMOTION IS NO LONGER AT ITS MOST INTENSE. ANGER AND STRESS GOES AWAY AFTER PEAKS OF INTENSE EXPRESSION SO WAIT UNTIL THERE IS NO LONGER A COMBATIVE ATMOSPHERE TO THEN DISSCUSS THE PROBLEM AND TRY TO FIND A SOLUTION TO IT.

IF SOMEONE IS VERY EMOTIONAL FOR SOME REASON IT IS THE RESPONSIBILITY OF THE OTHER PARTY TO BE AS CALM AND COLLECTED AS POSSIBLE OR OPEN WARFARE MAY RESULT WITH HURT FEELINGS AND LINGERING RESENTMENT IF SOMETHING HURTFULL IS SAID DURING A HEATED ARGUMENT AND YOU CAN’T TAKE BACK WORDS WHICH YOU WILL BE SORRY FOR OR REGRET LATER.

WHEN YOU FINALLY FIND THE RIGHTA TIME TO TALK ABOUT A PROBLEM START ASKING AS MANY PROBING QUESTIONS AS POSSIBLE SUCH AS:

WHAT DID I DO THAT MADE YOU SO ANGRY?

IS THIS THE FIRST TIME MY BEHAVIOR GOT TO YOU OR HAS IT BEEN SIMMERING IN YOU FOR A LONG TIME BECAUSE I HAVE DONE THIS VERY FREQUENTLY IN THE PAST?

WHAT DO YOU SUGGEST I DO TO AVOID THIS HAPPENING AGAIN IN THE FUTURE?

HAVE YOU EVER DONE SOMETHING LIKE THIS IN THE PAST AND IF SO HOW DID YOU HANDLE IT?

ARE THERE OTHER PEOPLE YOU KNOW WHO HAVE HAD THE SAME PROBLEM WE ARE HAVING RIGHT NOW AND DO YOU KNOW HOW THEY DEALT WITH IT?

WHO COULD WE GO FOR ADVICE ON THIS PROBLEM BECAUSE WE CAN’T SEEM TO SOLVE IT OURSELVES?

FORGIVE THE HUMAN FOR MAKING A MISTAKE AND/OR DOING A BAD BEHAVIOR

IF YOU ARE THE VICTIM OF ADULTERY OR INFIDELITY OR ARE BEING LIED TO CONSTANTLY THEN IT IS TIME TO MOVE ON TO A NEW RELATIONSHIP AND PUT A STOP TO THE IMMORAL RELATIONSHIP WHICH WILL NEVER WORK OUT IN THE SHORT DURATION OR THE LONG DURATION. HAVE NO REGRETS DOING SO BECAUSE EXISTING WITH IMMORALITY WILL ONLY CREATE MORE AND MORE UNPLEASANT FEELINGS AND EPISODES OF HATE AND ANGER AND JEALOSY AND FEAR OF ABANDONMENT WHICH NO HUMAN SHOULD BE LIVING UNDER THOSE UNACCEPTABLE CIRCUMSTANCES.

FOR ALL OTHER MISTAKES AND/OR BAD BEHAVIORS TRY TO WORK IT OUT GRADUALLY AND DON’T EXPECT INSTANT SOLUTIONS TO THE PROBLEMS.

ABOVE ALL DON’T DO THE MISTAKES AND/OR BAD BEHAVIOR YOURSELF TO PROVE YOUR POINT.

WELL NOW THAT I HAVE DONE THE SAME THING HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT IT?

DON’T SEEK REVENGE OR FEEL LINGERING RESENTMENT OR KEEP MENTIONING THE BAD BEHAVIOR IN FUTURE COMMUNICATIONS TO TRY TO MAKE YOUR POINT ABOUT BEING RIGHTA AND JUSTIFIED.

SAY I FORGIVE YOU AND MOVE ON AND TRY NOT TO BRING UP THE SAME INCIDENT IN FUTURE DISCUSSIONS AND/OR ARGUMENTS ESPECIALLY IF THE SUBJECT MATTER IS DIFFERENT AND HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE BAD INCIDENT.

YOU SHOULD BE WORKING AS A TEAM CARING AND LOVING EACH OTHER AND NOT DEVIATING INTO DESTRUCTIVE COMBATIVE COMMUNICATION BEHAVIOR WHICH IS A FORM OF WARFARE BETWEEN ENEMIES.

YOUR SPOUSE OR SIGNIFICANT OTHER SHOULD NEVER BE THOUGHT OF AS AN ENEMY TO BE BLUDGEONED TO DEATH WITH YOUR GREAT POWERS OF DOMINANT COMMUNICATIONS AND BEHAVIOR.

IT SHOULD NOT BE A MASTER AND SLAVE REALATIONSHIP OR I AM THE BOSS AND YOU WILL ALWAYS LISTEN TO ME BECAUSE I AM ALWAYS RIGHTA.

LEARN TO GIVE AND TAKE ADVICE WITH AS LITTLE EMOTIONAL INTENSITY INTERFERING IN THE COMMUNICATIONS PROCESS AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE YOU ARE BEST FRIENDS AND WANT TO REMAIN SO ON INTO THE DISTANT FUTURE!!!!!!

IF YOU FOUND THIS BLOG (ULDISSPROGIS.COM) HELPFUL LEARN MORE ABOUT GOOD HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS IN MY THREE BOOKS LOVEALL AND MODERN PARENTING AND GOOD MODERN BEHAVIORS!!!!!!

IF YOU MAKE A MISTAKE OR DO SOMETHING BAD SAY YOUR SORRY AND DON’T LIE WITH A STUPID EXCUSE WHICH WILL HURT YOUR REPUTATION!!!!!!

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Excuse: v. to attempt to subtract blame for a mistake and/or offense and trying to defend and/or justify the action(s) with a real reason and/or lie

WHEN WE MAKE A MISTAKE THE NATURAL URGE IS TO WANT TO BLAME THE MISTAKE ON SOMEONE OR SOMETHING AND NOT ACCEPT THE TRUTH THAT YOU ARE TO BLAME FOR THE MISTAKE AND NOTHING OR NO ONE ELSE IS USUALLY THE REASON FOR IT.

AFTER AN APPOLOGY YOU MIGHT BE TEMPTED TO PROMISE THAT IT WON’T HAPPEN AGAIN OR THAT YOU WON’T MAKE THE MISTAKE AGAIN.

THIS IS NOT A GOOD IDEA BECAUSE IF YOU MAKE A PROMISE YOU SHOULD TRY TO KEEP IT AND CHANCES ARE IT WILL TAKE YOU A WHILE TO CHANGE YOUR BEHAVIOR WHICH CAUSED THE MISTAKE IN THE FIRST PLACE.

THE BEST THING TO DO AFTER AN APPOLOGY IS TO FEEL BAD AND RESPONSIBLE FOR THE MISTAKE AND MAKE UP YOUR MIND TO ANALYZE THE CIRCUMSTANCE AND MAKE BEHAVIOR CHANGES IN YOURSELF SO THAT IT WON’T HAPPEN AGAIN OR AT LEAST NOT SO FREQUENTLY IF IT IS A HABITUAL MISTAKE WHICH YOU ARE MAKING.

PUNCTUALITY OR BEING ON TIME OR DOING SOMETHING ON TIME IS WHERE MOST OF US HAVE PROBLEMS. WE MAY FORGET ABOUT AN APPOINTMENT OR NOT LEAVE EARLY ENOUGH AND GET CAUGHT UP IN TRAFFIC OR DEVIATE BY A HOME RESPONSIBILITY SUCHAS OFFSPRING WITH AN EMERGENCY OR SOME URGENT ACTIVITY WHICH WE ARE DOING AND HAS TOP PRIORITY IN YOUR LIFE.

IF YOU ARE FORGETFUL THEN PROGRAM AN ALARM CLOCK AT HOME OR ON YOUR CELLPHONE TO REMIND YOU OF THE APPOINTMENT AND CHECK YOUR CALENDAR EVERY DAY AS A HABIT TO SEE IF YOU HAVE PROMISED TO SPEND YOUR TIME WITH SOMEONE THAT DAY.

TO DO TASKS WHICH ARE UNPLEASANT TO DO BUT HAVE TO BE DONE ON TIME WHEN THEY ARE SCHEDULED START ON THEM AS SOON AS POSSIBLE AND DON’T PROCRASTINATE OR WASTE TIME DOING SOMETHING UNIMPORTANT BUT PLEASURABLE IN YOUR LIFE.

THIS WILL REQUIRE A LOT OF SELFDISCIPLINE BECAUSE IT IS NATURAL FOR SOMEONE TO WANT TO AVOID UNPLESANT EXPERIENCES.

BEING LATE ON A JOB TASK WHICH IS UNPLEASANT TO DO OR DOING UNPLEASANT HOMEWORK AND PROCRASTINATING IS AN ETERNAL STRUGGLE WITH YOUR EMOTIONS WHICH DON’T WANT TO DO AN UNPLEASANT TASK.

START DEVELOPING A PHILOSOHY OF LIFE WHICH IS NOT “ I WILL DO ONLY WHAT FEELS GOOD” BUT “I WILL DO EVERYTHING WHICH IS IMPORTANT IN MY LIFE WHETHER OR NOT I ENJOY DOING IT”.

MOTIVATING YOURSELF TO COURAGEOUSLY AND RESPONSIBLY HANDLE THE HARDSHIPS IN YOUR LIFE WHICH HAVE A HIGH PRIORITY IS DIFFICULT BUT REALISTICALLY IT IS YOUR JOB TO DO THE UNPLEASANT THINGS IN YOUR LIFE AND ACCEPT THE BAD AS WELL AS THE GOOD AND DO BOTH IN A RESPONSIBLE WAY.

REMEMBER THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A GOOD EXCUSE OR A SMART EXCUSE TO JUSTIFY YOUR IRRESPONSIBILITY OR DESIRE NOT TO FULLFIL YOUR DUTIES IN LIFE.

“I DIDN’T SHOW UP AT WORK BECAUSE I WAS OUT WITH A CLIENT PLAYING GOLF” IS NOT A SMART EXCUSE. IF YOU REALLY WERE A GOOD BUSINESSMAN OR WOMAN YOU WOULD NOT HAVE TO TRY AND MAKE A SALE BASED ON FRIENDSHIP AND GETTING FAVORABLE PURCHASES FROM A CLIENT BECAUSE HE HAS BECOME A GOOD BUDDY OF YOURS.

YOUR PRODUCT OR SERVICE SHOULD SELL ITSELF BASED ON ITS MERITS OR QUALITY AND FRIENDSHIP HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH AN EFFICIENT PROFITABLE BUSINESS TRANSACTION.

WHILE IT IS TRUE THAT FOR UPPER MANAGEMENT MAKING FRIENDS WITH OTHER BUSINESS LEADERS AND CREATING A GOOD CONTACT NETWORK IS IMPORTANT ONLY CLOSE FRIENDS SHOULD BE INVITED TO PLAY GOLF WITH YOU AND IF THAT CLOSE FRIEND IS ALSO A GOOD CLIENT OF YOURS THEN YOU COULD JUSTIFY PLAYING GOLF WITH HIM OR HER.

“WHY DON’T YOU EXERCISE?” AND THE EXCUSES GIVEN ARE “I DON’T HAVE THE TIME AND IT IS BORING AND I AM TOO TIRED TO MOVE AND I ALWAYS END UP QUITING AND I DON’T GET A BREAK FROM THE OFFSPRING AND I’M TOO OLD AND I’M TOO FAT AND I’M THIN ALREADY AND I’M NOT A GYM RAT AND I HAVE ARTHRITIS OR MY BACK HURTS”

EXERCISE CAN BE BORING IF YOU DON’T HAVE SOMEONE TO MOTIVATE YOU BY JOINING IN BUT ALL THE OTHER EXCUSES ARE NOT NECESSARY.

THE TRUTH IS THAT EXERCISE IN YOUR YOUTH AND MIDDLE AGE IS NOT REALLY NECESSARY IF YOU ARE NOT STRESSED ON THE JOB AND NEED EXERCISE AS ONE MEANS OF TAKING YOUR MIND OFF YOUR WORK FOR A PAUSE WHICH CAN REFRESH YOU.

WHEN YOUR JOINT MUSCLES START GETTING STIFF IN OLD AGE THAT IS THE TIME WHEN YOU SHOULD START THINKING ABOUT A LITTLE EXERCISE SO YOUR MUSCLES DON’T DETERIORATE AS FAST AS THEY WOULD LIKE TO DO.

IF YOU FEEL NO PAIN OR STIFFNESS THERE REALLY IS NO NEED TO EXERCISE YOUR BODY ON A REGULAR BASIS. LIVING LIFE AND DOING THINGS AND GOING PLACES IS ENOUGH EXERCISE FOR MOST OF US.

IF YOU ARE FAT EXERCISE IS NOT THE REASON YOU ARE FAT AND EXERCISE WILL NOT HELP YOU SLIM DOWN BECAUSE YOU HAVE TO CHANGE TO EATING A HEALTHY DIET TO LOSE WEIGHT AND EXERCISING WILL ONLY INCREASE YOUR APPETITE AND MAKE YOU EAT MORE FOOD WITH MORE CALORIES AND THAT IS NOT THE MESSAGE THAT YOU WANT TO BE SENDING YOUR BODY.

IF YOU ARE FAT AND ARE EATING RIGHT YOU WERE BORN THAT WAY AND THERE IS NO REASON YOU SHOULD STRUGGLE AGAINST MOTHER NATURE UNLESS YOUR JOB IS ON THE LINE AND YOU ARE AN IMPORTANT CELEBRITY IN THE PUBLIC EYE.

THEN MAYBE YOU NEED TO SLIM DOWN A LITTLE AND LOSE SOME WEIGHT BY STARVING YOURSELF ALL THE TIME AND FEELING MISERABLE ABOUT IT ON A DAILY BASIS.

SOME PROCRASTINATION EXCUSES ARE “I REALLY DON’T NEED TO DO IT NOW AND I’LL START AFTER I DO THE DISHES OR I’LL CLEAN MY DESK OR MAKE ONE LAST PHONE CALL AND IT’S REALLY NOT THAT IMPORTANT AND I DON’T HAVE ENOUGH INFORMATION AND I’M TOO BUSY AND IT’S NOT THE RIGHT TIME AND SOMETHING CAME UP”. FOR THE COMMON MAN OR WOMAN ALL THOSE EXCUSES ARE BS AND IT ONLY SHOWS THAT YOU ARE TRYING TO AVOID DOING WHAT IS IMPORTANT AND MUST BE DONE RIGHT AWAY OR AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.

FOR YOUR AMUSEMENT I HAVE INCLUDED 13 EXCUSES FOR NOT HAVING SEX

1. “Head colds kill my libido.”

2. “But I just made the bed.”

3. “It’s raining out and I need to wake up early tomorrow.”

4. “I just took a shower and I don’t want to get sweaty again.”

5. “I ate too much dairy today.”

6. “My spirit animal doesn’t feel sexy right now.”

7. “I’m too cold.”

8. “I haven’t shaved my legs in a really long time.”

9. “I’m wearing a baggy night shirt and I feel like my mom.”

10. “I just read a really sad essay on Slate.”

11. “I’m soooo sleepy.”

12. “I forgot to take my birth control.”

13. “I have my period.”

THERE ARE TWO VERY IMPORTANT PRIORITIES IN YOUR LIFE

1. BE ON TIME FOR YOUR ALL YOUR APPOINTMENTS AND SHOW UP ON TIME AT WORK BECAUSE IF YOU DON’T YOU ARE WASTING OR STEALING SOMEONES TIME AND ENERGY AND MONEY AND NO ONE INCLUDING YOURSELF WANTS TO BE STOLEN FROM!!!!!!

2. WORK HARD AND AS CONSCIENTIOUSLY AS POSSIBLE AT THE JOB WHICH YOU NOW HAVE EVEN IF YOU HATE IT AND HATE YOUR BOSS AND THE PEOPLE YOU ARE WORKING WITH. TRY TO STAY EMPLOYED FOR AT LEAST 4 OR 6 MONTHS SO THAT YOU HAVE TIME TO LOOK FOR A NEW JOB WHILE EMPLOYED AND DON’T DEVELOP A REPUTATION OF BEING A BAD WORKER IF A FUTURE EMPLOYER LOOKS INTO YOUR JOB RECORD AND GETS POOR REFERENCES ABOUT YOUR JOB PERFORMANCE!!!!!!

POLITICAL QUOTES ARE NONSENSE BECAUSE THEY SAY NOTHING ABOUT A MORAL CODE WHICH IS THE ONLY BOND WHICH KEEPS A SOCIETY JUSTLY FUNCTIONING WITH NEEDED TRUST AND TRUTH!!!!!!

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LONG DURATION JUST LIBERTY WITHOUT A STRONG ENFORCED MORAL CODE IS IMPOSSIBLE:

THE JUST SECULAR MORAL CODE IS:

IN NON EMERGENCY SITUATIONS-

DON’T DESTROY BIODIVERSITY AND

DON’T LIE AND

DON’T BE INEFFICIENT AND

DON’T STEAL AND

DON’T COMMIT ADULTERY IF MARRIED AND

DON’T MURDER!!!!!!

LASTING LIBERTY MUST BE BUILT ON A SOLID JUST MORAL CODE FOUNDATION OR A LARGE SOCIAL TREMOR AND/OR LARGE SOCIAL IMMORALITY WILL DESTROY THE WEAK FOUNDATION AND SOCIAL STRUCTURE AND REDUCE SOCIETY TO A PILE OF CHAOTIC EMOTIONALLY VIOLENT RUBBLE WHICH WILL CRY OUT FOR A TYRANT SAVIOR TO RESTORE SOME ORDER AGAIN!!!!!!

THE TRUTH IS THAT OUR ANCESTORS AND MOST PEOPLE TODAY ARE TRAPPED IN HISTORICAL MYTHOLOGY ABOUT HUMAN NATURE AND DON’T REALLY KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LIBERTY AND FREEDOM. THEY DON’T REALIZE THAT FREEDOM IS ANOTHER WORD FOR ANARCHY AND LIBERTY IS POLITICAL SERFDOM CONTROLLED BY IMMORAL AND/OR UNJUST LAWS WHICH ASSUME POLITICAL EQUALITY FOR EVERYONE WHICH IS A BIG LIE OR MYTH.

HUMANS ARE NOT EQUAL BUT HAVE DIFFERENT ABILITIES AND PUT IN DIFFERENT AMOUNTS OF EFFORT AND INFREQUENTLY ACHIEVE THE SAME SOCIALLY DESIRABLE GOALS WHICH THEY HAVE DESIRED IN THEIR MINDS.

THE TRUTH IS THAT NO HISTORICAL QUOTES ABOUT LIBERTY AND THE RELATIONSHIP OF THE INDIVIDUAL TO GOVERNMENT AND/OR SOCIETY HAS EVER BEEN DEFINED ACCURATELY UNTIL NOW BY ME IN MY BLOGS AND BOOKS AND I WILL CONTINUE THE EFFORT TO DEFINE THE TRUTH FOR EVERYONE TO EVENTUALLY CHANGE THIS WORLD INTO A JUST ONE FOR EVERY LIFEFORM LIVING IN AND/OR ON THIS IMPERILED WORLD OF OURS.

IF YOU DON’T WANT TO LIE ANYMORE AND DON’T WANT TO BE INEFFICIENT IN YOUR COMMUNICATIONS DON’T QUOTE ANYONE IN THE PAST OR PRESENT WHO IS WRITING LITERARY WORKS OR HAS WRITTEN LITERARY WORKS IN THE PAST.

IF YOU WANT TO STOP LYING AND BECOME MORE EFFICIENT READ ONLY MY BLOGS AND BOOKS AS A STARTING POINT AND TRASH ALL THOSE UNTRUE AND INEFFICIENT ARTICLES WHICH YOU ARE READING EVERYWHERE IN THE WORLD TODAY AND ARE JUST WASTING YOUR TIME AND ENERGY AND MONEY!!!!!!

LETS PICK A FEW QUOTES WHICH SEEM TO MAKE SENSE AND POINT OUT TO YOU THE LOGICAL FLAWS WHICH EXIST IN THE CHOICES.

ALL POLITICAL QUOTES FUNCTION IN A MORAL VACUUM SO THE QUOTES ARE NOT TRUE ABOUT WHAT IS TRULY IMPORTANT IN POLITICS.

THE SEPARATION OF CHURCH AND STATE IS THE PROBLEM.

ONCE THE CHURCH DIES THE STATE HAS NO MORAL RUDDER AND SINKS INTO ANARCHY AND CHAOS AND CORRUPTION OR STEALING.

WE NEED TO REUNITE CHURCH AND STATE WITH A MORAL CODE AND ALL OUR POLITICAL QUOTES WILL START TO MAKE SENSE AGAIN AND NOT BE MERE EXCURSIONS INTO VERBOSITY WITHOUT A MORAL BONE IN ITS BODY.

IN THE FOLLOWING QUOTES THERE IS SOME MENTION ABOUT LYING BEING BAD AND THE VIRTUE OF BEING HONEST BUT VIRTUE IS NEVER DEFINED AND IT IS ALL SO RELATIVE IF IT HAS NO DEFINITION.

THERE IS SOME MENTION OF STEALING WITH A MAJORITY VOTE AND IT IS VERY TRUE BECAUSE GOVERNMENT IS BASED ON THE PREMISE THAT YOU MUST STEAL FOR THE GENERAL WELFARE AND THIS QUICKLY TRANSLATES INTO STEALING FOR SPECIAL INTERESTS AND SOON THE STEALING GETS UNCONTROLLABLE AND STARTS TO BANKRUPT THE COUNTRY.

THE OLD RELIGIOUS MORALITY IS OBSOLETE AND DYSFUNCTIONAL AND HAS TO BE REPLACED BY A NEW SECULAR MORALITY WHICH I AM TRUTHFULLY PROMOTING AS THE SOLUTION TO ALL OUR POLITICAL AND SOCIAL AND ECONOMIC TERMINAL ILLNESSES.

BUT EVEN MY MORAL CODE HAS EXCEPTIONS TO THE ABSOLUTE SOUNDING RULES AND MUST TAKE CARE OF THE UNEMPLOYED AND DESTITUTE IN SOCIETY AND THAT IS WHERE THE GOVERNMENT HAS A VIRTUOUS ROLE TO PLAY GIVING THE MOST DOWNTRODDEN A SAFETY NET SO THEY CAN HUMANELY SURVIVE BUT NOT LIVE A LIFE OF LUXURY AT THE EXPENSE OF THE WORKING CITIZENS. THE GOVERNMENT MUST ALSO PROVIDE THE REAL HOPE OF POSSIBLY REENTERING THE WORK FORCE THROUGH PERSONAL EFFORT, ABILITY, AND ACHIEVEMENT WITH FREE USEFUL TECHNOLOGICAL EDUCATION OVER THE INTERNET FOR THE DESTITUTE AND ALSO UNEMPLOYED NO MATTER WHAT THEIR AGE!!!!!!

“In our country, the lie has become not just a moral category but a pillar of the State.”

“You cannot adopt politics as a profession and remain honest.”

“Reason and virtue alone can bestow liberty.”

“Sell not virtue to purchase wealth, nor liberty to purchase power.”

“Only a virtuous people are capable of freedom. As nations become corrupt and vicious, they have more need of masters.”

“You can’t trust politicians. It doesn’t matter who makes a political speech. It’s all lies – and it applies to any rock star who wants to make a political speech as well.”

“Thou shall not steal, even by majority vote.”

“All human progress, even in morals, has been the work of men who have doubted the current moral values, not of men who have whooped them up and tried to enforce them.”

“Unjust laws exist: shall we be content to obey them, or shall we endeavor to amend them, and obey them until we have succeeded, or shall we transgress them at once?”

“The greater the number of laws and enactments, the more thieves and robbers there will be.”

“Man, no doubt, owes many other moral duties to his fellow men; such as to feed the hungry, clothe the naked, shelter the homeless, care for the sick, protect the defenseless, assist the weak, and enlighten the ignorant. But these are simply moral duties, of which each man must be his own judge, in each particular case, as to whether, and how, and how far, he can, or will perform them.”

EXAMPLES OF THE ABSURDITY OF THOUGHT WHEN A MORAL CODE IS NOT DEMANDED OF SOCIETY AND GOVERNMENT:

“Greedy capitalists get money by trade. Good liberals steal it.”

CAPITALISTS NOT GUIDED BY MORALITY WILL BRAINWASH YOU INTO BUYING PRODUCTS AND SERVICES WHICH YOU DON’T NEED AND COULD DO WITHOUT WITH COMMERCIALS AND THEY DECEIVE YOU WITH PROMISES OF POPULARITY IF YOU BUY THE PRODUCT WHICH THEY ARE SELLING. THEY DECEPTIVELY MAKE HIGH RISK GAMBLING SCAMS IN THE STOCK MARKET AND INTERNATIONAL BANKING WHICH STEAL MONEY FROM GULLIBLE INVESTORS. THERE ARE FEW CAPITALISTS WHO WILL MAKE AN EFFICIENT DURABLE LONG LASTING QUALITY PRODUCT ONCE THEY CONTROL MUCH MONEY BUT WILL INSTEAD START TO MANUFACTURE INEFFICIENT NONDURABLE SHORT LASTING POOR QUALITY PRODUCTS TO INCREASE THEIR BOTTOM LINE PROFIT.

MORALS NOT MONEY COMES FIRST.

LIBERALS WHO MANUFACTURE NOTHING AND WANT TO DISTRIBUTE THE WEALTH TO THE IMMORAL INEFFICIENT POOR WHO WIND UP WASTING ALMOST ALL OF IT AND COMMUNICATE FOR MORE AND IN THE PROCESS THE THIEVING MIDDLEMAN LIBERAL MAKES A GOOD LIVING IN GOVERNMENT OR SOME WELFARE AGENCY DESIGNED TO WASTE MORE AND MORE MONEY ON IMMORALITY AND NOT MAKE ANY PROGRESS IN SOLVING PROBLEMS WHICH KEEP GETTING WORSE AND BIGGER BY THE YEAR.

THERE ARE NO SOCIAL SOLUTIONS IF THE SOCIETY HAS NO MORAL CODE AND IS CORRUPT TO BEGIN WITH!!!!!!

SHARE A CAR OR MOTORCYCLE AND LAUGH ALL THE WAY TO THE BANK!!!!!!

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A great idea whose time has come is to share a ride with your neighbors or close community humans for local commutes or for long distance commutes between cities. It is already being done in Europe and it is time that America woke up to an efficient way of transportation which means sharing rides with humans and not just driving around in your own expensive personal vehicle. What a great way to save on wear and tear on your car and also save money on gas!!!

Using a smartphone as the means of communication there will be a record kept of how reliable your car driver will be and if he or she is not punctual or a good riding companion he or she will not have a good reputation and you can forego the human lemons in favor of someone whom you can trust to be a good chauffeur companion. He or she will be rated with something like a star system with possibly five stars being the best ride!!!

The driver of the car will not only make money transporting the passengers but possibly can schedule more than one passenger per trip and make more money out of the use of the car. In effect it will be chauffeur or taxi service at a fraction of the cost available today!!!

Even motorcycles can be shared and rented with door to door service if there is room enough on the motorcycle for two passenger drivers and the savings in money and convenience is enormous!

Today the vehicle sharing will start out locally but eventually we can all look forward to the day when we will be able to share a ride nationally and possibly even coast to coast!!!

The savings in time and energy and money will be enormous but you can bet your bottom dollar that the rental car companies and the taxi companies and the chauffeur companies and the bus companies will fight desperately to prevent this great new transportation service because it will mean difficult times for them and possibly eventual bankruptcy!!!!!!

Avis has already purchased the first car sharing company Zipcar and is controlling the price so it does not bankrupt their car rental business!!!!!! The writing is on the wall- adapt or die!!!

I have included a fuller description and video in my blog to show you how the new sharing a ride system will work. Enjoy!!!

ROBIN CHASE EXCUSE ME, MAY I RENT YOUR CAR?

http://www.ted.com/talks/robin_chase_excuse_me_may_i_rent_your_car.html

HOW I LIVE A HEALTHY HAPPY EFFICIENT SEMI RETIREMENT SAVING TIME AND ENERGY AND MONEY AND DOING MOSTLY WHAT I LIKE AND LOVE TO DO!!!!!!

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MY DAY STARTS AT ABOUT 12 OR 1 AM IN THE MORNING. I POST MY DAILY BLOG AND BREW MY FAVORITE TASTING COFFEE OR ABOUT 3 CUPS AND PUT IN HONEY AND MILK FOR MY WIFE’S COFFEE AND MAKE MINE WITH MILK.

I GO TO GOCOMICS.COM AND GO THROUGH ABOUT 10 OF MY FAVORITE ONES AND GET A FEW GOOD LAUGHS AND SAVE THE BEST ONES FOR SHOWING THEM TO MY GRANDCHILDREN WHEN THEY GET OLD ENOUGH TO READ.

I GO TO THE HUFFINGTON POST AND DAILYKENN.COM TO SCAN FOR ARTICLES WHICH MAY INTEREST ME AND JUST READ POLITICAL AND SOCIAL HEADLINES FOR ANY NEWS WHICH I CONSIDER NEW AND INTERESTING BUT I DON’T WASTE MY TIME READING ANY OF THE ARTICLES. IF AN ARTICLE HAS A HEADING SUCH AS 10 THINGS WHICH CAN DESTROY A MARRIAGE OR 13 NEW TECHNOLOGICAL INVENTIONS I REVIEW THE ARTICLE TO SEE IF I CAN ADD MY OWN OPINIONS TO WHAT IS WRITTEN AND MAYBE TURN IT INTO AN EVERGREEN BLOG ARTICLE. POP SCI.COM IS GREAT FOR INFORMATION ON TECHNOLOGICAL BREAKTHROUGHS WHICH ARE EASY TO UNDERSTAND AND DON’T NEED MUCH SCIENTIFIC KNOWLEDGE.

I GO TO THE FINANCIAL TIMES AND GET MY MONEY AND BUSINESS NEWS THERE. I GO TO THE BLOG SECTION OF THE ECONOMIST AND GET FACTUAL ECONOMIC NEWS THERE.

THE INFORMATION IN THE BLOGS WHICH I WRITE WILL APPEAR IN UPDATED VERSIONS OF MY BOOK COMMON SENSE WHICH WAS PUBLISHED IN DECEMBER OF 2012.

I WORK IN THE MORNING IMPROVING THE BOOKS WHICH I HAVE PUBLISHED OR SEARCHINGTHE INTERNET FOR NEW BLOG IDEAS FOR EVERGREEN ARTICLES.

TO AVOID COMPUTER BURNOUT I TAKE CIGARETTE PUFFING BREAKS ABOUT EVERY HALF HOUR BUT DON’T INHALE THE SMOKE. IT IS A GREAT 5 OR 10 MINUTE RELAXATION TIME WHEN I CAN THINK ABOUT WHAT I AM WRITING OR PLAN AHEAD FOR WHAT I MAY WANT TO DO.

SOMETIMES WHEN I FEEL LIKE IT I GO FOR 20 MINUTE FAST OR MEDIUM FAST WALKS OUTDOORS AND SOMETIMES DO SOME DEEP KNEE BENDS TO KEEP MY LEG JOINT MUSCLES IN GOOD SHAPE.

AFTER 6 AM AT ANY TIME WHEN I FEEL LIKE A PLEASURABLE DURATION I WATCH THE COLBERT NATION ON THE INTERNET.

ABOUT ONCE A DAY I VIEW ALL THE HUMANS WHO HAVE LIKED MY BLOG OR HAVE AGREED TO BECOME FOLLOWERS. FROM THEM I OFTEN GET GREAT WILDLIFE PICTURES AND NEW IDEAS TO FOLLOW UP FOR MY OWN FUTURE EVERGREEN BLOGS.

I USE GOOGLE AND BING AND INFO.COM AS SEARCH ENGINES TO FIND NEW CONCEPTS AND INFORMATION ON TOPICS I KNOW LITTLE ABOUT. I AM NEVER BORED BECAUSE I AM ALWAYS SEARCHING FOR SOMETHING NEW TO LEARN.

AT THE END OF THE MONTH I GO TO GOCOMICS.COM AND LOOK UP THE COMICS OF FIVE OF MY FAVORITE CARTOONISTS FOR A WHOLE MONTHS WORTH AND SAVE THE ONES THAT I LIKE FOR MY GRANDCHILDREN.

AT THE END OF THE MONTH I ALSO GO TO TOP40-CHARTS.COM AND SEARCH ABOUT 50 OF THE NEWEST SONGS WHICH I MIGHT WANT TO LISTEN TO. FOR ME THEY ARE USUALLY EUROPEAN ONES AND LATELY SOME HAVE BEEN FROM GERMANY AND HOLLAND AND RUSSIA AND HAVE BEEN MY FAVORITES.

WHEN I GO SHOPPING I TRY TO COMBINE TWO OR MORE STOPS ALONG THE WAY. IF I HAVE TO GO TO THE BANK I MAY ALSO STOP BY TO BUY A CARTON OF CIGARETTES OR TO BUY TWO GALLONS OF GROWTH HORMONE FREE PASTURIZED MILK AT THE PHARMACY IF I DON’T HAVE ANY RAW MILK ON HAND. I RECOMMEND YOU MAKE A LIST OF ALL THE THINGS YOU NEED OR DON’T HAVE AND THEN TRY TO SHOP FOR THEM ALL AT ONCE.

PERIODICALLY I TAKE OUT THE GARBAGE AND VACUUM THE FLOORS AND GO SHOPPING FOR FOOD WITH MY WIFE.

SINCE I DON’T SWEAT A LOT I ONLY SHOWER ABOUT ONCE EVERY THREE DAYS AND CHANGE MY CLOTHES WHEN I SHOWER. I WASH THE DISHES BY HAND ABOUT ONCE A DAY WITH VERY WARM WATER AT ABOUT 120 DEGREES FAHRENHEIT AND ONLY USE A LITTLE LIQUID SOAP WHEN MY WIFE HAS FRIED A GREASY MEAL ON THE STOVE.

DURING THE DAY WHEN I FEEL LIKE A SNACK I SHELL MY OWN VARIETY OF NUTS AND SEEDS AND A FRUIT LIKE A BANANA OR AN APPLE OR A GRAPEFRUIT OR A PAPAYA ETC. BUT I ONLY EAT ABOUT ONE THIRD OF THE FRUIT WHICH I CUT FLAT AND SAVE THE REST ON A PLATE FACE DOWN SO THE FRUIT DOESN’T SPOIL FOR FURTHER EATING.

OTHER SNACKS WHICH I EAT ARE A CAN OF OCCTOPUS OR A CAN OF BLOOD SAUSAGE FROM POLAND WHICH HAS NO ARTIFICIAL INGREDIENTS.

WHEN I’M THIRSTY I DRINK A LITTLE MILK OR MAKE A CUP OF TEA BY HEATING UP THE WATER IN THE CUP IN A MICROWAVE FOR ABOUT 2 AND A HALF MINUTES AND THEN LETTING THE TEA BAGS SOAK FOR ANOTHER FIVE MINUTES. IF I WANT TO DRINK THE TEA IMMEDIATELY I LEAVE SOME ROOM FOR SOME ICE CUBES WHICH COOL THE TEA DOWN TO A LITTLE OVER ROOM TEMPERATURE RATHER QUICKLY SO I CAN DRINK IT IMMEDIATELY.

I TRY TO EAT A HEARTY MEAL ABOUT ONCE A DAY BUT IF I HAVE SNACKED A LOT DURING THE DAY AND AM NOT HUNGRY I SKIP THE HEARTY EVENING MEAL COMPLETELY.

DURING THE DAY IF I GET VERY HUNGRY AND WANT TO MAKE SOMETHING SPEEDILY I PUT A LITTLE OATMEAL IN A BOWL AND ADD NUTS AND SEEDS AND MILK AND PUT IT INTO THE MICROWAVE FOR ABOUT 2 MINUTES WHICH MAKES THE MEAL READY TO EAT WHEN IT COMES OUT. YOU CAN ADD YOUR OWN DICED FRUIT AND BERRIES TO FLAVOR IT AND MAKE IT A LITTLE SWEET IF YOU WISH.

WHEN MY WIFE IS VERY HUNGRY DURING THE DAY WHICH IS RATHER RARE I MAKE SOME LOW SODIUM BACON AND EGGS WITH CHEESE AND MULTIGRAIN BREAD AND SERVE IT FOR BOTH OF US.

WHEN I FEEL LIKE SOUP AND IT IS NOT A LEFTOVER SOUP WHICH MY WIFE SOMETIMES PREPARES AND FREEZES IN SINGLE PORTION SIZES I SOMETIMES MAKE LIPTON CHICKEN NOODLE SOUP BUT TO THE STORE PACKET I ADD TWO EGGS AND EXTRA NOODLES AND DICED CLAMS FROM A CAN AND SOME JARLSBURG CHEESE OR ANY OTHER CHEESE THAT REMAINS STRINGY AFTER BOILING FOR ABOUT THE LAST MINUTE OF A FOUR MINUTE SOUP BOIL. YOU CAN USE YOUR IMAGINATION AND ADD ANY KIND OF GOOD TASTING FOOD TO THE SOUP AND IT WILL ALL TASTE GOOD. I COOL DOWN THE SOUP WITH ICE CUBES SO THAT YOU CAN EAT IT RIGHT AWAY WITHOUT WAITING FOR THE HOT SOUP TO COOL! REMEMBER ADD A GOOD TASTING FOOD TO A GOOD TASTING FOOD AND THE RESULT IS GOOD TASTING FOOD. BELIEVE IT OR NOT!!!!!!

IF WE GO OUT TO A CRAFT SHOP I USUALLY WAIT IN THE CAR AND HAVE A 24 OUNCE BEER WHILE WAITING AND LISTENING TO THE RADIO. WE SOMETIMES COMBINE A TRIP TO TOWN WITH GOING TO THE FLEA MARKET ON WEEKENDS TO PICK UP SOME HONEY AND BEE POLLEN AND SEEDS AND LOCAL VEGETABLES. IF WE ARE HUNGRY WE SOMETIMES EAT OUT WHEN WE ARE IN THE NEIGBORHOOD OF CHIPOLTLE OR CHICK FIL A OR SBARRO’S. I SOMETIMES GO TO MCDONNALD’S FOR A SAUSAGE MCMUFFIN WITH EGGS AND HASHBROWNS IN THE MORNING WHEN PARTIALLY FILLING THE CAR GAS TANK WITH ABOUT 20 DOLLARS WORTH OF GAS.

WHEN MY WIFE DESIRES A SWEET TREAT WE GET DARK CHOCOLATE KITTCATS OR DARK CHOCOLATE FERRERO OR I GO TO DUNKIN DONNUTS AND GET SOME FRENCH CRULLERS AND BOSTON CREMES AND JELLY DONNUTS.

SHE ALSO BUYS CHOCOLATE AT THE EUROPEAN OR RUSSIAN STORE WHERE I PICK UP SOME YOGURT DRINKS AND BLOOD SAUSAGE AND EGG NOODLES AND YOGURT CHEESE AND ESTONIAN SAUSAGE AND MADRIGAL CHEESE AND VIENNA WIENERS AND SHREDDED FERMENTED CABBAGE AND HERRING AND LATVIAN OR LITHUANIAN BREAD AND AMISH FARMER CHEESE AND AMISH KEFFIR AND SALMON AND AN OCCASIONAL EEL. WE EXPERIMENT WITH NEW FOODS AND IF WE FIND ONE THAT TASTES GREAT WE BUY IT AND EAT IT UNTIL WE ARE SATIATED AND DON’T WANT IT SO FREQUENTLY ANY MORE.

IF YOU HAVE FOUND THIS BLOG HELPFUL OR A BIT INTERESTING GO TO ULDISSPROGIS.COM AND READ MORE OF MY EVERGREEN BLOGS OR IF YOU LOVE TO READ MAYBE YOU CAN PURCHASE ONE VERY INTERESTING BOOK FOR ONLY $3. ENJOY!!!!!!

THE ROOTS OF IMMORALITY AND/OR BAD BEHAVIOR IN SOCIETY CAN BE ATTRIBUTED TO THESE AND MORE REASONS:

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EXPERIENCING PURPOSELESS ARTISTIC VIOLENCE IN VIDEOS AND ON TV STARTING IN CHILDHOOD.

DESTROYING FAMILY LIFE OR FAMILY BONDS WITHOUT AN UPDATED MORAL CODE FOR A TECHNOLOGICAL INTERNET SOCIETY TO GUIDE IT.

BRAINWASHING WITH TOO MUCH UNNATURAL SEXUAL BEHAVIOR.

DESENSITIZATION TO THE PLIGHT OF WILDERNESS PLANTS AND ANIMALS WITH A SELFINDULGENT EMPHASIS ON THE PRIORITY OF HUMAN NEEDS OVER THE NEEDS OF THE ENVIRONMENT AND WILD PLANTS AND ANIMALS WHICH SHOULD BE PRIORITY NUMBER ONE.

MENTAL ILLNESS CAUSED BY UNDISCIPLINED PURPOSELESS BEHAVIOR PERMITTED IN FAMILY LIFE AND SOCIETY AND CAUSED BY THE DRUGGING ( WITH DANGEROUS SIDE EFFECTS) OF OFFSPRING AND ADULTS BY PSYCHIATRISTS AND MOST OF THE MEDICAL PROFESSION.

BAD ROLE MODELS IN SOCIETY FROM POP CULTURE WITH UNEARNED FAME AND RICHES.

DESENSITIZATION TO THE MOST IMPORTANT MORALS AND BEHAVIORS IN LIFE OTHER THAN MERE TRIVIAL ENTERTAINMENT.

APATHY CAUSED BY A LACK OF EXCITING MOTIVATION FROM FAMILY AND PEERS AND TEACHERS AND UNJUST POLITICAL AND BUSINESS LEADERS.

BAD SOCIAL RELATIONSHIPS WITH INCOMPLETE PARENTAL ROLE MODELS AND PEERS AND 2GOOD TEACHERS AND MORALLY INCOMPLETE POLITICAL AND BUSINESS ASSOCIATES.

GROSS INEFFICIENCY IN SOCIETY IN THE FORM OF

TOO MUCH EMPHASIS ON ENTERTAINMENT AND TRIVIAL PURSUITS WHICH HAVE NO SURVIVAL VALUE AND DON’T IMPROVE ANYONE’S LIVES EXCEPT THE ENTERTAINMENT MOGULS.

WATCHING TOO MUCH TV AND

LISTENING TO TOO MUCH MEDIOCRE MUSIC AND

READING LITERATURE WITH NO MORAL MESSAGE OR ANYTHING OF VALUE TO APPLY TO YOUR LIFE AND

TEXTING AND COMMUNICATING TOO MUCH ON THE PHONE AND THE INTERNET ABOUT TRIVIAL INFORMATION WHICH WON’T MAKE YOU HEALTHY AND WEALTHY AND WISE AND

TAKING LIBERAL ARTS COURSES IN COLLEGE OR UNIVERSITY WHICH WILL HAVE NO VALUE IN THE JOB MARKET OF THE 21ST CENTURY AND

SHUTTLING YOUR OFFSPRING TO TEAM SPORTS WHICH THEY WILL NEVER USE AGAIN IN THEIR ADULT LIVES BECAUSE NO ONE HAS THE TIME TO PLAY A TEAM SPORT AS AN ADULT AND

WASTING MONEY ON A BIG CAR WHEN A SCOOTER AND MOTORCYCLE AND MINI CAR WOULD BE THE BEST THREE ECONOMICAL AND EFFICIENT VEHICLES WHICH YOU COULD BUY.

ALL THESE ARE PART OF BEING INEFFICIENT AND BEING AN IMMORAL HUMAN ON THE FACE OF THIS EARTH. WILD ANIMALS ARE NOT INEFFICIENT AND DON’T WASTE TIME AND ENERGY AND MONEY ON TRIVIAL ACTIVITIES SO WHY SHOULD YOU BE INEFFICIENT AND IMMORAL???

NOT OBEYING THE 3 MOST IMPORTANT MORAL CODES OF THE NEW MORALITY- DON’T DESTROY BIODIVERSITY AND SECOND DON’T LIE AND THIRD DON’T BE INEFFICIENT!!!